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My Attractive Sexy Life – A Visit To The Pub – A Sexual Adventure or a Jealous Affair?

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There’s No Place For Drama And Jealousy In My Attractive Sexy Life

Every once in a while I visit “The Pub”.

It’s a run down bar well past its glory days. The floor is grimy and will soon land in the grungy basement. The walls are thick with dried beer and twenty year old smoke. The chairs are uncomfortable and constantly switched out for an older, but more stable one. They then find themselves banned to the  basement to live out their dying days with the rest.

The last count of abandonment was fifteen chairs, odd parts, and other unmentionables.

The Pub is filled with the typical drama often brought out by the overuse of alcohol. I usually don’t pay much attention to it. It’s boring played out plots that always end in such a way to guarantee even more drama in the end. Even though the participants believe the problem was solved.

However… I do pay attention to the “good-looking” crowd that uses the place as a stopover, or the last stop before the bedroom.

There never fails to be one or two couples that come in and are constantly making out. The dude’s hands are plastered to her butt and her boobs are being force-fed to his chest. They tend to give new meaning to the phrase “public displays of affection.

The woman last night was just “alright” looking. Nothing too special. She had a cute slightly over-sized butt and a bubbly persona which she tried to keep up the entire night.

The guy was typical. Stocky build, bad boy walk, “screw with my woman and I’ll hit you” attitude on his face, but never overly loud or even obnoxious. They carry in what ends up being the hottest girl there,  show her off, feed their egos a little and use the place to get her to go home with him. After all who wouldn’t want to leave this place quickly.

I’ve included some “guest tips” from the ones I recall taught me how it works. The guys over at Lovesystems and Dean Cortez.

Back to the girl… She’s is a little different from the rest. A little more outgoing and actually knows a few guys there. So When her mouth is done kissing she uses it, and her body to bask in glow of the male onlookers.

Those are the guys pretending not to care she’s hot but are secretly dreaming how much they wish they were the “dude” with her. They’re easy to spot because I was one of them.

The rest of them have no reservations in giving her what she wants…

Attention! Validation. More attention!!

Have I ever mentioned the bathrooms at the pub?

The lady’s room has no heat. The girls generally hover and make an attempt to hold back the door with any loose body parts because the lock has been broken for years.

The men’s is tiny, smelly, has an inch of water on the floor, and if you’re lucky to get your business done in time before you fall through the floor, I would say you’re doing good.

It has a single toilet. A tiny sink. The toilet seat is always missing. The paper dispenser ends up on the wet floor before each night ends.The toilet paper tries to escape the madness but flailing itself in the dirty water before dawn arises.

Back to the couple…

She removes her mouth from his to literally “pop” around the room. I noticed she kept looking at me like she was trying to figure out who I was. Apparently I come off as the Alpha in this place. Not a feat anyone couldn’t do there.

I paid as little attention to her as I could. Hot or not, when couples like this are there I rarely introduce myself. Mostly to not interrupt his “work” and secondly because I know when the girl comes out to play it’s usually bad news.

No matter who the guy is – this is the place where his jealousy is tested to the full extent of her abilities.

If he passes she will either get angry at him for not caring enough or become “fakely” exhausted with him if he acts out of the jealousy. Either way it insures a dramatic evening which I’m sure makes the sex that much better later on.

Okay let’s not get too generalized here. Often they’re just a happy couple or an emerging relationship stopping by for a couple of drinks.

However in this particular case there was definitely a little more going on.

Be prepared to cringe…

I look back to see if the bathroom was clear and notice them heading that way. I understand when they head to the bathroom together it’s usually the ladies. Which is fine with me, I rarely ever use that one.

But this time, might I add the well dressed couple find their way into guy’s room just when I needed to use it. I wasn’t happy about that.

First, I get the disgusted image of what is going on in there on top of the beer trying desperately to get out of my system and the fact there was no way I was going to use the woman’s bathroom which is within moaning reach.

The minutes pass slowly and I’m literally starting to dance in my seat. Because now I know there’s no way I want to use that bathroom after they are done. Think about it. Disgusting wet floor, slimy walls, dirty sink, and don’t get me start on touching that door knob…

Finally… Eventually they sneak their way out. (As if they wanted to be sneaking around.)

Now I’m all for sexual adventures but this is “The Roman Freaking Pub” we’re talking about it. Whether it was just a blow job or more I felt a little puke travel up my throat imagining trying to get off with the stench emanating from below. (I’m detecting a Trainspotting” moment here.

Anyways they come stumbling out and I agree with myself to give it a long few minutes for their sexual stench to leave before I’m going in.

The guy wound up over with his new friends or admirers when I decided to take the plunge and she was left alone, desperately seeking out some new attention, validation, and yes, more attention.

