I’ve been teaching dating tips to men for several years, and to this day, it never ceases to amaze me how much bad information is out there.
Be a gentleman.
Wait two days before calling her.
Never challenge her viewpoints.
These are just some of the worthless advice being peddled to guys everywhere.
Each week, I get letters from men wondering why they’re not having success, and the reason is simple…
It did nothing for their personal development.
If you want to achieve maximum success with the opposite sex, you need to drop the superficial nonsense and develop your internal character.
If this sounds difficult to do, that’s because it is, but anything worth having isn’t easily obtained.
Fortunately for you, I’ve gone the extra mile by relaying all of my secrets, which you’re currently holding in your hands.
The following are 33 rules dedicated towards developing the inner workings of your mind, improving your conversation skills, and honing your overall success with women.
Make a habit out of reading this material daily, and you’ll become a master seducer in no time.
#1 – Be High Status
Being attractive to women is NOT about saying a few lines and hoping for the best. Instead, it involves demonstrating the core personality traits which attract all women.
One of the most important characteristics you need to display is the principle of "higher status."
What this means is that whenever you're around a woman, you must take specific actions that demonstrate your value as a person.
Since people (especially women) look to others for social proof, you'll increase your chances of success if she thinks you're a guy with high status.
So how do you establish higher status?
The truth is that higher status is a hard thing for many guys to acquire.
It's often a matter of being able to walk into a room full of strangers and find a way to instantly become "top dog.”
To increase your chances of demonstrating higher status, you need to incorporate a variety of personality traits.
Here are some of the actions you can take to show higher status:
- Have a lot of friends (especially women) around you who say complementary things about you.
- Be the leader of your group.
- Use teasing, flirting, and funny stories to create an interesting personality.
- Show alpha-male traits like confidence, integrity, strength-of-character, and respect.
- Demonstrate confident body language.
By demonstrating higher status around women, you'll instantly become more attractive.
In fact, if you learn to cultivate this attitude everywhere you go, girls will be naturally drawn to your presence.
Like the old adage says:
“I think, therefore I am.”
#2 – Act like a Man
It’s no secret that the best way to make a lasting change on your success is to change yourself from the inside out.
In other words, if you want to attract and date more women, the best way to do so is to work YOURSELF first.
In other words, you have to learn how to become a MAN!
It takes more than a chest full of hair to qualify as a grown up, and unfortunately, most guys learn this the hard way.
The truth is that A LOT of women are fed up with dating guys who act like little boys. If you can learn what is attractive to women, then you’ll stand out from these low-status men.
So why is it important to become a man?
By being a real man, you'll exude a variety of positive characteristics. These core traits can help you become more naturally attractive to women.
Now only one question remains...
What traits should you develop?
In my opinion, there are a number of strong characteristics which display manliness.
Here are just a few of them:
- A Passion for life
- Goal orientation
- Calmness under pressure
- Generosity to friends, family, and even strangers
- Courage and conviction
You might be overwhelmed by the number of traits I’ve described, as it definitely sounds like a lot to work on.
However, if you want to become more attractive to women, then you MUST do your best to work on all these areas of your life.
Share this list with a trusted friend or family member, and ask them to be honest with you in regards to how you stack up.
In fact, I challenge you to take each trait and rate yourself on how well you fit each description.
Be honest, and make a conscious effort to improve upon whatever qualities you feel you’re lacking.
I guarantee the more you work on yourself, the more you’ll naturally attract women.
Here are much longer list from Peter White, with explanations, of all the traits of being an Alpha Male:
#3 – Have Confidence
When it comes to dating and attracting women, much of your success depends on your self confidence.
The more confidence you have, the better off you'll be!
So what should you do if you lack self-confidence around women?
The good news is that a confident front can be faked in the short term, and honed for long-term success.
Here are a few tips you can use to raise your self-esteem:
Learn to relax.
Before approaching women, put yourself in a relaxed state by paying attention to your posture and body, and concentrate on a positive outcome from the conversation you're about to have.
If you can remove all expectations, you'll become more relaxed around women.
So remind yourself that any negative outcome won't affect your life.
Try meditation and exercising.
There are certain activities (i.e. meditation, yoga, and taichi) which will make you more relaxed.
By practicing these exercises, you'll be able to put yourself in a positive state of-mind whenever you choose, including the times when you're trying to pick up women.
So if you're serious about building self confidence, try one of these activities.
Use your strengths.
One quick way to build self-confidence is to write down all of the qualities that make you a great person.
Then, whenever you're faced with a situation where you're not feeling confident, just recite the affirmations about your personal strengths.
By mentally reviewing your assets, you'll be able to quickly ramp up your levels of confidence.
Be positive at all times.
It's widely known that guys who smile and have a positive outlook tend to attract more women.
So no matter what you're feeling inside, ALWAYS have an upbeat attitude, and do your best to be a guy who women enjoy being around.
