It never ceases to amaze me at the varied list of men (and a few women too) who find DiaLteG TM.
Some are happy to find there answer to their woman problem(s) and a few of them let me know about it. Others just come and go without a word but based on my positive outlook, I assume it helped them out.
Some are grateful because they ask a question, I give it my all and try to help them out the best I can. I'm not perfect, don't know all the answers, BUT I'll admit since I've been doing this for almost ten years - I've certainly learned a few things.
A few are just plain angry at the advice given and feel "supposedly" responsible to tell other guys it's wrong and how it should be ignored because I'm full of shit.
They sometimes leave their views because of course, they MUST know what they're talking about; they're so great with women they went out searching for advice on attracting women...
Guess they're not that amazing or else WHY would they even come here - for the free drinks?
I'll admit I do get a good laugh from the angry ones - I've been there myself except during that sad time in my life, I only had my friends to vent on because dare I say - it was before the internet, facebook, twitter, you tube etc... gave every rude fucker the chance to spread their hate.
Yeah - we had to do it face to face - imagine that?
I'm amused by it all because when I look back at my former self, I wasn't just hating on other guys and the women who flocked to them while blowing me off - I was upset, frustrated, confused, and had a major uncontrollable temper....
And now I get to laugh at that guy - wow - what a dick - all nice on the outside to women, angry and misogynistic on the inside, hurt like a little girl who dropped her ice cream cone on the ground, and so constricted with a limited view of the world - it's a wonder I could see far enough to tie my own shoes.
I get it though - I really do.
The angry ones are frustrated (probably sexually and beyond), they feel unheard, unloved, and ineffectual in the world, making them the most likely to say something or leave a comment.
And I DO welcome it.
Sometimes I suppose it's their free therapy and a means to get it anonymously so they can protect their often fragile male egos.
Makes we wonder though - IF they spent less time protecting their frail male ego and far less time trying to prove their masculinity, and used all that pent up energy to take a proactive role in their life to get a handle on this problem..
Would their anger go away?
Could they finally succeed with women and dating and whatever?
Would it give them the opportunity to see things from an entirely different perspective - one of which abundance and wealth of happiness comes from?
Then again - I don't have to wonder.
I have done it!
At times it WAS tiring.
Often it felt like I would only succeed at fucking some easy lay when in my heart, I only wanted to get on with my life and find the woman of my dreams - but at least at that point I was getting some so the anger and sexual frustration where limited to the occasional drought.
I'll also admit this rather strange way of looking at things - which by the way is a rare talent of mine:
Back in those days - I didn't feel like a REAL man. My masculine side barely existed. I believed without woman - you couldn't BE a man and that left me as a "what"?
Which is probably why when I finally found the help I so desperately needed, I didn't turn it down to protect my Ego or manly self...
Because he didn't exist yet.
I had to create him.
Make him from the mold I was given at birth.
I was broken but ready to turn my nonfunctional parts (my skills with women) and my working parts (my dick and balls) which were cobwebbed, nearly forgotten and rebuild him into a metaphorical six million dollar man.
AND I certainly didn't lash out at those who were just trying to help me out.
For those who are with me and feel the same or get something out of my place on the web... very cool.
For those who are angry and would rather bitch and complain over learning something and coming to grips with your own reality of why you are where you are - that's fine.
My only hope is that ALL of you take something away and just maybe, DiaLteG TM can be your catalyst to succeed with women, dating and relationships.
Yes - no great enlightened lesson today - just an observation.
An observation with the undertone of...
STOP using your balls as an excuse to not get and accept real help because honestly:
Your balls and cock are as dumb as fuck - what do THEY know?
"Some balls are held for charity, and some for fancy dress, but when their held for treasure - they're the balls that I Like best"
Yeah - got to love AC/DC!
Don't use them as an excuse.
It's what makes you a man from birth.
They must not be a reason to avoid seeking the truth - because you feel like they've been stepped on too much.
Pick them up - dry them off - for every woman's sake - trim those things too!
Just make sure you read this when you're done: