Nice Guys Can Finish First When it Comes to Attracting Women

You may be asking how is it even possible that a nice guy can finish first in anything, let alone when it comes to attracting women.

The fact is:

ANY guy can learn what is needed to create attraction IF he's willing to do what it takes to make it happen for him.

Nope, you don't have to give up being nice unless you're the wrong type of nice.


Yes, there IS a wrong type of nice and if you believe you finish last in anything including dating and attracting women because you're nice, then you're probably the wrong type of nice, or are letting yourself fall for all the myths on out there and have a faulty limited belief system you refuse to let go.

It's as simple as that.

Your mindset, your beliefs, and how you connect those beliefs in your life need to be slightly altered before anything is going to change for you.

Some of those tweaks may seem ridiculous, some of them may seem too small to make a difference, some of them may just appear to be semantics, but when you add it all up...

They can make all the difference between your success and the very fine line of failure.

You've been either told, taught, or learned the wrong things about attraction and women and it doesn't matter how it's happened because that's about to change starting TODAY!

Attraction is an emotional response to an outside stimuli. You have no control over feeling it and neither do women.

Once you understand how to trigger it in a woman, there's NOTHING she can do about it.

Her ONLY choice is how to respond to it BUT when you have the right skills and attitude you can LEAD her where ever you want her to go and most will happily follow you along.

The secret to attracting enormous amounts of women naturally (yes I said enormous and I'm probably underselling it) is simply:

  • Setting your life up so you naturally meet lots of single available women.
  • Building upon your personal traits and your beliefs so that you become a naturally attractive man.
  • Communicating yourself to women using skills and techniques which trigger her attraction or emotional response to you.
  • More is covered on the homepage.

And ALL of that has NOTHING to do with how you look or how much money you make or even how NICE you are...

Absolutely nothing.


They do require SKILLS and that's a good thing because it means YOU CAN LEARN THEM and therefore you can learn HOW to attract women.

Nice guys typically finish last or don't even get in the game with women for many reasons.

A lot of those mistakes or reasons why are covered in the chosen posts below, on this massive page, and how to fix them too.

I promise you the game is not rigged or fixed but it's not fair either. Nothing really is in the world all the time.

Just because you're nice or PLAY NICE does not mean you DESERVE anything.

The world does NOT owe you anything because you choose to be good to it.

Whether you choose to believe that statement or not, doesn't really matter.

However, at some point in your life, to take full advantage of everything the world can give you, for you to succeed in many areas of your life...

You MUST find a way to ACCEPT it.

Once more, The world, including women, does not owe you anything just because you choose to be nice or play nice.

Your morality and ethics are your own and you have no right or privilege to push them on others whatsoever. They're built from your character and come from your choices in life.

They are entirely your responsibility.

Overly nice guys like to think they're better than others because of their ethics...

You're not.

Which is not a bad thing depending how you took that last statement, how you take my words, how you feel about yourself, and how your past experiences with women have shaped you over the years.

Let me dispel a myth about women.

Women really do want a nice guy.


Nice is also very subjective. Your niceness is interpreted by a woman in a way which she may not ever even trust.

And when you're way too nice she doesn't trust your sincerity.

It doesn't feel genuine and she feels that she's being more manipulated than the overly confident jerk or pricks who are at least upfront with what their goal with her are.

This idea of being genuine, upfront, sincere, etc... is fully covered in the first chapter here at DiaLteG™ - here's the preview page You can purchase the full membership right here.

There are so many qualities of "niceness" women look for in a guy but they're not something which needs to be proved to her.

You must gain her trust first by creating a real connection with her while at the same time communicating to her in a way which triggers the attraction towards you.

And even then, all things considered, she may or may not take it is being genuine and sincere.

There are no guarantees either because she's a woman whose experiences have shaped her life and her belief system along the way too.

And just as if you would and probably should, think twice about someone you don't know offering a supposed "free gift - no strings attached" randomly proposed to you.

To be to be true? Perhaps.

You're niceness or being good won't help in the beginning very much at all. It can used for what it is. Done wrong, can actually hurt your chances as covered in the many first readings which opened my eyes to the world of attraction: Why Being Too Nice To Women And Not Understanding Attraction Hurts

That doesn't mean you should become an asshole or jerk, it simply means you must NOT try to prove or advertise to any woman that you're a nice guy.

