Written by David DeAngelo - creator of Double Your Dating.
If you'd like to learn more about this secret "language of attraction" that all women speak... but most men don't... then take a minute and read this right now.
Have you ever wondered why women you see out at bars and nightclubs (and even at malls and restaurants) sometimes dress so SEXY?
It's an interesting question.
I mean, let's think about it from the woman's perspective...
An attractive woman gets attention from men all the time... no matter WHAT she's wearing.
Attractive women don't have to "accent" their beauty in order to attract men.
And the question becomes VERY interesting when you consider that often it's the most BEAUTIFUL women that go to the GREATEST lengths to enhance their beauty.
You know what I mean...
A perfectly beautiful woman gets an expensive operation to make herself "one cup size" larger...
A tall, stunning model spends all day at the mall shopping for just the right high-heeled shoes...
A naturally beautiful woman spends hours in front of the mirror getting ready to go out... and puts on tons of makeup...
AND FOR WHAT?
Could it possibly be worth all the extra time and effort... spending HOURS and HOURS to get that "extra little bit" of beauty, when a woman already has "more than enough"?
Hey, no one ever said women made SENSE.
(Don't get too excited. Men have their strange points as well.)
Let me tell you about a few of the reasons why women go to these lengths to squeeze that "extra little bit" out of their beauty...
1. To Maximize Her Strengths In Order To Attract The Best Man.
Let's turn this picture around, and look at it from another direction.
Let's imagine that an attractive woman is getting ready to go to a party.
There are going to be a hundred men and a hundred women at this party (I know, I know... you think that I must be smoking something... because most parties have 100 men and 10 women... and resemble the sausage counter at your local market... but humor me here for a second).
If there are going to be a hundred men at this party, it follows that a few of those men are going to be the "best" ones.
Do you think this particular woman is going to want to settle for one of the "random sausages" running around?
Nope.
She wants the "best" one... if possible.
And that guy has OPTIONS.
Soooo... she needs to "fix herself up", EVEN THOUGH SHE'S ALREADY BEAUTIFUL... if she wants to have the BEST chance of getting THAT guy.
2. Competition From Other Women.
This particular idea was one of the most interesting and surprising things I learned about women while I was educating myself about dating and attraction.
Here's the deal:
Attractive women tend to be VERY, VERY competitive.
A few years ago, when I first moved to Los Angeles, I was introduced to a concept called "The Bitch Look".
Sounds charming, doesn't it?
Here's how it works...
When a "hot" woman walks into a room, EVERYONE checks her out.
The "sausage" looks her up and down with a "let me get a really good look because I'll be using her as a spank-it fantasy later" stare.
The "top guys", who have options, glance at her and make a "mental note" to talk to her later.
The OTHER hot women look at her and give her... yep, you guessed it....THE BITCH LOOK.
Why?
Because another hot woman is instantly seen as COMPETITION.
A hot woman doesn't want OTHER hot women competing with her for the "best guys".
So they give other women "bitch looks".
It's competition, intimidation, and millions of years of evolution all rolled up into one special package.
(Think about this for a minute, because there's a clue here about how to attract the MOST attractive women. I'll reveal the secret later...)
So let's just say that attractive women DON'T LIKE COMPETITION.
In order to MINIMIZE their competition, they FIX THEMSELVES UP... and emphasize their good points TO THE MAX.
When an already-beautiful woman goes to the trouble to pick out just the right clothes... the ones that flatter her figure... and put on just the right makeup... in a way that draws attention to her finer points... and styles her hair... in a way that draws attention to her and frames her face...
...it puts her ABOVE the competition.
3. To Get The Most Attention And Approval.
Now that we've talked about a couple of the underlying reasons why women go to great lengths to make themselves more beautiful, I want to talk about the one reason that has the most VALUE to you...
This reason holds the secret of actually ATTRACTING beautiful women.
But let's not get ahead of ourselves just yet...
At the very CORE of human psychology and behavior are the twin concepts of ATTENTION and APPROVAL.
Some evolutionary theorists think that the basic formula goes like this:
If you get more attention from others, and those others like you more, then you and your offspring are more likely to survive and pass on your genes to future generations.
Is this making sense?
Think about it this way:
If others of your species DON'T like you and don't give you any attention, you are going to have a hard time finding a mate... and reproducing.
And if others don't like you, then you aren't going to have the benefits that come from the group... like protection, combined effort, etc.
It just so happens that an attractive woman has a SUBCONSCIOUS (but VERY accurate) indicator of whether or not "the group" likes and approves of her...
It's the amount of ATTENTION she gets.
