When you qualify a woman the right way you do several things:
- You create attraction in many ways up to and including getting a woman to qualify herself to you.
- You're showing her you have high standards minus the arrogance.
- Your assurance to yourself that she is the right type of woman you're looking for.
- You're looking deeper into who she is in a way that is hard to fake. You're seeing past and beyond her persona, and looking for any real character flaws she may have which can be problematic in the future.
If and when you decide to further a relationship with her, through better qualification techniques...
You're giving BOTH of you the best chance in developing a longer-lasting, happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship.
Qualifying a person is an integral part of the human mating ritual.
Imagine a male and female bird and how the male flamboyantly shows off his colors as the female "inspects" his goods. She scrutinizes everything about him from the way he displays his colors to the actual colors to how he moves.
What she is doing is qualifying her future mate. She wants to be more than sure he is worth her time and more importantly in the animal world, worthy of her future offspring.
Men and women are not much different except our rituals are a little more complicated.
We've developed some pretty elaborate forms of qualifying each other to find our best mate, although some might argue that in the modern world - we're failing at it.
(What do you think? Are as humans dumbing ourselves down? You can leave your answer in the comment section below.)
When a woman is qualifying a man we typically call it a "test" and you can read all about that in this amazing page I wrote:
BUT those tests are only a piece of the qualification process.
Men do test women too but there's less known about exactly how it happens and if you look closely at the early interactions of a guy - you could miss it entirely because, just maybe, he's not as good at it, doesn't do it much at all, or doesn't want to do it because he's more concerned with passing her tests.
I've been giving advice to a friend who is constantly worried about making mistakes.
He spends way too much time thinking about what he might do wrong that he completely forgets about qualifying her first.
It's as if he'll almost accept any behavior from a woman just as long as she likes him or accepts him and approves of him.
Which is wrong on so many levels and does little to building a real relationship with a good woman. This imbalance often leads to major problems in the future and many dating problems along the way.
All in all - learning and knowing HOW to qualify a woman to meet your needs and desires is extremely important part of dating and should never be avoided IF you want to attract better relationships into your life.
The sad but truth is:
You will NEVER find a better woman unless you first qualify her.
You might get lucky, sure. It "could" happen. But why rely on luck when you can rely on something proven to work.
Stop worrying so much about passing her little tests and START testing her and the rest will fall in place much easier and much more efficiently.
More on her tests later.
Get a Girlfriend Tip #2: Adopt the attitude of the Interviewer…
QUALIFICATION, Qualification, qualification.
It’s all about qualification, my friend. The only way you can maintain a strong and confident attitude out there is to be the chooser – not the chosen.
How do you qualify a woman?
First thing first - knowing the type of woman you want with the knowledge that she is actually the right type for you. This basically means, sure you might have an idea or a vague image of her - but then you must also be objective enough to know if her type does indeed match your type.
Very generally - couples often fill in their weaker areas. You're good at some things. She's good at other things. Together you make more than one plus one.
BUT the secret most people miss is that, within your own self you MUST be capable, satisfied, happy, and feel good about yourself.
You can NOT USE your partner to fill yourself up to make you feel better about yourself.
The pieces you add only ENHANCE your already magnificent self.
As it's said:
"If you’re not happy being single, you won’t be happy in a relationship.
You may be too eager to find a girlfriend. Sure it feels good. Regular sex. A woman to hang out with.
But it doesn’t make you a happy couple.
Date many women.
Make yourself secure and happy before you get into a relationship."
Know yourself, your stronger points and your weaker areas, and know what kind or type of woman you're looking for that will enhance, not fill or generally complete your life.
The qualities most men look for in a woman tend to be very basic. There are not many men out there who are actually looking for a miserable woman who treats people like shit.
With that said...
Go ABOVE those basic items and search for true compatibility in relation to your personality type.
Sure, qualify her for the good stuff, nothing wrong with that and it's a good thing BUT also look beyond the basics.
Look for more than just a pretty face, a nice smile, and a kind demeanor.
Since this isn't an article on finding your perfect woman I'm going to skip forward.
If you want to read a little more about knowing whether a woman is right for you, try these two articles I've posted here at DiaLteG TM:
Five Steps to Qualifying A Woman Which Can Lead to a Better Relationship For You AND HER.
The rest of this content is only available to members of DiaLteG TM.
This is the second page of chapter ten - Qualifications - How To Find The Right Woman For You & Avoid Rejection.
Finding the perfect woman for you requires you to learn how to qualify the best mate for you - or else you could experience failed relationships and more drama in your life - that you don't want or have to suffer through.
This page shows you exactly how to set the women you're now attracting apart from the rest - to find the best available partner and enjoy a long lasting relationship.
DiaLteG TM has not and will never be about using tricks to get laid and this chapter, among many others are designed for men who want to be with the woman of their dreams.
- Learn the steps of qualification and what they mean.
- Find the confidence and mindset of deserving a great woman.
- Women know how to test instinctively - this is how you can test them back minus the nasty game playing.
- How to talk to women in a way which creates and amplifies attraction but also gets them to reveal their inner character to you - so you're not wasting your time on a woman who is not right for you.
- How to integrate all of it into your personality so you automatically do it with every woman you interact with - so it all comes natural.
- How to set yourself up as an individual with high value and upholds certain highers standards with respect to those you allow you in your life.
Don't stand blindly aside and let things happen.
Don't be afraid to expect more and in the same way - expect more from yourself too - it just makes better relationships.
Know what you want in a woman - EVERYTHING - and believe she does exist and that you are fully capable of finding her, qualifying her, and attracting her too.
Give BOTH of you the best chance in developing a longer-lasting, happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship.
Within your starter chapter you WILL learn EXACTLY what must happen and how you must make a woman feel - BEFORE she will EVER feel attracted to you... plus:
- How to get a hot girlfriend
- Passing all her tests & challenging women
- Avoiding rejection & overcoming social anxieties
- Approaching, meeting, & dating is all covered
- The COMPLETE Nice guys guide to attracting women
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