This Is Why Mentioning Your Mother On A First Date With Her Is Bad

"Reasons for Failing With Women #22 - You Talked About Your Mother Too Much On The First And Second Date – You Don’t Know How To Make Dating Fun And You’re Always Trying To Prove To Others What A Great Guy You Are."

This reason wouldn't have to be brought up IF it didn't represent two much deeper problems:

  1. You're not having fun on dates or don't know how to make dating an amazing memorable experience for the both of you.
  2. You feel the need to prove yourself to others, especially women, what a great guy you are.

Let's start with number two:

Trying to constantly prove to women you're a good guy with honorable intentions.

You might feel that mentioning your Mom on a date might seem okay. Maybe you’re trying to show her you’re a family guy who cares. Maybe you’re trying to show her you’re not just dating for quick sex...

And bringing up how you feel about you Mother and/or how close you are to her, might seem like a great way to do all that, but is it?

Here's something to think about:

"You’re a good guy because you DO good things.

You’re a good guy because you don’t force your beliefs onto others – physically or mentally.”

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If you love your Mother – if you are a good family man – if you DO care about those things – there’s absolutely NO need to try and prove it to anyone. Just DO what you DO, and others will see it.

You should never feel like you have to prove yourself and your kindness to others.

You must NEVER seek the approval of others with your nice intentions.

Those two scream - "I'm needy - please like me back - because I'm nice - and I'll do whatever ever necessary to gain your attention and approval."

Which you must admit, having an attitude even close to that is extremely UNATTRACTIVE.

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Moving on to number one...

You're not having fun on dates or don't know how to make dating an amazing memorable experience for the both of you.

Yes, I know - you're expected to do a lot in dating, and often your reward for all this hard work is a humble rejection, lost time, and money too.

Which is just one more reason to make sure you and her at least enjoy the best of it while spending the least amount of money.

So - as the title states - don't ruin it by bringing up your Mother so early and using her ANYWHERE in your conversations.

Creating great dates can be a little difficult at first, you're not alone there. Luckily there are lots of great people who have done the research for you and can give you the best opportunity to assure a great time mixed with a very real measurement of success.

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Remember - ONE step at a time and you'll get there.

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The quick conclusion...

Yes - I get it, you want to do everything you can to show that great girl you're into her for more than just a one night stand.

Sex is cool and all, but you're looking for something more.

My point is: Talking about your Mother or any attempt to PROVE yourself to a woman that you're a great guy is NOT attractive.

You don't have to prove it - just BE one and the right women will see it.

There's absolutely no need to make yourself look or appear needy and beg for her approval, because it makes you look desperate and of weak confidence in dating.

So make the DATE count.

Make sure it's worth all the effort you've put into it and yourself too.

Focus on having fun in a way which naturally moves your attractive conversations forward and into her heart.

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  • Hank

    I once had a woman talk nonstop about her mother on a date. Then when I tried to talk about mine she started acting bored. Wow!

    • Been in a similar situation myself – minus the Mother stuff. She wanted to blab on and on and expected me to listen to every word, and then when I tried to speak for a little, she literally got angry and looked at me with those eyes. You know the look.

      The good news is, like all of us should learn to do – if you want to imagine what countless years would be like with her, then you’d soon come to the conclusion, nope – sorry – no second date. Time to look elsewhere and be more strict about the women I ALLOW to date me.

      Thanks for speaking up – appreciate it Hank.