I've said it a bazillion times... great women don't see a man as potential "relationship material" based on his looks, money, or cheesy pick-up lines.
More specifically, the 4 unmistakable, magnetic signals that confident men send a woman the moment they meet her.
Naturally, a man doesn't need to show them all to get the attention of a great woman but if he manages to show her just a few, chances drastically increase that she'll start "feeling it" for him.
So, without further delay, here come the...
4 Sure Signs of Confidence That Every Great Woman Looks For In A Man
#1- An "Easy-Going" Attitude
Listen... "easy-going" does NOT mean being so laid back when you first meet a woman that you're practically asleep.
It also doesn't mean putting up with any kind of rude or inappropriate behavior.
It means handling the opinions, pressures, and attitudes of others with grace, and coming across as comfortable in your own skin.
Even your body language communicates it... a confident man will literally, physically "lay back," leaning back while keeping his body open and facing forward when conversing.
A confident "real man" also doesn't obsess about what other people think or do.
He doesn't take it as an insult if someone doesn't like him, or disagrees with him.
Above all, he isn't needy, clingy, and always trying to be the center of attention.
Basically, this "easy-going" attitude signals a woman that a man is the leader of his own life... everyone else do what they may.
#2 - He's "Put Together"
It's true, a woman will never decide that a man might be "Mr. Right" just because he looks like Brad Pitt... but rest assured she'll INSTANTLY RULE HIM OUT if he doesn't look "right"... caring about himself enough to attend to the basics of appearance which communicate a positive, healthy self-image.
Again, this doesn't mean that a man has to buy trendy clothes... wear a "scent"... or look like an obsessive gym rat.
It DOES mean that he needs to master the basics of good grooming and hygiene. Because, if a man doesn't have it together enough to attend to his own needs, a quality woman knows right away that there's NO WAY he can possibly attend to hers.
By the way... this also means being savvy enough to avoid "extremes" in appearance.
When first meeting a woman, I recommend dressing neutrally and neatly, neither coming across as a stuffy "suit" or a sandal hound.
Coming across as "put together" means communicating confidence about who you are on the INSIDE as well.
You can do it by being able to carry on an interesting conversation about music... food... culture... whatever.
Becoming a good conversationalist is a sure sign that you have it all together... that you're in a healthy, curious, CONFIDENT state of mind.
#3 - He's Humble
This is a big one...
Like I always say, any "jerk" can act cocky with a woman... but coming across as CONFIDENT requires something else: the ability to control what you say and do so that you never come across as "above" anyone else.
Sure, a man can act cocky... as long as he's makes sure that it's FUNNY (since arrogance without humor equals "jerk" every time).
A truly confident man makes fun of HIMSELF above all others, and never "nitpicks" or tries to hurt another person's feelings.
For example, it's okay to look across the room at some other guy and say something cocky like,
"Look at that guy's facial hair... I think 1975 wants it back."
But ONLY if he's HUMBLE enough to add a comment like,
"Believe me, I know... mine was just like it."
#4 - He Has A Sense of Humor
File this one under "No-Brainer"... a great sense of humor is the most instant, obvious, magnetic force that makes a woman sense a man's CONFIDENCE... and therefore feel the first sparks of ATTRACTION for him.
That's why I suggest that guys do whatever they can to cultivate a "comic sensibility", even it means just reading a few books about the theory and structure of comedy and timing.
I also recommend checking out cutting-edge humor sites like "Funny Or Die" and "The Onion," or just watching Saturday Night live to understand what's hip and funny TODAY... because it's all guaranteed to change and become "lame" TOMORROW.
Add it all up, and the message is clear:
While most men waste time trying to impress women by acting "tough" or "dominant,"... the signs of confidence great women look for are much more subtle... and MUCH more easily achieved.
By focusing on "broadcasting" the four TRUE signs of magnetic "real-man" confidence...