Wouldn’t you know it, once again her eyes fix on me so being the prick I am I give her a classic look from my repertoire, “Please!!! You just grossed me out more than I can bare.”

I watch her eyes widen as a lame ass pout grows from her lips and then she “accidentally” looks down as if something had just fallen on her shoe. Yeah right.

Still thought,. not enough to write but wait, again, not moments later, as if some magical force drew her to me, there she was – expecting me to motion a greeting. You know, the whole attention and validation thing.

Every sign she gave me was trying to gain my approval. As if I hurt her ego by not paying attention to her. As if she had invested something in herself to me. Who knows, maybe she felt I was the only guy there that didn’t want her in the first place and now she feels even worse knowing I didn’t approve of what she had just done. (Of course mostly because I had to take a freaking piss so bad.)

But I didn’t write this to judge either one of them or what they did or even how they did it. Sure it’s not for me. I have fooled around at the pub and have used it myself as a stopover before we go back to her place.

I prefer to let people live their own lives and if this is what they wanted, as long as it doesn’t directly affect my well-being, I say go for it.

If you and your boyfriend or girlfriend feel like getting a little dirty and spicing up your sex life hell I more than happy for you.

My point of all this is simple:

Guys… If you plan on this kind of evening, make damn sure she is secure enough in herself. My disapproval seemed to crash her evening and destroy her mood.

To her… What I think is NONE of your business and it shouldn’t matter to you. I’m just a guy with a lot of opinions about everything and I really just wanted to take a piss.

To him… Way to be a real guy. Seriously. I respected your attitude and your ability to just be a cool guy and not some dick looking for a fight.

Guys again… Pay attention. Some women are into this kind of thing and it’s great when you get to experience the world around you disappear as your lips are locked on each other. BUT be warned about where, how, and who she is.

Make sure you know her well enough not to be using your ass to allow her to play out some drama. I’ve seen it happen enough and you’re probably going to find more of it at some ratty old Pub.

Women…. I see it a lot! I don’t pay attention to you in the same way other guys do and suddenly your curiosity or sometimes insecurities begin to play out before my very eyes. I know you notice when I refuse to look at your tits or stare at your ass when you walk away.

One real example I’ve heard: “Why are you the only guy that doesn’t check out my —-?”

Because I refuse to objectify your body. Not because I’m better than that or I’m acting like I don’t care. Mainly because I refuse to let your body gain all the power. I believe it’s just a better way to meet your ass.

And trust me… If I get to know you better and you’re peaking my interest when I start checking you out, it will serve the purpose of turning you on just as much as me.

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6 comments… add one
  • lois

    Oh Mr.White! That last statement is why you are soooo good at this. It makes you the guy every girl in a bar wants to go home with. Nothing is more sexy then intelligence being used to sexually attract females. I also would like to add in control. That control is hot! To be the girl who got you to lose it, would be …….. (sigh), nice work. Cant wait to read more…

    • Thanks again, “Lois”. Haha! Control over myself is one sexy trait I would never give up.

  • Shhh It's A Secret

    Ha Ha Ha !!!

    I laughed my ass off, rolled off my chair and I think I may have pissed myself alittle while reading this. Ok OK maybe maybe what I smoked had alittle to do with it. GOOD FOR YOU!.. For seeing right through the bullshit and for having a enough respect for yourself.. I liked how you handled her. And by the way, and this is just my opinion. Women like this, is partly why some men don’t know what to do with themselves and act fools and look at women as objects. I have a saying which I do believe to be true. ” You attract what you are” If you present yourself like trash, then trash will be the only thing that will find you. With that said I’m off to bed.

    Ta Ta for now Peter.. er ummm I mean Trouble with a capital T

    P.S. I turned down the second date.. Yes I know I’am sooo mean.

  • Shhh It's A Secret

    Oh wait I forgot one thing. I would of paid anything to be a fly on the wall, to see your expression of disapproval on your face, when she walked out the bathroom.
    That’s just damn sexy.

    • I would not call that mean at all “Miss Secret.” Haha! Yeah big secret to me. 😀

      You both had a great time and you had the fun you both were looking for. You know he was into you and it’s never mean to not go on a second date when you don’t feel the same. You knew nothing was going to come out of it and you spared him falling more for you. You and I know how easy that is for men, (with you.)

      We both also know when you told him nothing was going to come of it, and he said he was okay with it, he probably wasn’t. Sure those feelings will dissipate a little but if you went on that second date it could’ve taken much longer for that to happen. You acted maturely and with great respect. I commend you for that.

      Now go change your pants please. 🙂

      By the way I also appreciate your comment and your words of wisdom,

      “You attract what you are.”

      This is true genuine wisdom any man or woman can benefit from.

  • Lois

    Hahaha! Your right you would not give up that control but for someone to try and get you to give that up would be………… just plain Fun! Lois

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