More than ever before we as men are confronted with ever-increasing confusion about what we’re supposed to do and even who we’re supposed to be.
In the last couple of years in particular there has been an unmistakably sharp increase in the negative tone. It seems like every day a new video is released warning us as men to KEEP AWAY from women.
As if feeling invisible to women isn’t bad enough, it’s as if we’re told to STAY THAT WAY.
We’re told in no uncertain terms that making eye contact with a woman on the street is an aggressive act, let alone actually approaching her and saying “hello”.
One video even infamously labels any male acknowledgment of female as “the gateway drug to rape”. That same clip plays ominous music as a guy merely glances in a woman’s direction as he passes her on the street.
These videos rack up millions of views and hundreds of thousands of “likes”.
But then comes the part where we really want to tear our hair out.
We’re ALSO constantly bombarded with images and sound bites of women openly mourning the demise of “real men” in this post-modern world.
They wonder where their hero is, and when he’ll come sweep them off of their feet.
How are we supposed to be a real man — let alone a hero — to a woman if we’re made to feel like vicious criminals for even showing interest in her?
How do we “sweep her off her feet” if we can’t even LOOK at her?
We have been left rudderless in a raging sea…with NO DIRECTION whatsoever.
What in the world do these women WANT? Do they even CARE if there’s a man in their lives, or not?
Just look at these examples of why we as men are more CONFUSED and downright FRUSTRATED than ever…
A woman’s online profile was recently brought to my attention that read as follows:
“You must be a gentleman, but I’m fed up with nice guys.”
There was a completely different one recently that said this:
“I want a man who can rock my world in the bedroom, but whose mind isn’t on sex.”
And it’s safe to say that nearly all of us have heard this one before:
“I want a passionate lover, but I believe in ‘friends first’.”
I’m sure you’ve been left slack-jawed and speechless by all of this.
Are women everywhere in lockstep with what the YouTube videos say?
Do they REALLY see us as such depraved beings simply for having the audacity to be sexually attracted?
Or do most women still have the same natural wants, needs AND fantasies as ever… but now live in a world where it’s “politically incorrect” to admit it?
The message drummed into our heads in the media is almost NEVER in alignment with what feminine, attractive women of sound mind ACTUALLY think and do in the real world.
This leads to the most shocking thought of all: If WE as men passively accept the message as delivered, more and more WOMEN just might start believing that they’re weird or even wrong for not buying into it as well.
All of the sudden, the truth has become frighteningly clear: Your very identity as a man is in crisis.
As “gentlemen”, are we REALLY supposed to refrain from “bothering” women with our presence…only to have the door slammed on us in anger when we “fail to deploy”?
I mean, is she happier without a man and wants to be left alone… or is she bitterly disappointed that we didn’t kiss her passionately?
IT JUST DOESN’T ADD UP.
And it gets even worse.
Sometimes it’s as if the more we try to do the “right thing”, the more women self-righteously reject us, reserving the right to be RUDE or even downright MEAN to us.
Then, we’re forced to endure watching those SAME WOMEN smile and giggle as they paw up some other random guy who seems like a total LOSER. What is up with that?
Meanwhile, the greatest tragedy of all is that more good, decent men than ever before have simply given up…thinking that meeting real, live women just isn’t worth the trouble OR the perceived risk.
Some men have even commented on my own blog and elsewhere that they’ve actually trained themselves to stop noticing women altogether…the perceived taboo associated with it is just too painful to deal with nowadays.
But ironically, those same men turn to Internet porn in the absence of real, live women in their lives…only adding to the shame and despair. And it HURTS.
Surely it’s “game over” at that point…in the truest sense of the phrase. Both men AND women lose.
So are we all doomed to a life of solitary celibacy from now on?
Not so fast…
Don’t be misled any longer. The status quo is not sustainable.
After all, the vast majority of us are NOT rapists. You’re not a monster, you’re a man. You want only to treat a good woman right.
Meanwhile, it’s still true (and always will be) that women WILL follow the lead of a man who has their best interests in mind, and they’ll LOVE him for it.
That can ONLY mean that they’re depending on US to sort all of this out and find a way to sweep them off of their feet… and FAST.
But the simple fact remains that we’ve GOT to actually meet them in order to do that.
And somehow we’ve GOT to attract them sexually, lest we be banished to the “Just Be Friends Zone”.
You see, we as men are constantly told we’re the PROBLEM, but we’re given no SOLUTION. We’re treated like mushrooms… kept in the dark and fed nothing but bullshit.
Even high quality women themselves are left shaking their heads.
They have NO IDEA what to do about ANY of this either… except wait… and hope… that a great man will rise above the fray and boldly turn her on.
For most men there is no real roadmap to success…only mass confusion all around.
If you’re like me, you also believe that the current state of affairs is utterly unacceptable. We as men have to find the way to our rightful place in red-blooded women’s hearts, minds AND yes…bedrooms.
Failure is NOT an option. And the truth is that WOMEN are cheering us on.
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