Emotions are contagious, so even when you “fake” confidence, you'll eventually begin to feel as though you’re on top of the world!
Here's a few pages once again from Pete to help you to further gain some real confidence in your life and with women too:
#4 – Challenge Women
Let’s talk about the “nice guy.”
He is the man who tries too hard with women.
He’s always ready to buy gifts and do favors for girls he likes, but because of this supplicating behavior, he ends up repelling instead of attracting them.
Without going into too much female psychology, the nice guy presents no challenge to women.
A big secret about women is that they want a man who makes them work for his attention.
Nice guys are too readily available.
You HAVE to demonstrate that you're a challenge to any woman you're trying to attract. This means you should create a strict set of standards, and ONLY do things if they comply with your personal code.
Furthermore, you should challenge women if they're disrespecting you or not matching up to your expectations.
While you might feel weird or think you're being rude by treating women this way, these are strict rules for attracting them.
By not kissing a girl's ass and doing everything she asks, you're getting rid of the “nice guy” persona. This will help you transform yourself into the kind of man who all women desire.
Read this from Pete to help you become the ULTIMATE challenge to women:
#5 – Never Be Average
When it comes to dating women, you'll face a lot of obstacles and problems, but one of these should never be your personality.
Persona is something which can make or break your ability to attract women. For instance, if you're too nice, then women will walk all over you.
On the other hand, if you act too much like a jerk, then women will be turned off by your arrogant behavior.
There are a lot of personality traits which can hurt your overall success with women.
Perhaps the biggest mistake you could make is...
A lot of guys tend to treat women with gentle care.
They're polite, agree with everything they say, and make sure to ONLY talk about safe topics. If this sounds like you, then allow me to say one thing...
If you act like an average guy, you're going to get average results!
On the other hand, if you want to attract a woman, you have to find a way to stand out from the crowd. This means becoming someone who is exciting and interesting.
When you talk to a woman, don't be afraid to take some risks.
Ask interesting questions, make sexual innuendos, or playfully tease her.
Do stuff that will make you stand out in her mind in a positive way.
Let's be honest:
Good-looking women are ALWAYS getting hit on by other guys, so in order to stand out from the crowd, you have to go beyond the norm and become somebody who is unique.
Finally, you might be afraid that some women will be offended by your behavior.
Personally, I think it's a good idea to run the risk of offending people, and here's why...
If you're with a woman who has NO sense of humor, then your behavior was able to quickly eliminate her as a prospect. Ultimately, you have saved yourself a lot of time and effort.
EXTRAORDINARY results with women means you have to rise above the average men of the world!
Here's a great post Pete wrote to show you how this can be achieved and rise above being average:
#6 – Have a Busy Life
There are many characteristics that women find attractive in a man.
As we’ve discussed, "alpha-male traits” show women that you're a high-status guy who is worth knowing.
This makes you seem fun and interesting, so it's important to demonstrate specific qualities which women want from men.
For instance, I was recently rereading one of my favorite books where the author discussed how being a "busy guy" can help you build attraction with women you know.
In a nutshell, he said girls are naturally attracted to men who have interesting things going on.
Now the truth is that MANY guys are terrible at following up with women after getting a phone number or email address.
Generally what happens is the attraction they built during the initial meeting falls flat, and they can't set up a date.
Between meeting a woman and contacting her, a lot of things can draw her attention away from you, so it's important to reestablish that connection and make her interested in you.
Since she probably has a lot of things happening in her life, you have to find a way to stand out in her mind.
The best way to do this is to act like a busy guy in your life.
As I mentioned before, women are extremely attracted to men who have exciting and interesting lives, so she'll be more attracted to you if she thinks you have a lot going on in your life.
In a way, you're displaying higher value by letting her know that you're not a guy who sits around the house nervously waiting for her call.
Also, by acting like a busy guy, she'll subconsciously think you might be dating other women. If this woman thinks she has a bit of competition, she'll work hard to make an impression the next time you meet.
To act like a busy guy, you need to do the following…
When you initially call her, let her know that you have a lot happening during the week. Then you tell her that you want to make definite plans on a specific day.
Emphasize that you want to see her again, but "things have been crazy" in your life.
After you make plans (i.e. set up a date), cut the conversation short, and tell her you have a lot of things to get done.
Be vague about what you're doing, but make it sound interesting.
Finally, once you go on the date, mention all the activities that you do. In other words, let her know that you have a busy life, but you're willing to let her be part of it.
If you can demonstrate that you have an active life, you'll discover that women will find you more attractive.
Stay busy learning all the techniques to attract women for a while, just don't show it off because don't go for guys whose life revolves around them.
Now there's the reverse side to being persistent…
#7 – Be Proactive AND Persistent
Here's a rule that I'm a little hesitant to discuss, so I urge you to read and understand it FULLY before you follow my advice.
