It may feel like you’re stuck wading or treading in the deep end as you struggle to remove the rising water. Fighting your way back to the shallows to feel the warm sun on your body. Leaving the fears behind you. Scary and tiring as it seems, live it. Have fun. Play. Don’t choose it it away. Enjoy both. Swim and stand.
You have a problem of not being able to give a woman the right amount of space. Why you’re like that and how to solve the problem so you’re not pushing women away from you. Fear, lack of choices, acting to urgent, reacting and not acting, all reasons why women tell you they need space.