Why She Didn’t Like You – Why Girls Don’t Like You & How You Can Fix It

If you've ever wondered why girls don't like you – you are definitely not in for a treat today... as they say.

Some of what you're going to learn below is going.... to... fucking HURT!

Why in the world would you want to read something like this? You're not masochistic, right? You're not into belittling yourself?

I hope not because this is NOT a bash-fest on you.

I'm not here to make fun of you or make you feel like a piece of shit not worthy of a woman OR girl.

BUT it will be blatant, honest, and I trust you'll either take it like a man who is ready, willing, and able to turn it all around, or a little whiny boy who'd rather cry himself to sleep every night with a stiff drink or smoke of whatever.

The purpose is to give you the truth that you may or may not have known all along.

Sometimes we're the best at hiding the truth from ourselves.

It's painful to admit these things but if you want to change it all around for yourself, objectify this junk in your head and it will only hurt for a little while.

The purpose is to not make you believe things are different then they actually are just to sell you another piece of shit get laid quick scheme.

Incidentally – If you want, I'll find one to sell to you but think hard man, IF you want to get laid bad enough – GO OUT AND FIND SOME CHIC TO FUCK YOU.

Seriously, it's that easy and never believe it's not.

Hey I didn't say she'd be hot, under three hundred pounds, or your Mother's old friend – BUT if you want just sex THAT bad enough – what the hell are you waiting for? Close your eyes and dig in. Go down on her. Smell every inch of her. Rub that clit like you know what you're doing...

Don't fall for the bullshit hype out there – women WANT and LOVE sex and will randomly fuck guys (including you) for nothing more than a smile and sometimes a drink and a free ride home after.

That nonsense aside – we're going to all ends here.

You're going to know why women refuse men or don't LIKE them (and yes I HATE that word LIKE) plus how you can fix it all be either staying true to yourself and making a little simple but easy changes in your life OR by going off the deep end to satisfy any and all sexual urges you feel.

So... NO crying in public here.

Do it in your own home.

Down a shot – watch a cheesy romantic flick.

GET it out and LET it all out in the privacy of your own home but tomorrow...

Get the fuck over it and START fresh because it's not all that bad.

I didn't even enjoy a touch of a woman for over a decade and the things I've done after would amaze you and piss off my hot new wife so I'm not giving away too many of those stories.

Not for free and not for some guy who asked the question, "Why don't girls like me?" ... sounds kind of whiny, doesn't it?

Anyways...

"WHY SO SERIOUS?"

Yeah a little Joker slash Bat Man Joke there.

I'm messing with you man.

When a girl doesn't like you there's always a reason BUT it's also always something you can change. I'm not saying you can change every girl's mind or the one who rejected you yesterday, the day before, or two years ago.

Just that it IS completely within your power to get girls to like you and you're going to learn how and why TODAY.

So...

Buckle up.

It's a bumpy ride.

But trust you'll be far better off after today.

I'm not going to play too much of the blame game.  Just going to set the record straight and objectively.

From there – it's ALL up to you.

PLEASE keep in mind this list is not in any kind of order whatsoever.

Click on the one of the quick links below or start reading it all from the beginning until you find the mistake you've been making with girls.

Why She Didn't Like You - Why Girls Don't Like You & What You Can Do To Change That Today and Forever!

  1. You Bored Her and/or You're Just a Boring Guy To Be Around
  2. There Was No Sexual Chemistry and You Don't Know How To Create It
  3. You Wanted Her To Meet Your Parents By The Second Date - You Go Into Instant Relationships
  4. Her Friends Would Never Date You and/or Her Family Doesn't Approve Of You
  5. You Were Too Indecisive - You Can Never Make Your Mind Up About What To Do or In Your Life
  6. You Were  Way Too Accommodating To Her Needs Before Yours - You're An Approval Seeker
  7. You Didn't Know What She Really Wanted From You - Women Feel Like You Just Don't Get It or Them
  8. You Did Not Turn Her On At All - You're Afraid Of Triggering Her Desires and/or You Just Don't Know How To Do It
  9. You Showed No Confidence  - You Have Little or No Real Confidence In Life or With Women
  10. You Were Timid, Quiet, or Too Shy Around Her - You Reject Yourself Often and/or Women Feel Rejected By You
  11. She Felt You Always Had Something To Hide - You're Afraid Of Being A Real Man and You're Too Much Of A Nice Guy
  12. You Have Way Too Many Bad Habits and Undesirable Traits Which Make You Not Relationship or Boyfriend Material - You're Just Not That Type Of Guy
  13. She Felt You Don't Care About Yourself Enough - You Do Not Know How To Maintain Your Appearance In A Way Which Says You Put A High Value On Yourself
  14. She Believed That You Think It's All About How Much Money You Make - You Think You Have To Buy A Woman's Affection or Attraction
  15. You Made Her Feel Like That Without A Car, You Couldn't Date Her - You Do Not Own A Car And You Use It As An Excuse - You Don't Get Things Done Despite Not Having An Advantage
  16. She Believed You Rejected Yourself Because You’re Too Old To Be Living With Your Parents - You Lack Courage and Fail To Take Risks
  17. She Hates What You Do For A Living and You Took It Personal - You Believe Women Are Only Into What You Do and Not WHO You Are
  18. You Work Together and Gave Her Every Reason To Believe It Mattered To Her - You Only Meet Women You Work With and Don't Get Out Enough
  19. She Is Your Boss and You Refused To Go Out and Find Another Job or Another Woman - You Lack Choices and Work Off A Mindset Of Scarcity And Not From One Of Abundance
  20. You Told Her That You Loved Her After A Few Dates - You're Not Sure What Love Is And You Always Reveal Your Feelings Way Too Early
  21. Your Ex Girlfriend Was A Bitch And You Constantly Talk About Her - You Don't Know How To Let Things Go And You're Constantly Blaming Women and Others For Your Problems
  22. You Talked About Your Mother Too Much On The First And Second Date - You Don't Know How To Make Dating Fun And You're Always Trying To Prove To Others What A Great Guy You Are
  23. You Complimented Her Way Too Much - You Don't Come Off As Genuine or Real - You Think Kissing Her Ass Is How You Can Get A Piece Of Her Ass
  24. You Ate Like A Pig - Your Manners Are Borderline Annoying and You Show Little Respect For Others and Their Private and Public Space
  25. Your Car Was Disgusting On The Inside - You're A Slob With Little Regard Or Care To Ever Taking Charge And Control In Your Life
  26. You Had Terrible Hygiene - You Don't Give Women Any Real Reason To Want To Get And Stay Close To You
  27. She Found Out and/or You Bragged About All The Women You've Slept With -  You'll Stick Your Dick In Anything That Moves - You Have Low Standards and Don't Feel Good Enough Inside to Aim Higher And Respect Yourself
  28. She Thought You Were Gay - You Act Like A Woman and You're Afraid Of Your Masculinity - You Let Women Lead Because You Don't Know What To Do Or How To Lead
  29. You Showed Ho Interest In Her At All - She Felt Rejected By You - You Fall For Common Myths About Women - Follow Bad Dating Advice And Play Games That Don't Work
  30. You Called Or Contacted Her Way Too Much - You're A Little And Desperate Plus You're Afraid To Give A Woman Space Because You're Worried About Losing Her Before You Even Are With Her
  31. She Assumed You Were A Player - You Act Like Women Are An Agenda, A Conquest - You Play Lots of Needless Games And Your Life Revolves Around Women
  32. Your Touch Creeped Her Out - You Don't Know How, When, or Where To Touch A Woman And You're Afraid to Break The Touch Barrier - You're Uncomfortable Around Women
  33. You Kissed Her Once And She Felt Nothing - You Don't Know How To Escalate Physically With Women And Your Timing Plus Technique Is All Wrong
  34. You Had Sex Once And It Was Awful - You Move Too Quickly And Haven't Spent Any Time Learning How To Please A Woman Sexually AND It Has Destroyed Your Confidence
  35. You Did Not Challenge Her Enough Physically - You're Too Easy Of A Lay and/or You're Afraid To Tease A Woman - You Play The Waiting Game Hoping You'll Get Laid
  36. You Did Not Challenge Her Enough Mentally - You Don't Flirt Enough - Use The Right Humor - You Lack in Wit and Are Afraid She Won't Like You If You Disagree With Her
  37. She Knew She Could Have You Anytime She Wanted - You Lack Setting A Pace - You Move Too Quickly - You Chase Women The Wrong Way

