Attraction For Men Who Want To Learn How To Attract Their Ideal Woman… Naturally

Do you want to attract your ideal woman and enjoy a real relationship without all the drama?

I know you can get laid when you want but you want MORE than some quick casual sex without any meaning. That’s the easy part.

I willing to bet that you’re sick and tired of being called a typical male who is only into how a woman looks while on the inside – it feels all too real that women are in charge and if they’d spend less time bitching about the shitty guys they date and give YOU a chance – you can make them happy… but they don’t or won’t.

You feel like you do know how to communicate or talk to women in a mature, open, and honest way.

You do the things you believe are expected to you as a man and still  – it feels like you don’t have any real choice or say in the matter.

She blows you off – treats you like a friend – plays games with your head – expects more from you than she is EVER willing to give back.


You’re fed up, frustrated, sick of settling, tired of the dating game, and you just want to meet a REAL woman who is into you… for YOU.

You don’t want to play a part or a role, compete with her last ex-boyfriend, pretend you’re somebody else, or get shot down (flat out and rudely rejected) when you’re just trying to talk to a woman you find attractive.

You’ve had enough of the bad attitudes and the smug looks of superiority on their faces – just because she’s hot or you find her attractive – does NOT make her better than you or anyone else.

You know that and you also know deep down she knows it too.

You’ve made some mistakes in the past with women. You understand and admit you’re not perfect. You don’t always say the right things. You’re don’t always remember EVERYTHING. When you’re focused – you’re focused and you’re simply trying to make a life for yourself.

Yet it feels like women don’t respect that about you or even care that you’re a stand up guy. It’s like they’re always looking for something more – better – makes you feel like a piece of shit who is what… not good enough!

You don’t always act responsibly… but most of the time – you TRY because you’re a GOOD GUY.

And still it’s not enough.

Being good or “nice” is like some curse set upon you to stop you from finding, meeting, marrying, and starting a family with the woman of your dreams.


You’ve achieved a lot in your life – you work hard – you’re successful at what you do and you’re proud of it – why should women be any different, right?

You’ve worked hard FOR them. You’ve done the work. BUT based on what you’ve seen and experienced – the harder you try – the less interested they become in you. She’s more interested in some guy who doesn’t even care about her.

So just for a laugh or two or maybe because you’re smart and you think you figured it out – you go the other way – you try the “indifferent” approach and ACT like you don’t care AND what happens… nothing.

Absolutely nothing.

Now you’re certainly feeling like something is going on and the world of women are just against you. They’re not out to get you. They’re out to make sure you’re destined to settle for less or get nothing at all.

Do I have your attention? Cool.

I’m Peter White – call me Pete.

I have something you’re definitely going to be interested in.

My methods are built on simplicity. No games. Less is more.

It’s a matter of fact style that quickly pushes aside all the junk and get’s to the real issues of your problems with women.

Learning in this way will save you lots of time and give you an attractive positive edge that works! Women will quickly notice how you’re not just some typical male she can control – because that’s not what she wants – but that you’re the one in million guy she’s only dreamed of meeting one day.


I want to move you from what others MAKE you feel like is a LOSER with women into a CHOOSER.

From loser to chooser based on my DiaLteG TM approach to finding, meeting, attracting, dating, and CHOOSING your ideal woman so you can finally be in charge of the direction you want to go in your life…

Enjoy a real relationship with the woman you would do anything for who appreciates and loves you for you; and happily gives it all back. Not because you’ve mind-tricked her into it – but because she WANTS to with all her heart.

This is about living your life the way you want to with purpose and fun.

This is about building a positive mindset which is attractive from the inside and out.

This is a way of life and a life which is yours to OWN.

When you can do all that – the woman you choose will gladly join you because it will feel right to her and how it was all… meant to be.

So where do we start?

Where do we go from here?

