She Felt You’re Hiding Something – You’re Afraid Of Being A Real Man

“Failing with Women Reason #11: She Felt You Always Had Something To Hide – You’re Afraid Of Being A Real Man and You’re Too Much Of A Nice Guy."

Many nice guys believe since they're nice, they have nothing to hide and wouldn't ever dare trying to hide something from a woman If there was something.

It's their "calling", so to speak, right?

They bare it all a little too easily and actually think that makes them different, AND that's why women should like them.

Only a jerk would NEED to hide something. Only a player doesn't want his truths revealed. Only an asshole would try to hide his asshole ways, at least just long enough to get laid.

However - IF you are a nice guy, you're hiding way much more than you ever are willing to see, and you're hiding or "keeping" away lots of junk  from women - which is WHY they don't seem to feel attracted to you all that much.

You're hiding your true feelings when you befriend a woman when inside - you want her so badly it hurts.

AND most normal women can see it a mile away - so they assume you're just being UNREAL or not a real man whose willing to risk it all to be with the supposed one of their dreams.

You're hiding your masculinity or your REAL MANLINESS from women too.

Trying to ACT like you don't a dick between your legs or being in denial that it does not in some way dictate your actions and goals as a human being - is a HUGE LIE!

AND deep down... you know it.

You're hiding your REAL agenda from women hoping you can slide your way into her heart and pants - because you can not tell me sex is off the table...

I know - you want a relationship, you want to settle down, you want the whole package, and that package will ALWAYS include sex and desires or intimacy.

Let's take a look at this problem from another angle:

Nice guys are all too well-known for claiming the jerks and the assholes get more women than them.

Maybe they're right, maybe they're wrong, let's assume they're right for this discussion.

Now there could be many different reasons but if you ask a woman why she would choose or feel more attracted to the not-so nice guy - you're going hear this:

"He's a jerk. He knows it. He's not a jerk to me though. He doesn't hide the fact that is who he is - with him, at least I know he's being upfront and honest. Unlike the nice guy who is afraid of being his REAL self. You don't know with those guys. They almost make me feel  like one of them COULD turn out to be the quiet guy next door - you know the one who ends up killing a hundred people!"

You see - whether he's an asshole or a jerk or whatever seems to be less important than the fact he's not hiding behind a false front, which tends to make women feel manipulated and used.

IF women are always getting a sneaky suspicion that you're hiding something, from anything as in being a man, admitting you have sexual desires for her, to just being so nice - they will think SOMETHING must be wrong with you or else, you wouldn't have to hide those characteristics from women.

Take a guy who is a heavily into Star Wars and he feels like this makes him a nerd.

He assumes women don't go for nerds, so when he meets a woman for the first time - he keeps it a secret. Hoping if he reveals that fact later, it won't make a difference.

Instead of declaring it prominently - or disregarding the MYTH, yes myth, that women don't go for guys who are into that type of shit... he locks it away and PRETENDS to be someone else... just for her.

And most normal women HATE THAT SHIT!

If you're something - OWN up to it.

There are many ways spin lots of what you do to make it attractive to women - up to but NOT including the fact you might be a little too into My Little Pony. We as men, to be seen as men, have to draw the line somewhere and that's the line - being a "My Little Pony" fan.

And that's just one way to go.

What about these hidden agendas - befriending a woman you want to fuck or date - or even the part of you who might think, just because you're nice you're owed something and that you're better than others...

Combine them all and women SENSE it almost immediately and sure, they'll be your friend, they'll talk to you, they may even let you believe you have a chance; but in reality they're looking for someone REAL, UPFRONT, BRUTALLY but TACTFULLY and ATTRACTIVELY HONEST.

How Do You Fix This Problem So You Don't Look SNEAKY Anymore & Start Attracting Women?

First - You must start by owning up to yourself as if it's not a big deal.

Drop the myths, lose the concept that women a one-dimensional creatures, and start believing ANY woman can be into you, despite all that you think you need to hide from them...

Especially if it's something you don't like about yourself.

Second - Immediately... STOP pretending to be someone you THINK a woman would want.

Hey - if it's really that bad for you, if you're so convinced a woman couldn't possibly love you for YOU, then either change yourself to the person you think they want or...

As above - STOP pretending your someone you're not - just for them.

Third - Admit this now... You're a man, a male, they are women, females.

Women are not stupid, they KNOW it, they know sexual attraction is on the table.

Trying to hide it with a lack of skill or what you think is a class, only makes them want the man in you, even less.

They would rather sit and wait for a far lesser guy who at least isn't afraid of his masculinity, than to act like a man themselves just because you won't take charge, take the lead, and go for it the right way, of course.

 Fourth - Understand NO ONE is asking you to walk up to a woman and say,

"Hey let's fuck. Peter told me that's how it works, so... you wanna screw in the back or what?"

What you must get and learn are skills which show your sexuality as a man who just might be into her, minus the crass asshole bullshit.

There's a distinct difference and you know it.

Don't refuse to make the change with that argument - because you'll only push yourself further away, AND women will actually believe you're hiding something - and that's a non-sexual life with a very small dick.

Fifth - If you're not looking for another friend who is a woman, stop treating them like you are.

