There are definite patterns or common similarities in guys who are great with women which go beyond the “everyday” things we talk about here. Take the time to observe those guys (objectively) as they interact with girls and you’ll soon notice some or even all of them.
Hang around with them enough and you should be able to assimilate some of those “attractive” qualities into yourself without even trying too hard. You’ll see how their body language, mannerisms, vocal inflections, flirting style all seem to rub off on you.
However, there’s something not many see because they’re sort of hidden but it’s something I’ve noticed in many of the guys who were exceptionally good at getting “hotter” girls.
Some of these traits or skills or whatever you want to call them don’t seem to transfer over very well which is why it needs to be covered here in step 5 of The 11 Steps to Getting A Hot Girlfriend.
Demonstrating special leadership skills by knowing how to get more… for less.
“Each of these two guys is single, intelligent, and generally a ‘nice’ guy. What they do have is widely disparate ATTITUDES toward life.” Who Would You Rather Be?
This is a tough skill to master but if you manage to just get a better handle on it, how to do it, and why it works it can work to your attractive advantage.
One thing you need to remember or suppose know about this skill and many others is they are NEVER to be shown off. Meaning it’s not something you want to brag about or shove in a woman’s face. It will diminish the effect and only have you attract women who are, let’s just say, a little too superficial for a nice guy like you.
Keep this step simple and make sure you have the freedom to use this step based on our own unique life or lifestyle you live. There are only a few rules to follow and the rest is up to you and your abilities of what you wish to achieve with it.
Let’s get started…
Money, Cash, Financial Funds… The actual dollars themselves are NOT the only means to acquire monetary wealth.
Instead of working extra hours to buy “stuff” or get something done learn to make better deals. More specifically… Figure out how to work with people more intelligently so you can get things for less or for free in fact.
The key here is… People and/or people skills.
I’m not asking you to rip them off or even use your friendships as some sort of bargaining tool. Learn how to work better with them in everyday negotiations and that’s all.
What you get physically from it is entirely up to you.
You can trade something.
You can help people out honestly so they will want to do things for you.
No matter what it is you want never let something stop you from getting it.
Within reason of course so don’t be an ass about it , deal?
All great men who excel with attractive women AND great relationships have this skill. There is not one single doubt in my mind about it.
Learn how to work better with people in everyday negotiations.
All great leaders, especially the ones who you probably value the most – have developed this area of their social life. Some have used it wisely. Some have not. Some have used it to gain immeasurable wealth but more importantly…
YOU can use it to inspire and invigorate people around you and you’ll find lots of hot great and high quality woman drawn to you.
The absolutely love it when a guy can do those things. You’ll be given a so-called “attractive halo” which to women is not unlike some famous star. Yes, this is just that powerful.
Here is how this is going to work for you on your quest to finding and getting an amazing girlfriend:
- You want women to believe, see, and notice that no matter what happens you’re the “go to” guy. You’ve got everything handled perhaps even better than her. (Another reason why you don’t show it off!)
- You want women to see and believe you’re not the type of guy who settles for less than what you desire just because it’s difficult. Something it’s tough – no problem. You’re in control!
- You want women to (modestly) notice you’re not the type who only uses “typical” means to solve your problems. Your intelligent and creative enough to think in terms outside of those typical “ordinary” dudes.
- You’re showing creativity beyond an artistic development as in a painting or song. You’re creative with people which makes you an exceptional leader. Which in turn makes her see you as quite possibly HER leader in a relationship.
- You’re proving (without stating it) that you are a true “caretaker” and despite setbacks or financial difficulties you CAN AND WILL find a way to provide. Again showing it off makes her finance gathering ability less important and if you want a real high quality girlfriend, that is something you NEVER want to do.
- You’re demonstrating superior social skills which is an important step in attracting a girl for a possible relationship.
Pretty cool stuff right? Think about all this step says to a woman indirectly and you’ll realize not only how important this is, but how and why other guys who are already good at it – excel with so many women.
The two main goals in this step are:
- Money – Cash or however you say it – is NOT the only means to acquire monetary wealth. Find OTHER ways and means. Wealth and happiness comes in many forms. Don’t limit yourself to only doing things which are expensive. That’s not the same. Expand your reach beyond the all mighty dollar.
- Learn how to work better with people in everyday negotiations. Branch out those friendships, make those important contacts. Get to know everyone and anyone because maybe not now but later, as in when you can give to them, they will WANT to give something back to you.
Here are some ideas or examples to explain it better:
Always accept gracefully what others are willing to give you. If somebody wants something and you can find it for them, do it but don’t be afraid to ask for something back in return.
Give to others what you can when they’re in need and do NOT expect anything in return. Be very casual and discreet about it. This builds your esteem and confidence and WILL come out in your personality with women. They are completely in tune with those things which is why there’s no need to show it off.
Break down your largest goals so you can learn how to achieve them by not-so-normal means. Start a “second job” doing something you like which you can sell, but only give it a few hours a week.
I pulled together a quote from a post I wrote about changing your luck with women. You’ll see much more clearly how it’s all connected with your attitude and leadership skills developed in this ste and what is really has to do with how you interact with women.
And then it hit me. I saw this smiling guys face in my head. I saw his mannerisms. I caught a glimpse of his attitude.
I saw the truth and was more than surprised. It was right there in front of me and in front of everyone else too. But for some reason we were all missing it. Blinded by our “jealousy” or hatred over someone who gets everything while we’re left with the average or nothing.
He smiled at everyone.
He never made you feel everything was not going to be cool.
He never got squeamish or let anybody affect his mood.
He talked to everyone about anything at any given time no matter what kind of mood he was in and what was happening in his personal life.
And the people he talked to… Never heard about his poor life. They never had to listen to him explain how those fifty perfect parking spots were in the middle of the thousand he missed.
He never talked about having bad luck.
You always felt he just knew, no matter what happened, it would turn out for the best… and somehow, it always did.
Hopefully by now you’ve noticed how women are looking at you differently or reacting to you in a way which is definitely more attractive. (If you’ve been following along and doing the steps.)
And we still have more to go which means it only gets better.
I must stress at this point, “step 5” and many of them will help you conquer every piece along the way. This specific skill about “getting something for less” will make some other steps so much easier so I wouldn’t overlook this one.
Like I said, I’ve observed lots of men who had women chasing them all over and practically every one of them had this skill and used it like a charm. They didn’t use it to get women, but women were certainly attracted to them more because they had or developed this very important people/life skill.
Combine this with my “changing your luck” post above and you’re well on your way to finding not just a girlfriend but quite possibly the girl of your dreams.
This skill is unbound and it has no limits so explore every available option.
Demonstrating superior leadership skills is a big piece of being a highly sought out attractive man and proves your ability to give more than just support in any relationship.
It’s understandable if you want more specific help in this area and if it’s not obvious, everything can not be covered here.
No problem. Got you covered!
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11 steps to getting a HOT girlfriend:
STEP 1: Click Here For Step 1 – Refine Your Look – Details
STEP 2: Control Your Life Effortlessly, Women Will Want To Be In It
STEP 3: Develop Social Life, Involved, Give Something Women Do Want
STEP 4: The Benefits Of Becoming Friends With Hotter Women
STEP 5: She Wants Guy Who Demonstrates People Skills Gets More
STEP 6: Become Sexy Guy Where Your Sexiness Comes From
STEP 7: Developing A Mysterious Attitude And Attractive Personality
STEP 8: Where Meet Women Removing Fears Of Approach Naturally
STEP 9: Throw Out Dating Rules Book – Focus On Excitement and Fun
STEP 10: Why You Might Have To “Go Get Laid” to Get A Girlfriend
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