You’re eager to learn my techniques and it all starts with:

The Real Secret to Attracting Women & Getting Laid No One Knows But Me”

Within your starter Ebook you WILL learn EXACTLY what must happen and how you must make a woman feel – before she will EVER feel attracted to you.

I wish I could tell you I’m overselling it all – because I’ve made some pretty bold statements and living up to those expectations from you could mark me as a failure – a liar – someone who promises the world but can’t deliver… but I’m not.

I know these are FACTS. I’ve lived through it all. I’ve gone way down the deep end with no hope of ever recovering from my dismal, meaningless, non-existent relationships with women.

I’ve gone from loser to chooser and CHOSE my wife – the love of my life – and she’s a REAL woman who doesn’t succumb to the typical, who doesn’t settle for the mundane, who expects more, who respects me, loves me just the same – and is HAPPY that despite all the (all too easily to settle for less) mismatches in the world – we found EACH OTHER.

This is where you JOIN ME – sign in  and TELL me what you think of it.

Peter White DiaLteG TM

I’m ready to listen. I don’t get offended easily.

And because I believe EVERY word that I wrote and how it’s going to open you to a new mindset in attracting your ideal woman.

…Peter White


Let’s talk a little more about what you’re going to find around here.

DiaLteG™ is “get laid” spelled backwards but it means so much more than just having sex. It’s about knowing and learning the right skills and developing proven traits to naturally attract women (or girls if you’re at that age).

There’s one part of your life you may find hard to admit publicly and that’s the gnawing, helplessness feeling of being LONELY.

No guy cries to his “dude” friends that he’s sick and tired of being alone. It’s often re-worded or redirected to complaining about girls in general and pretending that it’s not getting to him…

When you know deep down – it sucks not feeling capable or confident enough to get the women you desire the most.

You don’t have to tell me about it because for years I suffered through the same dilemma or problem:

You don’t understand how women think and how they “decide” to sleep with, date, or marry some of what appears to be the worst possible choice for them.

It’s upsetting, isn’t it?

You don’t understand how some guys naturally attract women and yet you, this genuinely nice “good” guy find it impossible to go from meeting a woman to an actual relationship. It’s as if someone is playing a cruel joke on you but you’re not laughing because to you – it’s just the harsh reality of your life.

You may have been through a relationship or two. You felt like you got lucky. Some chic liked you and you accepted her. But be honest – didn’t it feel like you settled for her which is not only an awful thing to go through but you also knew just how unfair it was to her.

But enough of that bad stuff… let’s focus on the positive.

The purpose of DiaLteG TM is to help you in ALL the areas you feel you’re struggling with women. The acronym for “DiaLteG” covers everything you’ll ever need to finally solve your “woman” problems and the loneliness you might be experiencing right at this very moment.

Dating  Interactions  Attraction  Lifestyle  Techniques  Exercise  Girlfriend

Dating – Dating is about the fun process involved in connecting with a woman. It’s about exploring your options, qualifying your next partner, enjoying casual sex, approaching & meeting women, creating amazing dates, and everything that leads up to more exciting dates which of course leads to natural attraction.

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Man Woman Date Dating


Interactions – Communicating to women in a way which builds comfort, connection, and attraction. The interacting part is often where guys fail to trigger attraction because they don’t have the right communication skills. From flirting, sexuality, touching, teasing, and the all important conversations – this is where you convey your natural self.

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Interact With Woman Smiling Happy Attract


Attraction – An instinctual “emotional” trigger often misunderstood by men and women alike. A man who interacts with women in a certain way can stimulate her attraction and when done in context can be seen or felt to be a more naturally attractive man. Attraction requires skills but it is not a skill itself. It’s a feeling. It’s an emotional response to an outside source.

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Attractive Woman Create Attraction.


Lifestyle – How you live your life in any way you find rewarding up to and including your style, your social status, your travel plans, your goals, aspirations, dreams, passions and desires. Whereas dating is meant to get to know another person, interacting is what happens on those dates and outside the normal dating routine, attraction is what happens or is triggered during any and all interactions you have with women – lifestyle is HOW you set up your life to live out a more naturally attractive existence.

