How Long Should You Wait Before You Call or Text a Girl?

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Have you ever heard of the 3 day no contact dating rule? It states you should wait 3 days before you call  a girl after you've gotten her number.

Whether this applies to texting is not important because that old dating rule is total bullshit be it texting, messaging, or whatever social media you prefer to use.

The rule had a purpose which seemed legitimate:

It was meant to make a guy look cool, like he had a life or they're "so busy", and for certain guys it was important because right after they got a girl's number - they'd turn into a needy wuss who acted desperate.

They acted from a place of "scarcity" or as if they had no real prospects.

They had a strong urge to get her before some other guy came along because they didn't feel confident in their ability to attract and keep a woman.

However, when women figured out it was a game, it stopped working the way it was meant to work in the first place.

If you waited and called, she assumed you were following that stupid dating rule every other guy was doing and if she was only slightly interested in the guy, she wouldn't even answer the call or text.

So it defeated its own purpose.

Here are the REAL solutions:

If you don't want to appear needy - stop being so needy. Problem solved.

If you don't want to appear desperate - stop acting so desperate to kiss her ass or get a date. Problem solved.

If you don't have anything to do (not much of a life) get out and start doing things you love. Problem solved.

If you want to look cool - Call her early. Text her quickly.

Just don't linger around and act like you need the attention or how you're worried she's going to meet another guy.

Don't send a 100 texts or call her everyday when you haven't even gone on a date yet.

Problem solved.

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You can see from the "obvious"  solutions offered that it appears men were looking for the "easy way" into a woman's pants.

How if they just acted like they were a real man, they didn't actually have to become one.

You'll find a lot of the bullshit dating rules were invented or written to serve that very purpose. The easy quick method to getting laid without having to do any of the real work involved.

And like any other fad - they quickly fade.

They stop working because it's not real and REAL women figure it out quickly.

You can only hide your insecurities for so long before you're called out on it.

Using the 3 day no contact rule will essentially only prove to a woman - you are insecure and need to follow rules.

It's just how a naturally attractive man with confidence acts.

So how long SHOULD you wait then before you contact her? When you get her info, what's the standard wait time which works every time?

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