Attraction is NOT skin deep. Attracting women starts from within you. How you feel inside and how you feel about yourself. Healthy men find it easier to attract women which is more about how he looks, it has a lot to do with how he feels about himself and his ability to communicate that a certain way to women. Starting a new fitness or health kick must be done for the right reasons if it’s to work. Do it for yourself and create “accidental attraction”.
Do we, as men, believe women tend to want a guy more who already has a woman or has lots of women in his life? Does it feel like you need a girlfriend or a list of women wanting you just to be seen as more attractive? Being or looking pre-selected along with having social proof is an idea or theory used and taught by many to help a guy attract more women. But how does it really work? Why does it work? If so, what’s the right way to use it naturally?
When I didn’t understand women I believed you must always prove to women you’d make a great boyfriend. I was a typical provider. Yet that did not give me any control in dating and women either rejected me, made me chase them, or held out forever saying they were not ready for a relationship. If that is happening to you – learn to be a lover first.
Maybe that makes me a pig. Maybe it makes me a bad guy. Maybe it makes me normal – although that’s highly doubtful because everywhere I look, I see average looking guys with average looking women. I see the not so perfect women with the not so perfect guys… And some of them are actually happy. Relatively speaking of course. Does it really make me different because all my life I’ve only fell for women who I found highly attractive to ME? Not to some other guy. My standards compared to them might seem a little high. To them or others they will say I’m expecting too much. To some other guys my definition of beauty is definitely different.