You can not BUY attraction. You might be able to buy a woman into dating you or even marring you – but attraction is an instinctual response which means it does not have a monetary value.
The nice guy tip number 6 is here to stop you from thinking you need money, wealth, or some monetary value to create attraction in a woman.
It’s also here to show you that you must never try to buy her affection towards you with food, gifts, or through buying her anything.
Let’s start with a quote which explains a lot.
MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts
“How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn’t treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you’re like me, then you’ve had it happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It’s only NATURAL when this happens…
That’s right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
“I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection”.
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That’s right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.”
It’s a classic “nice guy manipulation” move and for some women it just might work – for a while because yes, it’s true…
Some women WILL allow you to do anything you want for them. They will let you do favors for them knowing exactly why you are doing it.
But it won’t change how they feel about you.
It will not make her FEEL attracted to you.
Sure, some women are drawn to wealth or men who have lots of money to throw around to them.
But does NOT mean you need money to create attraction.
You don’t need money to enjoy sex. Sometimes you only need the cost of a few condoms.
You don’t need money to enjoy a great relationship.
A great relationship requires (among other things) communication skills and a shared value of self-worth.
None of which can directly attained by just spending more money on her.
You don’t need to offer gifts hoping she will eventually see you as a great provider.
A great provider provides strength and stability in a relationship, and not money.
You don’t even have to lavish your new girlfriend with expensive outings and fancy dates.
A casual walk in the part (which is free) that has an exciting conversations, a strong connection to each other, and a sexual edge to it all is far more attractive than any expensive night out where everything feels like it is forced AND it feels like to her that you’re just trying to buy your way into her heart or pants.
If you do meet a woman demanding you must buy her things constantly for her affection, break it off immediately!
Stop worrying about her.
She will find the next overly accommodating guy who doesn’t understand attraction to pay her bills.
Done right, if that’s what you’re into – she’ll sleep with you on the side while that OTHER is paying for it. Not the best arrangement but it happens IF you create the right attraction.
Here’s some REAL proof based on my life experience with women.
I had a decent share of money when I was NOT going on dates because I did basically nothing with my life.
It cost me money to straighten my appearance and to maintain an above average attention to those details.
It cost me even more money to buy “learning tools and instructional videos” to learn how to become more attractive and to become who I am today.
I was going out more, meeting up with my friends, and that understandable, cost me even more money.
Sometimes a little.
Sometimes a lot.
Either way the cost was always higher than sitting at home on the internet or watching TV.
Suddenly I found myself broke and clawing my way back up the money ladder.
But you know what?
If it wasn’t for having some incredible women (and a great friend and Mother) I would’ve wound up living on the streets. Yes, I was just THAT broke.
And those women who helped me out were not just friends. We were sexually involved on many different levels.
My point is – I was, at one point, flat-out busted eating dollar dinners for nights on end, but I still managed to attract lots of great women.
More than when I had money and no skills.
Please take this advice…
Refrain from choosing the option of wealth to try to “get the girl.”
“A lot of guys feel there is a financial ‘price‘ for playing the dating game.
They figure, if you’re going to get a girl you’re going to have to wine and dine a bunch of different women”
Save YOUR money for your own investment and not hers.
More women will actually love you even more for NOT trying to buy their affection.
They will appreciate YOU more. Who YOU are.
You can NOT buy affection.
You can NOT buy a woman legally or illegally.
Attraction does not have a monetary value – It’s an uncontrollable feeling YOU stir and create which has nothing to do with how much money you have or how many nice things you can buy for her.
Before you get too wrapped up in what is being presented to you today…
Remember this very important detail.
IF you have no real goals – no aspirations for the future – no desire to better yourself – then YES – already having money might come in handy BUT it still won’t CREATE attraction.
That all happens in how you interact with a woman.
For you to stir emotions and get her to feel something for you – having goals, dreams, aspirations, desires, passions, a drive to better yourself and enjoy life IS required.
But that is not even close to ever trying to buy her affection, attraction, or love.
Take a close look around you – anywhere.
What do you see?
It’s unfortunate but most GOOD men and women in this world don’t have much money at all.
They get by living day-to-day. Some have a cushion to help them you but most do not.
The world is filled with couples who got together despite having any cash at all.
This is a fact.
The MAJORITY of couples found a way to come together, get married, or whatever without any form of financial means or so-called success in that area.
That means money is NOT a real determining factor of forming a relationship which by the way – STARTS with ATTRACTION.
You can look at the minority of you want – but those are the EXCEPTIONS – not the rule.
On the other side…
Sure. Some women are all about money. Not any of them though and even within that small minority they are more than happy to make that money for themselves.
They don’t WANT or NEED your handout to make them feel something for you.
In fact – it makes them sick to their stomach to even consider a guy who is trying to buy their way into their hearts with money alone.
I KNOW it’s a problem for you IF you think you need cash to attraction but that’s easily solved when you learn to create attraction and first realize it CAN and DOES happen.
Here’s the REAL problem and it comes from a movie, “Better Living Through Chemistry”.
There’s a guy with lots of money and a hot wife.
In one scene he’s explaining to a guy he just met in a bar that he knows women are only into him for his money and he’s “okay” with it because…
He just doesn’t believe he’s good enough and that he only knows how to screw up with women.
So… when he messes up – he throws a gift or some money her way.
AND he only does it because he just does NOT know or understand what else to do.
You CAN understand women.
You CAN know what else to do.
You CAN create attraction.
He’s a movie character. Stagnant and stuck in a role to make the movie work.
You’re NOT a written pre-programmed character in a movie.
How you can is actually quite simple – so simple ANY guy can do it but who cares about “them” or what some “other” guy can or can not do… this is about YOU.
LEARN about attraction.
Find your passions.
Figure out what you want in life.
Make a plan to get it or continually strive to achieve it.
ANYTHING your heart desires (aside from women of course) unless they’re actually part of your dreams.
Work towards something.
That’s really all any woman wants from a guy… to have a real desire to achieve something.
It could be starting a family. Starting a new career. Opening a business. Building cars. Dancing. Traveling… ANYTHING.
Once you learn about what really creates attraction in a woman and you’re even a tiny bit of capable of conveying or communicating your desires to women – you’ll NEVER resort to trying to buy affection ever again.
That’s all for today.
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