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Are You A Slut? Would You Sleep With Many Hot Women Just For Sex?

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No woman wants to feel like a social slut but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t enjoy sex.

When I’ve run into a promiscuous woman I’ve never been the type of guy to call a woman slutty.

I try to put myself in their shoes… or maybe in their pants.

Seriously though… I hate double standards so as for this whole slut thing goes I’ve asked myself,

“If I could sleep with lots of hot women casually, would I? Would I have been a slut if I was born a girl?”

The answer would certainly be “Yes!!” to the first question and “Who knows.” to the second one.

Considering that if I would do it then who am I to call a woman a slit just because she chooses to sleep with lots of different men. And who am I claim a woman is an “easy lay.”

In case you are not aware of what dating or seduction “gurus” teach about getting women to sleep with you quicker I’m going to tell you.

Most women have what is called the “anti-slut defense mechanism. I’m not sure whether it is instinctual,  social upbringing, or personal values, and it might not matter today so my assumption is a combination of all three.

The “Anti-slut defense” is there because women do not want to feel or look like a slut socially but since some women like sex more than others they will have many sexual partners in their lifetime while others could care less and will only sleep with a few.

Also, based on an average I’ve experienced and learned about, a woman does not want to take responsibility for sleeping with a guy too quickly. You will hear her explanations in many different way:

  • “It just happened.”
  • “He was so charming.”
  • “The next thing I know we were fucking on the kitchen counter.”
  • “There’s just something about him.”
  • “I just couldn’t help myself. He had this like, power over me.”

So what does this all mean to us and our sex life?

You might be wondering If I’m going to show how to break down this “defense mechanism” so you can get more women to sleep with you quicker.

Maybe your answer to my, “Would you be a slut if you could be?” was the same as mine was and you want to explore a different sex life than you have settled with so far.

Maybe you’re thinking, “Hey Pete. I thought you were this nice guy. Why would a nice guy be interested in picking up women just for sex? Why would you even go near any technique known as some anti slut thing?

All fair questions.

Nope, sorry, I’m not going to tell you how to break through her slut defense today… maybe later… or maybe I’m not that good at it. Haha! BUT this guy IS good at showing a woman’s objections to quick sex AND he’s invented a “masterclass” based on “One Night Stands.” I pulled together this for you to read –> 5 COMMON Objections For One Night Stands – Role Playing and Attraction.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for a great sex life. Single or not. Play it smart and don’t be a dick or an idiot about it and go for it.

So why would I even mention this kind of thing on a “nice guy approach” website?

Well it’s simple.

I believe in sex!!

These beliefs also include the fact that too many nice guys are so deathly afraid of showing women their sexual side, that they miss out on a pretty amazing piece of the “wilder” feminine side.

Here are some common beliefs about women and sex and some typical ideas some of you might hold especially if you’re not getting your “fair share”:

  • Women hold back because they know they can use sex to land a guy.
  • Women are in control of every mans sex life.
  • Women decide which guy gets it and which guy doesn’t and it’s just not fair!
  • Women do not like sex as much as guys do.
  • Women are dead set against threesomes unless it’s with some rock star like guy or she played into doing it.
  • Women hate giving blow jobs and they only do it to appease their men..
  • If I don’t give (her) the best orgasm of her life she’ll leave me or cheat on me.

Should these misconceptions be kept a secret even though they are definitely not 100% true?

Remember her defense… Women do not want to feel like “social sluts.” This keeps the ball in their court, pun intended and it assures they are never viewed as being sexually promiscuous which is society’s accepted norm.

How about all of this:

If a man knows a woman will never hold back sex he probably wouldn’t invest much of himself in dating her for a long-term relationship.

If a man knows she’s not holding all the cards he just might use it against her to sleep with her quickly, leave her, and then do it to other women too.

What about what I mentioned earlier: My “nice guy approach” does not mean staying away from showing women your sexual side trying to act all nice.

Do you admit to me or yourself or your friends that list above is far from the truth?

Women DO enjoy sex and there’s nothing wrong with even bringing out her “slutty” side while you’re in bed with her. In fact it’s recommended once in a while and women DO enjoy that part of it.

Women are NOT in charge of who gets some and who is left holding their own.

Women are NOT in control of your sex life, you are.

Women DO enjoy sex and have fantasies most guys would never believe. Of course you do have to learn to bring it out of her. She’s not going to give those up to any guy who just asks.

Being nice and still attracting women is NOT about becoming overly rude and demanding sex. It is about not being afraid of your masculinity and at times it’s going to be about how honest you can answer the big question I asked myself earlier.

If you could sleep with lots of different hot women, would you?

If your answer doesn’t feel right, or if it scares you, or if you’re afraid to admit the truth to a woman, because you’re afraid of “rocking her boat,” then you’re not seeing this whole nice guy approach for what it really is.

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It might be in her best interest to not reveal her feelings for you, but it’s still not proof she likes you, wants you, or sees you as more than a friend.
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2 comments… add one
  • Bill S.

    Well, i will be a slut for sure ahah!

    But you know girls are different, they got the “anti-slut defense mechanism”.

    Honestly? I don’t know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing, but i suppose it is good… mh i have to think about it!

  • I’d say on days when we really want it, you know that one very unique and hot girl which passed us by…it’s a BAD thing.

    On other days I’ll consider it a good thing. Haha!

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