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Dating & Attraction For Men Who Want To Learn How To Attract Their Ideal Women Naturally

Peter White

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I‘ve been studying, researching, and practicing ALL areas of attraction from over 50 different experts for close to 15 years now.

Some of them only offered nothing more than what I would call a free lunch. Helpful but just a quick tip or two.

Although I did manage to sleep with  a “chic-player” or two with those free lunches.

Based on that I’ve come to a few conclusions – here’s some of them:

The value of the advice is the personal benefit you receive multiplied by the effort you put into it.

>Value = Benefit times Effort.

When me and a buddy of mine are testing our luck, we’re looking for a bonus round that pays. We love to laugh at a multiplier of 10 when there’s nothing to times it by.

So NO effort will always equal NO value.

Likewise without a real benefit you can put in all the effort you want and still be left with nothing to show for it.

Here’s some proof from my personal experience…

I would go out every weekend hoping a “nice” girl would want me for who I was but always went home alone.

Some weekends were costly. A few drinks. A dinner. Taxi fare.

One weekend would cost me more than any one “attraction” product out there…<

And all I took away from it was how to be more depressed than I already was.

Lots of effort and no benefits, in this case results based on no advice, equaled one terribly frustrated man.

A Total “zero” when it came to attracting  women.

I wasn’t even reaching for the stars.

I wasn’t even trying to date the hottest “Chics” around.

I just wanted ONE attractive girlfriend to fall madly in love with me.

The real me and not some fool having to put on a macho act. You know…”For The Ladies.”

Not too much to ask for, is it?

Well apparently in our world today, no matter where we come from, it can FEEL like it is way too much to ask for.

Attraction is NOT something you can ask for and expect a fair response.

There is NOTHING fair about what attracts women to men just as there is nothing fair about what attracts men to certain women.

When you find yourself “asking” for fairness, when you feel like you’ve had enough of a “game” that is not meant to be won, it simply means you’re giving the very primal surge of attraction a value.

Think of it this way.

You’re not buying a new phone with more features where the value is placed in the appropriate spot.

“How many hours of work you have to put in to pay for it” TIMES “All the new cool features” EQUALS “How much value it has when you buy it.”

Typically your value in this world (to others) is “What they get from you” TIMES “The effort you put in to yourself.”

The amount of attraction you can create is placed in the “What she gets from you.”

Likewise multiplied by the effort in yourself.

The value in this case are considered the results.

I’ve found based on my own experience and research that when we fail with women consistently (without proper education and understanding) we keep all of our worth or value into creating attraction.

The amount of women who want us become how much we value ourselves.

Thus shifting attraction to the left side of the equation.

Of course it will never “feel” fair because despite even being the nicest guy in the world we’re asking for attraction to happen instead of trying to make a valuable connection.

The type of the connection (friends, lovers, enemies, wife, girlfriend, etc…) you make with women is determined through an exchange of triggers.

Yes. I said it – the most over-used word in the history of “online entertainment advice” … TRIGGERS.

The term, “triggers” is a somewhat fancy way to explain how certain techniques, when used in very specific circumstances can give us a fairly predictable response.

Okay okay – let’s dumb that down a little because I’m even confusing myself.

Attraction is an instinctual reaction.

Imagine you see a woman who has a body you find “attractive.” There’s an actual chemical event which happens inside your body telling you she would make a great mate.

It’s nature’s way of “trying” to hook you up with a female whose Genes, mixed with yours, gives your potential offspring the best possible chance to survive. (Obviously there’s much more going on but let’s keep this simple for now.)

Her “sexual makeup” in that specific case is TRIGGERING an almost guaranteed rush of chemicals in your body.

Of course how you act on them is (sometimes) your choice.

When a woman meets a man the trigger she feels is more slowly released based on your social interaction.

Your conversation.

Your status.

Your Masculinity.




Since we’re dealing with interactions between men and women you can consider those triggers are always being exchanged – forever!

However they may change depending on the nature of the relationship.

As simple as I can put it…

You’ll make more friends than sexual partners if you don’t trigger the right ones.

You’ll make more friends than girlfriends if you fail to trigger anything but complacent comfort to her.

Now I understand what you’re thinking because it’s something which crossed my mind many times when I started learning how to create attraction.