You Bored Her and/or You're A Boring Guy To Be Around

Woman Looking Bored

An all too common reason to be rejected & not have women like you all that much is because she's bored with you.

She's looking for fun, excitement, & an interesting guy all around.

If you think this unfortunate thing is happening to you a lot, here's the cure to her passive attitude towards you:

Did You Bore Her Because You’re A Boring Guy To Be Around?

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Are you really that boring?

This reason for failing got me because I never really felt like doing things women wanted guys to do, with them or without them.

It always felt like the guys who were riding Four Wheelers or going Snowmobiling  (you know shit like that), women enjoyed being around them so much more...

And I was right!

I was way too busy doing my own thing and partying too much.

Women found my lifestyle boring compared to what those other guys enjoyed.

So there are two parts to this:

Conversationally boring and Lifestyle boring.

You don't need to excel at both (although it doesn't help) but having a good balance of  the two can make all the difference between girls liking you or not.

If you're not that interesting to talk to OR you don't know how to talk to women in a way which excites AND attracts them - THAT is something which must be taken care of immediately.

If you don't have a lifestyle or living some kind of life that a woman would want to be a part of, then of course THAT needs to be addressed too.

Do NOT let this one pass because it's somewhat easy to fix for ANY guy.

As David DeAngelo said,

"If you want to keep her interest, then you have to be INTERESTING."

How To Act & Talk With A Woman On The First Date

The first step is of course to become fascinated or interested in YOURSELF first.

You must admit that if you don't like yourself all that much or find yourself boring - women will too.

My Secret To Not Boring Women And Communicating Excitement

Boring also goes hand in hand with being a little too predictable so go here next:

Do Women Think You’re Too Predictable? Here’s How To Change Her Mind

Then - get yourself a social life that includes it all naturally:

Develop Social Life, Involved, Give Something Women Do Want

In this section you'll find lots of links to have better, more exciting, and less boring conversations:

You Talked About Your Mother Too Much On The First And Second Date - You Don't Know How To Make Dating Fun And You're Always Trying To Prove To Others What A Great Guy You Are.

PLUS: The LEAST BORING conversational style that has it ALL is called cocky/comedy:

How To Create Attraction In 4 Minutes By Watching Ghostbusters

Cocky Comedy – The Difference  Being Confident & Acting Like a Jerk

Use it all sparingly but please use it the correct way!

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There Was No Sexual Chemistry and You Don't Know How To Create It

Man Not Creating Sexual Chemistry Woman

You might fail attracting women for many reasons and this is one of the biggest!

Without sexual chemistry, without some sort of tension, without any form of attraction, it's just not ever going to happen between you and her.

Change your ways with women.

Focus on these 9 important areas...

Make it happen and then LET it happen!

No Sexual Chemistry? If You Don’t Know How To Create It, Here’s How!

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Getting Her Sexually Charged!

Women MUST feel sexual chemistry with a guy to want more than a friendship with him.

This can be developed over time but it’s best to set the tone immediately or "girls" just won't ever like you... in that way.

The problem with all this is that women see sexual chemistry one way and guys see it another way. Guys think they know how women feel it and they are usually close in some way, but far off in another way.

Let me dispel this all-too-common myth:

Women can feel sexually charged with a guy from a conversation alone, whereas men believe there must be a physical attraction.

Yes, physical attraction can and does create sexual chemistry but for women, the actual physical part is not necessarily needed all that much for it to happen.

How you communicate to a woman is HOW sexual chemistry is created most of the time IF you want her to act on it.

Meaning – if she finds you physically attractive other things must be in place for her to "get" with you but, if you have great CHEMISTRY in how you talk to her, then she's more likely to act on it and move forward by following your lead.

The big question...

HOW is sexual chemistry created:

  • Old school Charm.
  • Classic Wit.
  • Flirting with tact.
  • The right kind of Humor.
  • Slight physical escalation.
  • Sexual tension.

When they're all combined, sexual chemistry is created (if and only if) she connects what she is feeling with you.

Sometimes it happens quickly and other times it slowly builds so you must be patient, consistent, attractively persistent, and LET IT HAPPEN.

Too many guys get all nervous and once the tension builds they release it because it feels uncomfortable.

You must be strong and totally comfortable with it happening so you're not popping the bubble and destroying the moment along with the attraction.

The links to help you out:

Why & How Being Funny Creates Attraction If You Use it The Right Way

How To Give Any Woman The Perfect Compliment – Steps On How To Create One

When It's Time To Make Your First Move On Her - No Fears - Go For It!

Start Teasing Women To Create Attraction But Follow These Four Rules First

Learn How To Flirt & Start Flirting With Every Women You Meet - Essential Skill Of Attraction

How to Create (or Kill) Sexual Tension

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You Wanted Her To Meet Your Parents By The Second Date - You Enter Instant Relationships

Your Date Her Parents

Are you one of those guys who as soon as you meet a woman, you want to make her your girlfriend?

Do you go straight into relationship mode on the first or second date?

If so, this could be exactly why you're failing with women.

This mistake can be fixed but you must hold off on the meeting the parents too early and follow this advice first.

Did You Want Her To Meet Your Parents By The Second Date? Big Mistake!

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Instant Relationship Are Bad!

Leave the parents out of it for a while.