Anyway, the tip is simple: When meeting (and dating) women, you have to be PERSISTENT.
Now before you go out and start stalking every woman you meet, let me explain what I mean about persistence.
In a nutshell, being persistent means that you shouldn't be afraid to follow up with a woman whom you have chemistry with.
I DON'T mean you should stalk every girl you "really like.”
So when I tell you to be persistent, I mean you should make an effort when it comes to pursuing women.
In other words, don't listen to your buddies and wait seven days to call her, and don’t blow her off every time she wants to hang out because you want to "seem cool.”
Instead, actively call her and set up dates.
Remember that most women let guys make the first move.
If you're waiting around for her to call, then you might miss out on an opportunity with a great girl.
Also, it's important to remember that women have busy lives just like you, so while she might be interested in you, there could be outside factors which require her attention.
A woman might still have interest even if she's not making the first move. What this means is it's up to YOU to follow up and set up a date.
Eventually, you'll encounter a girl who won't return your calls. This is the point where your persistence must STOP.
If she doesn't return a number of your calls, then she doesn't want to talk to you.
I know this sounds harsh, but you should NEVER stalk a woman who has no interest in you.
So remember that persistence is a great attitude.
Don't be afraid to follow up with women and set up dates, but always remember that there are certain times when it's important to stop pursuing a woman and move on!
In addition to persistence, it’s equally important that you be PROACTIVE when pursuing the opposite sex.
Like persistence, being proactive will increase your success with women.
The funny thing is that many guys think playing games is the best way to increase attraction. In other words, they follow the advice of waiting two or three days before calling a girl.
The logic is that women will be attracted because they're forced to do the pursuing.
Believe it or not, this technique RARELY works!
Think of it this way:
Women (like men) get busy with their lives.
After grabbing a woman’s number, you’re in direct competition for her time against her job, family, and other guys.
When she gets busy, she’ll probably have to ditch something in her life, and since you've just met her, it’ll probably be YOU.
Now once she decides that you’re expendable, all of your efforts will have been wasted. When this happens, you only have yourself to blame.
By not calling her, you've killed your chances of making a connection to that girl.
As you can see, being proactive is an incredibly important trait to develop.
When you pursue women and immediately make the first call (within two days), you stand out in her mind.
As a result, your chances of success will dramatically increase.
When you develop a proactive personality, you'll become the guy who has more women in his life. You’ll date more and will have more opportunities for finding someone special.
So ask yourself which guy gets laid more:
The guy who waits for women to call first?
The guy who is proactive and quickly follows up with women?
Just remember that getting a phone number is the FIRST step in the dating process. If you become a proactive guy, you’ll have the skills for turning those digits into dates and fun times!
Here's the ONLY real rule to follow as to when you should call a woman:
#8 – Be a Fun Guy
It’s happened to ALL of us…
There are times when the process of meeting women can become tedious. Since the art of attracting women requires a TON of effort, it can be both stressful and tiresome.
Sometimes, it just doesn’t seem worth your time.
Often a night out can include:
- Spending money
- Having to project a confident and energetic persona at ALL times
- Approaching dozens of “sets” or groups of women
- Going out night after night
- Being rejected by women when you’re approach techniques aren’t working
As you can see, there is A LOT involved with trying to learn the subtle art of the pick-up artist, so it’s only human if you sometimes forget the MAIN reason that you’re on this path.
Whatever the case, there is something you must always keep in mind…
If you’re not having FUN during this whole process, then you’ll have little chance of success.
The truth is that how we feel inside is always shown on the outside. If you're not having fun when meeting women, then you'll project a bored-looking demeanor.
When this happens, you’ll kill your chances of success.
What’s the answer?
Well it’s simple:
You must learn to enjoy the whole experience of meeting and attracting women.
Have fun out there, even if you fail.
Also, when you go out, it helps if you’re enjoying other things BESIDES trying to meet women.
For instance, you can check out a new band, have fun with your buddies, or
simply talk to women because you want to meet a new person.
The more you enjoy yourself, the more you'll project an aura of positive energy and confidence.
When this happens, trying to meet women won’t seem so tedious.
In fact, you can expect your success to skyrocket!
You'll find lots of techniques that WILL make women believe you're a fun guy in attraction tactics - give it a try - watch the video:
#9 – Have an “I Don’t Care” Attitude
Your attitude has a direct affect on your success with women.
The difference between going home alone or with a beautiful woman depends on how you present yourself.
The problem is that many guys have major problems with women because they're projecting the wrong kind of attitude.
In essence, they're allowing their neediness to be obvious.
If you know anything about the laws of attraction, then you understand what women REALLY want from men.
The majority of them are interested in guys who can establish a high level of status and act in a confident manner.
