You may be asking how is it even possible that a nice guy can finish first in anything, let alone when it comes to attracting women.
The fact is – ANY guy can learn what is needed to create attraction IF he’s willing to do whatever it takes to make it happen.
No – you don’t have to give up being nice unless you’re the wrong type of nice.
Yes – there IS a wrong type of nice and if you believe you finish last in anything including dating and attracting women because you’re nice – then you ARE the wrong type of nice.
It’s as simple as that.
Your mindset, your beliefs, and how you connect those beliefs in your life need to be slightly altered before anything is going to change for you.
Some of those tweaks may seem ridiculous, some of them may seem too small to make a difference, some of them may just appear to be semantics – but when you add it all up…
They can make all the difference between your success and the very fine line of failure.
You’ve been either told, taught, or learned the wrong things about attraction and women and it doesn’t matter how it’s happened because that’s about to change starting TODAY!
Attraction is an emotional response to an outside stimuli. You have no control over feeling it and NEITHER DO WOMEN.
Once you understand how to trigger it in a woman, there’s NOTHING she can do about it. Her ONLY choice is how to respond to it BUT when you have the right skills and attitude you can LEAD her where ever you want her to go and most will happily follow you along.
Yes it’s really that simple.
The secret to attracting enormous amounts of women naturally (yes I said enormous and I’m probably underselling it) is simply:
Setting your life up so you naturally meet lots of single available women.
Building upon your personal traits and your beliefs so that you become a naturally attractive man.
Communicating yourself to women using skills and techniques which trigger her attraction or emotional response to you.
And ALL of that has NOTHING to do with how you look or how much money you make or even how NICE you are… Absolutely nothing.
BUT they do require SKILLS and that’s a good thing because it means YOU CAN LEARN THEM and therefore you can learn HOW to attract women.
Nice guys typically finish last or don’t even get in the game with women for lots of reasons.
A lot of those mistakes or reasons why are covered below and how to fix them too.
And guess what – the game is not rigged or fixed, but it’s not fair either.
Just because you’re nice or PLAY NICE does not mean you DESERVE anything.
The world does NOT owe you anything.
That’s your first REAL lesson in attraction and in life.
Believe it or not – doesn’t matter – but for you to succeed in many areas of your life you must ACCEPT it.
The world, including women, does NOT owe you anything just because you CHOOSE to be nice or play nice.
See – told you what you’ve learned or have been taught is all wrong.
Here’s another misconception about women you might believe or have been taught:
Women really DO WANT A NICE GUY.
Nice is subjective. Your niceness is interpreted by a woman in a way which she doesn’t trust.
So in a way, when you’re nice (or definitely overly nice) to a woman – she doesn’t trust your sincerity.
There are many qualities of “niceness” women look for in a guy but they’re not something which needs to be proved to her.
You must gain her trust first by creating a real connection and comfort. Only then will it become sincere or genuine.
Just as if you would think twice about someone you don’t know offering a supposed “free gift – no strings attached” randomly proposed to you.
So… you’re niceness or being good won’t help in the beginning. It can actually hurt your chances.
That doesn’t mean you should become an asshole or jerk, it simply means you must NOT try to prove or advertise to any woman that you’re a nice guy.
She’ll figure it all out on her own AND she’ll be more likely to believe it when she comes to her own conclusion about you.
Here’s another misconception about women and attraction the typical nice guy believes… which needs to stop.
Women do NOT fall or feel overly attraction to guys who want to live her life with her.
They want a guy who has a life and wants share the experience together.
This is where the whole “get a life” idea come from and why they’re so important in attraction and developing a relationship.
This is good news – it means the more you focus on your life experiences and enjoy them – the more likely a woman will want to be a part of it.
Next faltered belief… probably one of the most common ones which is wrong on so many levels.
Women only fall or are attracted to jerks or guys who treat them like shit.
Well really – ALL women want a bad boy but that doesn’t mean you need to actually be one.
You just have to integrate some bad boy qualities into your life and none of them have to be dangerous or life threatening.