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Attractive Lifestyle and Fun


Techniques – The way in which you interact with women often requires skills or techniques which build the attraction. It’s the way in which you carry out your task of creating attraction, building a connection, establishing a comfortable bond between you and anyone else which happens to include women. Your techniques also cover how you build yourself into a more naturally attractive man.

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Techniques Tips Tool Attract Woman


Exercise – The word exercise normally doesn’t need much of an explanation but here it goes: Being healthy, fit, in shape, able and capable of living your life aware and energized enough to enjoy life to the fullest of all your capabilities. It relates to natural attraction in many ways: Better sex. Healthier living which inspires others. Clearer thinking to accomplish goals and learn new things. Exercise is not only for the body but for the mind too. On the side being in shape can and does trigger a physical attraction which may not be necessary for everyone,certainly does not hurt or harm the process of triggering attraction.

Click here for posts on Exercise & Health

Man Woman Attractive Exercise Good Health


Girlfriend – Most guys who start learning about attraction are not interested in get laid quick schemes, playing women, or becoming some a super star pick up artist. This covers what lot of guys really want – a girlfriend that they are physically, mentally, and emotionally attracted to who also is attracted to them. Getting a girlfriend covers all the steps needed, building a healthy relationship, the maintenance and upkeep of keeping it all forever growing and exciting too.

Click here for all the posts on Getting A Girlfriend.


11 Steps On How You Can Get A Girlfriend

Girlfriend Boyfriend Couple Happy


I believe YOU CAN LEARN how to attract women naturally and you don’t have to play any mind games, follow some stupid rules or playbook, and you certainly don’t ever have to become a jerk or abandon your “nice good guy” ways.

All you have to do is to first be open to a new mindset which can open up the so-called secret world of women to you and that’s starts today!

You don’t need luck.

You don’t have to be all that good-looking…


You need knowledge and you must learn how to put that information into practice starting IMMEDIATELY.

Here are some great pages to begin your journey, get your plan on attracting your ideal woman in place, and put it into your dating life immediately:

Here are the more important, relevant, and most used categories to help you find what you’re looking for AND to turn you into a more naturally attractive man:

Women Will Forever Test You – Pass Them Easily & You Will Attract Her

Testing is part of a woman’s way of separating men into a few categories indirectly or directly. She needs to know the guy she dealing is the real guy and not out to fool her, hurt her, and be a bad partner for her. Passing her tests is essential in dating, attraction, and relationships too.


Dilemmas, Contradictions, Feelings, and How You Treat Women

The nice guy faces many conflicting mindsets and thoughts which stops him from communicating to women in an attractive way. This is where we dig deep into your feelings so you can let it all out. How you treat women and what you’re thinking and what you feel contradict each other. Time to set it all straight.


Her Friends Zone – Getting In, Getting Out, and Staying Out

The friends zone is a terrible place to live with any woman you like or claim to be in love with, no lie. The sections deals exclusively with helping you to get out and stay out forever. Signs you’re there, how you got there, and how to stop it from happening again. Eliminate the let’s just be friends talk forever.


Nice Guy Not Defined – You’re Not Defined By How Others Label You

Don’t you hate being called a nice guy. The label has a duality that surpasses many others. It’s a judgement that can make you feel good bad or turn you into something else. This section is here to take note of what it does and can mean to a genuine nice guy and show how it’s affected their life in any way.


Nice Guy Stories – From Sad, Lonely, Pathetic to An Attractive Man

Here are a few long or short stories from my own nice guy life. Some will be pathetic. Some will be funny. Some might uplift and inspire you. Others will make you cringe and possibly hate me. The nice guys approach to attraction starts with these because it explains how and when I finally became an attractive man.