When you act in a needy manner, you're basically giving off a desperate appearance, which leads up to the point of this tip…
In order to attract women, you have to learn how to project an "I don't care" personality.
Although this seems to go against common sense, women are wildly attracted to guys who don't seem to care about “scoring” or succeeding with them.
If you can project an aloof attitude around women, you'll stand out from other
guys for one simple reason…
You’re not hitting on them.
This law of attraction can easily be explained by basic economics, especially when it comes to “supply and demand.”
In a nutshell, the less available a good’s supply is, the greater it’s demanded.
If you apply this logic to your seduction techniques, you’ll see how flawlessly it works.
It’s just human nature to want what one can’t have, and this is certainly true when it comes to dating and relationships.
With that being said, if a woman sees that you’re not wrapped around her finger, she’s going to want you all the more.
By carrying yourself with an "I don't care what happens" attitude, you'll seem like a man who isn't concerned about the outcomes of interacting with women…
And you’ll reap all the benefits of doing so.
This can also be classified under the definition of INDIFFERENCE, which most guys don't understand; so here's what it is how you're supposed to use it to attract women:
#10 – YOU are in Control
In addition to being confident and unconcerned with outcomes, it’s also important that you maintain control of every situation you encounter.
The attitude you display around women is one of the most important ways to determine your overall success.
When you show women the proper kind of attitude, you'll discover that it's quite easy to attract them.
So the more dominant and in control you act, the more you'll find that women will comply with your requests.
Here's what I mean…
In the dating scene, women always encounter weak guys who act needy and are constantly looking to them for approval.
By acting in a position of dominance and competence, you're demonstrating that you have confidence in yourself, and you're not afraid to show it.
You can display this personality trait by paying attention to a woman's body language during your interaction.
Then use this information to establish control of the situation.
What I mean is that there will be several occasions when a woman will tell you one thing verbally, but her body language says something completely different.
So when you're talking to a woman, use what she's saying with her BODY LANGUAGE to control her.
Here are several examples of how to be in control:
- Disagree with her viewpoints, and alter her opinions to match yours.
- Do nice things for a woman because YOU want to, not because she asks you to.
- If she's laughing during your conversation and saying "Stop that," you know she's enjoying your interaction.
Having a dominant personality is a great way to convey to women that you're not able to be controlled.
When you show this personality trait, a woman knows you're coming from a place of higher status, and she has to step up her game in order to impress YOU.
Another way Pete came up with to help you with CONTROL is to make sure you're in control of you life too:
#11 – Fix What’s Holding You Back
A lot of people send me emails which talk about their physical defects, and how they're preventing them from meeting and attracting women.
For instance, many guys feel they're too bald or overweight to attract a woman.
In fact, these men OBSESS over these “flaws” so much that they become paralyzed with fear when talking to a woman.
So let me set the record straight on this...
You CAN attract women no matter what you look like.
I've seen some of the UGLIEST and FATTEST guys attract women just by having an interesting personality.
And you can do the same!
There are times when you feel like a physical characteristic is holding you back.
My advice is to fix what you can, and ACCEPT the things you can't control.
For instance, let’s say you're a short person.
Because your height is something you can’t fix, you know there is nothing you can do to become taller.
So instead of worrying about being short, learn to develop your flirting skills to the point where your height won’t matter.
If you ARE short, so is Peter. Read these to help you get past it and FIX it:
- You’re Not Too Short To Attract Women! How To Get Past This Limited Belief
- Too Ugly? Too Short? How To Turn Your Flaws Into Strengths & Attract Women
- How to Attract Girls Even if You’re Short
- What If You’re Short & She Prefers Tall Guys?
On the other hand, if you have a physical defect which you can control, make every attempt to change it.
For instance, if you're overweight, try losing a few pounds.
If you're going bald, try to shave your head and cultivate a unique look.
Ask some trusted girl friends what they think would work best for you, and branch out with a new look.
Just remember that no matter how you appear physically, your success with women is not dictated by your looks or defects.
If you can learn to attract women through your personality, then you'll get past the physical flaws that you think are holding you back.
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Editors Note - PLEASE READ:
This report was obviously not written me. It was given to me long ago as a free report to give my readers. The agreement was made under the condition that it was untouched and only used to promote a program called: Flirt Mastery by Steve Scott.
I absolutely LOVED it and still get lots of hits on the pdf file which is somewhere out there on the internet.
The problem is: The product is not offered any more and was probably written under a very obscure pen name - which I've reason worked with, or actually was Dean Cortez.
I came to that conclusion based on a product Dean now offers which is designed almost exactly on this one originally was.
It's been now published and stripped from a pdf file because I still think it's incredible and filled with amazing tips.
My effort now, to satisfy the agreement, is to promote Dean's work which is, to the best of my knowledge, transformed from flirt mastery.
So - that's the whole story.
To "Steve Scott" - THANK YOU.
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