You look her way, she looks back, you turn away for an instant, and when you turn back around, you catch her eyes on you again; from that moment and beyond, once the chemistry explodes between you and her - you KNOW she was and is definitely INSTANTLY ATTRACTED to you.
It's almost EVERY guy's dream, but it doesn't have to be that way - it can also be YOUR reality if... and I do mean IF...
You can make it all the way to the end of the post and get past the nastiness in the beginning which is designed to push away ANY and ALL degrading thoughts about women too many men have who search for the illusive attraction in a second.
Let's begin and hold on please.
First - you have to throw away any misconceptions you have about women which I won't go lightly into...
They're not people - they're objects of your sexual desire. They're mindless tits and ass with nothing to offer the world but a pretty face and a vagina, AND IF they don't have any of that... well then that's their problem, right? They can always find a job at Walmart... probably.
They don't think anyways... all they care about is money, Brad Pitt, and superficial shit like coffee, the newest phone, and how GOOD they're going to look with that hot new piece of jewelry some schmuck bought them.
They're subservient to men - us guys, WE are in charge. They should feel lucky they got the right to vote or that we don't call them secretaries anymore - they're administrative assistants. What more could they want from us.
Any dumb fuck prick who thinks and believes you can attract ANY woman instantly AND, then falls for the lame bullshit out there on hypnosis or mind control are not only fooling themselves - they're actually creating a false internally narrated mindset I sarcastically brought up in the beginning of this post.
All this means:
Your FIRST step in creating instant attraction is to ERASE and REPLACE any thought process which creates that degrading mindset above.
Attitudes, the Process of Seduction, and Being A REAL Man.
They are people with minds who are capable of thought and emotions.
They are the female side of humanity and within this wonderful soft femininity is a strength no man can ever imagine.
And because of this and more - They WANT TO BE SEDUCED!
They want you to take them away erotically, but they also want to feel relatively safe while balancing the line between danger and safety; something you must learn to do in a very strong yet supple masculine way.
Women are not objects of YOUR sexual desires to be used as a tool to get yourself off - YOU must become their living breathing real-life fantasy by BEING the undeniable source of their sexual desires and appetite.
Women do THINK in a sometimes endless loop which races around their minds in ways you might never be able to comprehend, but you can certainly use it to pull them into your seductive ways.
A suggestive phrase - a word of confidence - a slight reward of their competence - a small glimpse or peek into your humanity while remaining slightly mysterious and unaffected from outside sources which tends to break most men.
Your WORDS must always be chosen carefully and offer a selective determination of will and of true character unlike an experience she's yet to be on the other side of.
Treat them as such listed above by any means possible...
Offer your imminent demise in their hands or sexual firm embrace and willfully go there, as if you'll melt on touch while at the same time conveying not one of an end, but a beginning of your heart, to that of which you might be willing to share with her in those moments. Not before, not after - and only NOW.
You are not in charge of them. Women are not subservient to your whim. They are not at your disposal.
Leadership and your force of will are not the same. You don't force your sexuality and masculinity onto them and expect a return of submission.
Trust brings submission and it's up to you to create it in a way which opens her seductive emotions.
A little danger with your reliable safety net along with leading by examples of courage, confidence, and an unwavering display mature masculinity which allows her to dig deeper and deeper into her adult femininity, while very carefully letting her enter her virgin child-like experience of wonder and fantasy, from which she can truly enjoy and immerse herself in as fully grown woman in every way.
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Appearance Does Matter For Instant Attraction.
Dress to impress.
There's absolutely no way around it with the exception of you having the body of the Rock or something close to it, AND you're in a natural position to show it off.
Despite all I write on the actual facts that a deeper attraction in woman is created more slowly, many of them ARE and will ALWAYS be attracted by SIGHT.
The mechanism is there and it's not going away any time soon.
If you're not willing to dress the part and blow them away with your appearance from the moment they see you - instant attraction will be hard and quite impossible to achieve.
There's no hard coded style you should present but it's obvious sneakers, a shirt with a lame logo on it, and jeans are not as effective as a business suit or any tailored clothing which are produced by recognizable brand names.
Your opinion on this matter of dressing to impress is irrelevant to your goal if you're one of those guys who refuses to dress the part because you want a woman to like you for who you are.
Certainly there are many ways to down dress and create lots of attraction, but what it comes it doing it in an INSTANT - your appearance does matter, just the same as what you feel when you see an attractive woman.
Here's my page which covers it all - every last detail which must be covered entirely - if you want to instantly attract a woman from afar:
Walk the Walk.
Your body language is, and will always be a major piece in creating instant attraction.
How you move from one place to another gets you noticed by women, young and old, IF it's done with confidence and suggestive sexual appeal rising up to what is known as animal magnetism.