You don’t have to be rude or obnoxious.
Take more risks is one way to do it and again, you don’t have to live on the edge to take risks. You ONLY have to be courageous in parts of your life where it’s important.
Walking up to a woman and opening a conversation is a risk.
Starting a new job is a risk.
Trying new foods is a risk.
You can see how at any time when you have something to lose but you RISK it for something better or more exciting, you’re taking a risk and that my friend – is all the bad boy you need in you to attract ANY woman.
Of course there are a million different things you can do to get women to see you as a bad boy AND you still get to be one of the good guys.
The undeniable FACT is that women become deeply attracted to guys who make them FEEL something.
Just because some jerk can do it better than you does not mean women only fall for jerks or want to be treated like shit.
This limited beliefs, misconceptions, and false connections can continue but I won’t be going on.
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I’ve pulled together lots of articles written to help you see past all the bullshit that’s been thrown out there on being nice and attracting women.
Go through them one by one and you will soon get it.
A nice guy CAN finish first women.
ALL women really DO want a nice guy.
A sad true story of a lonely nice guy who finds a way to overcome his problems with women.
There is no cure but if you feel like you’re suffering. today your life will change. Here’s how attraction works and how you can create it.
No more hoping things will change. Start believing you’re not a loser with women.
They think they’re a victim.
They want to be liked because they feel they deserve it. They based how they feel on how others see them.
How your nice guy ways are not the reason why you’re failing.
If you listen to all the bad dating advice out there, you’re apt to treat women badly, and that won’t lead to success in dating either.
This is how it is.
Are you the passive Bob or the understanding Dave? Both are nice guys but only one demonstrates the kind of men women want and date regularly.
The difference in their attitude make all the difference in creating attraction and getting the dating relationship life you desire.
Choose wisely my friend!
Being nice is a great trait but when it comes to attracting women this is how it can hurt your success.
Understand and you’ll be much better off. Interact with a woman long enough for her to not feel it for you and you’re done.
Understand these truths about attraction, being nice, and what it really takes to get women.
The first tip in becoming a more attractive man is accepting all truths about attraction.
This mindset (or new belief) will have you understanding one important fact – being nice has little or practically nothing to do with attraction.
This explains why and dispels the myth that nice guys finish last with women.
Follow all 20 tips & you will attract more women. This free ebook will show you how, help you avoid nice guy mistakes, build your confidence, & turn you into a more naturally attractive man.
No tricks or games. You can still be a good guy.
Flirting, teasing, humor, making the first move, affection, rejection, and more.
You’re a nice guy then you shouldn’t have to prove it by putting on your best face.
Make her feel something and leave her wanting more of you. Change your real definition of being nice.
Making her feel attraction IS the nicest thing you can do. Stop trying to be nice and start being real.
Women do want a nice guy so you can attract her by understanding your social life. It’s not your niceness that is not doing it for her.
Stop taking this stuff so seriously. Get some social awareness. What women want and how you can do it for her.
Today’s “lesson” is about passing a woman’s early test, when to call a woman after you got her number.
BUT that’s not the real test. See HOW things are supposed to happen which guarantees you pass and gives YOU the POWER to call her whenever you want.
Make a great first impression and leave her wanting more.
Survey results of why women are attracted to jerks shows that women mistake the jerk for a bad boy.
Knowing the difference can help a nice guy attract girls. A breakdown of traits and how to filter out the negative to trigger attraction while still being a good guy.
The method or formula is given.
A transcribed interview between Peter White & Carlos Xuma. Topics covered are nice guys attraction. Seeking approval. Masculinity.
How to attract women. Friends zone. Being a true leader. The Bad Boy Formula. Disapproval. Hate. Love. Value.
How it’s all connected what it takes for the nice guy to create attraction.
Follow the four rules, know the benefits of one night stand or sex, and learn how just wanting to get laid is not a bad thing at all.
These nine questions will help you determine if women are feeling strange around you.
Tips and advice included to show you how to stop doing it.