Why doesn’t someone give you those triggers so you can use them on women and THEN you can sort it all out later?

Well the honest answer is – It’s far too valuable to just give away AND because if it came down to just a few simple triggers you, me, or any guy out there wouldn’t be having a problem with women at all.

Would we?

The truth is, it feels simple to you because your attraction mechanism is designed that way.

But when it comes to women of all shapes and sizes and social backgrounds it’s far more complicated.

And there lies the real value to the answer.

Now the great news is – You DO NOT have to understand how or even why attraction works to become a more attractive man.

BUT you do still have to make it happen.

Better put, ALLOW it to happen.

Sometimes it’s just a matter of getting out of your own way.

Sometimes it takes a major overhaul of your lifestyle and personality.

And sometimes you’re only a few minor tweaks away from dating women you have never been able to do before.

I did not have anyone to turn to for real advice. I did not have the right people by my side.

I did not have the opportunities you have now.

I took it as it came and at first it came slowly…. Very very very slowly.

DiaLteG TM came about to give you my personal opinions and facts about becoming attractive so any guy with the right mindset and drive and encouragement can stop being stuck from ever experiencing the wonderfully amazing world of femininity.

Despite all you’ve learned – if you’re not attracting the women you want in your life – if you’re struggling getting dates – meeting women – keeping a girlfriend – or even just getting a nice girl to become your partner…

Then I urge you to FIRST…join me and get on my newsletter here or below!

SECONDLY – Do your research.

I mentioned you don’t have know how it works but you must learn how to best allow attraction to happen.

While your waiting for your first letters to arrive take a look at DiaLteGtm – It’s my Nice Guy’s Approach to Attraction.

THIRDLY – Do NOT getting stuck in the theory of it all.

You can study this stuff until you’re “blue in the balls” and nothing will change unless you put the necessary skills into practice mode.

Yes it may mean a few failures but trust me, once you see attraction consciously happen for the first time – and you made it happen – those mistakes or failures will feel not hurt so much.

As always – reaching a goal means having a clear ending point in mind.

Take the time to go down deep and find out what you really want.

Don’t worry you can always change your goals but you must have a clear starting point AND it must be simple and easily attainable.

While you’re moving on you can make those goals forever higher and higher.

But Take things one step at a time.

I can practically assure any guy can achieve a level a male masculinity which WILL attract women IF he remains relatively focused AND (very important) turns his mindset from that of “scarcity” to one of “positive abundance.”

Based on my very personal experience the women I’ve attracted in my life started with one BUT rose “exponentially” as I went through my own personal guide.

This is how it happens and this is the ONLY way it will happen.

So you must get more women in your life…Period.

You have many options in creating an attractive lifestyle for yourself so take them.

DiaLteG TM is based on my entire life from my first rejection to my first one-night-stand to my first “hot” girlfriend to MY first rejection of a hot woman and so on…

Please keep in mind your life is YOUR responsibility.

In fact taking responsibility for every action you make is a non-arguable trait of a man with the confidence and self-esteem to be an Attractive Alpha Male.

Own up to your world.

Treat women with real respect.

Never use them or use this information to harm anyone.

Here’s to you becoming the attractive male you were designed to be,

Peter White

I have benefited hugely from your newsletter. It now no longer applies to me 🙂 thanks!

When i think about how i have been in the friend zone this past years it makes me sick. Since i hooked up to you, i have really changed. I now know how to get out of the friend zone and how not to get in in the first place. But i want to keep improving to the highest point and become the guy that NATURALLY attracts women.

Your tips have been helpful and I am seeing positive changes with my friend that I want as a girlfriend.

First of all thank you very much for your reply. You’re very smart and the things you noticed, I have never noticed about myself.

Hi Pete, I hope you can give me a bit of advice. I feel you can because of your excellent advice given on your website.

Every time I read one of your letters I seem to feel better about coming out of the friend zone with women.

Your help was invaluable. It totally transformed the way I deal with women and it has really worked. You have my utmost gratitude.” –Darren

Thank you so much for sharing this invaluable information of your life experiences and the resources you have to make me a better me. I feel as though your emails are not automated messages and that is awesome. I am 23 and trying everything I can to break this cycle of the “friend zone” self placement(…) Thanks again for your coaching and advice.

