Written by Steve Scott -Flirt Master.
Every guy has been there.
It’s the end of a fantastic first date. As you walk her to the door, the question of whether or not to kiss her nags your mind. Your body is telling you to go for it, but your brain is questioning whether a kiss would help or hurt the situation.
Would she want to kiss you?
Maybe she didn’t have a good time after all.
Perhaps she’s a really good girl who never kisses on the first date.
These are just some of many questions guys ponder in this particular scenario.
Seduction experts everywhere endorse kissing on the first date, but I’m not one of them.
That’s not to say that I’m against the act, as it’s important to evolve physically in a relationship.
I simply mean that it’s paramount you determine whether or not your date would be receptive to kissing.
So how do you go about doing that?
Do You Even Want to Kiss Her?
For starters, don’t kiss just for the sake of kissing.
If, at the end of the date, you decide that you’re really not into the girl, forego the kiss all together.
She’ll be able to sense a kiss that has zero emotions attached to it.
If you embrace a girl whom you have absolutely no feelings for, then you’re nothing more than a tease.
If, on the other hand, the two of you really hit it off, then kissing on the first date can really escalate things.
A first kiss can be the perfect end to an evening of fun and companionship. It can send her home with goose bumps, unable to wait until your next date.
Did You Both Click?
Even if the evening went well, how can you know if she’d be receptive to a kiss?
The obvious answer to this question lies in the chemistry you felt while on your date. Was the conversation good, or were there too many awkward silences? Was she enthusiastic about going places with you, or did she ask you to take her home early?
Answering these questions can provide a lot of insight into the first-kiss dilemma.
What is Her Body Telling You to Do?
Besides the date, one of the best indicators of a person’s intentions stems from their body language. When you were on your date, did she touch you a lot, or was she distant?
Even now, standing at her front door pondering a kiss, is she gazing into your eyes, or frantically searching for her keys?
Nonverbal cues such as these say a lot without saying anything at all.
A lot of guys are confused when it comes to reading body language, but the truth is that it’s easy! Anytime a girl leans into your personal space, she wants to get closer to you. If she touches her neck, hair, face, or shoulders, her subconscious is indicating that she wants you to touch them at some point.
In contrast, if your date is distant and stone faced, you can be certain that she’s not feeling you.
At the end of the day, only you can determine whether or not it’s okay to kiss on the first date. Use your gut instincts, and only kiss her if you feel the desire to.
From there, chemistry and body language make it clear just how appropriate locking lips would be. Use your judgment, and you can’t go wrong.
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