“Follow these tips and you’ll find yourself having better and more exciting conversation with women that attract and increase her desire to talk more with you. Non-verbals. Talk about your passions. The playground mentality. Don’t ask too many questions. Lengthen your answers.”
Written by Bobby Rio.
Walking up to a beautiful woman out of nowhere and introducing yourself is one of the hardest parts of being a man.
In fact, it takes so much out of you that, a lot of the time, you forget the next important step of the conversation:
Actually having something to talk about.
Luckily, if you follow these tips you won’t have a problem maintaining a conversation with a woman.
Tip 1: Non-Verbals Are Important
More than anything else, non-verbal cues are what distinguish a good conversation from a bad one.
If you’ve ever seen two people really hitting it off from across the bar, you can tell they’re into each other right away.
It doesn’t matter if the actual discussion they’re having is about quantum physics or a debate on the value of the Earnest movies, the fact that they’re into each other is evident with how they move together.
In the same way, when talking to a woman you want to make her feel comfortable and project that you’re a confident man.
A great pickup artist once told me that the correct way to approach any girl in a conversation is to have it in your mind that she’s already told you that she’s going to sleep with you later that night.
That way, in your head at least, there is absolutely no pressure. Since it’s going to happen anyway (in your head, remember) you can talk about anything you want and can be more comfortable.
However, talking in a comfortable pose (remember: non-verbals) can often lead to that fantasy scenario actually coming true.
Tip 2: Talk about your passions
Mystery has said it in the past: “Enthusiasm breeds enthusiasm.”
So if you are passionate about something, don’t be afraid to show it.
Now, there is a fine line to take here – you don’t want to needlessly steer the conversation into the direction of your passions all the time – but if you happen to start to talk about the stock market, and that’s something you’re truly passionate about, don’t be afraid to show it.
Women are always looking for men to show their emotions, and passion is one.
Tip 3: Playground Mentality
Go into the conversation with a “playground mentality”, as in, feel free to tell stupid jokes or give her strange high-fives here and there.
By using that 3rd grade humor, you’ll get her to feel comfortable in the conversation, which is one of the most important parts.
As long as you show her you’re a fun guy – no need to keep a sourpuss on your face like some emo rock star – then she’ll be more apt to want to talk to you again down the line.
Tip 4: Don’t Ask Too Many Questions
While women love to talk about themselves – and the easiest way to do this is by badgering them with a bunch of questions – too much can lead to the conversation feeling like an interrogation.
Instead, after she’s answered an initial question, feel free to follow that up with a statement.
For example, after you ask her if she has any pets, and she mentions she has three cats, don’t go right into the question about what their names are.
Once you found that out, there’s not a whole lot of places to go with the conversation.
Instead, say something like
“I heard that cat lovers are more inclined to be independent than dog lovers”
Which will open up the conversation a bit and get her to talk about herself without her feelings like you’re putting her under the hot spotlight of the interrogation room.
Tip 5: Lengthen Your Answers
When she asks a bit about yourself, try to lengthen the answer a bit instead of just answering the question directly.
While there’s a fine art of doing this – you don’t want to give too much away, remember, as that will take away a lot of the mystery surrounding you – it is better to give a longer answer than a shorter one in most cases.
For example, if she asks you what you like, a good answer is not to say
“I like baseball.”
Instead, answer like this:
“I like baseball because it reminds me of the time my dad spent playing catch with me in the yard, building our father-son connection.”
From there, the conversation can go into all sorts of places and you’ve also shown your soft side by opening up a bit about your feelings.
Tip 6: Use Cold Reads
The art of cold-reading is important.
In it, you use clues from either how she’s standing, what she’s wearing, or what she’s talking about to make correct assumptions about her.
It’s going to take some practice, but generally speaking if you’re getting a feeling about a girl, you’re going to be right about it.
For example, if she continues talking about a large amount of ex-boyfriends, tell her that she “seems like the type of girl who has a hard time settling down because she craves too much excitement out of life.”
Not only will you show her that you’ve been paying attention this whole time to the conversation, but also now the conversation can once again be about her, a topic no woman doesn’t enjoy.
Here’s what the video will show you:
- Ignite Her Flirtatious Side – Use a weird conversation trick that gets her flirty and wild within seconds, even if you’re not her type.
- Make Her Crave Your Attention – This special type of “small talk” will have her hanging on your every word, waiting to go home with you.
- Spark Instant Chemistry – Gets her feeling intense chemistry and attraction to you, all completely under even the most guarded woman’s radar.
Here are three great downloads you can find here at DiaLteG TM written by Bobby Rio:
Before you’ve had your first date with a girl, she won’t feel much of a connection to you. As unfortunate as
it may be, you’re probably not the only guy texting her.
See, a common mistake most guys make when they’re texting a girl is that they mistake responses for attraction. Often when a guy is getting a response from a girl, he believes that he’s getting closer to getting her on a date or to seducing her.
The exact opposite is true!
The more texts you send before meeting up with girl means the less of a chance you have of actually meeting up with her!
You Need to Immediately Establish Yourself as a Flirt Here is the thing… the longer you wait to begin flirting with a woman, the more resistance you are going to face and the tougher it is going to be to make the transition from ‘friendly conversation’ to ‘flirtatious conversation.’
In fact, you may never even get a chance to start flirting… because she might have already dismissed you as another boring chump.
You can’t blame women for this… they get hit on by so many guys that they have to make a decision pretty quickly whether or not they want to keep talking to you…
Is “Small Talk” Your Missing Link to Dating and Seduction Success?
Now you may be really confused as this probably goes against everything you’ve been taught by various dating coaches and pickup artists in the seduction community.
But hear me out…
I think we can all agree that small talk is unavoidable, right?
In fact, my constant need to avoid small talk “at all costs” was seriously detrimental to my success with women.
But I’m saying… not only should you not avoid it… but you should EMBRACE IT.
Embrace small talk?
How Mastering “Small Talk” Can Transform Your Conversations and Create Serious Attraction When You’re talking to Women
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