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Welcome to DiaLteG TM - What exactly is a naturally attractive man?

You might think it's a guy who is born good-looking, after all, that definition does make logical sense.

And that's okay to believe because in a way it's certainly true - when a man comes into his own and has attractive physical qualities, he's going to attract some women, right?

Also - some men just seem naturally gifted in their interactions with women, and regardless of their looks just seem to attract lots of women.

So it's all good.

However, when it comes to DiaLteG TM and my not-naturally given talent to attract women, I'd like to make a very clear distinction of "naturally attracting women" which is simple and easy to understand - plus as easy to implement the skills, technique, and lifestyle changes into your life...

Naturally attracting women (which makes you a naturally attractive man) is learning skills, communication techniques, and lifestyle adjustments which are organic and built from the core of who you are...

Minus the game playing and manipulation tactics which often deceive and/or promise more than you're willing to give to a woman.

Natural also (generally) means one very important but overlooked reality of us humans - meaning most guys just seem to miss it.

Scot McKay calls it sexual polarity and defines it in a way which is absolute brilliant and goes further to describe 14 ways women define your masculinity in a way which brings out her feminity:

"...if you want to attract women, gentlemen, you've got to come off as masculine.

Interestingly enough, the more feminine a woman she is, the more she's going to respond powerfully to masculinity."

Igniting Femininity: 14 Ways Women Define Masculinity

From BONUS audio excerpt exclusively for members of DiaLteG TM.

Simply put, with regards to natural attraction or being a naturally attractive man...

BE the best counterpart to her feminine side with your masculinity and bring it out of her in how you communicate your masculine side.

So you're actually BORN by design to be that perfect man for her.

You CAN LEARN how to communicate better.

You can cultivate a manly edge backing it up with strong morally sounds character traits which are internal.

You CAN LEARN techniques and the skills necessary to put together a COMPLETE package to present to women WITHOUT having to become a sleazy trick playing pick up guy.

Everything you find here at DiaLteG TM, minus a few guest posts whose opinions or concepts may vary or differ is designed to get you there.

To get you to a place where your masculinity and leadership skills NATURALLY attract women - and more precisely - the PERFECT woman for you.

Your guide all starts here in chapter one:

The Real Secret to Attracting Women & Getting Laid No One Knows But Me

Click below to see the entire package:

How To Attract Your Perfect Woman… Naturally

Thanks for stopping by.

You can browse all the free stuff in the categories below.

Peter White - DiaLteG TM

Dating - Dating is about the fun process involved in connecting with a woman. It's about exploring your options, qualifying your next partner, enjoying casual sex, approaching & meeting women, creating amazing dates, and everything that leads up to more exciting dates which of course leads to natural attraction.

Click Here For All the Posts on Dating.

Interactions - Communicating to women in a way which builds comfort, connection, and attraction.

The interacting part is often where guys fail to trigger attraction because they don't have the right communication skills.

From flirting, sexuality, touching, teasing, and the all important conversations - this is where you convey your natural self.

Click here for all the posts on Interactions

Attraction - An instinctual "emotional" trigger often misunderstood by men and women alike.

A man who interacts with women in a certain way can stimulate her attraction and when done in context can be seen or felt to be a more naturally attractive man.

Attraction requires skills but it is not a skill itself.

It's a feeling. It's an emotional response to an outside source.

Click here for all the posts on Attraction.

Lifestyle - How you live your life in any way you find rewarding up to and including your style, your social status, your travel plans, your goals, aspirations, dreams, passions and desires.

Whereas dating is meant to get to know another person, interacting is what happens on those dates and outside the normal dating routine, attraction is what happens or is triggered during any and all interactions you have with women - lifestyle is...

HOW you set up your life to live out a more naturally attractive existence.

Click here for all the posts in Lifestyle.

Techniques - The way in which you interact with women often requires skills or techniques which build the attraction.

It's the way in which you carry out your task of creating attraction, building a connection, establishing a comfortable bond between you and anyone else which happens to include women.

Your techniques also covers how you build yourself into a more naturally attractive man.

Click here for all the posts on Techniques.

Exercise - The word exercise normally doesn't need much of an explanation but here it goes: Being healthy, fit, in shape, able and capable of living your life aware and energized enough to enjoy life to the fullest of all your capabilities.

It relates to natural attraction in many ways: Better sex. Healthier living which inspires others. Clearer thinking to accomplish goals and learn new things.

Exercise is not only for the body but for the mind too.

On the side being in shape can and does trigger a physical attraction which may not be necessary for everyone,certainly does not hurt or harm the process of triggering attraction.

Click here for posts on Exercise & Health

Girlfriend - Most guys who start learning about attraction are not interested in get laid quick schemes, playing women, or becoming some a super star pick up artist.

This covers what lot of guys really want - a girlfriend that they are physically, mentally, and emotionally attracted to who also is attracted to them.

Getting a girlfriend covers all the steps needed, building a healthy relationship, the maintenance and upkeep of keeping it all forever growing and exciting too.

Click here for all the posts on Getting A Girlfriend.

About the author: Peter White – I know a few things about life, dating, attraction, & relationships. It feels great to share & also helps pay some bills. Get in touch, become a member, and hope you get something useful out of it all.