Your body language can also get women to overlook your less than perfect physical attributes which may be at below average looking, making it highly important to get down almost to perfection.
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Conversations and Talking Your Way To Instant Attraction?
Talk the talk.
This is where things get real interesting because I know lots of guys search for "how to attract a woman without words" and so far, what's been covered only contains a few words perhaps spoken by you which is good, although quite obvious...
AND because you must be informed that a woman's deeper instinctual attraction is more triggered through communication and conversation.
So where does INSTANT come into play here when a conversation is far from an instant exchange?
We're all going to have to assume to either use an exact definition of INSTANT, or be a little loose in our interpretation of the word, otherwise - what you say to a woman means nothing because there is not one word or sentence you can use which will create attraction instantly.
If you believe that's possible then I can guarantee the attraction she felt was already there anyways based on what was covered above: Attitude, Appearance, & Body Language.
It doesn't go without saying - Unless you want to fail more often than succeed, you MUST choose your words, sentences, topics of conversations, and your approach to exchanging ideas VERY carefully.
You also must extend your time constraint of instant attraction but the good news is, all it actually can take is one or two well said conversations with the right tone and mannerisms.
One of the easiest and quickest ways to trigger a woman's attraction in your very first words to her is a little about WHAT you say, and more about HOW you say it.
Avoid doing any of these things in your first conversation:
- Nervous and random chatter
- Mumbling with a lack of diction
- Fast talking
- Weak and tentative language
- Fidgeting or unclear what your body should be doing
- Lack of eye contact
- Questions that beg for her approval
- Odd or forced compliments
- Invading her space
- Loud and obnoxious judgments of others
- Having no purpose or direction
You see - IF you avoid doing all those things, which may seem like a lot but it's really not, then ANY woman will GET IT, and understand you're a man of confidence and knows how to communicate with women on a level most men fail at consistently.
Again - not always WHAT you say, but HOW you say, and a little about the topic or information being exchanged.
This is GREAT news because it leaves you open to do more right than wrong, and also frees you up to talk to her in a way which will get her thinking and feeling something for you.
WHERE you take it and WHAT is said will be the more complicated part that requires research and practice.
Here's everything I can give you - the practice and investment is up to you, and if you want to create instant attraction, there are NO SHORTCUTS. You will fail at first - learn quickly from your mistakes, don't take it personal. Keep trying and changing it up and in no time at all - you'll find yourself highly skilled in this area...
Yes, I do realize there's a lot of information and I understand all about analysis paralysis, or how I'm not supposed to overload you with more than a few choices - but that's not what I'm doing here.
I'm giving the more than a great opportunity to learn everything about creating attractive conversations INSTANTLY. You can either take advantage of it or not. It's entirely up to you.
Whereas the mere concept of INSTANT ATTRACTION is a little over-hyped and probably meant for lazy ass guys who want to "trick the system" or "game the girl" as if women are susceptible to cheap parlor tricks and shiny objects waved in their faces; the truth is, without the bullshit it IS possible because the mechanism of attraction, even for women, does work in the "literal" blink of an eye.
A pretty face and a hot body can turn YOU on in an instant, and the same goes for women. Disregarding the fact that you as a guy are more likely to act on this impulse and women are not.
However - A much deeper and unshakable attraction happens over a period of time for women which is typically the more advisable approach, because it's extremely reliable and tends to lead to longer lasting relationships.
I get how you want instant results - a little part inside all of us guys do and that's the main reason behind this post.
And as long as you get the basics covered - you're going to see it happen for you - so thank me when you get a chance:
The right attitude towards women - they're not objects, they want to be seduced, they ENJOY feeling attraction.
There's no need to degrade, play, or go about the task in an unethical manner.
Learn the art of seduction and you'll go a very long way.
Do it from the playbook of being a real man and you'll succeed.
There's not way around it - instant attraction requires you to dress the part in every way possible.
Work with what you already have and build or better what can be changed - as in being in shape and healthy too.
Body language is a KEY ingredient and can not be overlooked or you will fail miserably and quickly.
You have to walk the walk and back your first impressions up with confidence and a touch of primal "animalistic" magnetism.
When the basics above are covered - that's when you get to use the greatest asset a man can learn - conversational skills and attractive communication.
How you talk to women, especially in the first few moments you meet or approach her is probably the hardest part to get down so practice it often.
When you're just starting out - just remember to avoid the common mistakes listed above in the "conversational section" and you'll quickly see how just doing that can make a huge difference and allow her to create attraction.
Do everything you can to not get in your own way as the first real step, and instant attraction will happen quite naturally because you'll not only be unlike any guy she may have met, but also because you'll make a strong lasting impression on her.
Instant attraction IS possible - believe it - LET her feel it.
Make no attempt at all to disrupt a natural process she enjoys, and it will happen.
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