If a woman is getting a lot of attention, it keeps her feeling "OK". She knows, on a deep, primal level that she's accepted by the group... and that she's going to stay healthy and have a good chance of mating with a "top male".
But this particular concept has a DARK SIDE to it... and don't they all?
Just like anything else that triggers feelings/emotions (very addictive chemicals), attention and approval can lead to a literal ADDICTION.
It's like money, fame, power...all the famous ones... YOU CAN'T GET ENOUGH.
And here's another VERY interesting point:
If you're a beautiful woman who is always getting attention and approval from men and you meet a man who DOESN'T give you that attention and approval, it has an INSTANT and POWERFUL impact.
Furthermore, if the man you're interacting with actively AVOIDS giving you attention... and gives you DISAPPROVAL, it can have the effect of instantly SCRAMBLING YOUR SYSTEMS.
Again, attractive women don't meet a lot of guys that could care less about her beauty... and instead see it as a "cover up" for some "hidden" thing...
Which leads me to the "secret" I mentioned earlier...
If you want to learn how to ATTRACT these "unusually beautiful" women, then you need to get a clue about what creates the idea in her mind that YOU are one of the most "desirable" men.
And how can you do that?
Oh, by the way, before I give you the secret here, I want to mention something:
If you want to REALLY get an "insider education" on the deeper psychology of attracting women and on how to build a powerful SEXUAL PRESENCE, then I highly recommend that you check out my "Power Sexuality" program.
This is like ROCKET FUEL for creating CHEMISTRY with attractive women and you can only get it in one place.
1) Become rich and famous
or
2) Get plastic surgery to look like Brad Pitt
or
3) Trigger ATTRACTION inside of her.
Here's the interesting thing about triggering ATTRACTION:
When you do it, she can't CONTROL it.
If a woman starts feeling ATTRACTION for you, I'll guarantee you that she didn't "THINK about it and DECIDE to feel it".
And I guarantee you that she can't CHANGE IT by THINKING ABOUT IT.
And guess what one of the BEST ways is to TRIGGER this "automatic and subconscious" physical and emotional response called attraction IS?
Here's a hint:
It has something to do with these two concepts we've been talking about... ATTENTION and APPROVAL.
If you're interacting with an unusually attractive woman, it's VERY important that you don't communicate to her that you are "overwhelmed by her beauty"... or that you can't control yourself.
Furthermore, if you actively control the amount of attention that you give her... and you don't show her "approval" too quickly (and even show her some DISAPPROVAL)... you'll often create a POWERFUL interest inside of her.
Why is this?
Well, think about it for a minute.
You're the hot woman walking into the "sausage party".
For the first two hours, you keep having guys walk up to you and say, "You're really hot" and "Can I get you a drink?"
Every guy that comes within ten feet of you can't stop looking at you, and the ones that talk to you make it clear that they would be willing to do anything for you...
And then you meet a guy that isn't like any of these other guys AT ALL.
He's clearly not impressed with your beauty, and he's even busting your balls...
You can't tell if he likes you or not, and you feel CHALLENGED by him.
How are you going to respond?
Let's add another element...
For some reason you can't explain, you're starting to feel a GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for him.
NOW what do you do?
That's right:
You give him all of YOUR attention and approval... hoping that he will give YOU some in return.
In other words, you switch from the one being pursued to the one DOING the pursuing.
And so the question is...HOW?
How do you create this situation, and communicate these things to an attractive woman?
How do you do it in such a way that it creates ATTRACTION...and gets her to start pursuing YOU?
I've given you a lot of good ideas here.
They will get you started.
But, if you'd REALLY like to learn how to take control of "attention and approval" and turn them into TOOLS that you can use to attract those "unusually beautiful" women, then I'd like to recommend that you invest in my Cocky Comedy online video program.
It has taken me many years of time, effort, and energy to really "get" how to use a "personality based approach" to attract beautiful women.
If you've been reading these newsletters for any length of time, then you understand just how important the "Cocky & Funny" technique is for attracting women.
You may have even used it, and found that it gets a VERY different kind of response from women than "normal conversation".
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This program is not only comprehensive, but it's COMPLETELY different from anything else available anywhere.
It's a concept that I've pioneered, and it's only available here.
Your friend,
David DeAngelo
Cocky Comedy
Have you ever noticed that "funny guys" tend to fall into two categories?
1) Dorky Funny - The type of guy that a woman laughs AT (not WITH).
2) Confident Funny - The type of guy that not only makes women laugh, but makes women laugh in a way that ATTRACTS them.
So what's the DIFFERENCE between these two types of guys?
Why is it that women find some guys "dorky" even though they're LAUGHING?
