Using Jealousy Might Turn Your Friend Into A Girlfriend

Written by Simon H.

One of the FASTEST ways to turn a friend over to a lover is to make her JEALOUS. You must make her see you as a MAN.

And to do that, it’s all a matter of building up your SEXUAL VALUE in her eyes.

Making someone jealous is one of the quickest ways to establish your sexual value and turn a friend in to your girlfriend.

By showing that your interest is elsewhere (therefore making her jealous), you are effectively cutting off what she USED to have with you; the wonderful, happy times she spent with you, subconsciously, it’ll make her *realize* that she DOES in fact, have feelings for you.

Let it be TOTALLY ON HER at that point to feel it, to think about it, to come to the conclusion on her own.

So what you can do is to specifically bring up another woman or a past experience with a girl in great detail.


The next time you and your chick friend heads to the record store, pick out a one-of-a-kind bootleg Colbie Caillat CD.

She’ll go, “You don’t listen to Colbie.

And you’ll smile and say,

I know, but this girl I met recently really digs her, and I know she’d love this.

She’ll be impressed by your thoughtfulness, miffed that she doesn’t score suitors like that, and wondering what this woman’s got that makes you treat her so well.

Lay on a week more of the “Oh I always do this kinda stuff, just I never thought you’d bother” before admitting in a tender, unguarded moment that sometimes it’s being with the wrong person that truly makes you realize who’s right…

Here you’re playing yourself up as a prime boyfriend material AND making her jealous at the same time…

Be extremely DESCRIPTIVE and GRAPHIC when you are relating your story to her- up to a point where she can actually picture your story in her mind- almost to the point of ‘tasting’ it.

Offer the vivid details until you can sense she starts getting uncomfortable.
Tell her how Kathy’s body is killer, talk about how Kathy has the most flawless features you’ve ever seen in a girl…

Get her to have an image of how much fun the both of you had together, the teasing, touching, playing and all.

Tell her…

“I was shocked when Kathy showed up at my office today with pizza. Gotta love her for that”

Just keep it going whenever you’re with her…

“Kathy told me that the best deals are on the East side of town”

“Kathy said the funniest thing the other day…”

I was picking up laundry last night and the owner was wondering where my girlfriend was… I was like who?? The brunette you were with the other day…

I was like … what?

Kathy? Oh please… I mean could YOU imagine both Kathy and me?

Kathy, Kathy, Kathy…"

Do it long, hard and subtle enough, and you’re bound to see how she’ll change when she’s with you…

You will know if you were successful if:

  • She tries to talk bad about the girl/s in some way. (It’s her defensive mechanism).
  • She suddenly goes into silence and appears kind of withdrawn – this is when she is reflecting
  • She gets annoyed, agitated, pissed at you for bringing it up

Bottom line: “How do I turn a friend into a girlfriend…

You like her, but you’re afraid of screwing your relationship up if she didn’t feel the same and things become awkward between the both of you. It’s every guy’s
ultimate nightmare.

There’s nothing trickier, more fragile than turning a friend to a lover, and if you want to get it ‘just right’ and land that one girl you’ve always wanted.

How Get Out Of The Dreaded Friends Zone!

I”ve written extensively on this subject. There’s a folder on my desktop going back to the beginning in 2009 filled with steps on getting out which I used to send to my readers.

Let’s just say I’ve dug deeper than anyone could ever imagine. I even made a survey on the subject:

Full Survey/Test Results on Being Stuck In The Friends Zone

My conclusion from all the research, testing, and experience being in the friends zone gave me a 3 step process for getting out. Unfortunately we’re dealing with a woman’s feelings I won’t guarantee it will work for everyone.

The preface is here:

Insanity & The Friends Zone – A Professional Loser Finally Admits The Truth!

A quick sort-of simple write you might want to go through: How You Too Can Escape & Get Out The Her Friends Zone – How I Did It!

The 3 steps are simple and were given in the 11th email:

Stick within the framework that worked for me. Each step contains stages or areas in which you can follow at your own pace and discretion.

It’s not recommended you vary from these steps if you wish to turn a friend of yours into your girlfriend.

However to avoid the friends zone with as many women as possible feel free to skip around. Just be sure to focus on your weak areas more then strengthening your strong points.

First Step is DISTRACTION:

Distract yourself to avoid seeing, calling, texting, etc… her as much.

Distract your focus from women and put the focus on yourself.

The articles listed below contain links for you to follow with more information. Some of them are for paid members. There’s nothing I can or will do about that.

This will include:

Giving yourself a new refined look slowly so others barely notice it’s happening.

Refine Your Look, Style – How To Take Care Of The Details Women Notice

How To Make A Great Impression On Her – 12 Things Women Look For In A Guy

Understanding and figuring out how you put yourself in the friends zone.

Chances are, you’re one of those “nice guys” so change your definition:

Start By Changing How You Define Being Nice

Nice Guys Can Finish First When It comes To Attracting Women

Finding fun new things to do that you enjoy, in which women will enjoy doing with you.

32 Great Date Places Where To Go and Meet Her Plus 7 Tips On Dating

Creating a natural indifference. Learn the real definition and how it really works.

How To Be Indifferent & How Indifference Attracts Women When Done Right

Allowing women to believe you are the right choice for her. Don’t interrupt the process.

The Real Secret to Attracting Women & Getting Laid No One Knows But Me

Eliminating or changing your limited belief structure. It’s faltered and needs to be changed.

You’re probably also shy and have social anxiety.

