Today's topic is SO INCREDIBLY CRITICAL to achieving dating success, I'd talk about it all day if I could.
The topic is simply this:
WAY too many guys confuse what they *THINK* it means to be a "real man" with what it ACTUALLY takes to succeed with women.
To put it another way...
If you're a guy who's still looking for the relationship of his dreams (or maybe hasn't even had much dating success yet) then tell me if any of the following statements apply to you:
A: You feel like there are specific REASONS that you haven't had huge success with women yet -- most of which involve feeling like you're somehow not enough of a "real man."
Okay, so how many of these statements apply to YOU?
If you're like most guys suffering from a lack of passionate, fulfilling experiences with women, I can tell you this:
It's almost GUARANTEED that at least 1 of the above answers applied to you.
But even more interestingly:
There's an EXTREMELY good chance that you would actually answer:
D: ALL OF THE ABOVE.
Like I said...
For more guys than I can count, their beliefs about what it means to be a "real man" are completely FALSE.
As in, total MYTHS.
Tragically, most men make it impossible to get their love lives on track because they accept one or more of these "myths" as an EXCUSE for not succeeding with women.
They let their false beliefs about what it takes to be a "real man" bog them down in both life and love.
They let these false beliefs hold them back.
Worst of all, they let these myths give them a reason to continue ACCEPTING PAIN and FAILURE.
But all of that in mind...
If you're a guy who can't get a handle on what it takes to succeed like a "real man" with women, I need to share some information that you desperately need to hear.
Strap in, here it comes...
The top 3 "Man Myths" that might be keeping YOU from succeeding with the women of your dreams:
Man Myth #1: You Need To Be Good-Looking or Rich To Get A Great Woman.
This myth is like a disease. I wish I could wipe it out with a vaccine or something.
The real FACT is this:
Although most guys may focus on superficial traits like a woman's looks...
WOMEN tend to focus more on "intangible" qualities.
Qualities like personality.
Especially when it comes to intelligent, interesting, attractive women, the "intangible" traits of CONFIDENCE and CONTROL are far more rare and valuable than just looking like Brad Pitt.
But here's the REALLY great news for every guy reading this right now:
Becoming the kind of confident, secure man that ALL women are looking for is actually a LEARNABLE SKILL.
It's something that absolutely ANY guy can do.
It simply takes a commitment to ONE THING:
Working on your "inner game" -- AKA: how you feel about YOURSELF -- in order to turn the ship of your love life around.
"Inner game" is really the entire foundation of how a "real man" acts...
It has NOTHING to do with how loud and obnoxious he can be in public.
It has NOTHING to do with how good he is at "hitting" on women.
It has NOTHING to do with the car he drives, or how much he can bench press.
It has EVERYTHING to do with how he feels about himself on the INSIDE.
If you're having doubts about whether you can become the kind of "real man" who can create unstoppable feelings of attraction in a woman... here's the very first thing that I want you to do:
Do something... anything at ALL... to start improving your INNER GAME.
In other words, get out there and start doing something that makes you feel better about YOURSELF on the *INSIDE*.
What's the easiest way to do it?
I always recommend doing something in your life that takes you outside of your "comfort zone."
Think outside the box about something you've always wanted to do... and START DOING IT.
It sure as hell worked for me.
Start playing ice hockey.
Learn to play chess competitively.
Become a wine aficionado.
Point is, get good at something NEW beyond what you currently do, and you'll quickly start building new, ATTRACTION-BUILDING INNER CONFIDENCE.
If so, you actually can get TONS more simple, life-changing ways to start "evolving" into the "real man" that you were naturally BORN to be right here:
In the meantime, check out:
Man Myth #2: You Need To "Win" A Woman Over.
This one makes me want to bang my head against the wall.
Stop for awhile.
Then start again.
This myth is the one that guys carry around like a ball and chain.
It boils down to the belief that a man can somehow "convince" or "persuade" a woman to feel attraction for them through gifts... favors... expensive dinners... you name it.
But the FACT is this:
At best, doing these things only makes a woman start to feel that "I'll be your friend" kind of love.
At worst, they can make a woman run for the hills because your constant "chasing" is "crowding her," even "creeping her out."
Let me say this another way:
You can only LOSE when you constantly attempt to "win" a woman's attention.
That's why, instead of focusing on how to "win a woman over," I urgently recommend that men focus on one thing, and one thing only:
Standing out from the crowd of all the other guys who are doing it.
By learning to do something that 99% of guys HAVE NO CLUE how to do...
I'm talking about learning how to connect with a woman's EMOTIONS.