(…)After the haircut I realized for the first time how attractive I could be and it motivated me to overhaul my entire look, wardrobe, care products and all.  A simple haircut can make an unbelievable difference. You can use this as a testimonial(…)I know this works and I’ve done it even before you mentioned anything.—Paul

Dave here I like the way you communicate, it makes me think. I am what I call a thinker, meaning I am always consciously thinking about something, usually a project or a future project how to proceed about things. But for some reason I never put it use in my social life probably because I was raised to believe only “sluts” want sex and who wants a slut, right? Right now she is looking pretty good. LOL anyway You make me think in ways I haven’t before and it is making me feel better about many things I just wanted to say I am glad I accidentally ran across your site and to say Thank You and keep up the good work. If you want to feel free to use this letter. Thank You again your awesome and your teachings are also, Dave Allen

About the author: Peter White – I can help you find, meet, and attract your ideal woman for a real relationship. Live your life the way you want to with purpose and fun. Build a mindset that is free and positive. Learn the truths about attraction. When you can do that – the woman of YOUR CHOICE will gladly join you.

12 comments… add one
  • steff

    you must be confident to reveal these photos!!

  • peter white

    Of course I am. Confident, competent and sexy too. I can tell you’re jealous of my gorgeous hair back then.

  • Sade

    Why I had no idea these photos were here until now.
    I finally get to see you.

    Nice transformation

    But you’re still short

    Haa ha

  • peter white

    Thanks Sade.

    I know. Just last year I had to watch all my friends enjoy this wonderfully exciting roller-coaster. If only I had my worn one and a half inch shoes instead of sneakers. I know I could have reached that “You must be this tall” arm. Haha!

    Oh and you would have noticed these sooner if you weren’t too busy searching for my naked photos out there. Shame on you “Say Dee”.

  • Sade

    Shame on me!!!!… Hey I’m not the one with naked photos out there!!!!!!!!…………….. Showing off the the extra little belly button I see. Shame on you!

  • maisy

    Wow! Thanks for sharing your story. Here’s one totally inspired woman 😉 Your story describes one of my males friends and his life. I wish he read this. Ah well, at least i can understand “what’s with him”, as some of other friends seem to comment of this friend’s life. I hope he discovers himself…cheers

  • peter white

    You’re welcome Maisy. I hope he discovers himself too. I’ve met so many men who just don’t realize it only takes a few simple changes in their life to make a huge difference. And not just in our appearance but our attitude. If I was the same guy inside my appearance would’ve have meant absolutely nothing.

    I know Steff (still my favorite pain in the ass 🙂 ) ,Sade (Who I’m sure the world misses her not nearly as much as I do 🙁 ), and Maisy (it appears I’ve inspired you in more ways than 1 😉 ), would totally agree with this statement:

    If you’re a guy just struggling to meet and date a good women… no one is asking you to become a super model or a master seducer. Just a small investment in yourself and a small shift in your beliefs can have a major effect on the world around you. Sure if you want to date the elite you may have to do more. But if you just want to give yourself more opportunities to explore and find a good woman it can be a lot easier than you may believe.

  • special k

    Look at that sexy beast

  • India


    I am in a dilenma and was wondering if you could help me. Have you got an email address?

    • peter white

      Hey India,

      I don’t get a chance to answer everyone but depending on which website you join, I gave my contact information out with every mail I send out. You can also try me on Facebook.



  • Ignacio

    Hello Peter,

    Thank you so much for your websited. Your articles are great and I really apreciatte your time sharing your knowledge.
    I have reading the friends zone steps book for a while, and it has been a very rewarding experience so far, however It looks like the content is not available anymore. I have been able to recover a few pages using cache copies from google, but i have not been able to find them all. Could you please put them back online? Or share it with me? I will really apreciatte this. I have been doing your steps for the last 2 months and Im getting some serious improve.

    Thanks again for your time Peter. You are my hero!

    • Peter White

      Hello Ignacio,

      You’re welcome. Great to hear about your experience.

      Yes, sorry – they’ve been taken down. My goal was to re-write them and make them better with a more up to date web look but haven’t had the time to do it.

      Where did you leave off? What was your intention with them? To get out of the friends zone with one person or to escape it entirely?

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