Dating can tough enough as it is but when you add trying to figure out where to meet up for the actual date it can be very frustrating and time consuming.
Below you'll find a quick list of 32 places (or great date places) to choose from to help you decide. Attached are also some helpful tips you can use.
Before we get to the list here are some other ways you can find places to go and make the date experience better and more enjoyable for the both of you.
Seeing how a better date has a chance of happening again.
First, try and get yourself out of using the words, "Where can I take a date?"
Start asking yourself a different set of questions and you'll make it easier to find more places most people might overlook. You'll also have a better opportunity the make the date a lot more fun and romantic.
Tip# 1: Ask yourself more revealing questions that will give you better ideas for the date or dates.
- Where can you both go which will be lots of easy fun? Fun should be included in the date and it definitely helps if you know what she's into but it's not required.
- Where can you go where you can actually talk to each other comfortably? You're dating to get to know each other so talking freely is a must. Besides it gives you lots of easy opportunities to create attraction.
- If you've date a few times already, you'll probably want to ask yourself what place would give you the best opportunity to become intimate. What places are quiet and have a built-in romantic atmosphere?
- Here's something most guy miss... What would be a good second place to go if you both don't want the night to end? No need to think on your feet. Have something prepared ahead of time. Normally the second place is a little more quiet and like above, has a built romance thing going on. Making it easier to get real close.
Tip #2: Dating can be a nervous "event". They often cause a lot of anxiety but it doesn't have to be that way.
Use a play on words to fool yourself. Yeah, it's cheesy but it works.
In other words it's not a date.
Call it something else ( and no, a hook-up wouldn't be good either).
It could be a fun night out.
Meeting up with an amazing woman.
Going to (then plug in whatever you're going to do) .
My point is, why apply more pressure to you and your date. It's really just two people going out and getting to know each other.
Don't make it harder than it really needs to be.
Tip #3: Explore and discover your immediate area or surroundings.
Spend a little time researching your area and all the places you would normally overlook on a typical drive. You know when you're more concerned with getting somewhere you miss lots of cool places.
Take notes if you have to. I know it sounds corny but I'm serious. Learn all those little known secrets.
Instead of just driving somewhere with a destination in mind. Go out for a walk or drive for the sole purpose of finding new, unique, and exciting places you could take a date.
Tip #4: Match and mix the places up for a better date experience.
Don't think dinner and a movie.
That's bad and boring and doesn't allow for any real fun.
There's way too much pressure & there's no easy way to talk at a movie. Besides they are way over priced and the snacks don't let to more energy. They give you bad breath and make you sleepy. Not how you want to end your ate.
Dinners are also two people afraid to eat, who don't feel comfortable being themselves, offer no real control of the outcome or the food, AND again don't lead to anyplace special besides a bar.
Another bad date idea if you want to have a great unique and special time.
Here's what I really think of a dinner and a movie on the worst possible day... Valentines Day: Why A Valentine’s Day Date Should Never Be Dinner And A Movie
Oh yeah... back to the mix and match thing.
Since I insist you should always be prepared for two dates in one even if they don't happen... think ahead and plan something back to back. Just make sure they match up together nicely.
The second part of the evening should generally by more romantic. The first part is usually more heart racing or just plain fun.
See which one matches best with the other and if it's possible. Prepare to make it happen BEFORE you leave.
Tip #5: Always plan ahead.
Granted some amazing dates have happened when nothing went as planned but why bother putting yourself in that position if you can avoid it or at least lessen the chance of it happening.
You don't have to stick with it exactly but take the few minutes to think about what may or may not happen within the experience and be ready when it does.
Try not to get locked down and be so strict with your agenda but when you take care of the little things you will find it easier to enjoy more.
Just take a few moments to experience what you'll be doing in your head and look for clues as to what problems might come up and if it's avoidable, be prepared. Simple advice but most people don't think of these things before hand.
I say give yourself every opportunity to enjoy being with your date and sharing the experience and less time worrying or trying to fix something you could've dealt with before. Don't go overboard here. You can not think of everything.
Just the basics man. Just the basics. No OCD'ing the date.
Tip# 6: Keep This List Close By:
Either print it out or have it bookmarked to your phone. You can add or subtract from it and make notes for yourself.
A big reason I developed this list was to take some of the anxiety out of thinking of places to go and to spend more time doing something else.
This way if and when a moment arises and you both want to do something else you're not stuck staring at each other thinking and saying, "Well what do you want to do now?"
That's just a huge mood-killer, big time.
Tip# 7: Learn the "secret" formula to have amazing dates so that fun and great conversations are already naturally built in.
I wish this was my brilliant idea but it's not so I'll quote it up:
"Do something that has interested conversation and excitement built into it.
Think of 10 things you could do with a woman that cost little or no money but that include possibilities of all kinds of interesting conversation, adventure, excitement."
You're already going to find many of those ten listed below. I wrote up a few cheap places in the article The Cheapest Places To Meet Women Even If You’re Under 21 but I'm sure you'll find plenty of them below.
Just make sure you follow tip 7 above and make sure there's fun and interesting conversation built right in AND that you're not spending a lot of money. Go to the article above and David'll explain why you shouldn't be "paying" too much for dates OR her attention.
32 Places To Meet Her For A Date
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This is page one from Chapter Twelve: Where To Meet Women - Setting Up Dates - Places to Take Her
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