Your attitude towards life, yourself, and those around you including women is an integral part in landing a girlfriend. You don't need a girlfriend by your side BUT having a personality that ATTRACTS women naturally is the one practically guaranteed way you'll find, meet, and date ANY woman you want.

Making her you girlfriend is obviously and entirely up to you but since this is step 7 of the 11 steps on how to get a hot girlfriend, I'll assume it's a dominant goal you want to achieve.

Your attitude or personality is inherently YOU. This means you're not replacing yourself. Sure you'll have to rid yourself of the negative behaviors and beliefs which have held you back in the past but who you are, and who you'll become is MORE than who you were.

This means you take your already wonderful traits - add to your life what has been covered so far in this series, and create an amazing attractive personality who knows HOW to communicate to women.

It's a skill.

Your new revamped attitude with its already strong foundation will now feature, for all the lovely women to enjoy and admire along with you - pure Alpha Traits with a hint of real mystery.

These features draw women in and its up to you to lead them in any direction you wish to go.

(If you haven't been following along - PLEASE go back now.)

Step 7 is about developing an attitude which conveys your greatest strengths as a mature masculine man.

It's about being a modest REAL Alpha Man with a touch of the right mystery which in turn coneys the coolest person your future girlfriend has or will ever met.

I will warn - what's covered today will come at you fast so be prepared. There's no easy way to get it all out without writing a whole series of books.

First you must understand what being Alpha really is, then you must understand or learn the benefits of being a little mysterious and how much of it you should be (which gets the best results for you and attracting women),  then, because retaining knowledge is one thing but communicating these incredibly attractive traits to women is something different and much harder to do - how to integrate it all into your life in the least amount of time.

(Wow that was a mouthful!)

The Alpha Male

There's absolutely no reason for me to re-write something which has already been done very successfully so I'll turn to Carlos Xuma for a quick list of what it really means to be Alpha.

Here are a few things an Alpha IS:

• Clever/smart/cunning
• Ambitious
• Excited
• Honorable
• Dominant (not aggressive, but demonstrating superior social skills)
• Stable
• Fit (healthy lifestyle)
• Curious
• Balanced
• Natural

Here are a few things an Alpha is NOT:

• Aggressive
• Angry at women
• Verbally abusive
• Arrogant
• Obnoxious

It means that you understand the basic primal reasons a woman is attracted to a man, and you're not afraid to BE a man.

Taken from What The Alpha Man Is and Why It Helps You Attract Women

The list is basic but I'm positive you got the point. It should help you separate the myth from the facts about what being Alpha is and how that just because some guy is a brute jerk or asshole or people bend to his wishes because of that - does NOT make him a REAL TRUE Alpha Male.

Putting all that into practice in your everyday life can seem like an insurmountable goal... but it's not. Piece by piece. Little by little. Action by action it will come to you.

But first - start with the above average basics of how you present yourself to the world.

These are thoughts you have, actions you take, a BELIEF system you should always carry with you and YES, it's okay to fake it for a while. It's perfectly acceptable to, until others things fall in place and they come naturally to you, to "pretend".

Alpha Male Traits Explained