Eye Contact & Body Language That Attracts Women With Boyfriends

Written by David DeAngelo - creator of Double Your Dating.

A Reader's Question

"Just wanted to share a little bit of what your lessons have done for me. I read your book and started concentrating on what I thought was my weak points.

I did as your book recommended and started picturing myself as the cocky funny person I wanted to be. I even did the whole daydream practice thing everyday.

I work at a fitness center so I see lots of hot women all the time.

My biggest weakness is that I look away quickly after eye contact is made.

I decided that before I started trying to approach women I would make it my goal for a couple of weeks to just make eye contact and hold it until they looked away.

Ok, here is the good part. After practicing eye contact for a couple of weeks and doing the whole mental exercise thing, I was at work one day working
out after my break and was practicing my eye contact thing between sets with this really hot girl near the dumbbell rack.

I knew she noticed but it never bothered me cause I had no intentions of acting. Well, I had to go over to get a set of dumbbells for my next exercise and as I got close to where she was, she suddenly turned around and said "I have a boyfriend" and turned around.

Normally I would have just stood there in shock and said nothing but, I guess all that mental practice paid off.

Without even thinking or pausing, the words just came out. I said,

"Hey that's great I am happy for you. (Pause - and in a lower tone) I know this is probably a major accomplishment for you but to the rest a the world this is kind of normal so you might not want to go telling every stranger you see."

Then I just walked off with my weights to do my sets. 5 min later she comes over to me and apologizes and asks for my number.

Turns out she didn't have a boyfriend but was just tired of being picked up by losers while she was trying to do a workout.

Thanks for the pleasant surprise!

KAL"

Niiiiice one.

Your letter is really a wonderful affirmation and summary of some of my favorite concepts:

  1. Read my book, "Double Your Dating"
  2. Actually use the material and mentally rehearse
  3. Start from where you are
  4. Be Cocky & Funny
  5. Show complete indifference
  6. Use illogical Jedi-Level mind power to create ATTRACTION.

I'm going to talk more about eye contact and body language in a moment, but if you'd like to get the ultimate education on how to be Cocky & Funny, then you MUST take a minute and get this.

OK... onward.

First of all, your story would make NO sense at all to most guys. They would say,

"Yeah, whatever. She was probably abused as a child and wants you to be her daddy" or "Well, if I worked at a gym, I could do that too."

Of course, you realize that this had nothing to do with it... this was a result of you learning about how women are, then preparing, and then taking action.

I couldn't be more impressed.

Now, let's talk about some of the things that were happening that most people would MISS when reading the story...

You mentioned your exercise of keeping eye contact until women look away. This is very powerful. I am guilty of not addressing this issue more often and I'm glad you mentioned it here.

If you can learn this skill, it will communicate powerfully for you. Great job.

You said, "I guess all that mental practice paid off. With out even thinking or pausing the words just came out."

This is the result of preparation and mental rehearsal. This wasn't "luck". Even though the words were unique to the situation, the MESSAGE
was delivered clearly.

By learning how to better communicate in the language that women understand, you created magic.

And, as for the words themselves...

You just got to love saying: "Hey that's great. I am happy for you." (Pause - and in a lower tone) "I know this is probably a major accomplishment for you, but to the rest of the world, this is kind of normal. So, you might not want to go telling every stranger you see." to a hot woman at the gym!

You INSTANTLY took a situation that would normally strip a man of all his composure and personal power, and then REFRAMED her words in a
way that caused HER to look like the socially inept one.

Then you did something equally powerful:

YOU WALKED AWAY.

In effect, you busted on her, then PROVED BEYOND THE SHADOW OF A DOUBT THAT YOU COULD TAKE HER OR LEAVE HER.

Actions really do speak louder than words... most guys would have messed up that situation by standing around waiting for her to say something. You did the right thing by walking away.

When you combine all of these factors together, you get a totally illogical outcome:

ATTRACTION.

