6. Never Try to Buy A Women’s Affection or Attempt To Attract Her with Money or Favors.
It’s a classic “Nice Guy manipulation” move and for some women it just might work – for a while.
Because yes, it’s true…
Some women WILL allow you to do anything you want for them. They will let you do favors for them knowing exactly why you are doing it…
But it won’t change how they feel about you.
It will not make her feel more attracted to you.
Because you can NOT buy attraction.
“A lot of guys feel there is a financial ‘price‘ for playing the dating game. They figure, if you’re going to get a girl you’re going to have to wine and dine a bunch of different women Understanding Spending Money on Dating Women.
Some women are attracted to wealth or men who have lots of money to throw around.
It happens and I’m sure most people are aware of that. I’m not going to lie to you about it.
But does NOT mean you need money to create attraction.
You don’t need money to enjoy sex. Sometimes you only need the cost of a few condoms.
You don’t need money for a great relationship.
A great relationship requires ( among many other things ) communication skills and a shared value of self-worth.
None of which can directly attained by just spending more money.
You don’t need to offer gifts hoping she will eventually see you as a great provider.
A great provider provides strength and stability in a relationship, and not money.
You don’t even have to lavish your new girlfriend with expensive outings an fancy dates.
That funky looking bear which reminded you both of Al Roker AND you both competed for; he’s your prize and she’s not going to get it from you that easily… is just one way you turn an inexpensive date into a great connection and in the end a romantic gesture.
If you do meet a woman demanding you must buy her things constantly for her affection, I suggest you break it off immediately!
Stop worrying about her.
She will find the next overly accommodating guy who doesn’t understand attraction to pay her bills.
Hell, done right, if that’s what you’re into – she’ll sleep with you on the side while he’s paying for it. Not the best arrangement but trust me it happens.
Here’s a something about me I rarely talk about but hopefully will reassure you on these facts.
I had more money when I was NOT going on dates. I had more money because I did basically nothing with my life.
It cost me money to straighten my appearance and to maintain an above average attention to those details.
It cost me even more money to buy my “learning tools and instructional videos” to learn how to become more attractive and to become who I am today.
I was going out more, meeting up with my friends, and that understandable, cost me money.
Sometimes a little.
Sometimes a lot.
Either way the cost was always higher than sitting at home on the internet or watching TV.
Suddenly I found myself broke and clawing my way back up the money ladder.
But you know what?…!
Even though the ladder grew taller and taller ( as we all know I’m a short-ass guy haha! ) there have been many times if it wasn’t for some incredible women I might have fallen off the face of the earth due to a lack funds.
And these were not women who just “wanted to be friends”.
We were sexually involved on many different levels depending on the woman.
My point is – I was, at one point, flat-out busted eating dollar dinners for nights on end, but I still managed to attract women.
And a lot more of them when I actually had money – and a lot more of them who wanted me for me – and not my money.
Sp please take my advice…
Refrain from choosing the option of wealth to try to “get the girl.”
Save YOUR money for your own investment and not hers.
More women will actually love you more for NOT trying to buy their affection. They will appreciate YOU more. Who YOU are.
They will love the freedom to take care of themselves first.