There are many types of funny in this world and humor is certainly a great way to attract women BUT if you're not doing it right - you could be ruining your chances with her without even knowing it.
In this nice guy tip number 9 you'll learn the different types of humor, which comedy works the best for creating attraction and how you can use making a woman laugh in many different ways to become a highly attractive man.
Let's start with a few type of "funny guys so you can see the difference and know which type you find yourself in.
The Class Clown - Looking For Attention?
He is an attention seeker all the way. He can be funny, everyone knows that BUT women are rarely attracted to him.
Everyone can sense he's an approval seeker and wants the spotlight on him because he feels he doesn't have much of anything to offer the world.
His actions are also often seen as being over-confident and insecure.
Add it all together this type of humor does not work because approval seeking, false or fake confidence, and being insecure are NOT traits of an attractive man.
The Goofball - Serious or Not?
He's always making jokes to break the ice or to share his feelings without making it look like he's being serious. Although everyone knows there's a bit of truth behind his humor or actionable comedy.
He can be funny but since it's usually clear there's a hidden dark truth behind it - it's almost sad at times.
He does attract certain women but never has any real choices and will typically settle for the girl who finds him the cutest but it might not last long because his serious internal issues will eventually ruin the relationship.
A fact about attraction is that most secure women will NEVER feel empathy and attraction at the same time and since this type of humor often tugs on the empathy others - it makes it very difficult to create attraction at the same time.
The One-Liner - Perfectly Timed Attraction
This guy can definitely be quite funny but it's rare because it's usually not part of his personality to make others laugh.
He often doesn't know how to tell long jokes and his stories sometimes leave you wondering why he started them in the first place but that doesn't matter or may not be relevant to his humor - if he uses at all.
He is often considered a little too serious which believe it or not CAN make others laugh quite loudly when it's timed perfectly and when his combines this unpredictable nature with a funny statement DOES attract women.
The Get Along With Everybody Type
He's most certainly fun to be around. He's always cracking jokes about himself too much makes him a little humble and - as you might have guessed... easy to get along with.
He generally has the ability to make clever observations which can be funny but usually his laughter centers around doing fun things, making others feel at ease, and is always found smiling no matter what is happening around him.
The guy DOES attract women for many reasons.
He's fun to be around and it's extremely difficult to figure out what he's really thinking making him a bit mysterious.
Through his outwardly social manners he's also seen as confident, smart, clever, and is presumed to have an elaborate social life based on the not-always- true stories he tells about himself.
His attractive qualities include:
- Social skills.
- Exciting to be around.
- Smart - clever - usually witty too.
- A Little flirty.
Not ALL women will end up with him but he will have his fair of women which will be enough to give him some real choices in who he decides to date.
The Stoic Sarcastic Bust Ass
This guy RARELY cracks a grin. He's sometimes dark but displays very creative observant humor which is mostly centered around sarcasm and busting his or other peoples asses.
He often tells stories which make it seem like they're not funny until the end when you realize he was joking in the first place. He'll sometimes scheme you for minutes, hours, or even days just to bust your ass.
He's also well- known for not laughing at his own jokes.
This guy attracts LOTS of women. Hands down.
Whereas you'll find some women won't be attracted enough to further dating with the more attractive types of guys above (the one-liner & and the "I get along with everybody type) you will be hard-pressed to find a woman who doesn't simply adore this type of guy.
Meaning IF you want to attract lots of women - this is the guy you want to aim for even though the last two will do just fine. It's your choice.
His attractive qualities match the last type but with a little more added:
- Superior Social skills.
- Bigger Mystery.
- Exciting to be around.
- Extremely Smart - clever - usually witty too.
- A little cocky.
- Very humble.
- Very flirty.
He's probably the toughest one to become but his brand of stoic sarcasm seems to draw women in.
Okay now that you've seen the different type of funny guys it's much easier to see...
How & Why humor or just being a funny guy does NOT equal attraction unless it's done right.
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This is lesson nine out of twenty from Chapter Three: The Nice Guy's Guide To Attracting Women.
Being funny is one thing and of course women do find humor very attractive.
However the nice guy doesn't know how to do it right and comes off less attractive. You'll get her laughing but she won't be feeling anything but a fondness for you as a friend.
Something I know you don't want to happen to you.
You must learn a few techniques to spin into your humor which integrates high intelligence, flirting, and add some confidence and cockiness into the mix too...
IF you want to create an enormous amount of attraction with the women of your choice.
Check to see which type you are and how it relates attracting women plus learn the most attractive style of comedy that women absolutely love and can't resist.
This lesson will bring it all together for you...
Help you see what type of humor you've been using...
Tell you what comedy works the best...
So you'll never have to worry about making her laugh again without turning her into just another friend...