She realized that you weren't just some other loser who hoped to maybe get a date by kissing up to her... You turned out to be one of the
EXCEPTIONAL men in the world who have more personal power than her, and one of the even MORE exceptional men who also know how to create
ATTRACTION.

This combination made her feel a feeling that you can't create by DECIDING that you want it.

It can only be created by TRIGGERING IT.

Finally, I'd like to comment on the fact that SHE asked YOU for YOUR number. You realize that it's not typical for a woman to approach a man,
apologize, and then ask for his number.

Women will often ask a man for his number just to get rid of him. But not in a situation like this one. This was different.

She apologized, then told you that she's tired of being picked up by losers... then asked for your number. This was, in effect, her telling you that she sees you DIFFERENTLY.

All because of your eye contact, followed by a perfect execution of the Cocky and Funny attitude, followed by an excellent physical demonstration of indifference.

Again, to most men this would make no sense at all. If you consulted most relationship books, they would argue that this type of approach would
NEVER work. I mean, men are supposed to "court" women, compliment them...pursue them with gifts and favors, right?

Yeah, right.

The problem is that the mainstream relationship books forgot to TITLE the chapter that suggests this kind of behavior:

"HOW TO BE THE WUSS WOMEN RUN FROM"

...or...

"HOW TO CONVINCE THE WOMAN YOU DESIRE THAT YOU HAVE NO BACKBONE AND WOULD PAY ANY PRICE FOR HER ATTENTION"

...or...

"SIMPLE TECHNIQUES FOR GIVING A WOMAN YOUR REPRODUCTIVE EQUIPMENT ON A PLATTER".

The question I have for you is...

CAN YOU PUT ASIDE YOUR PRECONCEIVED NOTIONS ABOUT WHY MEN AND WOMEN "SHOULD" BE ATTRACTED TO EACH OTHER LONG ENOUGH TO SEE WHY THEY ACTUALLY ARE ATTRACTED TO EACH OTHER?

And, can you do what it takes to get yourself from where you are, to where you actually need to be, in order to attract the kinds of women that you would like to meet and date?

It can be done, but you're going to have to do it.

As I mentioned above, the first step is to read my online eBook, "Double Your Dating". That's the best head start I can give you.

You'll be reading it within just a few minutes.

And get yourself a copy of my fantastic program "Body Language For Success With Women And Dating".

You will learn the "animal magnetism" secrets that guys who are "naturals" with women use to attract women using COMMUNICATION ALONE.

No looks, money, or gifts required.