Most women will figure it all out on their own and she'll be more likely to believe it when she comes to her own conclusion.

Here's another misconception about women and attraction the typical nice guy believes which needs to go away:

Women wants a man who can live in her life with her. She makes the rules and you must abide by them or else she won't like you.


They want a guy who has a life and wants to share it and grow the experience together.

This is where the whole "get a life" idea come from and why it's so important in attraction and onto developing a relationship.

This is good news because it means the more you focus on your life experiences and enjoy them, the more likely a woman will want to be a part of it.

Next faltered belief...

One of the most common ones which is wrong on so many levels.

Women are only attracted to jerks or guys who treat them like shit.

Sure, lots of women love them a bad boy, but that doesn't mean you need to actually have to be one.

You just have to integrate some bad boy qualities into your life and none of them have to be dangerous or life threatening.

I show you how it's done right here - preview page only.

You don't have to be rude or obnoxious.

Taking more risks is one way to do it and you don't have to live on the edge.

You ONLY have to be courageous in parts of your life where it's important and relative.

Courage goes a long way to capture a woman's heart.

And this must be said...

A normal healthy woman does not like to be treated like shit and will never allow some dude to make her feel anything less than who she is!

The undeniable fact is that women become deeply attracted to guys who make them feel something another man can not produce.

That something starts with attraction and can be built or grow into something more.

Just because some jerk can do it better than you with one or more woman does not mean women only fall for jerks or want to be treated like shit.

It means she probably has more issues dealing with her mental health that needs to be handled on her own. The type of woman you'd want to stay away from anyways. Of course that's entirely up to you.

Now with all that out of the way...

Nice Guys Can Finish First With Women!

I've pulled together lots of articles written to help you see past all the bullshit on being nice and attracting women.

Go through them one by one and you will soon get it.

Here are the two related categories:

Don't you hate being called a nice guy?

The label has a duality that surpasses many others. It's a judgement that can make you feel good bad or turn you into something else.

This section is here to take note of what it does and can mean to a genuine nice guy and show how it's affected their life in any way.

Nice Guy Not Defined – You’re Not Defined By How Others Label You

A few long or short stories from my own nice guy life.

Some will be pathetic. Some will be funny. Some might uplift and inspire you. Others will make you cringe and possibly hate me.

The nice guys approach to attraction starts with these because it explains how and when I finally became an attractive man.

Nice Guy Stories – From Sad, Lonely, Pathetic to An Attractive Man

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Are You A Nice Guy & Tired Of Being A Loser With Women? This Ends Today!

Nice Guy Alone Tired Frustrated No Woman

A sad true story of a lonely nice guy who finds a way to overcome his problems with women.

There is no cure but if you feel like you're suffering. today your life will change. Here's how attraction works and how you can create it.

No more hoping things will change. Start believing you're not a loser with women.

Are You A Nice Guy & Tired Of Being A Loser With Women? This Ends Today!

Do You Suffer From the Nice Guy Syndrome? Damaging Your Self Respect

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Nice guys don't attract women for reasons beyond the old adage. It's because they're selfish, emotionally greedy, and don't earn the respect from women and others.

They think they're a victim.

They want to be liked because they feel they deserve it. They based how they feel on how others see them.

Do You Suffer From the Nice Guy Syndrome? Damaging Your Self Respect

The Difference Between "Nice" and "Mr Nice Guy"

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There is a big difference between being a good guy and being too much of a nice guy.

How your nice guy ways are not the reason why you're failing.

If you listen to all the bad dating advice out there, you're apt to treat women badly, and that won't lead to success in dating either.

This is how it is.

The Difference Between "Nice" and "Mr Nice Guy"

Who Would You Rather Be, Bob or Dave? Single, Intelligent, Nice Guys

Two Nice Guy One Woman

Are you the passive Bob or the understanding Dave? Both are nice guys but only one demonstrates the kind of men women want and date regularly.

The difference in their attitude make all the difference in creating attraction and getting the dating relationship life you desire.

Choose wisely my friend!

Who Would You Rather Be, Bob or Dave? Single, Intelligent, Nice Guys

Why Being Too Nice To Women And Not Understanding Attraction Hurts

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Being nice is a great trait but when it comes to attracting women this is how it can hurt your success.

