Yes, it's absolutely true - indifference or being indifferent IS an attractive trait to have and behold BUT most guys confuse what it means, how it works, and don't understand why women or girls alike find it so absolutely irresistible.
I'm going to dispel some myths about indifference and how it's supposed to work so you can avoid making some major mistakes and go screwing it all up.
PLUS you'll get to use it to attract women naturally which to me is always a good plan.
Everyone tends to agree that women are VERY generally attracted to guys who don't seem to give a shit about them.
It tends to fall under the fair assumption that people tend to always want what they can not have or get and a woman is no exception when it comes to a guy she has her eyes on, but he doesn't seem too interested in her at all.
Since a webster dictionary definition of being indifferent is a "lack of interest, enthusiasm, or concern for something" it's very safe to assume when a guy shows a lack of interest, enthusiasm, or concern for a woman she's going to want him more - based on the previous of wanting what she can not have.
BUT - it doesn't always work that way.
You can pretend, act, or believe all you want that you're just not into her and get NOTHING back with regards to attraction. The key is ATTRACTION needs to be set in place first most of the time.
(Make sure you re-read the first chapter book so you know how that process happens and so you don't interrupt it: Chapter One: The Real Secret to Attracting Women & Getting Laid No One Knows But Me.)
I say (most of the time) because there are tricks and games you can use to act all aloof to certain women so they'll engage you more but it's not a guarantee, it depends so much on the woman, AND sometimes how physically attractive you are in her eyes.
I can not tell you how many times I played it off as having an "absence of compulsion" to chase a woman only to eventually and rather quickly realize she wasn't going to just start chasing me. They never came - well at least with me.
You see - if she doesn't care, doesn't feel anything, doesn't know you exist, doesn't interact with you in a certain way, OR (very important here) is INDIFFERENT to YOU than this type of play only leaves you banging your head against the wall and later on - banging yourself to release all that pent up sexual frustration you build up inside BECAUSE of her.
Don't get me wrong here - it CAN work - act like you don't give care or give a shit about her, play it the right way - and you'll definitely drive up her desire to have you.
In the real world - You could actually get so much of it wrong and still attract a woman.
Except I've found you'll only attract a certain type of woman and they're usually not the high quality put-together nicely with lots of confidence and a high self-esteem.
You'll find yourself with overly needy women. Jealous women. Women who sort-of like to be treated like shit and ignored. Girls who themselves are the total opposite and seek attention from those who are not willing to give it to them.
Not what I would call a great or smart plan to attract your ideal woman - that is unless that's YOUR definition of an ideal woman.
Allow me to let you in a on little secret about all this:
Imagine you've just set yourself as all aloof and you're doing a few other things right (which will help) so you find yourself being chased by a few or even lots of women.
You'll take a few. You'll probably even sleep with some of them. Good for you. Please don't send me any pictures but I'm truly happy for you.
Eventually you will NOT like or want any of them for something serious.
You'll grow tired of being chased.
You won't know the difference between if she likes you for you OR she's just trying to get what you she can't have.
You won't know if she wants you for you or because of this lame-ass challenge you put her through.
AND you'll find yourself desperately seek out a woman who makes you WORK a little for her without playing any games. A woman who makes you step up and BE a man but who doesn't do it in weird childish ways.
Guys pursue or court women.
It's in your DNA.
I'm not saying to just start chasing women, that's not good however it is HOW you deeper emotional attraction works that connects you with the right woman for you and leaves you little doubt as to IF she's really the on for you because you will definitely know it.
Hey - it's not all bad news - as I stated in the beginning...
Indifference or being indifferent IS an attractive trait AND it's something you must develop IF you want it to work for you to attract more women than you can handle.
AND I'm going to show you HOW it's done the RIGHT way and how it works the easiest and best so you'll be less likely to draw in the unwanted ones into your dating life.
Why Indifference Is More Attractive When Used Correctly.
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This is the second page of chapter one - The Real Secret to Attracting Women & Getting Laid No One Knows But Me.
Indifference is far from acting aloof or pretending you don't care about her.
I bet you've ignored lots of women hoping it will and they didn't even know it was happening - making it a useless and lame tactic or game.
It's not about acting aloof or pretending you don't care about her. Doing so will only attract drama and bullshit women into your life.
Learn how to be indifferent the natural way in this chapter.
- Why it's so appealing & sexy to women.
- Why indifference is far more attractive when used the right way.
- How to achieve a natural indifference which is healthy and attracts higher quality into your life.
- Learn how to live your life by your own rules which draws women closer to you and makes them want to be a part of your life.
- How to STOP limiting yourself to chasing or dating just woman at a time.
- How a woman who gives advice to other women on how to attract men can make you more appealing and find it easier to attract higher quality women.
Finally - you'll be given a secret about indifference most men will never know which will make you stand out, have some women chasing you, and give you the freedom to live your own life by your own rues!
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Definition of Indifferent - From the Dictionary at Webster.