No single woman wants to meet a guy they might be into, only to have him treat her like an asexual virgin out of fear or a belief that's how it supposed to work because...

You'll only make her feel unattractive and not at all like a real hot sexy woman.

Sixth - Open your mind to a concept I bring up in my free, yes free book:

"You see (clearly or not) you actually CAN be honest and upfront and she’s still going to think through her process.

She’s still not going to trust it or anything about you JUST because you tell her.

She still needs PROOF.

Just telling her doesn’t seem to work.

Trying to prove it to her doesn’t work.

You can not CONVINCE her to feel something for you or one way or another.

Once again…

If she thinks you’re out to get something from her – you won’t get it UNLESS she wants it too and is willing to accept those terms."

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The point is:

Women still need to go through a process to FEEL something for you - some take longer, some not.

They will ALWAYS come to their own conclusions based on their own thought and emotional process.

YOUR job is to LET her do it.

When you hide, or make her think you're hiding something, anything, the process becomes interrupted and suddenly it's shifting from attraction to something else' and not normally a feeling of wanting to get sexual with you.

The conclusion...

I don't make up this stuff off the top of my head - the come from my own experiences from lots of failing attempts with women.

It occurred me that not only did all this apply to me - I was afraid of being a REAL man because my definition of that guy wasn't right.

I'd see the guys women fell for all the time and assumed or projected that image onto what a real man was supposed to be - that is, IF he was to get laid.

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  • Mark

    I’m 38 and have never asked a woman out – even though there have been some women I’ve been (and am) ridiculously attracted to. Even more frustrating is the fact that I’ve been told after the fact that some women have been waiting for me to ask them but given up when I didn’t act. I literally never see signs women give me – even when my women friends get annoyed at me because they can’t believe I can’t see “obvious” signs from women. I won’t approach any woman without actually seeing signs for myself – but I never see them because I can’t. Some of us are beyond hope.

    • Hey Mark, you’re not beyond hope, stop that. Screw the signs, most men are terribly at reading them – so you’re certainly not the only one.

      Getting signals from women (that make you feel it’s okay) is not important at all. In fact, it doesn’t make any difference at all. Kind of sounds like you’re waiting for their approval first, which is important and will hurt your chances with lots of women.

      So – screw the signs and go for it.

      PLEASE read this and stop fearing rejection and waiting around for women to tell you something directly that 99.9% will never:

      Stop looking around for signals from women that they’re “interested” in you.

      Stop CARING whether or not a particular woman is interested in you.

      Instead, start TRIGGERING the interest, and watching to see if women ENGAGE. If they do, ,then assume that IT’S ON!

      How To Tell If She’s Interested – Stop Looking for Signals!

      My life with women changed IMMEDIATELY with that one piece of golden advice once I put it in practice. Seriously, women are into leaders of any sort, LEAD by example, and they will follow.

      So what if it doesn’t work out all the time – you’ll get over it. I did and I was a huge-ass wimp so afraid of rejection.

      YOU, as a man, are not trained from birth to recognize these signs or signals, so why rely on it. Women are born with this ability and from that ability, are trained to be attracted to guys who risk something, anything, to move forward and CREATE that needed attraction.

      You’re a man – it’s part of the package. It’s OKAY!!!!

      The ONLY signal you must be concerned about or back away from – are the ones where it’s CLEAR you’re being a scumbag and deserve, real or not, to be kicked in the ass and thrown into prison. (Hope you get my meaning there so BE a GOOD guy and all is well.)

      Thanks for sharing Mark – I get it. I got ya’.

      • Mark

        Hi Pete – thanks for this, but it’s all theory to me because I do not have whatever it takes to “… start TRIGGERING the interest”. I have many women friends, so those women must see something worthwhile in me – but clearly it’s not sexual – because most of them have boyfriends and none of them have ever expressed interest in me in that way. I want women to see me as a potential lover/boyfriend, but know that before anyone else can see me as such, I have to see myself as worthy of that – and I simply don’t.

        • You’re cracking me up, and in a good way because you must realize changing your name, a few IP addresses, changing the email, that’s not really fooling me; especially when all I’m getting are excuses – but in one way, you’re good for business I suppose, in another way – I sincerely DO want to help you despite your incessant “same old” excuses.

          Those women, yeah they see you as a friend, and if they have boyfriends, who cares, messing around with women in a relationship is not good no matter how you spin it.

          Reality check man – you’re a dude – you’re NEVER going to see yourself in a sexual way, right? If you were gay then your argument might be true… but it’s not so don’t EVER expect to yourself in a sexual way – unless masturbating in a mirror gets you off – then go for it. I couldn’t care less what turns you on in your free time.

          Worthy – worthy of what? Are we now in some Mike Myers Wayne’s World alternative universe, “We’re not worthy!!! We’re not worthy!!!”

          Dude – what you WANT to know beforehand is NOT EVER going to happen because your attitude sucks.

          Change that, start there at least…. before you give another excuse as to why you can not be loved the way you want.

          In other words – as nicely as I’m going to put it…

          STOP the bitching and you’ll stop being their nylon-friend bitch.

          STOP whining with excuses and you’ll stop being so asexual to women.

          It’s really as SIMPLE as that…

          Own your fucking world, take responsibility for it.

          CHANGE this “poor poor me” mindset and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!