The kind of women you want to meet will start sensing that YOU just might be "Mr. Right."
Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know On How To Be Successful With Women
Here’s a sample of some of the great things you’ll learn:
- I’ve tried every “pick-up line” in the book, and I found out something that I didn’t expect in a million years. In chapter six I’ll explain to you why most “pick up lines” cause you to lose before you begin, and what to do instead.
- The simple thing you can do at the end of a conversation with a woman that leaves her eagerly waiting for more… and… gets HER to make the next call – pg. 56
- How to give a woman that same feeling of “I have to have him” that she gets from a guy who is rich, famous, or good looking… without being any of those things yourself – pg. 12
- The thing almost all men do to try to keep a woman interested that actually repels her twice as fast… and often drives her into the arms of another man – pg. 14
- A proven exercise to develop a stone-cold, unshakable inner confidence that allows you to approach a woman in any situation without getting nervous and without fear of rejection – pg. 26
- A psychological tactic “regular” guys can use to make a woman ALWAYS choose them over a guy who is better looking or makes more money – pg. 15
- 7 things you can you do to dramatically improve your physical appearance OVERNIGHT (The best part is they cost very little in time or money… yet they double the chances of a woman responding positively to you) – pgs. 23 & 24
- The “mixed signal” women give in the bedroom that throws off 99% of all men… leaving her unsatisfied. Here’s what to do instead. (Hint: It’s not what she says, but what she DOES that matters) – pg. 61
- How to finally rid yourself FOREVER of those negative “inner demons” that have been sabotaging your success with women your entire life – pg. 28
- You know that “choked up” feeling you get in your stomach when you see a beautiful woman you want to meet? Here’s a simple exercise you can use “in the field “ to INSTANTLY eliminate all feelings of nervousness and charge yourself with confidence… right there on the spot – pg. 29
- The 6 things inexperienced guys do that instantly tell a woman they are NEEDY and INSECURE… and ruins their chances with her forever (Here’s what to do instead) – pg. 33
- I read all the books, went to the seminars, and tried everything. It wasn’t until I did THIS ONE THING that it all started to happen for me. On page 29 I’ll share the single most powerful thing you can do to become more successful at attracting women, and why almost no men do it.
- How to find and meet the guys who are the true masters with women and dating and get them to share their closely guarded secrets with you – pg. 30
- How to pinpoint and strengthen the parts of your personality that make a woman feel attraction for you so you make a lasting impression with every woman you meet – pg. 32
- 5 things you can do in the crucial first 10 minutes with a woman that instantly let her know you’re “in her league” (When she realizes you’re a “rare catch” she’ll do whatever she can to impress you) – pg. 45
- The deadly mistake too many men make when trying to sleep with a woman that all but guarantees they end up in “the friend zone” (If you only read one thing in this book, make sure it’s this) – pg. 34
- What you must do if you want to keep a woman interested in you FOREVER (This is THE KEY to having a long-term relationship with a woman… miss just this one thing and she’ll be on to the next guy before you know it) – pg. 89
- The 19 personality traits that draw a woman to a man like a magnet. Master just 3 or 4 and you’ll have an advantage over most men. Master them all and no woman will be able to say no to you. Here’s how to do it quickly and easily – pgs. 37-40
- “The Flake Test” – A simple tactic to use when setting up a date that cuts the chances of a woman “standing you up” down to ZERO – pg. 83
- How and why women TEST men… plus… a fantastic way to effortlessly pass every test she throws at you… even if you have NO IDEA that you are being tested! (The best part is she’ll become MORE attracted to you each time, because you’ll be earning her respect instead of losing it) – pg. 43
- The 4 laws of “unpredictability” and “excitement” – What “bad boys” do to give a woman that addictive rush of adrenaline that keeps her coming back for more (Follow these 4 simple rules and you’ll never have to worry about her losing interest in you… or losing her to another man) – pg. 43
- You can use the internet to meet women just like you’ve used the internet to find this site. In chapter seven, I’ll show you the EASY way to meet more women—right from the comfort of your home.