Social Skills, Socializing, Getting Along & Public Communication

How you act in your social life, how you are perceived by others, what you give back and what you intend to get are a small part of your social skills. This also includes meeting women indirectly or directly, and how you communicate yourself in an attractive way. Get along with others – succeed with women.


Truth Reality or Myth – Your Limited Beliefs Are Everywhere

Limited beliefs are everywhere. Where do they come from? How are they formed? Experience has shown me some supposed truths are myths, reality is sometimes only how we want to see things, and nice guy myths are often created out of desperation and a need to explain why things should be fair.


Understanding Women – How To Become The Guy Who Gets Her

This section contains everything you need in order to understand women. A woman can feel misunderstood by a guy and she’ll still feel attraction for him BUT in order to create that attraction you must get women in a way which makes that happen. This category shows you they why so you can become a guy who does get her.


What Failing With Women Has Taught You – Turning Failures Into Success

Any failure or mistake can be used in a positive and productive way if you’re open to objectifying the experience. This section is for using your past to better your present by taking what you learned from it and turning it around. Often great success comes after many failures once you know how to turn it all around.


What Women Want From Men, Types, Preferences, Traits, & Sexual Desires

This section shows you what women say they want from men and what they really want. You’ll find articles on male alpha traits, body types, sexual desires, and types as in short – mysterious – quiet – challenging. Learn what women want and indirectly make them a part of your natural self to attract more women.


Women Will Forever Test You – Pass Them Easily & You Will Attract Her

Testing is part of a woman’s way of separating men into a few categories indirectly or directly. She needs to know the guy she dealing is the real guy and not out to fool her, hurt her, and be a bad partner for her. Passing her tests is essential in dating, attraction, and relationships too.


Attractive Mindsets – A Different Positive Way Of Looking At Everything

An attractive mindset is a way in which you look at the world, life, dating, relationships, sex, women, everything from a positive perspective which will naturally lead you to being seen as an attractive guy. This section will help you cultivate a new way of looking at life and dealing with all of your problems.


Attractive Communication – How To Communicate Yourself Attractively

Everything comes down to HOW you communicate yourself to others. This section will contain all the ways in which you can learn this important skill & in a way which attracts others, yes, including women into your life. Eliminate the bad communication & replace with something which draws women into your life naturally.


Mistakes – Knowing What They Are & Finding Out How To Fix Them Easily

It’s no secret we all make lots of mistakes but when it to making them with women, they can easily hurt, destroy, & stop attraction from ever happening. This section is not to put you down but make you aware of these screw ups so you can avoid making them. Here’s where you’ll find out what they are and how to fix them.


Getting Laid – Sex – Sexual Desires – Stamina – Everyone Loves Doing It

Everyone likes to talk about sex & everyone like to get laid. This is where it happens. Not the sex but the discussions about sexual activities, sex drive, sleeping with women, and things desirable. Close encounters, tips, advice, stamina all, going all the way and how to make it happen, last longer, and enjoy it more.


Conversation – Talking – The Skills of Attractive Vocal Communication

The easiest way to create or trigger attraction in a woman is through your conversations with her. How you talk to women is a skill a guy can master & it’s not difficult to learn. You can show off all your attractiveness indirectly by how you speak with her. This section is about vocal communication to excite women.


Meeting – Approaching – Opening – Starting Conversations – No Fears

You have to approach more women if you want to meet them. You have to open a conversation with them if you want to attract them. This is where you can learn all my tips, tricks, techniques, and strategies to meeting women. Where, when, how, and the type you’re looking for. Erase the fears, doubt, and anxieties.


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  • Vincent Corpuz

    I like this very much! Very informative

    • peter white

      Thank you Vincent and welcome to DiaLteG.

  • Erin A.D.

