The number one reason women will put you in the friends zone is because…
She feels or felt little or no attraction towards you.
You may have heard this before.
You may have questioned your appearance after hearing it. I know I did.
You may have even wondered if every average looking guy is destined to be just friends with most women the meet because of it.
I know you have because that’s exactly what I thought and firmly believed.
I even came up with the same excuses I’m sure many of you have already said to yourself:
- I’m too short.
- I’m too old.
- I’m not good-looking enough.
- My job sucks.
- I drive a beat up car.
- She wouldn’t want to be seen with me.
On top of that, you’re going to hear or probably have heard some women tell you it’s physical, or she does not want to ruin the friendship, or you’re not her type… in her mind they may even feel true…
But in reality, it just means she feels no derper gut level deeper attraction for you which was beyond her control.
As it’s been said a million times – women do not choose to feel attraction – they have no choice in the matter.
“ATTRACTION Isn’t A Choice. Attraction is an emotional and physical RESPONSE and you can’t “convince” a woman to feel it with logic, gifts, and NICENESS. Attraction is the result of a woman meeting a man who understands how attraction works and who knows what to do in each specific situation to progress to the next level.
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The truth of the matter is every item on that list is true.
Am I telling you women are shallow and superficial?
Of course not.
But I’m not going to lie to you and tell you every woman you meet is not ruling you out because of one or more of those listed.
And why is that?
Because women have the ability to choose who they date which is different from choosing to NOT feel attracted to you.
She can ultimately decide to NOT date a man or offer more than a friendship for more reasons than my list above which you’ll soon read about.
And there is absolutely nothing you can do about that.
Just the same as you would not want someone to make a dating decision for you, women don’t want YOU to tell them who THEY can date.
In fact if you attempt it you will only push her further away.
Now before I make you depressed there’s an easy solution to the problem but you need to understand getting out of the friends zone is not about trying to change her mind.
We’re not going to make THAT choice for her.
This is how you must redirect your thinking to overcome this problem:
Always ALLOW her to believe she is making the right decision which is BEST FOR HER.
It’s a huge shift in our perspective but is necessary to succeed.
You see what always drove me deeper down the friends path this,
“She SHOULD choose me. I’m the best FOR HER. I will TREAT HER better than any guy she has met. She is THE ONE for me.”
That’s the wrong type of attitude to take because it implies you’re making the decision for her and no one wants to be told what to do.
If you lead confidently she may decide to follow but if you push her she will definitely fight you and/or run away.
You will lose her and possibly the friendship too.
ALLOW her to believe she is making the right decision which is BEST FOR HER.
The #1 reason women put you in the friends zone shortly after meeting … SHE FEELS LITTLE OR NO ATTRACTION TOWARDS YOU.
If you have gotten to know a woman she can ultimately decide to friend you for many other reasons but most of the time they are excuses women give you because you to spare your feelings or you made a few common mistakes.
Ultimately – If she FEELS a high amount of attraction the mistakes mean less.
I’ve listed all the excuses or reasons why a woman will might not feel attraction or choose to avoid dating you. They are ( typically ) mistakes guys make which can be avoided.
I’ll be listing them on a different page so this one does not take forever to load…