Men and women tend to act differently when they're in a relationship. That, I believe, is something everyone knows.

So when you do stuff like this or anything that has you acting like you're already in a relationship with a woman you just met, or only been on a few dates with,  it's a big reason as to why girls won't like you.

I understand how you want to show her you're "relationship" or "boyfriend" material and how you're not just some guy trying to fuck her but, there are many other ways to slowly bring out those better traits of you WITHOUT bringing up the parents things so early.

The INSTANT RELATIONSHIP is a huge problem for lots of guys.

Although some women are like this and do the same thing, if you're only interacting with girls who are NOT like this...

I guarantee they will always make you wait, keep on the hook, put you in the friends zone, and make you do all sorts of things just to keep you around long enough until another guy comes along don't act this way.

Dating is there for a reason, to get to know each other, discover some compatibility, qualify each other, and find the most suitable partner AND have fun while doing it.

Let's be realistic here:

Unless you're parents are rich and famous - how much fun is it to add more anxiety and drive up the pressure on you and her, all because you want her to meet your parents?

It's not fun for her.

I hope it isn't fun for you because that's just kind of weird man.

Let the relationship develop naturally.

Date several women at a time.

Don't ACT like you're in a relationship until you actually are and girls will love you for being that way.

The parent meeting time will come around under its own timetable - don't rush it.

"You suffer from what is commonly called a “sense of urgency” when you first meet or interact with a girl."

How & Why You Must Give The Women You Are Attracted To… Space

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Her Friends Would Never Date You and/or Her Family Doesn't Approve Of You

Woman Friends Not Approving Guy

Although it's uncommon for a woman to flat out reject you because her family and friends don't approve of you, it does happen.

She might also feel too self-conscious or even sometimes embarrassed to be seen with you.

Read the entire post below to figure out if this is happening to you and how to get around this fixable problem.

Her Friends Would Not Date You, Both Her Family & Friends Don't Approve

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

They Don't Seem To Approve Of You!

You’re going to meet women whose social appearances as in being seen with you or her lifestyle means more to her than being with a great guy.

Maybe she's a little too self-conscious.

Maybe she is so wrapped up in how others see and judge her that she knowingly (or unknowingly) overlooks and rejects men that she feels her friends and family won't approve of her dating at all.

You're going to meet lots of women who will literally give up everything in their life to be with a certain guy.

AND of course you'll also meet women who won't go that far at all for a guy.

If her friends and family are making the call for her she will either pretend to not like you (rare) or more probable, not give you any chance to get to know her so she can avoid rejecting you later.

You might be asking... If there a way around this?

And the answer is YES!

Of course there is, it's just not 100% guaranteed.

Some say to just forget about a woman like this, how you can't change how she feels about herself and how she wants to live her life. Howa you shouldn't try anyways because that's entirely up to her and her choices.

Great advice of course until you start to notice a pattern in your life:

Women seem to be rejecting you for this reason consistently.

IF that's the case it sucks - I feel for you - BUT it also means you can eliminate this from happening to you in a way which doesn't involve you "changing" any woman at all.

You need to consider WHERE you're meeting these women and their age because younger women tend to use this "excuse" more than older ones.

Your lifestyle and how you live it also becomes a factor because it's putting you in the social circumstances making it more probable to happen to you.

The traits your exhibiting which displays to others you're not worth dating becomes one more item because friends and family may be trying to defend their loved one against you.

Luckily, because attraction often plays a big role in failing with women, there's very little reason to believe it's stopping you. You're getting this far, it's just not progressing any further because of the approval thing.

In other words, girls DO like you.

You're just not matching up with the ones that will fit in your lifestyle (meeting the right ones) AND you're probably not displaying enough "boyfriend material" traits which her family and friends will see whereas her attraction may blind her from seeing.

Which is why her friends and family feel the need to help her out before it's too late.

You'll find more information below in this section so I suggest you head down there and read it:

You have too many bad habits which make you not “relationship” or boyfriend material

Here's the full post which contains many more tips and advice to help you out better:

Why You're Not Relationship or Boyfriend Material & How To Be That Guy

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You Were Too Indecisive - You Can Never Make Your Mind Up About What To Do or In Your Life.

Indecisive Man Unattractive Failure

You're indecisive, barely make up your mind, you're afraid she won't like you so you never make a choice?

If this sounds like you and it feels like it's the reason women don't like you & why you're failing with them, you're right.

Here's how to solve the problem.

You're NOW ready to decide you want to be more attractive:

You're Indecisive & Can Never Make Your Mind Up About What To Do

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Stop Asking What She Wants!

Being indecisive will ALWAYS be an attraction killer and if you're like this on a first date or sometime after, you'll notice girls will start not liking you very quickly.

Indecision alone is not a huge deal to overcome but, if you're always asking women what SHE wants to do it's shows a lack of confidence in yourself to make decisions.

She'll begin feel like you're always trying to please her in ways she does not need to feel attracted to you.

Believe it or not this is a very common problem and it is sometimes hard to detect.

The best way to decide if this is a problem for you is if you find yourself TRYING to do something because you want her to be happy.

Stop Trying To Make Women Happy!

Eliminating this mistake is easy.

As long as you’re not demanding, even if you’re wrong, it’s best to stay one step ahead of her.

Which means you’re going to make decisions she will not always like.

Don’t worry about it!

You can make bad choices for her or even do things that don’t appear to make her happy and still continually escalate attraction.

However being indecisive will almost always destroy the attraction…Immediately.

Curing this problem can happen in several ways:

First:

If it's not obvious, if you're not confident around women, you're more likely to be indecisive.

The 4 Sure Signs Of Confidence That Women Look For In A Man

Why Confidence Is So Attractive to Women, What It Is, & How To Get It Quickly

Second:

A lot of this indecision comes from not knowing what to do next.

Not Knowing Exactly What To Do In Each Situation With Women.

A woman ALWAYS knows what you’re thinking. Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you’re out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won’t help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating…

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything.

If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up… and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman… from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women

Third:

FEAR. If you're always afraid of not making the right decision you'll always be hesitant and you'll will always look indecisive. 

As above, she's not going to like everything about you. She's not going to like some things you choose.

STOP worrying about so much and just focus on creating attraction because women will overlook ALL of it IF you do that AND you're not always wishy-washy about what to do, say, or what comes next.

AND...

Four:

Dating is one thing but living YOUR life is another thing which means HAVE A PLAN in your life. 

Be decisive. Don't wait or let others make your decisions.

Take the risks.

Choose.

If you're decisive in your life you WILL be decisive around women too IF of course you get the first three items close enough.

To get help with the last two (because there's way too much here at DiaLTeG™ to list) become a member and go through all the girlfriend steps:

Learn How You Can Get A Hot Girlfriend - 11 Steps to a Relationship

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You Were  Way Too Accommodating To Her Needs Before Yours - You're An Approval Seeker.