There is a limited belief templates you can use on these two pages:

How To Get Rid of Your Public Fears – No More Social Anxiety or Being Shy

You’re Not Too Short To Attract Women! How To Get Past This Limited Belief

Enhancing your strong points. You have lots of them so why not enhance them.

Developing and building confidence, esteem, and self worth.

How To Be Confident Around Women – No Experience Needed?

Listing your specific goals, aspirations, and describing to yourself your perfect woman. You can leave them here:

What Are Your Goals With Girls? Do You Know Exactly What You Want?

Creating then necessary boundaries between your masculinity and her femininity. Learning what makes you a man and her, a woman.

Igniting Femininity: 14 Ways Women Define Masculinity  – The Preview

During the many years I spent in the friends zone I was always too focused on getting women. I was always chasing them. I was always falling for them.

The only focus I had on myself was pity and the depressed helpless feelings I suffered with.

Once I learned how to DISTRACT myself I learned how to focus my new highly driven energy on becoming a man women would chase after me.

This means you should and will stop chasing women and get them to chase you. Then, amd only then, can you successfully pursue and seduce them.

All of that above will create all the distraction you’ll need and you can move on to the next step.

The Second Step Is ATTRACTION:

Believe it or not, this is the easiest of the three and once in it, you’ll be triggering attraction and enjoying the process…

IF you gain and maintain the courage plus the strength to perform and practice it a lot with everyone so stick with it.

Get yourself a real education on attraction.

Learn how to create it and amplify it. Learn the steps needed to turn any woman on.

Here’s How To Meet And Date The Kind Of Women You’ve Always Wanted – Double Your Dating – Outside book link.

Dispel any and all myths about sex. Dispel any and all myths about what women really need.

Are These Myths About Women Standing Between You And Dating Success?

Learning how to talk to women.

7 Ways To Speak The Secret Language Of Attraction

Learning how to approach women.

Approach Women With No Anxiety & Fears – Four Words Changes Everything

A Simple Way To Approach Her and Close The Deal Every Time!

Learning what a woman’s test is and how you can create your own tests to qualify women.

How Women Test Men – How To Pass Them and Enjoy Effortless Success

Getting women to qualify themselves to you.

How To Stop Disqualifying Yourself

Challenging women with charm, wit, and your own sexuality.

Top Ten Ways to Challenge Women to Feel Attracted to You

Learn about why mature masculinity is highly attractive to women.

Igniting Femininity: 14 Ways Women Define Masculinity  – The Preview

Learn the exact reasons women are attracted to Alpha Males.

Developing A Mysterious Attitude And Attractive Personality

I was not clueless on what it took to attract women, I noticed it long ago. Even the subtleties of it, but I did not have a clear understanding on how it all worked but more importantly, my limited mindset didn’t allow me to objectify it use it.

I was also missing important pieces and without them attracting women was just a guessing game where the odds were always stacked against me.

Follow the links above and then continue on to the next step.

You’ll be in a different state of mind. You’ll also be very busy and by now, seeing this friend of your a lot less.

She’ll be wondering where you are, how come you don’t come around as often, why you’re not texting or seeing her like you once did.

She’ll be overly curious and now, the interactions – the when, where, and how are on your time table, not hers. You’re in CHARGE!

You now can RE-INTRODUCE yourself to her because you’ve given her the gift of missing you.

The Third Step is RE-Introduction:

  • Re-introduce yourself to her slowly.
  • Start flirting and teasing her a little.
  • Don’t brag or boast about yourself… ever.
  • Allow her to see the change happen.
  • Introduce her to your new friends casually.
  • Still meet other women and date them.
  • Maintain your boundaries.

Chances are you’ve made some mistakes in the past so go through the pages which reveal what you must now avoid doing. Use it as a check list to assure you’re on the right path:

Why She Didn’t Like You – Why Girls Don’t Like You & How You Can Fix It

Honestly, there’s a lot going on in this step, which is why the lack of links, it pretty much takes care of itself because you’ve already been working your ass off and setting up a lifestyle that ATTRACTS women.

It’s time to be persistent and stay balanced.

If you need some cool help, I used this to keep me on track: 77 Laws – All The Best Concepts And Techniques For Succeeding With Women In The Fastest Time  Possible

I admit it. I sat on my ass for years and did absolutely nothing to get a better experience out of life.

I was comfortably numb on the outside but inside I was a whining and crying wussy begging the world to give me what I wanted.

The final stage of re-introduction made me realize what I was missing in the past. It also showed me how everything I was learning actually worked.

I learned, even though I knew sitting on my ass was getting me nowhere, introducing myself to the world did more than allow myself to grow and get me out of the house.

I learned how social dynamics is not just about attracting women. Suddenly every area of my life was being affected in a positive way.

And that my friend felt wonderful!!!

Just be careful because it’s all too easy to slip back after a few rejections.

It’s also easy to get caught up in a new social lifestyle. For me it was hitting the bars, clubs, getting drunk, and maxing out my credit limit which put me in severe debt.

Ha, minor shit compared to being alone and miserably in love with a women who would only ever see me as friend. Them, those old friends, well let’s say I went back and had some good old-fashioned fun with a few of them.

Below is the second book I purchased, the first was Attraction Isn’t A Choice, which explained to me everything about how attraction works for women but didn’t go quite far enough.

Double your dating, with its package deal and inexpensive price tag, did go there.

You don’t need to “choose wisely my friend” so pick one and go for it.

Here’s How To Meet And Date The Kind Of Women You’ve Always Wanted – Double Your Dating – Outside book link.

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