It doesn't matter if you're the laziest man or woman on earth EVERYONE is driven in their lives through challenges. This is great news for any guy who wishes to attract more women by challenging them the right way which either creates more attraction or builds on what is already there.
Today you're going to learn exactly how to do it the RIGHT way so women get EXCITED by your unique challenge.
You'll soon find you can easily drive up her feelings for you, get her qualifying herself to you, increase her desires towards you, and when done to perfection... have women CHASING you.
Here's the quick list and the links you can pop to but I STRONGLY suggest you read the intro below first:
#2. Give her just enough space to wonder what you're doing.
#3. Social proofing, no mind games or the "Conversationally" Challenging.
#4. Do not answer every question she asks directly.
#5. Show interest in her and give her the right reasons to miss you.
#6. Show or give her a little mystery and challenge her to "figure you out".
#7. Tease her often (the right way) in every way possible.
#8. Challenge her competitive drive to win.
#9. Challenge yourself and women will want to join you.
#10. Reject any woman you don't want quickly and honestly.
First thing - IF you want to challenge you must IMMEDIATELY change your MINDSET and I'll show you why and how below in a way that's simple and you can start doing it, right away!
Answer these questions in your head or write them down:
How good are you at attracting women?
How are your skills with women?
Do you feel in control of your dating and relationships with women?
How does that make you FEEL?
I'm willing to bet you don't feel like much of a challenge right now. You might even feel like shit.
If you were to go out and start meeting some women right after answering those questions to yourself - you'd probably fail miserably because you're not in a positive and challenging mindset.
Far from it.
Now try on a NEW mindset taken directly from one of the best programs written to help guys just like you attract and challenge lots of women:
"How would you act if you knew that beyond the shadow of a doubt she was TOTALLY into you and wanted to be with you, but you weren't that interested and decided to RELUCTANTLY give her a chance to hang out with you."
Taken directly from Advanced Dating Techniques workbook page 36. That is an affiliate link for the program and NOT the actual workbook itself.
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Did you do it?
Hope so because it has a real purpose.
If not, in the very least PLEASE take the time to just IMAGINE it.
Revel in it.
That's your life and no more problems with women because now you're IN CONTROL!
Totally different feel, isn't it?
Well I think it is because it worked for me years ago and gave me the chance to start this wonderful website.
Okay, I realize it's not real, but you must also admit going out to meet and interact with women while feeling either one of those mindsets or attitudes built in your head CAN and DOES make a difference on how you act around women.
One makes YOU a challenge to women, the other makes WOMEN the challenge to YOU.
And that's a huge and complete difference!
Keep all this in mind as you go through these ten tips and understand your attitude and mindset can and WILL boost your level of success AND increase the effectiveness of the tips given.
Secondly... another quote,
"Most guys think they need to impress an attractive woman.
They try to be on their best behavior and not make any mistakes or say something that will upset or offend her.
This leads to nervousness, self-consciousness, and stilted behavior.
It creates a tense, uncomfortable atmosphere, and destroys attraction."
If you go into ANY interaction with a woman feeling like you need to impress her - this mindset will more often than not make you less than the challenge he's looking for and your ACTIONS will show it.
As stated above:
You'll be overly nervous, self-conscious, and your behavior will come from a lack of confidence.
You will create a tense, uncomfortable atmosphere which will not only destroy attraction or stop it from happening, but will lessen the challenge you're trying to create.
Here's your NEW more attractive mindset.
You do NOT need to ever impress an attractive woman... EVER!
You can create the ultimate challenge for her by EXPECTING her to IMPRESS YOU!
Easy stuff, right?
Two new attitudes.
A whole new confidence.
A REAL and immediate challenge:
- Act as if you know that beyond the shadow of a doubt women are TOTALLY into you and wanted to be with you, but you not that interested and decide to RELUCTANTLY give them a chance to hang out with you.
- Act as if you're not there to impress women, you're there to give them a chance to IMPRESS YOU.
Let's get to it already!
Top Ten Ways to Challenge Women To Feel Attracted To You
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This is the Chapter Seven: Ten Ways to Challenge Women to Feel Attracted to You.
Women want and need a challenge for many reason... and if you can give it to her - you'll become the one she desires the most of out any man she's ever met, and will meet.
Get the ultimate guide to challenging women and creating attraction without playing mind games.
From conversations, teasing, interest, answering questions by her, giving space, enjoy yourself, everything you do makes women want to share it with you.
- How to get women to want to be a part of your life.
- How to give her the right amount of space so she'll wonder what you're doing without playing pathetic games.
- How to BE hard to get and not PLAY hard to get which brings women closer to you.
- What social proof really means in attraction and how to use it to your advantage.
- How to create conversations that challenge her, excite her, and create amazing connections between you and her.
- Why you must show some genuine interest in her and give her the RIGHT reasons to miss you.
- How to set yourself up as a real man of mystery to create anticipation and get her more excited to see you everyday.
- The right way to tease a woman so you'll stand out and above all the men she's ever met in her life.
- How to encourage a woman's natural competitive drive to amplify her connection and create moments where something is most likely to happen - sexually.
- Why you must challenge yourself and what it does to women.
- How rejection is related to challenging women and why you must start doing it more often.
Both men AND women respond to a real challenge in two ways:
They either give up (while sometimes trying and failing or by not trying at all ) OR they get EXCITED by it and rise up to the challenge.
With that said...
Women do NOT want to be GIVEN their next lover, boyfriend, or casual date without any real challenge.
BE that challenge - become her ultimate prize.
Within your starter chapter you WILL learn EXACTLY what must happen and how you must make a woman feel - BEFORE she will EVER feel attracted to you... plus:
- How to get a hot girlfriend.
- Passing all her tests & challenging women.
- Avoiding rejection & overcoming social anxieties.
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