Cartoon Man Seeking Approval From Mean Woman

Are you kissing her ass all the time? Are you doing her and other women favors?

Are you trading off your time and money?

Are you giving up your self respect in the hopes women will like you more for it.

If so, you're an approval seeker and it's exactly why women don't like you.

Here's how you can finally overcome this affliction:

If You're Looking For Her Approval, This Is Why Women Don't Like You

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Women Want A Leader & Not A Kiss Ass!

Approval seeking comes in many forms and none of them are attractive. This one is about going too far to accommodate her with little or disregard for yourself.

Important: This is NOT for guys who are in a relationship.

Once you there it's okay to compromise and do things for your partner the right way.

However in dating or in getting dates, seeking a woman's approval never works in your favor.

There are thousands of examples I can give you but it's not really needed to figure out if you're doing this or not.

ANYTHING you do to GET her to like you through gift giving, listening to her problems about other guys, doing favors for her that are absurd, kissing her ass, disregarding your feelings while giving up respect for yourself in the hopes she'll like you more it means you are doing it.

Here's what all that says about you:

“Hi, I want your approval and attention.

I’m willing to let YOU be the one who’s in control… and let YOU call the shots… and do anything to please YOU…

IF you’ll give me your attention and approval"

What Women HATE Most About Single Guys

What a woman truly wants from a man is for him to be a leader in his own life.

She doesn't want a guy who tries to buy her off and do favors in return of her affection or love.

If you're constantly letting women walk all over you you're going to get CRUSHED... guaranteed!

Here are some articles to help you overcome this affliction:

Don’t Agree With Her & Go Against Your Beliefs Hoping She’ll Like You

STOP trying to get in her pants by giving her yours.

Stop Giving Women What They Say They Want, Make Them Feel Something Instead

Don't hand over yourself blindly - just make them feel attraction because THAT is what they really want to feel.

What It Means To Live Your Own Life, How to Do it, & Why It Attracts Women

Live your life in the way you want to and don't go exchanging just for a woman. They NEVER truly feel for a guy who is willing to do that.

Don’t Give Away Your Power To Attract Beautiful Women

The title says it all. When you do this - you're really just giving away all your power to create attraction.

Never Let Her Looks Affect Your Actions & Stop Giving Away Your Respect

Are you letting attractive women walk all over you? Why are you doing her favors just because she asks? Are you afraid she won't like you?

If you want to attract women you find very attractive, you can NOT let her looks affects your actions despite all of it.

Stop Complimenting Her So Much - You're Not Doing Her or You Any Good!

Women do love compliments, it is a great way to start flirting with her, but if you're not having any luck or success with women, & you're giving away compliments too often, & you're doing it all wrong. This is a big reason to stop doing it.

Don't let your niceness get in the way of attracting women & getting laid.

Do You Suffer From the Nice Guy Syndrome? Damaging Your Self Respect

A great article to help you wit the typical nice guy approval seeking problem with some great tips you can use immediately.

Stop Being Manipulated – High Character and Identifying Others

A HUGE problem with all this ass-kissing or approval seeking is that women will take advantage of you and you will be more susceptible to being manipulated. THAT stops here.

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You Didn't Know What She Really Wanted From You - Women Feel Like You Just Don't Get It or Them.

Woman Feeling What She Wants

You "think" you know what women want so you give it expecting them to become attracted to you, but it's not working, is it?

It's because you're not giving them what they NEED and that's to FEEL something for you.

It's Not About What Women Want, What They Need To Feel Attracted To You

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Emotions and Feelings Override Everything!

The concept of "what women want" may appear complicated but it's not and if you make it out to be that way, you'll constantly miss the point and women will ALWAYS feel like you just don't get it... or them.

It's understandable with all the bad information out there on what women want that you can be easily confused and led down the wrong path.

But think about it, if you're always trying to give them what you think they want and it's not working, then something is WRONG.

You must admit that first before you can get past all this nonsense.

The RIGHT answer is:

Women NEED a guy to make them feel ATTRACTION above anything else.

Without it, you'll never get very far with ANY woman.

So it's not all about giving what they want - it's simply about triggering her attraction towards you through how you interact and what you communicate to her.

Which is what she NEEDS from you.

"Attraction is an emotional and physical RESPONSE... and you can't convince a woman to feel it with logic, gifts, and NICENESS.

Attraction is the result of a woman meeting a man who understands how attraction works and who knows what to do in each specific situation to progress to the next level.

The PROBLEM with ATTRACTION, and with success with women in general is that the things you need to DO to be successful are NOT OBVIOUS."

What Women HATE Most About Single Guys & 7 Reasons Why She Won’t Like You

I interviewed this high quality "hottie" not too long ago and the transcription is in this post:

Go Deep Inside The Mind Of An Attractive Woman -  Her Secret and Revealing Interview

Her responses are great but they're also misleading. This is exactly where all the bad/wrong information out there comes from, so don't trust it on the surface.

You get that for free... enjoy!

If you're a paid up member you get the REAL breakdown of what she means and how you can use it to attract a woman just like her.

Trust me, it's a lot different than you would expect and now knowing the difference is why you're failing with women.

You can also purchase just the page too for a great price.

What she says she wants is different than what she needs and giving the wrong one doesn't do anything to change her emotional feelings for you.

The interview explains a lot but it doesn't go all the way.

This one does:

Click Here To Learn What Every Man Should Know On How To Be Successful With Women - Double Your Dating

It's THE BEST book to show you how it's done (create attraction and give her what she needs), how you can do it easily, how women experience attraction, and more.

You'll get all the definitions and by the time you're done reading it, you WILL GET WOMEN in every sense of the word.

And honestly dude - it's a pubic hair under fifteen freaking dollars!

If you can't put THAT much up to solve your woman (girls don't like me) problem then I just don't know what else to tell you.

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You Did Not Turn Her On At All - You're Afraid Of Triggering Her Desires and/or You Just Don't Know How To Do It. 

Woman Not Turned On By You

You're not turning on women. You don't feel physically or sexually attractive.

Your past failures with women are making you afraid of making any kind of physical move on them.

Time to dispel the myths of attracting women.

This is how to get women to desire you sexually and fix the real problem of not being able to turn the women you want, on.

You Don't Know How To Trigger Her Desires & Sexully Turn Her On To You

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Become A Sexy Guy and You Will Awaken Her Desires Towards You

Women have DESIRES in a man and if you don't know how to engage them, bring them out of her, have her connect them to you then lots of girls just won't like you all that much.

Yes I know it hurts to hear that BUT...

It's okay if you don't know how it's done BUT it's NOT okay to stop yourself from learning how it's done just because you're afraid she'll think less of you.

Do NOT let your Ego or balls stop you from getting the obvious help you need.

Stop Using Your Balls As An Excuse To Not Get The Help You Need With Women

Sex is a big deal to both men and women. It's not kind of the thing that makes the world go round it's the ACTUAL thing that keeps our human species alive.

