1. Recognizing Her Tests or knowing when it is a test.

The most common question from men about a woman's test is,

"How do you know if it's a test?"

The simple answer is just assume EVERYTHING IS A TEST.

Over simplified... Yes.

But very important because while you're busy trying to figure out if it's a test or not, you're more likely to fail or miss it.

So (as a beginner) just assume EVERYTHING is a test which also means everything is an opportunity to pass them AND create attraction.

Two important facts about testing are good for you and something you must understand first.

1. Women rarely ever realize they are doing it.

This isn’t what EVERY woman does and it’s not like we have a big rule book that tells us to do it- it’s a automatic thing that girls who know they are good value as partners do without thinking.

And they’ll rarely admit they even do it.

But they do. I’ll admit I do.

And those guys who pass the test?

They can pretty much do anything after that.

I’m sold.

Rachel Goodchild- "Do Women Test Men"

Again - the difference is: Subconscious tests are instinctual and a very necessary part of the mating ritual.

Conscious tests (not all but lots of them) are the actual games a woman might play. Why she does it is not important or relevant to this page.

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2. When she turns the level up it's a great sign she is interested in you.

I consider myself an attractive woman so if I’m putting you threw the tests bear with me it means your worth the time to figure out.

Most women (like men) have been hurt before and we just have to try subtly to see if your like the last jerk.

If you notice that a woman is going too far; trying to see if she can boost her self-esteem by belittling you, ditch her.

But if it’s a small test like asking you about your previous relationship she’s thinking about what you would be like in the long run.

Steff

The more she's testing you (within reason until it turns it game playing) the more she's interested in you and is feeling attraction towards you.

Remember this because if you meet a woman who is not testing at all - it definitely means she's not feeling anything for you.

In conclusion:

Recognizing her tests is just not as important as learning or knowing how to pass them.

There are many times when a woman isn't even aware she's testing you.

If she has even a small amount of interest she will test you and the tests continue on into the relationship.

It's a very real part of the female's courtship.

Passing her tests require different skills for relationships and dating or casual sex including one night stands.

Here's a slightly different view:

When you first meet a woman...

She’ll immediately begin to interact with you in ways that determine if you’re a man who communicates control and confidence instead of nervousness, neediness, and desperation.

When she’s out on a date with you...

She’ll test to see if you’re the kind of man who has it all together and has a purpose in life… the kind of rare, “real” man that she spends so much time looking for.

After the first date…

She’ll test to see how you handle the next steps: how soon do you call or text her again? How do you react if she does something you don’t like? Are you constantly checking in and planning the next thing, or do you give her space?

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2. Understanding HOW to pass them is different from learning how to pass them.

Notice the carefully chosen words in the header.

Understand how to pass them... and NOT learn to pass them.

There are several ways you can learn to pass them but understanding HOW to do it is more important for any continued success in dating and relationships.

The difference is this:

Learning what to do in situations and responding appropriately is learning HOW to pass them.

Understanding them, what they are, when they're done, what they mean, which type of test it is (sex, dating, relationships) means you've integrated a natural response to her tests into your personality.

As a beginning or for someone who is just learning about attraction you will need to learn HOW but in the end - as you progress - it's something you'll want to add to your character so you don't have to worry about them.

By just being who you are - you will naturally pass many of them without even trying.

Now let's go onto number 3 since it is so related to number 2.

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3. Building your lifestyle and adding to your personality the traits needed to pass them.

You don't need to play games which are manipulative to pass these "congruence" tests.

At first you may want to learn the proper techniques or skills and some common responses that will pass but as stated above - integrating the right way to handle her tests into your personality ALWAYS proves to be the most efficient and best way.

Here are the most common types of tests but you'll find others categorize them a little differently as you'll see here:

Some deal with your courtship rituals like, “I can’t talk with a man until he buys me a drink”

Some deal with her sex appeal like, “That bar woman is so hot? Don’t you think?”

Some deal with your dating habits like, “So you’re quite the player, aren’t you?”

Some deal with your intellectual prowess, like she’ll tell a joke (it could be unintelligible) and say, “You’re a little slow, aren’t you?”

How Women Use Shit Tests and Why It’s A Good Thing for You

Sight.

This is where a woman will scan you the first time she sees you for inconsistencies and clues as to how you live your lifestyle.

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Conversation.

This is the most common. She will test you with questions to see how you respond.

This is the area most men focus on a lot because this is where your conversational skills will either enhance or create attraction or ruin any and all sexual tension.

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It's the easiest one to understand and pass early on and gives you INSTANT results.

Physical.

These are not just touch tests. These can be her attempt to see how far you will go before you crack and admit wanting to sleep with her.

This will be your hardest and most confusing test. So be warned. Physical

Emotional

This is where she responds emotionally to something you say or do to gain the upper hand or higher status than you.

Using this a woman can rule out tons of nice guy's who are not strong enough.

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