The phrase “become more selfish so you be selfless” is something some nice guys must learn to live by and it’s just one of the reasons why this is tip 20.
This tip – invest in yourself means you can almost take “girls” out of the equation of attraction and still attract some pretty amazing real and genuine women.
If you find yourself asking questions like this then you definitely need to spend more time investing in yourself:
“What does it mean when she…?”
“How can I tell if she likes me?”
Investing in yourself means to invest long-term for your future.
“Are you the passive Bob or the understanding Dave? Both are nice guys but only one demonstrates the kind of men women want and date regularly. The difference in their attitude make all the difference in creating attraction and getting the dating relationship life you desire. Choose wisely my friend!”
You won’t suddenly be “rich” tomorrow.
You can’t just think of a phrase or three words that women will be suddenly be begging for you.
It just does NOT happen that way.
If you do meet a woman who will sleep with you that quickly it had little to do with anything that came out of a spur of the moment feeling she felt in her pants. She probably had the idea in her head before she left the house that she was going to “get laid” tonight and you were in the right place, at the right time.
So do that.
Put yourself in the right place at the right time.
Assure yourself when that moment does arrive you’re ready for it because those “lucky” moments will not predictable.
They will only become more probable.
Think about your future.
What about your long-term relationships with women?
Do you want to be the best man for the one woman you feel is your soul-mate?
Well the more you have of yourself the more you’ll have to give…
The more you understand the better you’ll be equipped to function on a level of masculinity she’ll not only respect fully but she’ll never question that you are, without a doubt, the right man for her.
Women are NOT looking for perfection.
By sitting back and doing nothing for yourself you’re (in a way) telling her you are perfect and never have to better yourself.
You might not want to change. It’s tough because in a way you’re admitting to yourself something is wrong with you.
You might also be sticking to the belief that women “should” like you for who you are BUT that doesn’t work.
There’s nothing wrong with you.
You’re just adding something to yourself which is more attractive to women while at the same time eliminating many of the common mistakes nice guys make which stop them from being the women they desire the most.
Consider it an upgrade if you must. Imagine you’re “evolving” yourself.
Which requires you to invest some time in yourself.
Doing so while understanding your investing long-term means just by doing so – you will benefit in ALL areas of your life helping you to achieve a better balance.
Listen – I KNOW you might be coming here just because you want to just attract some girls and changing your whole life is not something you really want to do.
BUT no one is asking you to do that – only to invest a little more into yourself which in turns makes attracting women come more naturally to you.
Live your life everyday and evolve yourself with each opportunity and you will experience amazing results.
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Keep investing in yourself “long-term” and learn to live in the those new moments you create along the way.
Your path is your own to take and unlike some cheesy movies might make you believe – there is not one path you should be taking.
No one can take it for you.
No one can force you to do it.
No one can climb inside your mind and experience your world.
So make it your own.
Make it a very unique place.
Then learn to share yourself with the women you meet in a different more attractive way (called communication) because that’s all you’ll ever need to reasonable get ANY woman you desire.
Just TRY to be the best possible version of yourself you can be at any given time or day.
Replace the feelings that you don’t deserve women or happiness or success in this area with feelings of value – worth – esteem – confidence.
If you let this go too long your problems will only pile up even higher making it even more difficult to overcome as you get older.
When you mix an attitude of negativity with a lack of self-worth and on top of that acts of desperation and helplessness you will only ever feel like giving up.
You’re not changing the world around you.
You’re not changing how women feel about you.
They are outside of your control.
Doing so or any attempt to do so will only frustrate you more and cause you to give up too early and too easily.
You DO have control over YOUR choices.
You DO have control over YOUR actions.
You ARE in complete control YOUR self-worth.
You’re the ONLY one who can give yourself real VALUE.
If you take care of yourself and prepare for those pivotal moments GOOD things WILL happen.
That’s EXACTLY how you start succeeding where you might have failed in the past.
Not by wallowing in the past.
Not by regretting what happened before.
Not by reliving a failed relationship hoping she’ll come back or thinking about all the mistakes you might’ve made in them.
Not by repeating a mistake over and over again hoping this time something different will happen.
Not by giving yourself and the whole of who you are to every woman you’re attracted to – hoping she’ll like you back.
Not by the need to spend every available moment with her because you’re afraid she’ll meet another guy who’s better then you.
Not by kissing her ass and trying to give her what you think she wants when she only needs to feel something a “present or gift” can never do.
None of that actually creates attraction or will have women knocking at your door at three in the morning for a quickie.
You already know that, don’t you?
You may have to give up some things to become that better man.
You might have to give up some people in your life that are affecting you negatively.
But if it’s for the best of you – then do it.
As you go through your “man transformation” process and become an attractive man woman seek out, there will be some downsides.
There will be dead ends and some really tough times when you just want to give up.
We all go through it in any new way of living life.
I want to assure you they WILL pass and as long as you stick to a plan that’s working – you’ll get through them.
Everyday just keep yourself on a track that produces results. Everyday just give a little to yourself and your cause.
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REMEMBER – You do NOT have to change the world.
You only have to continue and keep moving forward.
Learn to increase your attractiveness to women by giving more to yourself and you’ll have more to give every woman you meet… for as long as you live.
Invest in yourself – change what you have control over – build yourself into the best possible version you can be at any given time – don’t let others steal your worth by handing it over to them or making you feel you’re not worth it…
And in turn, you WILL have more to give to her, a relationship, a family, a friend, and the world you live in everyday.
This IS The SECRET to ATTRACTING GREAT WOMEN just like YOU.
Don’t fear change. Embrace every aspect of it.
It doesn’t make you any less of a man, it’s what makes you a GREAT man.
I understand these 20 nice guy tips are just words until you DO something about it. Until you get actively involved in changing your life they’re just another guy who’s “been there done that” telling YOU to do it for yourself.
BUT that’s all I can do on my end. I can not do the work for you.
Go through all the tips again. One by one.
START making the changes today.
One a day or more.
It’s doesn’t take long. It’s easier than you might ever believe.
Enough said for today…
Thanks for stopping by and making it to the last nice guy tip. I sincerely hope they’ve served your purpose. I hope you’re ready to finally succeed and you now have all the tools to do it.
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All 20 Nice Guy Tips To Attract More Women
1. Being Nice Has Little to do with Attraction
2. She’s Flirting With You does NOT Mean She’s Your Next Girlfriend
3. First Move – Make Sure You Make It
4. Disqualify – Don’t Reject Yourself Before She Does
5. Pity Date – Never Ask For It and Display It
6. Buy Attraction – You can not Buy Her Affecation
7. Rejected – Stop Feeling Sorry For Yourself
8. Agree Beliefs – Have Your Own Beliefs
9. Learn Funny – Humor Done the Attractive Way
10. Tease – Never Stop Doing It
11. Learn Flirt – Flirting Is an Essential Skill
12. Like Me – Never Ask A Woman This
13. Women Want – What She Says – What She Wants
14. Friend Zone – You Just Might Be In It
15. Body Language – Important Sexual Tool
16. Live Life – Living Your Own Life
17. Blame – STOP Blaming Women and Others
18. Space – Give Her What She Needs
19. Confidence – The Most Attractive Trait
20. Invest – Keep Moving Forward