It's part of the deal.

Why be afraid?

Why hide it?

AND...

WHY the hell would you EVER stop a woman from feeling and experiencing ALL her DESIRES when it's connected to you?

I'm not telling you or giving you permission to bring up sex all the time with women.

I'm flat out telling you that unless you awaken her DESIRES you won't have any woman spreading their legs to you.

They might date you for a while, make you work your ass off, might keep you around for a while until another guy comes along that KNOWS how it's done AND is willing to do it too.

Put the Ego aside - GET SOME HELP - and fear not my friend.

This is NOT something that will fix itself.

No woman in her right mind will SHOW you how it's done.

They won't take you by the hand and tell you what to do.

You MUST learn it one way or another and hopefully from a trusted reliable source.

The easiest way to bring out her desires WITHOUT having to be afraid of doing it is to make yourself into a guy women see as sexy!

I'm not talking about filling out your chest or working on your "guns" or getting a six-pack or having your ass done up like he did in the hilarious movie "Saving Silverman" - which fucking cracked me up man!

I've got you covered but it's not all free. Sorry.

Go here and check it out for yourself. It's EVERYTHING women find sexy in a guy and it's something you can become too:

26 Traits Women Find Sexy – How To Become A Sexual Guy Despite Your Looks

You WILL NEVER have to worry about turning on a woman again!

By just being there with her, even sometimes a half a block away will TURN on women and bring out ALL of her DESIRES. Even the ones she won't reveal to even herself sometimes.

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You Showed No Confidence  - You Have Little or No Real Confidence In Life or With Women.

Man Look Woman Trying Confident

Are you tired of failing to attract the women you want because you don't have any confidence?

Do you think it's a catch 22?

You think you need experience to be confident but since women don't like you - how are you supposed to get it?

Here's what real self-confidence is and how you can get it with no experience needed:

How To Be Confident Around Women – No Experience Needed?

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

A Confident Statement? Failure Is Not Defeat, It's An Opportunity To Succeed!

Confidence is a made-up word used typically to describe success or experience in our real world.

It's a BELIEF in oneself.

"The feeling or belief that one can have faith in or rely on someone or something.

The state of feeling certain about the truth of something.

A feeling of self-assurance arising from an appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities."

https://www.lexico.com/en/definition/confidence

It's the strength to proceed, to be persistent, DESPITE setbacks and failures.

To be willing to change when it's necessary and knowing the difference between when it must be done, or when something MUST be changed.

It's the way in which you handle any and all failures - to learn, to grow, to move on stronger than before.

It's how you manage your successes and a humble understanding of what true and real success is and means in EVERYONE'S life - including your own.

How to be confident - some quick tips:

You need knowledge and not the bullshit kind you want to believe because it's easy. Knowledge which is proven to work; not because it's easy, but because it's right.

Which means you need to read this over and over again:

Click Here To Learn What Every Man Should Know On How To Be Successful With Women – Double Your Dating

You need skills - to practice them, to perfect them the best you can, to be willing to fail AND put yourself in lots of positions, with many opportunities to FAIL; so you can learn from them and eventually succeed.

You need to eliminate the word SHOULD and ALWAYS from your everyday vocabulary.

You need to find these four things from anywhere you can find them:

#1. An "Easy-Going" Attitude.

#2. Being put together.

#3. Being Humble.

#4. Having a sense of humor.

The 4 Sure Signs Of Confidence That Women Look For In A Man

You MUST eliminate your fears around women, life, and others.

Then you have to:

Change your attitude around women, life, and others.

Next up...

Eliminate bad behaviors that are conveying false confidence to yourself and others too.

1. Bragging

2. Putting yourself down

3. Putting other people down

Excerpted from How To Become An Alpha Male by John Alexander.

Read preview of book in DialteG web page: How You Can Become An Alpha Male & Attract Women.

Exercise and mediate: Get yourself moving IF it's not a part of your daily schedule.

If you're the type that needs a regimen AND you want to use it to attract women - win win - pick up the newer version of what I've gone through myself years ago:

Click here for The Walking Code and The Art of Attractive Movement

Here's my "review" page of the walking code: You’re Attracting Or Repelling Women With Every Move You Make!

And of course...

Stop putting so much emphasis on the outcome of EVERYTHING.

Learn to enjoy the process (of practically everything) more than the result.

While ALL experiences can boost one's confidence - it doesn't START there - it begins with a belief in oneself and a positive outlook on success, failure, and everything in-between.

I believe IF you go through "confidently" everything that's been covered in today's post you WILL become more self-confident.

Yes - that means EVERYTHING.

One piece at a time.

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You Were Timid, Quiet, or Too Shy Around Her - You Reject Yourself Often and/or Women Feel Rejected By You.

Quiet Shy Man Sitting Alone

Are you shy, quiet, or suffer from social anxieties? Do you believe this is why you're failing with women and not attracting them?

Here's where you'll learn the real truth about why women can and DO like the quiet guys.

This plan, along with how to eliminate this limited belief which is holding you back, will finally solve your problem.

Are You Quiet & Shy Around Women? Is This Why They Don’t Like You?

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

It's okay to be a little shy, but it's not good to reject yourself from women because of your social awkwardness.

Believe it or not, women DO fall for shy and quiet guys ALL the time.

This means, since you're failing with women, they're not liking you for other reasons:

ONE: You failed to make some sort of intimate move on her at the right time and...

TWO: She felt rejected by YOU because of it.

It's not the shyness that pushed her away.

It's because when you're too shy and too quiet she doesn't know where you at, how you feel, where you're going with her, and because you refuse, can not, and just will NOT take the lead.

Here's a post I wrote which is going to change it all for you:

It will boost your confidence and prove to you without a doubt that it's okay to be a little quiet and of course it's much better to be mysterious.

Sorry, it's not a freebie.

Click Here To Join DiaLteG™ - Women Are Waiting For You To Become The Man She'll LOVE Forever!

The answer you've been looking for all along:

Do Girls Like Quiet Guys?

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She Felt You Always Had Something To Hide - You're Afraid Of Being A Real Man and You're Too Much Of A Nice Guy.

Woman Looking Hidden Clues

Do you think only jerks and players have something to hide from women?

Do you feel you're open and honest with women but still have no luck?

It's a common problem for nice guys because women do feel like you're hiding something from them and they don't like it or you because of it.

Here's why and how you can solve this problem.

She Felt You're Hiding Something - You’re Afraid Of Being A Real Man

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

How Can A Woman EVER Trust A Man Who Is Capable and Willing To Hide Something From Her?

I’ve noticed most nice guys believe they don’t have anything to hide.

It's their calling so to speak.

They bare it all a little too easily and believe they're being different and nicer than others because of it.

They believe only jerks or players have something to hide and sure they do, but what those guys are hiding is getting them laid, right?

Well nice guys have a lot to hide too. Possibly more!