23 comments… add one
  • Mike

    Almost all they’d online dating advice I’ve seen for guys is written with the implicit assumption that it’s easy for guys to ask women out and to get a yes some / most of the time. The articles are written by people who are honestly trying to be helpful. But these people are or can become (1) naturally sexually attractive to women; (2) lucky with women, or (3) are women themselves. As such they do not really understand what it’s like to be a guy who has no chance of being / becoming sexually attractive to women – to be the guy who is never chosen by any woman as a sexual partner. People assume that every guy *can* attract women on a sexual level and will say it comes down to a mindset thing, or a negative self-talk thing, or a hygiene thing, or one or more other things that we are doing / not doing – and that presumably, if we stop / start that / those thing(s), we will become attractive to women and have success. I have paid dating coaches and counsellors for years to help me with this, as well as talked to my many women friends about the fact that at 42 years old, I have yet to be attractive to even one woman at a sexual level. None of them have been able to help me – there is just never that ‘spark’ that’s needed to arouse female sexual interest. Everyone I’ve talked to has said I just need to keep trying to find ‘the right’ woman. My first rejection happened when I asked a woman out for the first time when I was 19. I’ve been rejected by *every* woman I’ve approached since. Women friends have come out with me to see what I do when i approach women – to try to help me correct any problems in the ways I approach. Nothing – none of them have ever been able to discern every one potentially problematic thing. At this point, I’ve stopped approaching because realistically, it’s clear that I’ll never get a yes from anyone. I’d like to be sexually attractive to women – but it’s obvious that I am not and cannot be.

  • Paul Janvier

    I am trying to download your Ebooks but they don’t seem to be available. Specifically “Attraction Isn’t A Choice Ebook Special Offer. This is described in “How You Can Be More Attracted To Women: You’re Not A Nice Guy Anymore” by Peter White.

    Paul Janvier (UK)

    • Hi Paul, sorry about that and thank you for pointing it out to me. The links in the book should have been changed and I’m going to work on that right now and download a newer version with the right links in it.

      Here’s the link to Download Attraction Isn’t A Choice.

      I do hope you know that was not written by me, it must be purchased, and that is my affiliate link.

      I appreciate you letting me know but as of June 2020, the book is only available to members. You can join here and see all you’re going to get:


      Thanks again,


  • Brett

    So my girlfriend and I started dating September 2017 and long distance as we both lived in different cities. By April 2018 I had moved back to my hometown where she lives and we moved in together. However, right around mid to end May things withnus started changing and she was becoming more distant as well as me. We have both thought about ending it at times because of fights etc but both are the good in one another. We had a big fight at the end of June and now we are taking a break and having space. What can I do to improve our communication as well as build the attraction back as well as the relationship? She is a type a personality person and I am more of a type B so we clash on certain things like projects for the home etc which caused a lot of this. We are both career driven and independent however with myself I like that emotional and intimacy support from my girlfriend. What’s re steps I can do to bring our relationship back to healthy and prosperous?

    • Hey Brett, I’ll start off by saying I’m not into all the personality type a and type b stuff so you have to understand I’m just going to ignore that part.

      Second – of course you want emotional support and intimacy in a relationship – who doesn’t? BUT are you getting it and if not, why? Was it there in the beginning and just slowly disappeared. Something happened which caused you to feel like it stopped or trickled down to nothing. Knowing that answer could certainly help you a lot. PLUS, in all honesty, if getting it back is impossible then it’s unfortunate and hurts to say – but then it’s time you move on before it gets worse.

      Third, there’s no easy answer or exact steps you can do because I’m not in the position of being a relationship adviser where I can see both of your perspectives and see where the communication is breaking down. I could easily suggest something which covers these types of problems you’re having but they’re mostly for women and in those cases it wouldn’t do you much good. Besides something like this:


      Is only designed to respark the romance and it may not cover the communication problems you’re having which will mean you’ll only delay things and the problem will resurface again. However maybe that’s what is missing.

      Maybe you too have grown too complacent with each other. Maybe all you need is a boost of romance and fun and excitement back in your relationship. It won’t solve your communication problems BUT it could open the door so both of you will be more willing and open to solving the problem.

      If you have any specific communication problems, just let me know. It will be easier for me to help you out.

      Here’s some quick advice off the top of my head I can give you which could help:

      Both of you need to take a break from your everyday life – make time for each other and START doing things you enjoy TOGETHER. Resurface some of those old memories and feelings you once shared. You don’t need to re-live them, but you do need to start LIVING them now, in the present.

      Learn to LISTEN to what she’s feeling and not what she’s saying. Don’t try to solve her problems. Don’t try to solve your relationship problems alone. If you feel she’s not listening to you – listening to her and repeating back how certain things make you feel is a good start.

      The good news is you two have been together long enough to know each other quite well and so you both should be open to real candid discussions without BLAME and feeling free to speak what’s on your mind without the fear of reprisal or another fight.

      Do NOT expect or push ANY real discussion while you’re in a fight. The emotions take over and you won’t get anywhere. Save the talks when you’re both relaxed, comfortable, and calm. Most people try to iron out their problems when they’re angry or upset and it just doesn’t work.

      You shouldn’t have to re-create the attraction – it never left. Don’t worry about going back to the beginning and start building something NEW and EXCITING TODAY.

      Hope all the helps you out and let me know how things work out for you.


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