Nice guys just do NOT flirt with women enough, if ever, and if you want to trigger any attraction, you must start doing it immediately.
Flirting is a form of sexual communication.
It's not something only players do. It's NOT a bad thing.
Flirting can and will change the dynamics between you and women for the better.
Learn HOW to do it. Practice it whenever possible.
Perfect it and use it to create better and more excitement interactions with the opposite sex.
Flirting is a SKILL you can not afford to not be fluent in.
It's not a sleazy tactic to get into a woman's pants.
It's about adding a pure form of communicating sexuality to women and when done right - displays indirectly to women charm, wit, intelligence, experience, and lets women know - you GET IT!
Here's a near perfect definition of flirting:
Flirting is simply ANY INTERACTION of ANY KIND with (members of the opposite sex) that would flat-out feel WRONG were it directed to someone of the same gender.
This ultimately means you're not limited to crass bold statements which do little but make women believe you're a crass rude guy who only ever has sex on his mind.
Telling a woman she has nice tits is NOT flirting.
Whistling at a woman walk by is NOT flirting.
Smacking some chic's ass even playfully is NOT flirting.
Using a pick up line or an opening with a sexual overtone is NOT flirting.
What IS Flirting?
As Scot noted above, it could be anything you'd say or how you interact with a woman which would be odd, awkward, weird, or strange if it were directed towards another guy if you're a heterosexual guy.
It's HOW you talk or interact with a woman which can generally be teasing, have sexual overtones, contain subtle sexual innuendos, create sexual tension and/or chemistry, up to and including complimenting her in a different way.
There are many types of flirting.
Creating fake scenarios about future events in which she fails or even succeeds with you.
Such as telling her you wouldn't be good together because you're too much alike at the same time implying you would be good together.
Creating fictitious relationships through storytelling. Otherwise known as role playing.
Such as building up an imaginative story together about how some day you're both going to take over the world.
Using sexual humor to entice her to play along with you.
Teasing her about anything she does which may be cute, but you'd rather bust her ass about it.
It's a blend of charm, wit, humor, and social awareness with sexual overtones and innuendos.
It's play fighting verbally sometimes too.
It's about creating chemistry and sexual tension.
It's about making her laugh (with you) in a way which creates or triggers feelings of attraction.
Flirting is FUN. It's a shared enjoyable experience.
Flirting IS a natural thing to do. When you avoid it, you're subduing your or avoiding a natural ability or skill to attract women.
Flirting is a communication which shows you are a sexually aware, fun, playful man.
Women get that.
Women WANT that.
They understand it and when done right, no matter who she is, how old she is, where she is - they WILL understand it and are more than happy to play along.
Keeping in mind a previous nice guy tip:
So you can see - there is an unlimited way in which you can flirt.
Flirting can be practiced almost anywhere at anytime with any woman of any legal age.
Perfect it and use your best on the women you want.
How Do You Flirt?
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This page is from Chapter Three: The Nice Guy's Guide To Attracting Women.
If you're not flirting with women, you missing an essential key in creating attraction. Nice guys just don't flirt enough and must learn it and start practicing it immediately.
This tip will give you the real definition of flirting. You'll learn how and why it's a form of sexual communication. The many ways in which you can flirt with women PLUS how to tell if it's working or not.
Flirting is a natural thing to do and when done right displays many attractive traits.
It also make her FEEL good, laugh, and smile. She'll associate those feelings with you.
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