I can guarantee most of the time you ARE hiding something from her... YOUR TRUE FEELINGS.

Sure - you tell her everything she asks without hesitation but when it comes to feeling sexually attracted to her, you don't want to come off as some pig just trying to get in her pants, so you BEFRIEND her first.

AND WOMEN KNOW exactly what you wanted the whole time.

Admit it...

If you're sexually and emotionally attracted to her, then having sex with her is part of the deal.

When you play the friend role - act a little too nice - give her everything without making her work for a little or offer no real challenge to her...

It will make her feel like you ARE hiding something from her and she'll question if she'll ever like you as someone who could ever be more than a friend.

You're hiding lots of stuff...

Be it your masculinity.

Your real agenda.

Your thoughts on sexuality.

Etc...

If she senses you're holding back what you're not supposed to hold back with a female, she'll only ever believe you're hiding something from her because you're trying to get something else from her.

AND never forget this:

When a woman believes you are capable of hiding ANYTHING from her, even the trivial stuff, she will NEVER trust you.

She'll ALWAYS wonder what more important stuff you're going to hide from her and how much it could end up hurting her.

Here's something I want you to study:

The Real Secret to Attracting Women & Getting Laid No One Knows But Me

Take special note to the parts on being genuine and real because it will help you to eliminate this reason from your life.

Do Girls Like Quiet Guys?

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You Have Way Too Many Bad Habits and Undesirable Traits Which Make You Not Relationship or Boyfriend Material - You're Just Not That Type Of Guy

Man Not Being Relationship Type

You can attract them, get them in bed, whatever...

But you're looking for a relationship with a woman but it never seems to go that far.

It's making you feel like you're a failure with women.

The reason is simple, they're not seeing you as boyfriend, husband, or the relationship type.

When you're ready for the change, when you want women to start seeing your differently, then you're going to have to read this:

Why You're Not Relationship or Boyfriend Material & How To Be That Guy

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Can You Be It All? Relationship Material and A Great Lover Too?

On one end, women get into relationships all the time with the WRONG guys for them.

They look too much into chemistry and connection or they're looking to fill a hole in their life and think a relationship will solve the many problems they have with themselves.

On the other end, lots of women have VERY specific guidelines when it comes to letting a guy into their life, long-term.

When a woman meets you, she'll quickly see you as one of a few types:

  • A lover.
  • A provider.
  • A possible friend.
  • Just some dude she sees once in a while.

From the immortal words of David DeAngelo in his Advanced Dating Series:

“Lovers are pursued.

Providers do the pursuing.

If she sees you as a provider, a woman will withhold sex, play hard to get, and test you to see how good of a provider you’ll be.

If she sees you as a lover and gets physically involved with you very quickly, then YOU will be in control, and you can choose where the relationship is going.”

—> taken directly from Advanced Dating Techniques workbook page 38.

Simple Steps To Create Chemistry And Attraction

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Chances are, since you're reading this today, women are not seeing you as a lover or else you would not be asking why girls don't like you and getting laid would not be a problem, but they're also not seeing you as a provider.

You're either a possible friend or just some dude she runs into once in a while.

Your best bet for results is to be seen as a lover first, as noted in this short article I wrote:

She’s Not Looking For A Relationship, Are You A Lover Or A Provider?

EXCEPT if you're looking for a girlfriend, wife, or any long-term commitment with a woman you need a different set of skills to show women you ARE the relationship type of guy she'd be happy to settle down with or become your girlfriend.

Here are some of the things that make you NON-RELATIONSHIP or BOYFRIEND MATERIAL to women:

  • Being unreliable.
  • Being a little too unpredictable.
  • Being a little too dangerous.
  • Appearing or actually being uncaring towards others.
  • Lacking empathy towards those who are close to you.
  • Have little or no REAL long-term GOALS in life.
  • Not knowing what you're looking for in a woman.
  • Now knowing what you're looking to get out of life.
  • Lack a passion and desire to better yourself and help those around you.
  • Have very little security or stability in your life.
  • Refusing to do what's necessary to get the JOB done.

Here's what you can do to fix this problem once and for all:

Go through the list and figure out which one applies to you and work on changing it... immediately!

Go through my page on forming natural relationships where I show you all the skills you need to make a great boyfriend or husband.

Learn the necessary skills to connect with a woman on a level which MAKES you a LOVER and a PROVIDER and learn how to communicate that to women in a way which is highly attractive and addictive to her.

This program will show it ALL to you but it will cost you:

Love – The Final Chapter - Real LOVE is Finally Within Your Reach

Yes - it's expensive.

Yes, it's a process.

But it's also something you only need to do ONCE and it WILL last you the rest of your life.

You're not investing in a phone or television that needs to be changed every few years OR into something which will break if you drop it...

This is YOUR LIFE - do with it what you can.

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She Felt You Don't Care About Yourself Enough - You Do Not Know How To Maintain Your Appearance In A Way Which Says You Put A High Value On Yourself.

Plain Looking Guy

Looks don't matter as much as appearances do.

So if you're failing with women all too often then you might not be showing her the key reasons why your appearance makes a difference to them.

Do you know why women are like this?

Do you know what your appearance does mean to them?

If not, this is why, how to fix it, & how too.

Your Appearance Matters More To Women & You Can Fix It Easily & Should

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Looks Don't Matter but Your Appearance Does!

The important part to remember here is dressing yourself in a way that merely shows you actually DO care about yourself.

In other words:

You believe in yourself and you place a high VALUE in who you are and how you present yourself to the world.

Most women would NEVER turn down or reject you because of your style or lack thereof.

Most women won’t put you in the friend’s zone because you prefer a simple shirt and jeans over a suit and tie.

BUT...

You will make it that much harder to make a woman your girlfriend or "like you" if you present yourself in a way which tells her you couldn't care less about yourself.

Don’t confuse that with,

“I don’t care what others think of how I dress.”

There’s a distinct difference.

Believe it or not, a comb-over says you do NOT care about yourself but not for the reason you might intend to believe.

It takes balls, confidence, strength, resolve, ingenuity, and smartness to work within your look... whatever that happens to be.

Combing over that lame ass hair of yours or doing anything of the sort only tells women you're trying hide something you think they won't like about you.

She Felt You Always Had Something To Hide - You're Afraid Of Being A Real Man and You're Too Much Of A Nice Guy

Sure - it's a bad example bad it also goes for short guys wearing lifts in their shoes, sucking in your gut all the time, etc...

Trying to hide something is always worse than just going with whatever you got going on and NEVER forget this:

A great talking game or "conversational attraction" will almost ALWAYS override any look you got going on. (Within reason of course.)

You'll find all the help you need to eliminate this type of rejection in these two pages:

Refine Your Look, Style – How To Take Care Of The Details Women Notice

AND...

How To Make A Great Impression On Her – 12 Things Women Look For In A Guy

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She Believed That You Think It's All About How Much Money You Make - You Think You Have To Buy A Woman's Affection or Attraction.