- The right way to respond when a woman complains about something (Handle this awkward situation wrong and you’re dust. Here’s how to calm her down and increase her attraction for you at the same time! I love this one…) – pg. 44
- Why the so-called dating “experts” are dead wrong in their ridiculous theories of “rapport” – Here’s how you can create a powerful, instant connection with a woman by doing the exact opposite of what these “wannabe gurus” tell you – pgs. 45 & 46
- The 9 words that make a woman feel totally comfortable coming back to your place… even if it’s the very first time you are together – pg. 87
- What to do when a w0man tries to play “head games” with you that quickly makes her stop and instead focus on impressing you (One of my favorites!) – pg. 46
- My secret hand holding technique you can use to give a woman “mixed signals” that make her curious and excited about you – pg. 49
- 3 ways to “tease” a woman that—when used together—build up a powerful “sexual tension” that gives her no choice but to make an aggressive sexual advance towards you – pgs. 49-51
- The 4 things you absolutely MUST do before having a woman over to your house (Most guys miss this entirely… and end up paying for it when she turns and walks out the door) – pg. 70
- A fantastic way to strike up a conversation with a woman in a bar or a nightclub that works EVERY TIME – pg. 53
- The REAL reason why many women are addicted to drama (soap operas, romance novels, and of course, playing games with men) and how you can use this to make her positively addicted to YOU from the moment you meet – pg. 11
- A simple, 7-part mini course that takes you by the hand and shows you step-by-step how to develop an amazing sense of humor FAST… even if you’ve always been the last guy to get a joke – pgs. 53-55
- Most men are not very good at reading female body language. In chapter four I’ll show you how to read body language that most men DON’T EVEN KNOW EXISTS.
- How to turn the tables on a woman who is playing “head games” with you and use those same games to make HER want you more! (And the best part is that women LOVE when you do this) – pg. 56
- How to get a woman incredibly turned on in the first 15 minutes she spends at your place… without ever touching her! (This will drive her THROUGH THE ROOF with anticipation… don’t be surprised if SHE makes the first move) – pgs. 87-88
- Why most guys actually shoot themselves in the foot when they compliment a woman… Here’s the crucial thing you need to do differently if you want to get results – pg. 58
- How to use your body language to project unshakable confidence and MASCULINE POWER that makes you appear more desirable than any other man in the room (Your friends will never figure out why the women keep coming up to YOU instead of them) – pg. 64
- An eye contact secret of the “players” you can use to captivate a woman from across the room… even if she catches you by surprise – pg. 65
- The “big secret” no relationship book will ever tell you about woman’s body language (This will help you advance things with a woman TWICE as fast) – pg. 66
- Here’s one of my favorites! – How to make a woman believe that it’s her that’s “picking up” on you (I know, this one sounds pretty out there, but I do it ALL THE TIME—and women love it!) and I’ll tell you exactly how I do it on page 71.
- My special secret to turning any phone conversation with a woman into as steamy erotic encounter that makes her want to hang up the receiver… and run straight over to your house! – pg. 67
- A simple phrase you can say to a woman that makes her see you as a “psychic powerhouse” who knows every little thing about her… and more importantly… how to please her – pg. 11
- How to use chivalry to sweep a woman off her feet (This is the one secret women wish all men knew… but unfortunately it can’t be found anywhere else) – pg. 72
- My favorite “never fail” way to start a conversation with a woman that works EVEN BETTER on very attractive women (The best part is it gets HER doing the talking… while you just sit back and listen) – pg. 77
- My proven 10-step formula for meeting women online that you can learn in 5 minutes and start using right away (Don’t be surprised when your friends interrogate you to find out where they are all coming from) – pg. 79
- A “why didn’t I think of that” way to easily find and meet a woman who is exactly what YOU are looking for – pg. 35
- A simple psychological secret that makes a woman TWICE as likely to give you her phone number and email address – pg. 81
- What to say to a woman when she’s writing her phone number down that guarantees she gives you THE REAL DIGITS … and… a number she actually answers – pg 81
- My proven step-by-step sequence for turning a woman’s phone number into a date… exactly when to call and what to say to GUARANTEE you see her again – pgs. 82-84
- On page 21 I’ll explain how to dress and groom yourself (inexpensively) to attract the woman or women that you want – I even give you specific clothing and cologne recommendations.
