The real problem is where and how to do it which can lead to better results, better conversations, more fun, some memorable experiences for the both of you, and how to do it without spending a ton of money and breaking your bank account.
Let's get this problem solved right now with the help of my mentor and original teacher David DeAngelo.
He knows what he's talking about.
He has done the research and both of us have engaged in extensive experiments which gave us solid results and real facts to pass in to you.
BEFORE you set up your next date with some lame ass reservations for dinner take a few minutes and read this priceless piece of advice.
You won't be disappointed!
Let’s talk about a 3 basic things I believe about how things work when it comes to women and dating...
- A woman intuitively know when she is being “pursued” and as soon as she knows she has something you want, her price starts to go up. It’s Economics 101.
- When her price starts going up she realizes you like her, she starts playing hard to get… and YOU start to LOSE CONTROL.
- Once you lose control, you must respond by either by pursuing her harder, which gives her even MORE control, or by giving up altogether. And neither of these options sounds very good to me.
Of course, the solution is to...
NEVER GIVE UP CONTROL IN THE FIRST PLACE and NEVER paying for dates is the BEST way to keep control.
It keeps a woman out of what I call the “courting” mode of thinking and behavior.
It keeps a woman from thinking she is being “pursued.”
By the way, I’m not opposed to the idea of buying dinner for a woman…
What I’m opposed to is the MINDSET that you put her in by doing it.
But before I tell you what to do instead of paying for dates, let me share what I’m thinking when I first meet an attractive woman.
It usually goes something like this:
“She seems nice, but I can’t know for sure until I know her better. I’m willing to invest just the amount of time and money it takes to have a cup of tea with her to find out more.”
So take a moment to...
Think of 10 things you could do with a woman that cost little or no money but that include possibilities of all kinds of interesting conversation, adventure, excitement.
Then do some of those things – without advertising the fact you’re not paying for dates.
I’LL GIVE HER THE JUST THAT MUCH CHANCE TO PROVE TO ME THAT SHE’S MORE THAN JUST A PRETTY FACE…
…without having to pay for a full-blown date.
I never think for a second that I need to buy her dinner so she’ll sit and talk to me. No way.
And incidentally, having the attitude that you must pay for a date to make a woman like you is actually VERY UNATTRACTIVE to her. She can smell this kind of attitude and lack of self-worth a mile away.
Bad, bad, bad.
So what should you do instead?
First off, if you ABSOLUTELY CAN’T HELP YOURSELF and you just HAVE to pay for a date, frame it as “I want to go out to this favorite restaurant of mine, and if you’d like to go, too, you’re welcome to join me.”
Then if you decide to pay, it can be something you made clear you were doing for YOURSELF and not her.
But a MUCH better idea is to get creative and avoid all things that scream “I’m willing to spend money to get your attention!!!”
Try a walk in the park.
Go to an art show.
Go window shopping in an interesting part of town.
Take her to a party that friends are throwing.
In other words:
Do Something That Has Interesting Conversation and Excitement Built Into it.
Sitting at a dinner table alone with someone you don’t know does NOT fit the bill.
So take a moment to think of 10 things you could do with a woman that cost little or no money but that include possibilities of all kinds of interesting conversation, adventure, excitement.
Then do some of those things – without advertising the fact you’re not paying for dates.
You’ll get to have fun without putting her in “courting” mode, and you’ll have interesting conversation built right in.
Plus, as an added bonus: You save $$$.
What I’m really trying to say here is, don’t set up the idea that you’re paying for her attention by paying for dates. Just don’t do it, because it works against everything I teach about what it takes to get women in the first place and that is SPARKING and BUILDING ATTRACTION.
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99% of guys are wasting WAY TOO MUCH precious time and money trying to meet "lots and lots" of women -- yet continuing to FAIL MISERABLY despite the cost, hassle, and hard work you put into it.
I mean guys will basically try ANYTHING to meet more women, right?
They relentlessly email, text, or call women who don't "feel it" for them (and never will).
They blow their paychecks on clothes and colognes they think actually work to "seduce" women.
They get "cool" haircuts thinking it will get a woman's attention.
They "invest" in gym memberships and home equipment that they'll never use.
And all of this gets them where, exactly?
Let me fill you in.
In the end, it gets them absolutely NOWHERE.
And this would all be pretty funny if it weren't such a tragic WASTE of TIME AND MONEY.
I literally "wrote the laws" on creating success with women and dating and if you don't know what they are, it's no wonder to me why you're failing.
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And by the way, guys, WOMEN OF ALL AGES LOVE THIS STUFF.
It doesn't skew towards ANY type of women.
I used to flirt with every woman I met... of every age.
They ALL loved it.
And I get emails from guys of all ages who use this stuff to meet women of all ages... with HUGE RESULTS.
Now, to be fair, from time to time I do get an email from someone who says "It sounds to me like you're suggesting to men that they act like jerks", etc.
What does this tell me?
It tells me that guys like that are just not familiar with David's materials, and they just don't get it.
This isn't about making women feel BAD...
It's about making them feel GOOD!
Using tools like attention or attention getting techniques, or techniques to disarm a woman a little bit so you can get past her barriers are not ever designed to bring a woman harm.
Use these techniques to get her attention and start the process of getting to know her.
It may be the best thing that you will ever do for both you AND her.
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About David DeAngelo:
David released his first book over ten years ago which changed the dating and attraction world for all the men he helped. He coined the phrase "Attraction Isn't A Choice" which is the first of many books and programs I went through personally as did millions of men in every corner of the world.
His Double Your Dating ebook set up a series of programs that help men in any part of their game they need it in from approaching women, inner game work, all the way to meeting, finding, and entering a relationship with the woman of their dreams.
His advice is unique, ethical, smart, and cleverly intuitive as he progresses from matter-of-fact to counter intuitive techniques and tips he practiced himself first, before ever releasing them to the public.
He and I share many things in common as we both went from practically being a loser with women and dating to marrying the woman of our dreams.
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