Understand and you'll be much better off. Interact with a woman long enough for her to not feel it for you and you're done.

Understand these truths about attraction, being nice, and what it really takes to get women.

Why Being Too Nice To Women And Not Understanding Attraction Hurts

Being Nice Has Little to do with Attraction

Women Looking Nice

The first tip in becoming a more attractive man is accepting all truths about attraction.

This mindset (or new belief) will have you understanding one important fact - being nice has little or practically nothing to do with attraction.

This explains why and dispels the myth that nice guys finish last with women.

Being Nice Has Little to do with Attraction

20 Nice Guy Tips to Make You & Your Personality More Attractive to Women

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Follow all 20 tips & you will attract more women. This free ebook will show you how, help you avoid nice guy mistakes, build your confidence, & turn you into a more naturally attractive man.

No tricks or games. You can still be a good guy.

Flirting, teasing, humor, making the first move, affection, rejection, and more.

20 Nice Guy Tips to Make You & Your Personality More Attractive to Women

You Want To Attract Her? Start By Changing How You Define Being Nice

Man giving woman present being too nice

You're a nice guy then you shouldn't have to prove it by putting on your best face.

Make her feel something and leave her wanting more of you. Change your real definition of being nice.

Making her feel attraction IS the nicest thing you can do. Stop trying to be nice and start being real.

You Want To Attract Her? Start By Changing How You Define Being Nice

Why She Says You're Too Nice and Not Her Type - Sexy Guy With A Life

Woman Looking Nice
The only type of man you need to be is a sexy guy with a life.

Women do want a nice guy so you can attract her by understanding your social life. It's not your niceness that is not doing it for her.

Stop taking this stuff so seriously. Get some social awareness. What women want and how you can do it for her.

Why She Says You're Too Nice and Not Her Type - Sexy Guy With A Life

Failing A Woman's Early Test Can Leave A Nice Guy Alone And Wondering

Woman Bartender Testing You

Today's "lesson" is about passing a woman's early test, when to call a woman after you got her number.

BUT that's not the real test. See HOW things are supposed to happen which guarantees you pass and gives YOU the POWER to call her whenever you want.

Make a great first impression and leave her wanting more.

Failing A Woman's Early Test Can Leave A Nice Guy Alone And Wondering

Survey - Why Women Are Attracted To Jerks & Bad Boys, How Nice Guy Can Do It Too

Jerk Nice Women

Survey results of why women are attracted to jerks shows that women mistake the jerk for a bad boy.

Knowing the difference can help a nice guy attract girls. A breakdown of traits and how to filter out the negative to trigger attraction while still being a good guy.

The method or formula is given.

Survey - Why Women Are Attracted To Jerks & Bad Boys, How Nice Guy Can Do It Too

Peter White Interviews Carlos Xuma - Nice Guys Tips To Attract Women

Carlos Xuma With Women

A transcribed interview between Peter White & Carlos Xuma. Topics covered are nice guys attraction. Seeking approval. Masculinity.

How to attract women. Friends zone. Being a true leader. The Bad Boy Formula. Disapproval. Hate. Love. Value.

How it's all connected what it takes for the nice guy to create attraction.

Peter White Interviews Carlos Xuma - Nice Guys Tips To Attract Women

Is It Bad To Just Want To Get Laid? 4 Nice Guy Rules For Casual Sex

Hot Woman Laying Bed Waiting You
If you're a nice guy who thinks casual sex or just getting laid is a bad thing or only something a jerk does to women, you'll want to read this.

Follow the four rules, know the benefits of one night stand or sex, and learn how just wanting to get laid is not a bad thing at all.

Is It Bad To Just Want To Get Laid? 4 Nice Guy Rules For Casual Sex

9 Questions Reveals Why You’re A Nice Guy & Women Feel Like You’re A Creep

Woman Creeped Out By Nice Guy
You're not a creep, you're just a nice guy but some of things you're doing around women might be creeping her out and you're not aware that it's happening to you.

These nine questions will help you determine if women are feeling strange around you.

Tips and advice included to show you how to stop doing it.

9 Questions Reveals Why You’re A Nice Guy & Women Feel Like You’re A Creep

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