Basically, stop worrying about pick-up lines... and start learning how to have a heart-felt CONVERSATION with a woman about her passions and interests in life.
Stop worrying about whether your car is cool enough... and start learning how to recognize what a woman is FEELING.
Stop worrying about having enough cash to take a woman to a fancy restaurant... and start learning how to COMMUNICATE with her in ways that she knows so that you can UNDERSTAND those feelings.
Do just that much, and you'll NEVER make the mistake of trying to "win a woman over" again... It will happen AUTOMATICALLY because you suddenly STAND OUT FROM THE CROWD just by what you say and do.
Man Myth #3: When Things Aren't Working Out, It's All YOUR Fault.
Okay... deep breath... this one really gets me...
In my line of work, I meet a LOT of guys who have challenges with dating and building relationships with women.
And one of the first things I notice is that almost every one of these guys blames HIMSELF.
In other words, when things don't work out, he always thinks it's ALL HIS FAULT.
But the FACT is this...
There's just no way to get around it. It's a law of nature: women come "pre-wired" with an internal idea of what comprises a desirable mate.
It's a set of EMOTIONAL TRIGGERS that spark the first feelings of "attraction" in a woman and compel her to want to be with a particular man.
And, harsh reality is, If you don't match up with this "internal template," you're dead in the water.
It's natural. No blame necessary.
Now... this fact can either work AGAINST you -- or you can make it work FOR you.
And you know you're old pal Dave... I love harnessing the power of how things NATURALLY work between women and men to CREATE MIND-BLOWING DATING SUCCESS.
But the problem is this:
MOST men have no idea that this natural mechanism even exists in women... let alone how to trigger it.
So, when a man has little or no success with women, obviously the first thing I do is point this mechanism out to him.
The second thing I do is tell him to stop "blaming" himself -- and start learning what actually WORKS and USE IT to his advantage.
Learn how to connect with a woman in ways that make you MATCH HER HARD-WIRED, PRE-EXISTING IDEA OF "MR. RIGHT", and it's 100%-GUARANTEED:
Women will begin responding to you like they're under a magic spell or something!
Believe me -- if you've never had women practically tripping over themselves to be with you, it'll BLOW YOUR MIND.
But okay... right about now, you're asking how to actually DO it.
How do you start SAYING and DOING all the things that make sure you "match" with a woman's idea of "Mr. Right"... and drive her insane with WANTING YOU because of it?
If you feel like there's an "invisible barrier" preventing you from finding and dating the kind of women you want, you need to get it through your head right now:
None of these "Man Myths" are to blame, so leave them behind NOW, and start focusing on THE FACTS.
Take the time to learn what it REALLY takes to meet and get dates with the women of YOUR dreams... and watch your whole life start CHANGING in ways you never thought possible.
Once it finally happens, I can guarantee you this:
You'll kick yourself for wasting so much time!
SO GET STARTED NOW...
And, once you do, be sure to keep me posted how it's going.
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Here’s a sample of some of the great things you’ll learn:
- I’ve tried every “pick-up line” in the book, and I found out something that I didn’t expect in a million years. In chapter six I’ll explain to you why most “pick up lines” cause you to lose before you begin, and what to do instead.
- The simple thing you can do at the end of a conversation with a woman that leaves her eagerly waiting for more… and… gets HER to make the next call – pg. 56
- How to give a woman that same feeling of “I have to have him” that she gets from a guy who is rich, famous, or good looking… without being any of those things yourself – pg. 12
- The thing almost all men do to try to keep a woman interested that actually repels her twice as fast… and often drives her into the arms of another man – pg. 14
- A proven exercise to develop a stone-cold, unshakable inner confidence that allows you to approach a woman in any situation without getting nervous and without fear of rejection – pg. 26
- A psychological tactic “regular” guys can use to make a woman ALWAYS choose them over a guy who is better looking or makes more money – pg. 15
- 7 things you can you do to dramatically improve your physical appearance OVERNIGHT (The best part is they cost very little in time or money… yet they double the chances of a woman responding positively to you) – pgs. 23 & 24
- The “mixed signal” women give in the bedroom that throws off 99% of all men… leaving her unsatisfied. Here’s what to do instead. (Hint: It’s not what she says, but what she DOES that matters) – pg. 61
- How to finally rid yourself FOREVER of those negative “inner demons” that have been sabotaging your success with women your entire life – pg. 28
- You know that “choked up” feeling you get in your stomach when you see a beautiful woman you want to meet? Here’s a simple exercise you can use “in the field “ to INSTANTLY eliminate all feelings of nervousness and charge yourself with confidence… right there on the spot – pg. 29
- The 6 things inexperienced guys do that instantly tell a woman they are NEEDY and INSECURE… and ruins their chances with her forever (Here’s what to do instead) – pg. 33
- I read all the books, went to the seminars, and tried everything. It wasn’t until I did THIS ONE THING that it all started to happen for me. On page 29 I’ll share the single most powerful thing you can do to become more successful at attracting women, and why almost no men do it.
