There are many ways to determine if men and women settling for their less than perfect partner. Let’s look at just a couple based on common assumptions made. Too many people do settle and this is not why it’s happening, just a little proof that it is happening way too much.
Maybe that makes me a pig. Maybe it makes me a bad guy. Maybe it makes me normal – although that’s highly doubtful because everywhere I look, I see average looking guys with average looking women. I see the not so perfect women with the not so perfect guys… And some of them are actually happy. Relatively speaking of course. Does it really make me different because all my life I’ve only fell for women who I found highly attractive to ME? Not to some other guy. My standards compared to them might seem a little high. To them or others they will say I’m expecting too much. To some other guys my definition of beauty is definitely different.
In the world of “being attracted to women” I’m going to guess there are two main types of guys: The “butt” guy and the “boob” guy: Which one are you? We’re not talking about judging a woman based on one single part of her body. What we’re really talking about is a simple thing called ATTRACTION and from that alone we can get some interesting topics.
Are you letting attractive women walk all over you? Why are you doing her favors just because she asks? Are you afraid she won’t like you? If you want to attract women you find very attractive, you can NOT let her looks affects your actions despite all of it.
Qualifying a woman gives you a better chance at attracting her & a better relationship into your life. Know what you want. Expect her to match up to it. Expect you’ll meet her needs too. Five steps will give you what you need to qualify a woman in your conversations & more. Hold yourself with value and high standards.