Whether this applies to texting is not important because that old dating rule is total bullshit be it texting, messaging, or whatever social media you prefer to use.
The rule had a purpose which seemed legitimate:
It was meant to make a guy look cool, like he had a life or they're "so busy", and for certain guys it was important because right after they got a girl's number - they'd turn into a needy wuss who acted desperate.
They acted from a place of "scarcity" or as if they had no real prospects.
They had a strong urge to get her before some other guy came along because they didn't feel confident in their ability to attract and keep a woman.
However, when women figured out it was a game, it stopped working the way it was meant to work in the first place.
If you waited and called, she assumed you were following that stupid dating rule every other guy was doing and if she was only slightly interested in the guy, she wouldn't even answer the call or text.
So it defeated its own purpose.
Here are the REAL solutions:
If you don't want to appear needy - stop being so needy. Problem solved.
If you don't want to appear desperate - stop acting so desperate to kiss her ass or get a date. Problem solved.
If you don't have anything to do (not much of a life) get out and start doing things you love. Problem solved.
If you want to look cool - Call her early. Text her quickly.
Just don't linger around and act like you need the attention or how you're worried she's going to meet another guy.
Don't send a 100 texts or call her everyday when you haven't even gone on a date yet.
If you're not sure how OFTEN to text her - read this:
"The more texts you send before meeting up with girl means the less of a chance you have of actually meeting up with her!"
Or read it in a web page:
If you're not sure WHAT text message to send her - read this:
"ALL guys must learn how to text girls. Using your phone is too important these to not get your text messages down in a way which helps the attraction and not hurt it.
This guide is filled with examples, tips, a few downloads, and rules to get your "phone game" working for you and not against you."
IF you want to know how to avoid all these rules then read these:
- Throw Out Dating Rules Book – Focus On Excitement and Fun
- How Ditching The Rules Can Get You More Dates
You can see from the "obvious" solutions offered that it appears men were looking for the "easy way" into a woman's pants.
How if they just acted like they were a real man, they didn't actually have to become one.
You'll find a lot of the bullshit dating rules were invented or written to serve that very purpose. The easy quick method to getting laid without having to do any of the real work involved.
And like any other fad - they quickly fade.
They stop working because it's not real and REAL women figure it out quickly.
You can only hide your insecurities for so long before you're called out on it.
Using the 3 day no contact rule will essentially only prove to a woman - you are insecure and need to follow rules.
It's just how a naturally attractive man with confidence acts.
So how long SHOULD you wait then before you contact her? When you get her info, what's the standard wait time which works every time?
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This is the fourth lesson of chapter twelve: Where To Meet Women - Setting Up Dates - Places to Take Her & Making Great First Impressions.
Lots of dating rules are outdated and old and having a set time to wait before you call, text, or message a woman is one of them.
Women are well-aware of all the rules men have been using on them.
And just like you, they don't enjoy or care for all the games!
Why play one that will only hurt your chances with a great high quality woman?
It's time learn the only answer to when, where, and how you should make first contact PLUS how long to wait which works every time:
- You'll get text messages to send and when to send them
- Conversation starters which work before the first date and long after too.
- Understand what happens when you wait too long or don't wait long enough - both are equally bad but one is much worse.
- Get her to understand you're not a needy desperate guy with this perfect method that works on the better women - YOUR perfect woman.
Don't let some old rule dictate your dating life.