If You’re Looking For Her Approval, This Is Why Women Don’t Like You

"Reasons why you're failing with women #6 - You're Way Too Accommodating To Her Needs Before Yours – You’re An Approval Seeker. Women have you whipped and it's exactly why they don't feel much attraction to you and why they will use you too."

Approval seeking comes in many forms and NONE of them will attract a high-quality partner.

This one is about going too far to accommodate her with little or no disregard for yourself, just because you think (or actually believe)it's the only way any woman could or would like you.

It's typically a trade off.

You give her something in return for her affection, love, or attraction.

It could be attention, ass-kissing, gifts, status, choices and decisions, time, and sometimes yes, even money.

ANYTHING you do to GET (or try to convince) a woman to like you through gift giving, listening to her problems about other guys, doing favors for her that are absurd, kissing her ass, disregarding your feelings while giving up respect for yourself in the hopes she’ll like you more it means you are an approval seeker.

This is not confined to getting women, an approval seeker normally doesn't discriminate.

It's however more prevalent when it's related to ATTRACTING women.

Which means seeking the approval of others IS the real problem and it becomes much worse when the opposite sex is involved.

Here’s what it says about you:

“Hi, I want your approval and attention.

I’m willing to let YOU be the one who’s in control… and let YOU call the shots… and do anything to please YOU…

If you’ll give me your attention and approval”

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If you’re constantly letting women walk all over you, you’re going to get CRUSHED plus you won't be creating any attraction at all.

I WAS a classic approval seeker when it came to women.

The things I would do hoping to get something in return was not only absurd and ridiculous, was demeaning, disrespectful to myself, and set me up for failure after failure...

UNLESS you consider being in every woman's lame-ass non-sexual friend's zone a success.

Which I certainly do not anymore!

There's absolutely no need to get into all the sorted details of my past pathetic ways around women.

How DO guys become approval seekers?

A lack of belief in themselves to be capable or good enough for a woman or women in general.

A lack of knowledge or the skills to create attraction and therefore rely on approval tactics as a first and unfortunate last resort.

A faltered belief system on what women want and are attracted to which basically means, you fall for the myth that women are only into looks, wealth, fame, and their attraction mechanism is just like yours.

A refusal to become proactive and make viable changes in your life because you feel like a victim and non-influential in your world.

A complete and total misunderstanding of the FEMALE mind and her emotions causing you to believe using logic and false cause-effect outcomes will work for you, when they never do and your failed results are proof.

HOW do you overcome this approval affliction?

The answer is in the reasons listed above and for some, it's a little more work than others.

Form a realistic belief in yourself that you can be liked and attractive to women.

Seriously, if you don't like yourself all that much and feel like you have nothing to offer women, then this needs to be taken care of FIRST.

This is an inner game problem and while I can not possibly cover all your personal problems here today, but there are ways to fix it.

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Admit or understand or begin to see that logic does not play a role here. Women (and men too) are not logical problems that can be solved with a simple plug-in formula with rules.

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Otherwise you DO have the choice of piecing it altogether, it will just take a lot longer and I guarantee maintaining your course toward success, will prove to be much more difficult and exhausting too.

Below I've listed a few amazing articles you can read to help you not only see this approval-seeking problem for what it is, but also how to eliminate SOME of it - but not all.

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Become a more attractive man by avoiding the common mistakes which are more than generally associated with approval seeking and a “weak sense of your identity”.

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Stop Giving Women What They Say They Want, Make Them Feel Something Instead

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They will never truly feel something deep for a guy who is willing to give so much of themselves up.

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When you give the beautiful more power just because of their attractiveness, it's not only unfair, but you also give up your power to attract.

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Do You Suffer From the Nice Guy Syndrome? Damaging Your Self Respect

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Nice guys don't attract women for reasons beyond the old adage. It's because they're selfish, emotionally greedy, and don't earn the respect from women and others.

They think they're a victim. They want to be liked because they feel they deserve it. They based how they feel on how others see them.

Stop Being Manipulated – High Character and Identifying Others

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A HUGE problem with all this ass-kissing or approval seeking is that women will take advantage of you and you will be more susceptible to being manipulated.

Potential challenges in approaching and seducing the opposite sex. Remain high in character and identify others who will try and succeed at manipulating you, and this includes women.

Stop Complimenting Her So Much - You're Not Doing Her or You Any Good!

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Women do love compliments, it is a great way to start flirting with her but, if you're not having any luck or success with women and you're giving away compliments too often, you're doing it all wrong. This is why you must stop doing it immediately!

Don't let your niceness get in the way of attracting women & getting laid.

Never Let Her Looks Affect Your Actions & Stop Giving Away Your Respect

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Are you letting attractive women walk all over you? Why are you doing her favors just because she asks?

Are you afraid she won't like you?

If you want to attract women you find very attractive, you can NOT let her looks affects your actions despite all of it.

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This will hep you to eliminate MANY of the problems associated with approval seeking because it's typically a "nice guy" predominant problem.

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In conclusion...

Being overly accommodating to seek the approval of women is a very SERIOUS problem and it could be the number one reason why women just don't like you in a sexual way.

You're basically disqualifying yourself and telling women YOU don't think you're good enough or have anything attractive to offer them, so you barter your time, sometimes money, and certainly your respect for their attention and more.

Whether you know the rules of the "supposed game" and how attraction works does matter BUT not as much as not LIKING YOURSELF first and this "approval" problem always seems to start there.

Despite the common myths out there, women want a man who actually does like himself first.

At least enough to not give up his self-respect, valuable time, money, and change his opinions just because he wants everyone to like him.

I won't make it all nice for you and tell you this is an easy problem to overcome. It can be quite difficult for some because problems like this are not confined to just women and attraction.

They cross over to many aspects of one's life.

But I will say it IS FIXABLE and it's worth taking the time to becoming pro-active to get the job done once and for all.

Otherwise you WILL struggle in many areas of your life including women. You'll find yourself always being taken advantage of and so much more.

So take the initiative.

Suck it up.

Find a reasonable to way completely ELIMINATE it from your life and women WILL LIKE you.. for you, without having to kiss their ass, do them favors, give up your time and respect, etc...

Once more... but with feeling...

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