Have you ever met a girl who seemed really into you?
She gave you every sign that she was sexually attracted, flirtatious, and a definite invite for you to ask her out.
She smiled at you every time she saw you.
She touched you often and even was a little too affectionate. She was happy to talk to you. She listened to you. Respected your opinions.
She never acted like a friend because she was always teasing you. Flirting you with her eyes. She’s the one that always starts those fun flirty conversations.
And now that she’s got you thinking she likes you, you’re beginning to wonder if you should ask her out.
You’re not entirely sure though so you hold back a little just to be sure.
Perhaps you’re not into her that much because a woman like that has never really showed this much interest in you.
And the last thing you want is to be rejected!!!
The last thing you want is to become another “victim” of the “hot attention seeker” who makes every guy want her only to turn them down with every excuse in the book.
And you definitely don’t want to fall for her and end up the dreaded friends zone.
There’s even a part of you that wants to keep the hope alive so you continue to go along with it.
After all there’s always the typical excuse,
“There never seems to be a good time to ask her out. Something always happens.”
But in reality you convince yourself she likes you as more than just friend. You thrive on the small boost of confidence it gives you.
Yet despite the fifteen thousand thoughts you have against asking her out you just can not resist.
You’re thinking there’s a chance this could be the one hot sexy woman who goes for you and you don’t want to blow it this time by waiting forever.
So you do it…you grab your manhood, suck in your gut, and work into the conversation what you thought the “dating experts” have shown you.
You suggest a meeting. You suggest seeing each other outside of your typical day.
And then it happens…
Her excuses start flowing from her mouth one after another – but you never really hear a definitive “NO.”
It’s like she’s avoiding saying no to give the excuses meaning beyond a nice way to say,
“I’m not attracted to you. I flirt with everyone. Sorry you took it the wrong way.”
But despite her “nice” way of turning you down all you really hear is,
“I’m rejecting you. I don’t like you. I’m not into you. I don’t feel attracted to you. You’re not good-looking enough. I like someone else.”
And the list goes on and on…
So what really happened?
Well you did what I did over and over again until I finally learned my lesson the hard way.
You continue to search for the tell-tale signs a woman is attracted to you and then you build up the courage to ask her out.
You may have even got lucky a few times doing it which explains why you keep using the same technique.
Yet you rarely succeeded with a “real” women.
So why DO these women appear to be into you one minute and pull away just when you make your move?
Well what I’m about to tell you will literally change your experience with every women you meet…it’s counter intuitive but it’s the truth.
Women do not want to be asked out on dates.
I believe I just heard a million women screaming at me telling me how full of shit I am.
But it’s true.
Women want magic.
They want a story to tell.
They want to believe that things just happened between the two of you. How the two of you just fell for each other at just the right time.
Women want to live out a fairy-tale romance like the ones they dreamed about growing up.
Women want sensuality, amazing sexual experiences, and to FEEL an uncontrollable attraction to a man who understands her desires and can turn it up any time HE wants.
But he also does not necessarily feel the need to always do so.
He knows when to hold back just a little.
Now let’s look at really happens when you meet a girl who “flakes” out when you ask her out.
- You meet her.
- She’s single and interested.
- She gives you more than enough signs.
- You read the signs as her telling you to ask her out.
- You get the nerve up but you wait because again, you’re just not sure.
- She gives you even more signals.
- You get the hint and finally ask her out.
- She refuses and in her own little way, rejects you “nicely.”
So where was the magic?
Where was great story?
Where was the exciting adventure on how you ended up together?
What I see in those steps above is a man following a woman’s lead.
When she leads and you follow every step of the way she decides you’re not the man for her.
When you act on it you’re not really being the leader she is looking for.
Call it a test if you want but you have to admit it’s good at separating men into a friend or lover quickly and efficiently.
If you want to break that cycle of steps and if you want to start being the “next” guy she ends up with after giving some other guy her “excuses”…
Start ACTING for yourself and let women FOLLOW you.
You lead your life as a real Alpha Male “lifestyle” and women WILL get caught up in YOU.
You set the trap, you’re the bait, and well, you know how it goes from there.
You’re eating lobster instead of running around trying to hunt down some defenseless deer.
That’s how the guys do it that just seem to have women falling all over them.
You’ve got to get yourself out of this crazy loop where you allow women to lead you in the direction they want you to go because most of the time (9.9 out of 10) where they are leading you – is the friends zone.
So screw the friends zone!
You DO want women on your own terms and you’re ready to create a lifestyle so women will come to you without leading you on all the time…then it’s about time you begin to learn what the Alpha Male is really all about.
I’m serious guys.
The easiest most effective way to get women to feel that magic for you is to be the Alpha Male she really wants.
And once you’re there you can literally say “fuck all the rules” and make your own.
That’s what we really mean when we tell you “How to get women on your own terms.”
You lead your life living a real Alpha Lifestyle women get caught up in it.
That’s how things just happen in her eyes.
That’s how they feel an intense attraction for you.
That’s how you end up being her next boyfriend.