Hello - great to meet you. That's me and my wife above - Estee White. The woman of my dreams and I want to help you meet yours too.
I've been in studying, practicing, and helping others out in the area of attraction, dating, and a little relationships for 16 years now. Hard to believe it's been that long and DiaLteG TM first came to mind 2009.
What a journey.
Let me sum up my experience with women in as few words as possible in the simplest way I can:
Puberty - a waste of my hormones. One girlfriend that lasted eight months. She got me. I didn't get her because to be honest, I wasn't initially that attracted to her.
I wanted her friend. Her friend was setting me up to meet her. It all worked out because she turned out to be pretty cool and we had lots of sex. We broke and maybe someday I'll tell you that story. It's actually a pretty good learning tool so you'll have to sign up for THAT privileged and private information.
Post puberty - Got laid in college ONCE but hey, in my defense I ran out of money after the first year and back then - the music scholarships were turned down so they could build a new music section.
The next ten years (as it relates to dating and attracting women) NOTHING to talk about at all. Devoid of any and all sexual interactions or fun. Yeah it was a tough time for the guy downstairs if you know what I mean - IT was pretty upset with me and my inability to land some "hottie".
A short time before I turned the big three zero I met a nineteen year old. We worked together. She wanted to some kind of hairdresser or something like that - not sure and it doesn't matter anyways - I just wanted her. I wanted to date chics much younger than me to make up for all those lonely missed years.
We moved into together as non-sexual friends. She started stripping and supported me for a while. She tore me up but taught me some very valuable lessons about women. I had enough and just took off one morning to live on a great friends couch until I found my own apartment.
The years after "Jamie" I blew off women off, not entirely - but enough to try and make myself believe it, even though it wasn't true.
THEN one fateful day one single man changed my life FOREVER - David DeAngelo. (That's his page here at DiaLteG TM.)
I'm not going to get into all the details but within a few short days - based on his teachings - EVERYTHING changed and that's no lie. Again, we can get into all that later or on my newsletter below. It's not important for this page.
Many years and lots of women later I met my wife and here I am.
My story is far more exciting and I have lots of great stories and experiences to tell but I decided NOT to write a biography here because you'll find a piece of me and my life on every post and page I've written over the years.
Otherwise just ask.
Thanks for stopping by and I do hope I can help you solve any and all of your attraction problem with women in a most unique and beneficial way...
I came across “chapter one” and man what an eye-opener!
Where did you learn to write like this?
I have never been so engaged in something like when I read this chapter!
It really opened my eyes to my behavior as being transactional and not genuine because honestly I wasn’t being “nice” to woman because I was seeking approval, I did it because it made me feel good, but therein lies the problem, it’s still transactional, and viewed as such.
Thanks so much and I am looking forward to your future writings.
When are you thinking the next chapter will be done, or was this the hook? LoL
Thank you Phillip, glad you enjoyed chapter one – I enjoyed writing and thought is was rather enlightening.
My philosophy on this subject has not changed and was fully formed while writing it, “It’s not what you say, it’s how the other person sees or interprets it, because in the end, isn’t that the point – to get your view across.”
You’re welcome and thank you again.
The next chapter has been a tough endeavor – as it consistently led me to material that’s already been written on the subject, and I have to choose – find a way to come up with my own specially unique view and advice (and sell that), or just sell the material which I found unique, enlightening, and helpful too. (The stuff that got me to where I am.)
AND whether to give it all away for free which is basically what I’ve done so many times anyways.
So no real hook here – I have a plan, it’s variable and ever-changing with a certain goal in mind – earn a living showing and teaching men MY perspective, and all done in a way that is PERCEIVED in a way that prompts any man to move forward and be incredibly successful with women and the relationships they enter.
I see you’ve joined up to DiaLteG TM – thank you, that’s awesome. However I will warn you I don’t do much on the email thing because I watch the where, when, and how; and it seems most are just spammers looking to steal my shit.
HOPEFULLY – in time those looking for the real will outweigh the scammers – and I’ll have a start to finish plan for EVERYONE who joins me on my quest.
Totally appreciated Phil – enjoy the ride.
Anything you need, just let me know and perhaps – I can help you out.
Thank you so much for your websited. Your articles are great and I really apreciatte your time sharing your knowledge.
I have reading the friends zone steps book for a while, and it has been a very rewarding experience so far, however It looks like the content is not available anymore. I have been able to recover a few pages using cache copies from google, but i have not been able to find them all. Could you please put them back online? Or share it with me? I will really apreciatte this. I have been doing your steps for the last 2 months and Im getting some serious improve.
Thanks again for your time Peter. You are my hero!
You’re welcome. Great to hear about your experience.
Yes, sorry – they’ve been taken down. My goal was to re-write them and make them better with a more up to date web look but haven’t had the time to do it.
Where did you leave off? What was your intention with them? To get out of the friends zone with one person or to escape it entirely?