Written by Steve Scott -Flirt Master.
If you think you’re the only man afraid of approaching women, think again.
Fear of rejection stems from many sources. Men who’ve been turned down one too many times suffer from low self esteem.
They feel unworthy of beautiful women, and as a result, they don’t even bother trying anymore. However you slice it, fear of rejection is almost an epidemic, and it needs to stop.
But is it really possible to overcome such a fear?
The truth of the matter is no, but you can learn to manage it. Men from all walks of life suffer from the same handicap when it comes to approaching women; some just handle it better than others.
So what is the best way to tackle the fear of rejection?
To answer this question, I’d like to share with you a technique I learned a few years back. The premise behind this method is simple…just do it.
By throwing caution to the wind, you drastically increase your chances of success.
Here’s how my technique works.
When you find yourself in a social situation, scout the room for any woman who catches your eye, and approach her.
Leap before you look by not feeding any negative thoughts of rejection.
Simply walk up to her, introduce yourself, and offer to buy her a drink. If she agrees, you’re in. If she rejects you, move on to the next lucky gal.
This technique may sound crazy to many of you, but it works, and the reason why is simple.
When you react without thinking, you give your mind zero opportunity to worry about consequences.
By keeping your eye on the prize, you block out all negative thoughts that would otherwise hinder your self confidence.
The men who are most successful with women understand this concept naturally. They know that how they feel inside will be portrayed outside, and as a result, they live for the moment.
Negativity breeds more negativity, but if you can manage to let go and enjoy the chase, your odds of successfully approaching women will skyrocket.
Fear of rejection is a fruitless seed. Men who suffer from such anxiety stop their pursuit before it even starts, and this gets them nowhere.
With that said, any time you spot an attractive woman, you should seize the opportunity to talk to her.
While there’s no guarantee that she will react positively, you can be certain that you won’t catch her attention by not approaching her.
You never know unless you try.
Realistically speaking, you will not be successful 100 percent of the time, and that’s okay.
No man ever is.
Instead of taking your failures to heart, however, consider every attempt at seduction to be valuable practice.
Each time you utilize my technique, you’ll be one step closer to tackling your fear of rejection.
To sweeten the pot even further, the more you randomly approach attractive women, the stronger your seduction skills will become.
Before you know it, striking up conversations with the opposite sex will become second nature to you, and you’ll have more phone numbers than you’ll know what to do with.
Allowing the fear of rejection to rule your love life will get you nowhere.
As a single man, it’s paramount that you overcome this handicap, and the first step towards doing so is to stop nurturing it. Remove all anxieties from your mind, and walk up to that beauty sitting at the bar.
You might find yourself amazed at her response.
*For reasons which I have no idea about the Program “Flirt Master” is no longer available. Which sucks because I really do like the samples and his past relationships with people like me. If you want some “extra” tips on approaching women, I suggest you start with these three here at DiaLteG TM: How to Approach Women On the Street – Being Different and Interesting,
How to Approach Women – Introductions – Subjects to Discuss and Avoid, and definitely this one Putting The Fear of Approaching Women and Being Rejected To Rest – For Good!.
You can find more great advice from Steve here at DiaLteG TM by going here: Flirt Mastery – Creating Essential Conversations That Attract Women.