- A psychological secret you can use to guarantee a woman will ALWAYS return your phone calls… and fast – pg. 83
- The 9-word phrase you can say at the end of a phone conversation that sets you up as the biggest “challenge” she’s had in her entire life! (Don’t be surprised if she tries to seduce you when she sees you in person… seriously) – pg. 84
- Why women turn to certain men for dinners and dates and other men for sex (Here’s how YOU can turn the tables and always be the one who makes the choice) – pg. 82
- A strategic move that sets any date off right by putting HER in the position to try to impress YOU – pg. 82
- Most guys I know don’t know how to get the confidence to meet women. In chapter two, I’ll teach you how to fix your self-image so you can have the confidence to meet women in any situation.
- What to say when a woman asks you a “loaded” question to smoothly and easily avoid it altogether – pg. 62
- Everyone knows that women love men who make them laugh. Would you believe that I took the time to study comedy so I could attract women? In chapter four, I’ll tell you exactly how to become funnier— and I even give you a set of exact lines to use during conversation to make women laugh hysterically – pg. 50
- My 10-step first date “formula” that GUARANTEES a great time (Most guys mess this up and never end up seeing the girl again… Use this strategy to build her interest to the point where SHE is the one calling YOU because she can’t wait to see you again) – pgs. 85 & 86
- 10 years of studying psychology and behavior has taught me a lot about people. In chapter one, I’ll give you a specific map of the female mind and how women think, so you can know exactly what you’re dealing with.
- Would you like to know how to attract beautiful women without the benefit of looks or money? I thought so. Starting on page 29, I go into detail and explain exactly how to do it.
- 3 ways “bad boys” use the power of “mixed messages” to drive a woman wild with curiosity and excitement – pg. 58
- I’ll also teach you all of the basics of how to deal with women, from the first conversation to the bedroom (This is important, as most men have at least ONE area that they’re weak in… I explain it all)
- And much, much, much more…
Even better, this is the new SECOND EDITION of Double Your Dating, and it includes over 20% more BRAND-NEW material, including “Action Step” Chapter Summaries after every chapter.
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The exact steps and specific directions to help you become more successful with women and dating – and you don’t have to be rich or handsome to do it.
- How to get a girlfriend
- How to overcome your fear of rejection
- "Cocky Comedy" - how to spark interest in ANY woman
- How to attract women, even if you are not tall, rich or handsome
- Flirting tips using eye contact and body language
- And MUCH more..
- Sex Secrets With Women
- Bridges: From the 1st Meeting To The Bedroom
- 8 Personality Types That Attract Women
- Free Interview With Dating Guru
Learn Secrets about Women and Dating Most Men Will Never Know.
About David DeAngelo:
David released his first book over ten years ago which changed the dating and attraction world for all the men he helped. He coined the phrase "Attraction Isn't A Choice" which is the first of many books and programs I went through personally as did millions of men in every corner of the world.
His Double Your Dating ebook set up a series of programs that help men in any part of their game they need it in from approaching women, inner game work, all the way to meeting, finding, and entering a relationship with the woman of their dreams.
His advice is unique, ethical, smart, and cleverly intuitive as he progresses from matter-of-fact to counter intuitive techniques and tips he practiced himself first, before ever releasing them to the public.
He and I share many things in common as we both went from practically being a loser with women and dating to marrying the woman of our dreams.
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