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your friend,

David DeAngelo

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  • The simple thing you can do at the end of a conversation with a woman that leaves her eagerly waiting for more… and… gets HER to make the next call – pg. 56
  • How to give a woman that same feeling of “I have to have him” that she gets from a guy who is rich, famous, or good looking… without being any of those things yourself – pg. 12
  • A proven exercise to develop a stone-cold, unshakable inner confidence that allows you to approach a woman in any situation without getting nervous and without fear of rejection – pg. 26
  • How to finally rid yourself FOREVER of those negative “inner demons” that have been sabotaging your success with women your entire life – pg. 28
  • How to pinpoint and strengthen the parts of your personality that make a woman feel attraction for you so you make a lasting impression with every woman you meet – pg. 32
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  • The 19 personality traits that draw a woman to a man like a magnet. Master just 3 or 4 and you’ll have an advantage over most men. Master them all and no woman will be able to say no to you. Here’s how to do it quickly and easily – pgs. 37-40
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  • The right way to respond when a woman complains about something (Handle this awkward situation wrong and you’re dust. Here’s how to calm her down and increase her attraction for you at the same time! I love this one…) – pg. 44
  • Why the so-called dating “experts” are dead wrong in their ridiculous theories of “rapport” – Here’s how you can create a powerful, instant connection with a woman by doing the exact opposite of what these “wannabe gurus” tell you – pgs. 45 & 46
  • The 9 words that make a woman feel totally comfortable coming back to your place… even if it’s the very first time you are together – pg. 87
  • What to do when a woman tries to play “head games” with you that quickly makes her stop and instead focus on impressing you (One of my favorites!) – pg. 46
  • My secret hand holding technique you can use to give a woman “mixed signals” that make her curious and excited about you – pg. 49
  • 3 ways to “tease” a woman that—when used together—build up a powerful “sexual tension” that gives her no choice but to make an aggressive sexual advance towards you – pgs. 49-51
  • The 4 things you absolutely MUST do before having a woman over to your house (Most guys miss this entirely… and end up paying for it when she turns and walks out the door) – pg. 70
  • Most men are not very good at reading female body language. In chapter four I’ll show you how to read body language that most men DON’T EVEN KNOW EXISTS.
  • How to get a woman incredibly turned on in the first 15 minutes she spends at your place… without ever touching her! (This will drive her THROUGH THE ROOF with anticipation… don’t be surprised if SHE makes the first move) – pgs. 87-88
  • How to use your body language to project unshakable confidence and MASCULINE POWER that makes you appear more desirable than any other man in the room (Your friends will never figure out why the women keep coming up to YOU instead of them) – pg. 64
  • An eye contact secret of the “players” you can use to captivate a woman from across the room… even if she catches you by surprise – pg. 65
  • The “big secret” no relationship book will ever tell you about woman’s body language (This will help you advance things with a woman TWICE as fast) – pg. 66
  • Here’s one of my favorites! – How to make a woman believe that it’s her that’s “picking up” on you (I know, this one sounds pretty out there, but I do it ALL THE TIME—and women love it!) and I’ll tell you exactly how I do it on page 71.
  • My proven 10-step formula for meeting women online that you can learn in 5 minutes and start using right away (Don’t be surprised when your friends interrogate you to find out where they are all coming from) – pg. 79
  • A “why didn’t I think of that” way to easily find and meet a woman who is exactly what YOU are looking for – pg. 35
  • A simple psychological secret that makes a woman TWICE as likely to give you her phone number and email address – pg. 81
  • What to say to a woman when she’s writing her phone number down that guarantees she gives you THE REAL DIGITS … and… a number she actually answers – pg 81
  • My proven step-by-step sequence for turning a woman’s phone number into a date… exactly when to call and what to say to GUARANTEE you see her again – pgs. 82-84
  • A psychological secret you can use to guarantee a woman will ALWAYS return your phone calls… and fast – pg. 83
  • The 9-word phrase you can say at the end of a phone conversation that sets you up as the biggest “challenge” she’s had in her entire life! (Don’t be surprised if she tries to seduce you when she sees you in person… seriously) – pg. 84
  • Why women turn to certain men for dinners and dates and other men for sex (Here’s how YOU can turn the tables and always be the one who makes the choice) – pg. 82
  • A strategic move that sets any date off right by putting HER in the position to try to impress YOU – pg. 82
  • Most guys I know don’t know how to get the confidence to meet women. In chapter two, I’ll teach you how to fix your self-image so you can have the confidence to meet women in any situation.
  • And much, much, much more…

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About David DeAngelo:

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David released his first book over ten years ago which changed the dating and attraction world for all the men he helped. He coined the phrase "Attraction Isn't A Choice" which is the first of many books and programs I went through personally as did millions of men in every corner of the world.

His Double Your Dating ebook set up a series of programs that help men in any part of their game they need it in from approaching women, inner game work, all the way to meeting, finding, and entering a relationship with the woman of their dreams.

His advice is unique, ethical, smart, and cleverly intuitive as he progresses from matter-of-fact to counter intuitive techniques and tips he practiced himself first, before ever releasing them to the public.

He and I share many things in common as we both went from practically being a loser with women and dating to marrying the woman of our dreams.

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