It's a well-known fact that women can, will, and do test men at every level of dating AND in your relationships too.
Learn to pass those tests and you can increase her attraction easily and make her think, believe, and feel you're not only the perfect man for her - but unlike ANY other guy she has met before.
What is a woman's TEST?
It's her clever (instinctual) way of getting you to reveal yourself to her in such a way which that you can not fake. (Although a player or clever guy can see the test and respond in a way which can fool a woman.)
Some tests she gives are instinctual and women are born with this ability. It's her way of knowing or figuring out without much doubt that you'd make a worthy partner or a great potential father to her offspring.
Other tests are consciously done but knowing that exactly is often hard to determine. You could argue that her conscious tests are merely games she plays with guys.
Either way - her TESTS are a real thing and they happen ALL the time.
Pass enough of them and you're in.
Fail them and you're out.
It's not all black or white but it does have a major influence on her attraction towards you and whether she wants to continue seeing you.
There is a sometimes common belief that you need to learn tricks that negate her tests but that is not always true.
If you were to go out looking for quick lays, instant pick ups, or bar/club game then sure - learn some tricks to negate her tests and you will get laid more often.
The truth of it all is that her tests can be passed through who you are, your personality, your character, your masculinity, etc... which means if you build yourself into a certain type of guy - like a real Alpha male - then you will pass most of her EARLY tests by simply being yourself.
Relationships test or ones that lead to relationships work a little different and require skills and character traits which deem you as boyfriend material or more.
When you're done reading today's page and following the links for more information...
You will completely understand what her tests are and the most attractive way to pass them.
1. Learn to Recognize Her Tests. Recognize
2. Begin to understand HOW to pass them. Understand
3. Build your lifestyle and add to your personality the traits needed to pass them. Lifestyle
1. Recognizing Her Tests or knowing when it is a test.
The most common question from men about a woman's test is,
"How do you know if it's a test?"
The simple answer is just assume EVERYTHING IS A TEST.
Over simplified... Yes.
But very important because while you're busy trying to figure out if it's a test or not, you're more likely to fail or miss it.
So (as a beginner) just assume EVERYTHING is a test which also means everything is an opportunity to pass them AND create attraction.
Two important facts about testing are good for you and something you must understand first.
1. Women rarely ever realize they are doing it.
This isn’t what EVERY woman does and it’s not like we have a big rule book that tells us to do it- it’s a automatic thing that girls who know they are good value as partners do without thinking.
And they’ll rarely admit they even do it.
But they do. I’ll admit I do.
And those guys who pass the test?
They can pretty much do anything after that.
Rachel Goodchild- "Do Women Test Men"
Again - the difference is: Subconscious tests are instinctual and a very necessary part of the mating ritual.
Conscious tests (not all but lots of them) are the actual games a woman might play. Why she does it is not important or relevant to this page.
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2. When she turns the level up it's a great sign she is interested in you.
I consider myself an attractive woman so if I’m putting you threw the tests bear with me it means your worth the time to figure out.
Most women (like men) have been hurt before and we just have to try subtly to see if your like the last jerk.
If you notice that a woman is going too far; trying to see if she can boost her self-esteem by belittling you, ditch her.
But if it’s a small test like asking you about your previous relationship she’s thinking about what you would be like in the long run.
The more she's testing you (within reason until it turns it game playing) the more she's interested in you and is feeling attraction towards you.
Remember this because if you meet a woman who is not testing at all - it definitely means she's not feeling anything for you.
Recognizing her tests is just not as important as learning or knowing how to pass them.
There are many times when a woman isn't even aware she's testing you.
If she has even a small amount of interest she will test you and the tests continue on into the relationship.
It's a very real part of the female's courtship.
Passing her tests require different skills for relationships and dating or casual sex including one night stands.
Here's a slightly different view:
When you first meet a woman...
She’ll immediately begin to interact with you in ways that determine if you’re a man who communicates control and confidence instead of nervousness, neediness, and desperation.
When she’s out on a date with you...
She’ll test to see if you’re the kind of man who has it all together and has a purpose in life… the kind of rare, “real” man that she spends so much time looking for.
After the first date…
She’ll test to see how you handle the next steps: how soon do you call or text her again? How do you react if she does something you don’t like? Are you constantly checking in and planning the next thing, or do you give her space?
2. Understanding HOW to pass them is different from learning how to pass them.
Notice the carefully chosen words in the header.
Understand how to pass them... and NOT learn to pass them.
There are several ways you can learn to pass them but understanding HOW to do it is more important for any continued success in dating and relationships.
The difference is this:
Learning what to do in situations and responding appropriately is learning HOW to pass them.
Understanding them, what they are, when they're done, what they mean, which type of test it is (sex, dating, relationships) means you've integrated a natural response to her tests into your personality.
As a beginning or for someone who is just learning about attraction you will need to learn HOW but in the end - as you progress - it's something you'll want to add to your character so you don't have to worry about them.
By just being who you are - you will naturally pass many of them without even trying.
Now let's go onto number 3 since it is so related to number 2.
3. Building your lifestyle and adding to your personality the traits needed to pass them.
You don't need to play games which are manipulative to pass these "congruence" tests.
At first you may want to learn the proper techniques or skills and some common responses that will pass but as stated above - integrating the right way to handle her tests into your personality ALWAYS proves to be the most efficient and best way.
Here are the most common types of tests but you'll find others categorize them a little differently as you'll see here:
Some deal with your courtship rituals like, “I can’t talk with a man until he buys me a drink”
Some deal with her sex appeal like, “That bar woman is so hot? Don’t you think?”
Some deal with your dating habits like, “So you’re quite the player, aren’t you?”
Some deal with your intellectual prowess, like she’ll tell a joke (it could be unintelligible) and say, “You’re a little slow, aren’t you?”
This is where a woman will scan you the first time she sees you for inconsistencies and clues as to how you live your lifestyle. Sight
This is the most common. She will test you with questions to see how you respond.
This is the area most men focus on a lot because this is where your conversational skills will either enhance or create attraction or ruin any and all sexual tension. Conversation
It's the easiest one to understand and pass early on and gives you INSTANT results.
These are not just touch tests. These can be her attempt to see how far you will go before you crack and admit wanting to sleep with her.
This will be your hardest and most confusing test. So be warned. Physical
This is where she responds emotionally to something you say or do to gain the upper hand or higher status than you.
Using this a woman can rule out tons of nice guy's who are not strong enough. Emotional
Let's look a little deeper into each one.
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This is from Eight: Understanding A Woman’s Test and How To Pass Them All!
You definitely don't want to put all your focus on these tests BUT knowing they happen, why they happen, and how to pass them every single time - is certainly a clear path to attracting lots of women - ALL types.
This chapter digs deep into each one and the simplest way to get past them.
The part point is to set you up so quickly, you don't have to think about passing them anymore.
Done right, it will all happen naturally based on your personality and communication style.
There's barely anything to memorize, there are defined scripted lines - just a few small tweaks which are different than how you've been interacting with women - and it's all done for you.
Passing her tests and creating attraction are non-interchangeable.
Which also means - FAIL HER TESTS and you're done in an instant.
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