Man Counting Money

Are you using your lack of money as an excuse for failing with women & not attracting them?

Here's the reality: Not having cash is not the problem, your attitude & the way you judge plus make women feel about your belief is the problem.

Time to change your view & handle rejection in a way that will attract women.

You Don’t Make Enough Money – Is That Why Women Don’t Like You? Wrong!

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

It's Not About The Money - It's About How You Handle This Cash Problem & Objectivity.

Although this is rare, it MUST be said...

Not many women will refuse to date a guy or just not like him because he doesn’t make enough money.

Most of the time this is just an excuse they give "some" guys when they're not very tactful or nice women when the real reasons are:

She's not feeling attracted to you AND she believes you have no real goals in your life.

Money is not normally the deciding factor of liking you or not.

Goals, aspirations, having some sort of plan, persistence in getting life handled, THOSE are the determining factor and not money alone.

Sure, some women will check your bank account first and blow you off if it's not high enough for her.

You can blow her off entirely if you want and act like it doesn't matter to you but you're also missing some objectivity in these cases which will bleed into other parts of your life and make you a less attractive man.

The objective reality is:

Snubbing your nose back at her, judging her,  acting like you don't give a shit that she may or may not be a money grubbing pig or gold digger IS and will ONLY EVER BE for YOUR supposed benefit to make yourself feel better because she doesn't want you.

In other words - you've ALREADY been rejected dude.

So either go out and makes lots of cash and toss her a few dollars so she'll beg to have you, or figure out how to get her past her affliction for "cash on cock", or ACL like the decent non-judgmental man you are and casually let her be without wanting to avenge your poor little feelings.

My point is:

You're reading this which means in all likelihood you're failing with girls and how you handle women like this can and will determine just how attractive you are to other non-gold diggers out there.

Handle it with control, dignity, don't judge her, and let it go!

When you can develop THAT kind of attitude girls will start to like you... guaranteed.

Here's a better more productive and positive way to look at this problem:

Never Try to Buy A Women’s Affection or Attract Her with Money or Favors

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You Made Her Feel Like That Without A Car, You Couldn't Date Her - You Do Not Own A Car And You Use It As An Excuse - You Don't Get Things Done Despite Not Having An Advantage.

Mustang No Car Now Crashed

You don't have a car and just maybe you believe it's why you're failing with women.

Yeah, it sucks.

What hurts worse is that you're partly correct, sort of...

This excuse is not the end. There's more to it than just not having transportation.

Here's how to get around and succeed. My story will make a difference in your life.

You're Screwed Because Women Don't Like Guys Who Don't Have... A Car!

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Not Having A Car Can Actually Be An Advantage In Attracting Women.

In big cities it’s rare because owning a car is more of a pain in the ass than it's worth and good public transportation is so much easier and reliable too.

However... if you live in an area in which getting around efficiently requires you to own a car she may be connecting “not owning a car” with “not having a social life.”

Which is the most probable reason why you believe girls don't like you.

Getting around this one is simple aside from buying a car, because trust me, the LAST thing you want to do is spend a shit load of money on a care just to get laid.

You'll attract the wrong women AND you'll resent doing it.

Combined together will make you a less attractive man who spends too much time working just to pay off some bullshit overpriced auto loan.

Here's how it's done...

Build a credible and varied social life. Some of those friends will have cars.

If you're that great of a guy to hang out with they will be more than happy to cart you around occasionally.

Don't abuse the privilege though.

Don't be THAT guy!

Women often take extreme note to guys who can get things done despite not having the "quick and easy" transport method.

They'll see what a great friend you are - how others are always willing to help you out when you need it.

They become extremely attracted to men who get more for less as noted in my getting a girlfriend series:

I’ve known plenty of men who were incredibly great with women without even a license to drive.  (Ha! Great movie - License to Drive - watch it when you get a chance.)

Refuse to use this as an excuse and you’ll be much better off.

Refuse to let this stop you from attracting girls and they WILL get it.

They'll actually love that about you because it shows you get things done YOUR way and you get things done despite having an easy but a money-wasting car...

AND it also shows you're not so typical OR how you don't need a car to make up for having a small dick.

Sure - having a muscle car and taking great care of it doesn't always mean "small dick". I'm not one to go there. I just like to joke around.

It can represent a lot of attractive traits in a guy women go for BUT...

If it's not you or if it's not in your budget, DO NOT use this as an excuse.

Use it to your advantage because "chics" dig a guy who knows how to take something someone else may seem as a negative and turn it into something positive.

Again, the key here is to your ability to live the best you can despite not having the advantage of a vehicle.

That, to women, is highly attractive and strangely enough – SEXY!

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She Believed You Rejected Yourself Because You’re Too Old To Be Living With Your Parents - You Lack Courage and Fail To Take Risks.

Man Sitting Alone

Whether you are taking care of your Mother or Father, they are helping out financially, or you just won't take the risk of moving out on your own...

Living with your parents can make dating women difficult.

If this is why you think you're failing with women, here's exactly how you can fix it & eliminate this excuse.

Are You Still Living With Your Parents & It's Making Dating Difficult?

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Add A Little Edge - Take Some Risks - Living With Your Parents Doesn't Have To Be A Problem Anymore.

There are a few sides to this because I do understand that some guys live with their parents because they need to take care of one or both of them and that's cool man - it really is.

BUT...

Aside from that reason which won't be a problem when she finds out the real reason you're doing it, it's not that you're too old to be living with your parents, it's what this represents or shows about you that is causing them to not like you.

It says to women:

You have no real skills, confidence, strength, or courage to get out and make it on your own despite the hardships and difficulty it can be in many circumstances around the world over.

The way around is to obviously, unless it's important to your parents health, to GET OUT but if even that is not reasonable...

You MUST make sure the women you're dealing with who are rejecting you are meeting a guy who does have all things despite this problem:

Some sort of skill to make it in the world.

Confidence in yourself and others too.

A certain humbling strength which is used appropriately and not tossed around to bully others. It's called emotional internal strength and resolve to get things done.

Courage in a way which doesn't have to be about taking life-threatening risks - just the courage face your fears, take reasonable risks, and fearless attitude towards life and all the bullshit it throws at you.

Get those handled and girls WILL like you... a LOT!

Here's the perfect start and all it takes is an understanding of why women love bad boys and how to add a little edge into your life safely.

The below posts will make her see that you living with your parents as a cute little add-on to the nice "bad boy" you really are on the inside:

Four Steps on How To Use Jerk or Bad Boy Traits to Attract Girls Nicely

Why Women Do Like A Bad Boy & How You Can Do It & Still Be A Good Guy

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She Hates What You Do For A Living and You Took It Personal - You Believe Women Are Only Into What You Do and Not WHO You Are.

Magician Woman No Like Work Job

You don't like your job and you think you're failing with women because of what you do for a living.

You take it personal and reject yourself in this many ways.

