Do we, as men, believe women want a guy more who already has a woman or has lots of women in his life? Does it feel like you need a girlfriend just to be seen as more attractive? Being or looking pre-selected along with having social proof is an idea or theory used and taught by many to help a guy attract more women.
Attraction – The Emotional Instinctual Trigger – A Skill You Can Learn
When I didn’t understand women I believed you must always prove to women you’d make a great boyfriend. I was a typical provider. Yet that did not give me any control in dating and women either rejected me, made me chase them, or held out forever saying they were not ready for a relationship. If that is happening to you – learn to be a lover first.
Maybe that makes me a pig. Maybe it makes me a bad guy. Maybe it makes me normal – although that’s highly doubtful because everywhere I look, I see average looking guys with average looking women. I see the not so perfect women with the not so perfect guys… And some of them are actually happy.
In the world of “being attracted to women” I’m going to guess there are two main types of guys: The “butt” guy and the “boob” guy: Which one are you? We’re not talking about judging a woman based on one single part of her body. What we’re really talking about is a simple thing called ATTRACTION and from that alone we can get some interesting topics.