What causes that "key difference"... where a woman is laughing WITH you and not AT you?
More importantly, how can you actually USE humor to create ATTRACTION?
David DeAngelo has developed a technique that he calls "Cocky & Funny"... and it is like MAGIC when it comes to creating a powerful attraction with women.
He has have gotten so many questions about how to use this technique, that he actually took the time to create an entire video program on the topic.
He calls the program "Cocky Comedy" - and it's the most powerful education available on how to use humor to create attraction.
Did you know that MOST laughter is NOT in response to something that's funny?
It's true.
Think about most of the things that people laugh at... things like the weather... or like a common experience... or a million other things... NONE of which are FUNNY.
Laughter is not about humor. Not USUALLY, at least.
Laughter is about TENSION and RELEASING tension.
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About David DeAngelo:
David released his first book over ten years ago which changed the dating and attraction world for all the men he helped. He coined the phrase "Attraction Isn't A Choice" which is the first of many books and programs I went through personally as did millions of men in every corner of the world.
His Double Your Dating ebook set up a series of programs that help men in any part of their game they need it in from approaching women, inner game work, all the way to meeting, finding, and entering a relationship with the woman of their dreams.
His advice is unique, ethical, smart, and cleverly intuitive as he progresses from matter-of-fact to counter intuitive techniques and tips he practiced himself first, before ever releasing them to the public.
He and I share many things in common as we both went from practically being a loser with women and dating to marrying the woman of our dreams.
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Here’s a sample of some of the great things you’ll learn:
- The simple thing you can do at the end of a conversation with a woman that leaves her eagerly waiting for more… and… gets HER to make the next call – pg. 56
- How to give a woman that same feeling of “I have to have him” that she gets from a guy who is rich, famous, or good looking… without being any of those things yourself – pg. 12
- 7 things you can you do to dramatically improve your physical appearance OVERNIGHT (The best part is they cost very little in time or money… yet they double the chances of a woman responding positively to you) – pgs. 23 & 24
- How to pinpoint and strengthen the parts of your personality that make a woman feel attraction for you so you make a lasting impression with every woman you meet – pg. 32
- 5 things you can do in the crucial first 10 minutes with a woman that instantly let her know you’re “in her league” (When she realizes you’re a “rare catch” she’ll do whatever she can to impress you) – pg. 45
- What you must do if you want to keep a woman interested in you FOREVER (This is THE KEY to having a long-term relationship with a woman… miss just this one thing and she’ll be on to the next guy before you know it) – pg. 89
- “The Flake Test” – A simple tactic to use when setting up a date that cuts the chances of a woman “standing you up” down to ZERO – pg. 83
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- Why the so-called dating “experts” are dead wrong in their ridiculous theories of “rapport” – Here’s how you can create a powerful, instant connection with a woman by doing the exact opposite of what these “wannabe gurus” tell you – pgs. 45 & 46
- The 9 words that make a woman feel totally comfortable coming back to your place… even if it’s the very first time you are together – pg. 87
- How to turn the tables on a woman who is playing “head games” with you and use those same games to make HER want you more! (And the best part is that women LOVE when you do this) – pg. 56
- How to get a woman incredibly turned on in the first 15 minutes she spends at your place… without ever touching her! (This will drive her THROUGH THE ROOF with anticipation… don’t be surprised if SHE makes the first move) – pgs. 87-88
- How to use chivalry to sweep a woman off her feet (This is the one secret women wish all men knew… but unfortunately it can’t be found anywhere else) – pg. 72
- 10 years of studying psychology and behavior has taught me a lot about people. In chapter one, I’ll give you a specific map of the female mind and how women think, so you can know exactly what you’re dealing with.
- And much, much, much more…
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And by the way, guys, WOMEN OF ALL AGES LOVE THIS STUFF.
It doesn't skew towards ANY type of women.
I used to flirt with every woman I met... of every age.
They ALL loved it.
And I get emails from guys of all ages who use this stuff to meet women of all ages... with HUGE RESULTS.
Now, to be fair, from time to time I do get an email from someone who says "It sounds to me like you're suggesting to men that they act like jerks", etc.
What does this tell me?
It tells me that guys like that are just not familiar with David's materials, and they just don't get it.
This isn't about making women feel BAD...
It's about making them feel GOOD!
Using tools like attention or attention getting techniques, or techniques to disarm a woman a little bit so you can get past her barriers are not ever designed to bring a woman harm.
Use these techniques to get her attention and start the process of getting to know her.
It may be the best thing that you will ever do for both you AND her.
Photo Credit:
Image of women at club, taking selfie, and dressed up by Martin Lopez.
