Failure, success, winning, losing, competitions serve a purpose which is not always a good thing in life. It’s not you against them. What you can’t beat. How to assure you always win. Not against sports. What success really is, where it comes from, and how to succeed. The only thing you need to compete with is yourself.
This is about a woman not feeling attraction to you when she rejects you. Do you see it another way? Why would she lie to you about how she feels? Two main reasons why a girl would lie about her attraction you. She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. She likes the attention and doesn’t want to lose it from you.