- How to find and meet the guys who are the true masters with women and dating and get them to share their closely guarded secrets with you – pg. 30
- How to pinpoint and strengthen the parts of your personality that make a woman feel attraction for you so you make a lasting impression with every woman you meet – pg. 32
- 5 things you can do in the crucial first 10 minutes with a woman that instantly let her know you’re “in her league” (When she realizes you’re a “rare catch” she’ll do whatever she can to impress you) – pg. 45
- The deadly mistake too many men make when trying to sleep with a woman that all but guarantees they end up in “the friend zone” (If you only read one thing in this book, make sure it’s this) – pg. 34
- What you must do if you want to keep a woman interested in you FOREVER (This is THE KEY to having a long-term relationship with a woman… miss just this one thing and she’ll be on to the next guy before you know it) – pg. 89
- The 19 personality traits that draw a woman to a man like a magnet. Master just 3 or 4 and you’ll have an advantage over most men. Master them all and no woman will be able to say no to you. Here’s how to do it quickly and easily – pgs. 37-40
- “The Flake Test” – A simple tactic to use when setting up a date that cuts the chances of a woman “standing you up” down to ZERO – pg. 83
- How and why women TEST men… plus… a fantastic way to effortlessly pass every test she throws at you… even if you have NO IDEA that you are being tested! (The best part is she’ll become MORE attracted to you each time, because you’ll be earning her respect instead of losing it) – pg. 43
- The 4 laws of “unpredictability” and “excitement” – What “bad boys” do to give a woman that addictive rush of adrenaline that keeps her coming back for more (Follow these 4 simple rules and you’ll never have to worry about her losing interest in you… or losing her to another man) – pg. 43
- You can use the internet to meet women just like you’ve used the internet to find this site. In chapter seven, I’ll show you the EASY way to meet more women—right from the comfort of your home.
- The right way to respond when a woman complains about something (Handle this awkward situation wrong and you’re dust. Here’s how to calm her down and increase her attraction for you at the same time! I love this one…) – pg. 44
- Why the so-called dating “experts” are dead wrong in their ridiculous theories of “rapport” – Here’s how you can create a powerful, instant connection with a woman by doing the exact opposite of what these “wannabe gurus” tell you – pgs. 45 & 46
- The 9 words that make a woman feel totally comfortable coming back to your place… even if it’s the very first time you are together – pg. 87
- What to do when a w0man tries to play “head games” with you that quickly makes her stop and instead focus on impressing you (One of my favorites!) – pg. 46
- My secret hand holding technique you can use to give a woman “mixed signals” that make her curious and excited about you – pg. 49
- 3 ways to “tease” a woman that—when used together—build up a powerful “sexual tension” that gives her no choice but to make an aggressive sexual advance towards you – pgs. 49-51
- The 4 things you absolutely MUST do before having a woman over to your house (Most guys miss this entirely… and end up paying for it when she turns and walks out the door) – pg. 70
- A fantastic way to strike up a conversation with a woman in a bar or a nightclub that works EVERY TIME – pg. 53
- The REAL reason why many women are addicted to drama (soap operas, romance novels, and of course, playing games with men) and how you can use this to make her positively addicted to YOU from the moment you meet – pg. 11
- A simple, 7-part mini course that takes you by the hand and shows you step-by-step how to develop an amazing sense of humor FAST… even if you’ve always been the last guy to get a joke – pgs. 53-55
- Most men are not very good at reading female body language. In chapter four I’ll show you how to read body language that most men DON’T EVEN KNOW EXISTS.
- How to turn the tables on a woman who is playing “head games” with you and use those same games to make HER want you more! (And the best part is that women LOVE when you do this) – pg. 56
- How to get a woman incredibly turned on in the first 15 minutes she spends at your place… without ever touching her! (This will drive her THROUGH THE ROOF with anticipation… don’t be surprised if SHE makes the first move) – pgs. 87-88
- Why most guys actually shoot themselves in the foot when they compliment a woman… Here’s the crucial thing you need to do differently if you want to get results – pg. 58
- How to use your body language to project unshakable confidence and MASCULINE POWER that makes you appear more desirable than any other man in the room (Your friends will never figure out why the women keep coming up to YOU instead of them) – pg. 64
- An eye contact secret of the “players” you can use to captivate a woman from across the room… even if she catches you by surprise – pg. 65
- The “big secret” no relationship book will ever tell you about woman’s body language (This will help you advance things with a woman TWICE as fast) – pg. 66
- Here’s one of my favorites! – How to make a woman believe that it’s her that’s “picking up” on you (I know, this one sounds pretty out there, but I do it ALL THE TIME—and women love it!) and I’ll tell you exactly how I do it on page 71.
- My special secret to turning any phone conversation with a woman into as steamy erotic encounter that makes her want to hang up the receiver… and run straight over to your house! – pg. 67
- A simple phrase you can say to a woman that makes her see you as a “psychic powerhouse” who knows every little thing about her… and more importantly… how to please her – pg. 11
- How to use chivalry to sweep a woman off her feet (This is the one secret women wish all men knew… but unfortunately it can’t be found anywhere else) – pg. 72
- My favorite “never fail” way to start a conversation with a woman that works EVEN BETTER on very attractive women (The best part is it gets HER doing the talking… while you just sit back and listen) – pg. 77
- My proven 10-step formula for meeting women online that you can learn in 5 minutes and start using right away (Don’t be surprised when your friends interrogate you to find out where they are all coming from) – pg. 79
- A “why didn’t I think of that” way to easily find and meet a woman who is exactly what YOU are looking for – pg. 35
- A simple psychological secret that makes a woman TWICE as likely to give you her phone number and email address – pg. 81
- What to say to a woman when she’s writing her phone number down that guarantees she gives you THE REAL DIGITS … and… a number she actually answers – pg 81
- My proven step-by-step sequence for turning a woman’s phone number into a date… exactly when to call and what to say to GUARANTEE you see her again – pgs. 82-84
- On page 21 I’ll explain how to dress and groom yourself (inexpensively) to attract the woman or women that you want – I even give you specific clothing and cologne recommendations.
- A psychological secret you can use to guarantee a woman will ALWAYS return your phone calls… and fast – pg. 83
- The 9-word phrase you can say at the end of a phone conversation that sets you up as the biggest “challenge” she’s had in her entire life! (Don’t be surprised if she tries to seduce you when she sees you in person… seriously) – pg. 84
- Why women turn to certain men for dinners and dates and other men for sex (Here’s how YOU can turn the tables and always be the one who makes the choice) – pg. 82
- A strategic move that sets any date off right by putting HER in the position to try to impress YOU – pg. 82
- Most guys I know don’t know how to get the confidence to meet women. In chapter two, I’ll teach you how to fix your self-image so you can have the confidence to meet women in any situation.
- What to say when a woman asks you a “loaded” question to smoothly and easily avoid it altogether – pg. 62
- Everyone knows that women love men who make them laugh. Would you believe that I took the time to study comedy so I could attract women? In chapter four, I’ll tell you exactly how to become funnier— and I even give you a set of exact lines to use during conversation to make women laugh hysterically – pg. 50
- My 10-step first date “formula” that GUARANTEES a great time (Most guys mess this up and never end up seeing the girl again… Use this strategy to build her interest to the point where SHE is the one calling YOU because she can’t wait to see you again) – pgs. 85 & 86
- 10 years of studying psychology and behavior has taught me a lot about people. In chapter one, I’ll give you a specific map of the female mind and how women think, so you can know exactly what you’re dealing with.
- Would you like to know how to attract beautiful women without the benefit of looks or money? I thought so. Starting on page 29, I go into detail and explain exactly how to do it.
- 3 ways “bad boys” use the power of “mixed messages” to drive a woman wild with curiosity and excitement – pg. 58
- I’ll also teach you all of the basics of how to deal with women, from the first conversation to the bedroom (This is important, as most men have at least ONE area that they’re weak in… I explain it all)
- And much, much, much more…
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About David DeAngelo:
David released his first book over ten years ago which changed the dating and attraction world for all the men he helped. He coined the phrase "Attraction Isn't A Choice" which is the first of many books and programs I went through personally as did millions of men in every corner of the world.
His Double Your Dating ebook set up a series of programs that help men in any part of their game they need it in from approaching women, inner game work, all the way to meeting, finding, and entering a relationship with the woman of their dreams.
His advice is unique, ethical, smart, and cleverly intuitive as he progresses from matter-of-fact to counter intuitive techniques and tips he practiced himself first, before ever releasing them to the public.
He and I share many things in common as we both went from practically being a loser with women and dating to marrying the woman of our dreams.
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