10 Easy Ways You Can Stop Disqualifying Yourself to Women & Attract Her

You might not ever walk up to a woman and say, "Hey you're stunning. Absolutely beautiful.. Too bad you wouldn't like me because I'm not good enough for you."

But that might be exactly how you're acting around women and by doing so, you're disqualifying yourself to her before she even has a chance to feel attracted to you.

Today's lesson is about showing you HOW to AVOID disqualifying yourself so you can eliminate the many unseen but common mistakes you might be making with women.

These are the subtle ones which could be stopping you from creating ATTRACTION. These mistakes are within your total control so it's best you learn to recognize that you're doing them so you can get right to avoiding them.

When you first meet a girl and you start interacting (within the context of you're both single and looking) many things start to happen.

You want to know if she's someone you'd like to get to know better because you're attracted to her. Likewise you're trying to figure out if she likes you in some way.

She also wants to see or learn if she can or will feel attracted to you and wants to know if you are also feeling something for her.

The back-and-forth dance of qualification and disqualification begins almost immediately on sight and furthers along as you talk and communicate with each other.

During which time you're also qualifying each other for a possible longer term relationship. You're trying to build a unique connection and similar thoughts and feelings you both can share.

And at each of those "stages" it becomes all too easy to disqualify yourself to her without even knowing you're doing it.

These all too common mistakes are mostly unseen from your point of view and they have little to do with the tests she's giving you...

BUT...

They have everything to do with HOW you subtly communicate things about yourself, your body language, the manner or way in which you speak, and the eye contact you're using which again - means you DO HAVE CONTROL over them.

Here are some common things to avoid which may be disqualifying yourself to women.

#1. Lack of good eye contact or looking down often when you talk to her.

Soft confident eye contact is very important so you want to avoid "submissive" looking down with your head and eyes too much.

Don't go all creepy on her and stare down her eyes like you're sizing her up. It's okay to look away and notice things around you.

You just want to avoid not making any real eye confident.

Lack of the right contact tells her you have little confidence and that you're all too submissive.

#2. Staring at her mouth constantly when she talks.

This one is strange but I've done some experiments myself and when done wrong seems to creep women out.

It's almost like you're sizing her up for a kiss which is great if you're actually going for the kiss, but doing it too early and too much can easily get you disqualified quickly.

#3. Asking too many random questions nervously with no purpose to them.

Talking to women is not like talking to some dude you know IF you want to create attraction and not disqualify yourself.

Don't just randomly jump from topic to topic.

Avoid steering the conversations in places where it seems like you're just trying to figure out if she likes you or would sleep with you.

Most women see right through it and assume you have very little experience with the opposite sex.

It also feel intrusive and sneaky. It feels dishonest and passive.

Here's an slightly helpful article here at DiaLteG TM to show you how talking to women is different than talking to another and how you can use this technique to create attraction:

"Most men will talk at a woman with random thoughts. Men tend to speak in random circles. That works in the man world."

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#4. Over-complimenting with your words or your eyes.

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This is the first page of chapter ten - Qualifications - How To Find The Right Woman For You & Avoid Rejection.

Most men believe they get rejected or are pre-judged and not given any chance at all - but there are many times when actually disqualify themselves before even giving them self a chance.

This page will help you see the little mistakes you're making so you can avoid disqualifying yourself.

A nasty circle happens when you disqualify yourself to a woman before she even has a chance to do it herself; you start (or continue) to take rejection personal - and when that happens it's becomes almost second nature to believe you're not good enough for a woman.

And the circle continues on and on.

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Dave here I like the way you communicate, it makes me think. I am what I call a thinker, meaning I am always consciously thinking about something, usually a project or a future project how to proceed about things. But for some reason I never put it use in my social life probably because I was raised to believe only “sluts” want sex and who wants a slut, right? Right now she is looking pretty good. LOL anyway You make me think in ways I haven’t before and it is making me feel better about many things I just wanted to say I am glad I accidentally ran across your site and to say Thank You and keep up the good work. If you want to feel free to use this letter.
 
Thank You again your awesome and your teachings are also, Dave Allen

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  • Yan

    Why do I always feel like i have no control over putting myself down when I’m around a girl I’m into. I cant help myself, it’s like automatic.

    • You’re probably looking for sympathy and it unfortunately has a lot to do with the relationship you had or still have with your Mother. I’d look into that angle if you want to figure it out and to stop doing it.

      Otherwise – quick fix… start talking to yourself in the mirror more often. Talk to a video on your phone. Practice think, speak, think, speak, learn to control your words as they enter your mind as thoughts. You’d be surprised by how long you have to decide what to say, and to determine what to say next.

      Also practice online and through texting where you have all the time in the world to consider a response that isn’t putting yourself down.

      Thanks Yan.

  • Marshall

    Hey Peter – you hit the nail on the head. How many hundreds of times have I seen an attractive woman and thought, “hey you’re stunning. Absolutely beautiful.. Too bad you wouldn’t like me because I’m not good enough for you.” It’s got nothing to do with my looks – it’s how I feel and have always felt about myself, no matter how many goals I attain/exceed in any area of my life. I look at her and then see some other guy (irrespective of who he might be) and automatically think she might be interested in / attracted to him, but not to me. I cannot seem to shake the sense that every other guy has a chance with women because he is incomparably more attractive than me no matter what. If you’re saying – and I agree that – the advice to ‘fake it until you make it’ is snake oil, what can I do? I honestly don’t see anything about me that measures up – or even that makes it worthwhile to try.