If you came here today I’m going to assume you don’t feel like you are very attractive man.
Which is fine IF you’re being honest with yourself BUT…
If you believe how naturally handsome you are is holding you back from dating and enjoying intimate relationships with women then we must DO something about changing your mind.
You have probably heard this before but I’m going to say it anyways.
Your looks do NOT matter as much as you might believe… within reason of course.
Sure, there are plenty of women out there who will base her relationship with you mainly on how physically good-looking you are BUT they are a minority.
Women do NOT feel attraction the same way us guys do. At least a real attraction which goes beyond your appearance.
If you can look in the mirror and honestly admit your looks are not supermodel gorgeous, or perhaps you don’t have a perfect body, maybe you’re balding a little, or you’re a short dude like me, seeing yourself for how you really are is a great start…
But if you believe what you see is the only reason women are not attracted to you… I firmly believe you are wrong!
You could rule out some women from ever getting to know the real you because of a refusal to take care of yourself.
But taking care of yourself simply means you project this,
“I value myself.”
No mind games.
You don’t have to look expensive, overly classy, or even dress like a movie star.
You just have to value yourself enough so women will value you too and that is something which women stand up and notice almost immediately.
Let me ask you a question…
Have you ever been with a woman shopping?
First she notices something intangible about anything which engages her on an emotional level… perhaps it’s an intuition.
She see’s a great bag. Holds it up close to her. Remarks on how cool it looks.
As if she has a perfect image in her head of everything in her closet, mentions which outfits it will go with. How it has practical uses too.
Then the price. Is it on sale? How much will she save? Is it worth buying now or will she see it cheaper in a couple weeks? Is it worth it to her?
Does it have value?
She is shopping for price, fashion, and everyday use.
Well she is also doing that exact same thing with you.
First she notices something about you which engages her on an emotional level…
And then she starts thinking about EVERYTHING to figure you out.
What she’s doing is determining YOUR value and not the value that she puts on you, but the how much value you appear to give yourself in the world.
In a very short time she will determine your value by your looks AND your body language.
BUT NOT how good-looking you are!
She does this because she’s looking for clues which are located in the small details of how you present yourself to the world because it’s cluing her on your subtleties and how much you value yourself and how strong your confidence is.
Whereas you “physical attractiveness” is something you may or may not be born with – which tells her basically nothing about you…
She really wants to know what you’re doing with what you’ve got because that tells her a lot about WHO you are and not WHAT you are.
“A man who is average in looks but who does the best with what he’s got is the guy who gets the overall highest quality women. This has been proven time and time again. Do Only Good Looking Guys Get Women?
And she’ll go through the entire thing above before ever even meeting you… which is why the details are so important.
You will find many of them listed on Your Appearance page at DiaLteG TM – Great First Impressions.
I suggest you go over each item carefully because they will help you do the best with what you’ve got.
It’s NOT the looks you are born with but what you’re doing with them that could be holding you back from dating some incredible women.
First sight and eye contact ARE very important. I won’t say they are not which is why the details are also important up to AND including your body language.
Engaging her on an emotional level so she first feels something is even more important. Which is typically done through your first conversation with her but actually isn’t necessary to get her thinking about you.
Typically guys destroy the attraction during that phase and not the physical sight phase.
After that – she MUST start thinking about you BEFORE she begins to act and once that happens, that’s when her REAL ATTRACTION BEGINS.
Which have little to do with your physical attractiveness.
Your looks are NOT holding you back from attracting women. It’s your understanding of how her attraction works and what it does for her that’s holding you back.
Before you subscribe to the notion that only attractive guys can attract beautiful women – consider everything I’ve shared with you today and to learn about how attraction works for women… read this –> What Women HATE Most About Single Guys.