Yeah, you probably never hear it from this side but it's the truth.
Women don't tend to go for a guy if it's all too easy to get in his pants. They don't want a guy who will rip his pants off in a second if she just gives him the thumbs up.
What you do hear is that men are sexually easy. How we always want it. We're always horny. That we're all about sex and not much else in in our heads.
Well, regardless of the truth behind it all, women want a real challenge from a guy who doesn't give it up all that easy. They want to work for it. They want to be involved in the process of getting you horny and sexually there too.
If you're rolling over way easily, if you're making it clear how easy you are, if you're NOT giving her the pleasure of your wonderful teasing ways, if you're NOT being the guy who is sexually challenging to a woman you're attracted to then...
This is a two-parter. The first one is being a sexual physical challenge and the second being a mentally challenging real man (number thirty-six).
Let's get to fixing this unfortunate error and possibly eliminate it from your life with women forever.
First you need to find and understand how important BALANCE is and why it must be maintained.
A difficulty most men face in this area is them being afraid of challenging a woman sexually and/or teasing her in many ways.
I'm telling you this and if you don't believe me, go ask some women and listen for yourself.
It's okay to make her wait a little longer. It's okay to lean in for the first kiss and NOT give it to her. It's OKAY to NOT sleep with a woman the first time just because she offers herself to you sooner than later...
As long as there is balance.
Just being a prick all the time and holding back forever is on one end of the scale, being too easy and fucking her as soon as you can or any woman who offers is the other end.
You'll want to be somewhere in the middle. Give a little. Hold back a little. Do it at the right time and in the right way and you WILL challenge her physically.
Trust me, she'll love it and the end-product, sex, WILL be THAT much more exciting for the both of you.
You'll also find the dynamics between you and women will change drastically but in a good way.
Doing it correctly indirectly shows women you have confidence, in and out of bed, you've learned control over yourself and in life too, you're a patient man in touch with all your emotions, and you understand women to their very core sexually and mentally as you tease her mind and body just enough that she explodes at the right time.
Balance into your interactions with women FOREPLAY!
This is the perfect definition to follow here at DiaLteG™:
"Foreplay is a set of emotionally and physically intimate acts between two or more people meant to create sexual arousal and desire for sexual activity.
Although foreplay is typically understood as physical sexual activity, nonphysical activities, such as mental or verbal acts, may in some contexts be foreplay.
Note the bolded section, "nonphysical activities, such as mental or verbal acts, may in some contexts be foreplay".
Verbal foreplay is typically called teasing and when you add the physical edge appropriately, sets you up as being that man listed above.
Women will see you as a sexy guy.
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Here are some amazingly simply and easy tips to follow along with lots of posts to learn all the details you'll want to know.
- Get her feeling something which can easily turn sexual.
- Turn things a little physical while she is laughing with you.
- Build anticipation of "great things to come" and leave a little earlier than expected.
- Leave or stop the call or text at the height of the interaction so you leave her wanting more.
Learn the confident art of cocky/comedy:
Understand sexual tension, why it's so important, and how plus why you shouldn't destroy it:
Flirt... a lot!
Make her horny and sexually aroused by just being a masculine man:
The quick conclusion...
The guy that can walk away confidently leaving her to want him even more excites women at their very core.
He's sexually challenging and in control of his emotions and women feel it intensely.
This does not mean he's a calculated prick who only likes to play women. He's not into playing games.
He understands how to balance it all effectively.
He knows when to hold back, how to build anticipation, and when it's the right time to move forward.
This definitely can be you. You can become the "sexy guy" women fantasize about especially if you're being "too easy" is why you're failing with women.
Follow the links above and below and fear not to tease women in every way possible and definitely sexually.
Don't be (or stop being) that guy who gives it all away all too easily "just because" or for whatever your reasons are today.
The answer to all your sexual dreams and desires with women...
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- A detailed explanation of what Sexual Tension is, plus how to create it, and how to use it to actually create chemistry between you and the women you want right from the beginning.
- How to flirt with women and communicate in exactly the right way to make them feel Attraction for you… all while avoiding the response of “This guy is a pervert who only wants to get into my pants”.
- How to use the proven magic formula of Cocky & Funny communication to attract and keep women interested in you.
- How to use your body language, voice tone, and eye contact in ways that communicate on a Sexual level with women, and make them respond by feeling a powerful Emotional Attraction.
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- 16 Fail-Proof Power Lines – Brand new, word-for-word phrases that make a woman feel powerful sexual attraction for you the instant you say them.
- The universal mistake nearly all men make when getting physical that instantly causes a woman to slam on the brakes.
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This post is part of the full quick tip series you can find below:
Read the one and only guide to finding out why you always screw it up with women!
It's the answer you're looking for along with reasonable and effective advice on how to fix it.
Photo of man teasing woman with game: Gustavo Fring