    Great advice , I will be coming back for more 🙂

  • Molly

    Love it Pete. Very nice

  • Raymond

    Hi Peter. I need some advice. I’m crazy for an employee of mine. (very small company, not like it’s a big corporate thing – not a big deal to either of us). We’ve been working together for about 3 months. I’m on my way out of a failed marriage and she’s recently divorced and has a boyfriend, but we’re hitting it off pretty good. I screwed up early in the relationship with some saavy poetry, but the content was way way to early for our relationship and I spooked her a bit. She got over it. Then I did it again & she got over it again. Since then, I’ve pulled back a great deal and have been pushing/pulling a bit, which seems to be working pretty good. We had dinner together at a restaurant one night after we met for a reiki session – no kiss, but a hug goodbye after some pretty deep personal discussions. With my history of forwardness with her, I didn’t want to scare her off. She surprised me 2 weeks ago and invited me to dinner at her place – it was a casual invite, ‘hey, I’m cooking some soup, wanna come hang out’. I did. Her body language was there, and she was wearing these nice little shorts. She toasted me with her wine glass before we ate. After we ate we sat talking, her in a chair me on the couch across the table. Lots of smiles and laughing etc. She sat for a bit with a leg stretched out horizontally, from left to right with her thigh pushed up tight, I wanted to gnaw on it like a turkey leg but I made no move, still cautious of spooking her. Again, no kiss but a hug goodbye – ‘I turned my head away, for all I know she could have had her tongue hanging out of her mouth.’ Well I just got back from a trip and I brought her one of her favorites, 10 yr aged white cheddar. She invited me over one night this week to eat the cheese. Set me straight bro. My thoughts are, I’d rather make a move and get shot down than be a chump and do nothing. As far as I can tell, the next step for us is to seal the deal with some hot steamy sex, or at least a kiss. I am experienced with women sexually, but I’ve been out of the game for 13 years (marriage). Is this chick into me and I’m missing my chance with my cautious BS? Please….share your knowledge / advice.

    • Hi Raymond,

      “Gnaw on it like a Turkey leg…” Haha! I’ve never compared a sensual part of a woman to a Turkey before but if it works for you…

      Seriously now.

      My gut feelings says that the attraction for you was there from around the beginning or developed over the few months you worked together. Which is a good thing.

      And as you already knew, sharing what you did with her so early kind of “creeped” her out but also in a way you didn’t mention, probably flattered her.

      Attraction is a funny thing. If she didn’t feel it she would’ve ran for the hills when you started “courting” her but since she didn’t, she must have felt something.

      That’s the good news.

      The bad news is – the mystery is gone. She already knows or assumes she can have you whenever she wants. At least that’s the way I see it based on my experience in these kind of things.

      She’s giving you the opportunity to further your interaction, to see if you’ve gotten over her, to perhaps even test you on your diligence and/or restraint.

      I think what you’re doing is kind of telling her you’re a “relationship” type of guy who is willing to wait it out. Court her for a while. And then maybe she’ll “let” you go further when it fits the moment. She’s ( knowingly or not ) increasing her tests and will continue to do so unless something changes.

      With that said – the “tables” need to be turned. She already knows how you feel but I doubt she’s convinced you’re willing to act on them because like most people, they’re never fully convinced on it until something does happen.

      Personally I would begin to tease her. Frustrate her a little. Turn the heat up on her. Allow her to imagine a new mystery or create something different than what she’s already experienced with you. Her imagination MUST be poked, peeked, and then drawn out.

      The other idea is – remember, just because a woman knows you’re attracted to her is not the end of the game. It’s only the beginning. It’s the guys who try to do what you did to create attraction when it’s not there who end up putting themselves so deep in her friends zone there’s little chance they can get out.

      Think of it this way or the mindset you might act from,

      “Sure you’re hot. Sure I want to gnaw on your leg. But for ME… I need more. I want more than just an overstuffed dinner which will put me to sleep. Prove to me any courting on my part is only my way of getting to know the REAL you and I’ll explore more. Prove to me my courting is simply an Ego boost for you and it’s over. I’ll move on. So I’m going to tease you with my charm. I’m going to sexually excite you because I know how to BUT you’re NOT getting this manly body that easily. I’m a wanted man who may get a little “cheesy” at times but that’s just romance is fun and I love to make a girl smile.”

