We need to get your car, apartment, or house in complete order and learn the valuable skill of time management.
Welcome to Step 2 of How To Get A Girlfriend
This is work worth doing for several reasons which I’ll get into as we move along.
First, if you own a car, make sure it is more than presentable at any given time. Leave nothing to chance.
This means keep it generally always vacuumed. Clean seats. Empty the trash from it daily and don’t let the little things pile up.
Once it’s clean you’ll first want to keep it that way and secondly you’ll waste less time having to “cover up” everything when you really need it.
I’m not saying to wash and detail it everyday. Some of you will want to and perhaps already do it and that’s fine.
For the rest of you just do a little better job than you might have done in the past.
I’m telling you this because I actually knew one guy with old underwear in his car and trunk – if that’s you, get it handled quickly.
Rarely do I ever have to show a guy how to clean his car so I’ll give you a few pointers on keeping it ready. Theses are things you may not have thought about and will help you while you’re on a date.
Always think ahead.
You don’t want to be caught in a spot where you can not come to the rescue. These includes keeping a can of air, a spare tire, and possibly an emergency kit too.
The best way to do this is to imagine you’re always going on a long trip on a cold night. What could happen that might leave you stranded? What would you need to survive? An extra jacket. A blanket. Some gloves.
Now imagine what you could be doing if you meet up with someone?
Maybe keep a Frisbee, a Basketball, Soccer Ball, Football, etc… whatever you do… Think action!
If you do it, you might want to keep something around – just in case. Personally I have a Pool Stick ready and sometimes a few golf balls and an iron.
This may seem like I’m asking you fill your car with junk but I’m not.
Just stay ahead, be prepared, and show a little of who you are. Keep this stuff in your trunk and not in your back seat.
ALL women will look at your car as a reflection of how you live your life and you want her to see how you have it all under control and you’re fun too.
Don’t ruin it with the small things.
Also, and this is very important… it allows you to tack on extra dates while you’re on one which works great to move attraction along. This allows you to always seem like you’re one step ahead of her which women find rare and a highly attractive trait.
Your house or apartment needs to be “woman” proof AND match your personality.
Definitely an exceptionally clean bathroom. Remember she’s going to use your bathroom AND she will look around AND again this represents how well you live your life.
A bedroom which appears nice ( and sanitary.)
You don’t want it to look like you get laid in it five times a week with different women.
Have cool things to talk about lying around your house.
Here’s a tip – stay away from treating your things like your showing a guest a museum. Unless it’s called for let her mention something before you bring it up.
Always clean and perfect bed linen. A great tip is to have several. One on and more off cleaned and ready.
I’ve noticed when I don’t spend a lot of time in my bed they still get old. So even if you don’t use the second one wash them anyways so they’re always fresh.
Learn to cook a good meal for yourself.
You don’t have to be a chef. Just be resourceful with your food and get creative. The alcohol part is up to you.
“There are endless benefits to managing your time, car, and house… Confidence, pride, showing her you enjoy being single and living a stress-free life where she’d love to be the girlfriend in it.”
Show off (modestly) some of your personality with what you own.
This is a little trick for guys who have hobbies they believe women “won’t like” or are typically not attracted to.
Tell you what – who cares!
If you do things right a real women will not care. I bet some of them when ( they really like you ) will actually bust your ass about it so go with it.
I’m telling you it’s okay.
Be reasonable though… If you like some of the “nerdy” things you might not want to cover your house in them.
The key to decorating a “bachelor” apartment is to always consider three points along with how you can think about it are:
- Modesty – “Sure I’ve done some cool things.”
- Mystery – “Yeah that is cool, I’ll tell you about it someday.”
- Personality – “I’m not attached to my stuff but I enjoy having it around.”
You don’t have to subscribe to a decorating magazine or have everything match perfectly. Unless you are perfect of course.
Get some type of freshening candles or plug-ins which are not too feminine smelling and use them.
You would be surprised where odors come from. Look for loose webs and wet areas where mold pile up. Like around the Fridge, oven, sink, toilet, washer. This could also include vacuuming your couch and a few chairs inside and out.
I use good friends who don’t come over often. I’ll ask them ( seriously ) how the place smells.
Sometimes when you live in it you don’t realize what could be lingering about and these friends can really help you out.
Do the dishes often so they don’t pile up.
If you have a dishwasher make sure the dishes don’t sit in there for days without at least being rinsed.
If you must do a lot of ironing do it all at once so you’re not running around trying to play catch up every day.
Like your car… stay organized and learn to use your time wisely so you have more time for yourself.
I hate seeing guys waste so much time draining their energy each day when there’s always a way to simplify things so you have more free time.
Everything here is NOT only about living a clean life but making sure any woman would not mind being a part of your life. Kind of helps when you want a girlfriend.
This is about you – your self-esteem, how much you value yourself and the world you live in.
It’s about time management and controlling the parts of life you DO have control of – with ease.
Imagine what she thinks when she meets a guy who takes cares of all these little thing,
“This guy has very little stress. He must handle tough situations with competence and ease. He gets more things done in a day than I could ever imagine doing myself. He’s never rushed, worried, or helpless… Wow – this guy has his shit together!!! Too bad my last five dates didn’t understand how important all this stuff is to me. He’s definitely boyfriend material.”
You want to attract some incredible women – then BE that guy.
You want women to believe and see you’re capable of managing your life completely down to every last detail.
In a “modest” way you want them to think you’re better at this “life thing” than they are.
Yes it’s okay to bust her ass on some of the things she lacks control over.
The last thing you want is to be afraid of bringing a woman back to your place and you don’t want to waste your time fixing things up all the time.
I don’t want you to have to always get ready for a date.
Trust me you’re better off not turning any kind of meeting with a woman into a ritual. Not only does it show a lack of experience but puts way too much undue pressure on them.
Just get it done so you only have to spend your precious time maintaining it.
This may not seem like an important step but I guarantee it is.
With your new look – coming home after work to a cool place to live – you will undoubtedly gain a huge boost in your confidence.
Enjoy it. 🙂
Look around and take pride in you what you’ve done and how you are.
What you’re doing is managing your life and you’re making it your own down to every last detail.
Prove to yourself being single is great and you’ll in fact be showing her you’ll make an amazing boyfriend.
If you don’t make women a “ritual” in your life she won’t feel like an agenda in yours which decreases her attraction.