      I hope you can see the difference and the attitude you might now need to portray. And for better results – date other woman immediately. Explore every option available.

      Yes being cautious will only solidify in her mind that she can have you when she wants which is another reason to tease her and then give her some time to create some new experiences in her head with you. Give her the time to allow her imagination to truly take off. After she thinks about things she’ll be more likely to feel something more and then to ACT on them or better yet – you.

      Best of luck to you Raymond and I do hope this has “set you straight” and yes – I’m with you, Rush is amazing! One of my favorites.


  • Danielle

    Wow Pete. Wow. Lmfaoo This is great.

  • youssef

    i have a question please .. what to do after giving her space and not being needy anymore !? how to manage this state and balancing it without pushing her away !??

    • Hey Youssef,

      First I must say everyone seems to have their own “balance” to maintain based on their past “neediness” and their personal deal.

      There’s no trick to doing it. A great rule to follow, which may or may not seem obvious is… if it’s working, keep doing it.

      Also be realistic about it. If you’re doing things right and under most circumstance she’s still pulling away, then that’s HER deal and not yours. She just might have her own issues causing it so matter no what you do won’t work with one particular woman.

      I know, it’s rather vague advice but maintaining balance is really just about learning where you cross the line, being more aware of the things you did in the past which caused it, finding the root of your personal things, and then just doing your best to catch them BEFORE the get out of hand.

      You might find out your personal “deals” in this post I wrote some time ago. It’s deep but it CAN help you find the cause to help you avoid and maintain some balance and give the appropriate space more naturally.

      Make sure you read the entire series Youssef and thanks for asking, hope it helps you out,


  • alex b

    PETE UR MY IDOL!!!!!!!!!! GET ME LAID! 🙂

    • Nice Alex… I’ll see what I can do for you BUT only because I’m your idol. Haha!

  • abhishek

    hello peter,
    I am facing similar problems with her and need help so that I don’t make it worse. I am 22years old nd I really want to be with this girl.. first everything went amazing. she said she too feels about me. but from few months I have been in insecurity mode. that negative things. assumptions n all. now she says she have faded intrest and feelings about me. don’t know what to do. just want to save it before it is out of my hands. and before she says she hasn’t have any of feelings for me. and yea she says she wants to stay friends. she said it from the start. pls help 🙁

    • Hello Abhisek,

      I only see one solution which might work for you…. Work on your insecurities and not “keeping her” before it’s too late. She lost interest because of all that. You probably came off as needy, jealous, and more and she lost the initial attraction.

      So go ahead and work on those things which you told me about, “insecurity mode. that negative things. assumptions n all.” and find a way to build your confidence so it doesn’t happen again.

      I wish I could say there’s some magic trick you can do but I would be lying. Take it one step at a time and keep moving forward. It’s possible. It’s within your grasp. You just have to be willing, find the right help here if you have to (specifically DAvid D’s work on deep inner game and man transformation and I believe she’ll start seeing you like she used to.

      Also, give her space because if you stay too close you’ll quickly revert back to acting the way you did.

      I understand it’s tough but small progress can make all the difference in the world.

      You’re young and I believe, in the end, the work you do for YOURSELF and not for her specifically will not only pay off, but give you a strong sense of identity women will respond to AND down the road, you’ll thank yourself for doing it.

      Best of luck to you and remember it IS possible, don’t let anyone convince you it’s not,


  • Edonson D Great

    It’s really nice to find you again after so long. Happy to be back.

  • Kevin

    Hello Peter,

    I stumbled upon your site and let me give you a huge Thank You for the content you are pushing out. Something about your writing style makes everything seem real and personable. Keep it up!

    • Thanks Kevin and I will keep it up.

      You’re welcome and I do hope you learn something from my style.


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