Reality is much different, it's not what you do, it's who you are that women are attracted to. This excuse ends now. No more blame. Define your life, create attraction.

She Don't Like Your Job! Are Women Into What You Do & Not Who You Are?

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Just The Job or Another Excuse?

This reason or reality, EXCUSE is more in your head than it is hers, although it can and does happen.

Yes, it's true, some women don't go for guys who have lame jobs with no opportunity to better themselves or their position they're in, but your job or even career has little or nothing to do with how much a girl may or may not like you.

Attraction IS attraction and regardless of what you do IF she feels it for you, there's not much she can do about it.

Making this is an very general excuse a woman will give to a man. However it's usually a lie she'll give you to spare your feelings. The real reason is because she's not feeling anything for you.

It's not the job she cares about, it's your goals in life.  If you wanted to make something of yourself that would be more important to her and you wouldn't be failing with women because of it.

There are very rare exceptions.  Such as women refusing to give guys a chance who do dangerous things for a living such as drug dealers, police officers, men in the military - again very rare because women tend to dig those type of guys but some will refrain out of fear.

BUT that doesn't mean she don't "like" the guy by any stretch of the imagination.

The easy way to get around this is mentioned above:

Admit that this is an excuse.

Admit that it can not possibly be true because when you look around you'll find lots of women with guys who do lots of things for a living.

Understand that it could be a problem with where you're meeting women so that would have to change, unless you want to keep meeting the same types of women where something  like this "might" matter to them.

And most of all...

No matter what you do for a living - don't just phone it in. Be responsible. Show some initiative.

Make sure you have goals in life and that you're trying to achieve something for yourself.

Focus more on creating attraction because once that's done you can easily override any woman's judgment of your job or career.

NEVER FORGET THIS:

It's rarely if ever about what you do.

Women fall for guys who have goals in life and are willing to keep making them happen.

DEFINE WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE.

Before you start living your dreams, first you need to know what they are.

So get to work… as in right now… clarifying your personal “vision” of an exciting, happy, fulfilling life.

Once you do, guess what… the qualities that your “dream woman” must possess to share and help you achieve those dreams will become immediately obvious.

So go figure yourself out.

Are you an outgoing world-traveler with dreams of sailing the world?

Or an introverted screenwriter hell-bent to winning an Oscar for best screenplay?

Nail it down in no uncertain terms, because it ain’t rocket science — until you know yourself and what you want, there’s no way to find a woman who’ll love you in amazing, life-changing ways for who you are.

3 Critical Steps To Finding Your “Dream Woman”

A REAL women will ALWAYS choose a guy with the worst shittiest job in the world who at least CARES and is bettering himself any way he can over a guy who bitches and complains about his station in life and does NOTHING to change it.

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You Work Together and Gave Her Every Reason To Believe It Mattered To Her - You Only Meet Women You Work With and Don't Get Out Enough.

Women You Work With

Are you only trying to date women at work and it's not "working" for you?

Your job might be an easy place to meet women but it also could be one of the main reason as to why you're failing with women.

Here are the problems and solutions to fix it & the two things you need to learn to eliminate it entirely.

Are You Only Trying To Date Women At Work? Don't Do It & Here's Why

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Dating Only Co-Workers May Not Be The Answer You're Looking For...

Some women won't date guys they work with and that's probably a good thing, depending on where you work of course.

There's a lot of problems that arise dating a co-worker and you can read about all of them in this post:

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On one end, yes, if you believe it matters to her she's going to either pretend to not like you or not bother with you and you're only setting yourself up to fail because you didn't even bother trying at all.

On the other end, if you're constantly trying to date women from work they do see it ALL and think it's what you do.

It doesn't make a woman feel special or show you actually do like her if you're trying to get it on with every chic at work.

But that's not what the real problem usually is, it's only part of it.

Here's the real issue:

Pulling from a very limited field of women you work with shows me you're not going out or doing anything else to meet women. You're trying to take the easy way out because you don't feel confident or skilled enough outside your work's comfort zone.

You limit yourself. You're avoiding real risks. You're refusing to get out more often and are complacent about it all.

I don't advise co-workers to date unless they're in a temporary and easily replaceable job.

I'd rather have you opening up lots of opportunities outside work which tells me you're going beyond just the girls you see everyday and you're trying lots of different ways to meet women.

Not only does that give you more opportunities, it puts you in a mindset of ABUNDANCE and not one of scarcity.

And women want and prefer men who possess an abundant attitude about life.

I understand how easy it is to fall for a woman at work. You spend lots of time together. You're both stuck either having to learn about one another or the time goes by very slowly and it's boring as shit making it easy to connect with each other.

Feelings bubble up, connections are made, and the next thing you know - you've fallen for the new girl... once again.

Along with every other single guy there too.

I've been there, done that so I'm with you there.

It happens all too easily but don't let that stop from opening your horizons and getting out into the REAL world because trust me there are a LOT more women out there and you won't have any work-related issues to deal with when and if things go bad.

Here are a TON of places you can meet single women outside of work:

32 Great Date Places Where To Go and Meet Her Plus 7 Tips On Dating

Use that list for all it's worth and the tips I give you too. It WILL help.

Here's the entire list of helpful tools, techniques, and skills, some are free, some are not, to get you approaching and meeting lots of women outside of work. Use them wisely:

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She Is Your Boss and You Refused To Go Out and Find Another Job or Another Woman - You Lack Choices and Work Off A Mindset Of Scarcity And Not From One Of Abundance.

Man Trying Date His Boss

An unusual situation for failing with women or why women don't like you is trying or only interested in dating your female boss.

The solution to this problem is simple but effective.

It covers scarcity, abundance mindset, a sense of urgency, & breaking the pattern that leads to rejection all too often.

She's Your Boss & You Want To Date Her? How This Leads To Failures

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Bosses Are Not There To Be In Your Dating Pool.

Never date your boss! I can not say that any louder.

It's obvious dating your boss is not the real problem of women liking you because if you are dating her, at least one likes you.

No, the real problem is much deeper and it's why "other" women are not that interested in you and it's even more obvious that if you're only ever interested in dating your females bosses, the problem goes much deeper.

The bigger issue is that I've found guys who fawn over their hot boss get hooked on her and never look outside their work environment to give themselves any other choices.

They get hooked on one girl at a time and cycle through the same old bullshit with each one of them and in the process NEVER get the one they want.

Which means your mindset (as in the last one) is thinking that women are scarce and the available choices you have in dating them are limited.

Which couldn't be further from the truth...

If you go out, get out, start meeting more of them, and work on attracting ALL of them.

Okay - I hear you.... BUT you LOVE your boss because she's so incredible and she makes a pretty good living too.

Guess what?

If you love her that much and are willing to do anything to be with her, which is not advisable, then find a different job, come back and then find a way to fuck her, make her your girlfriend, take her out, or marry her.

Whatever your goal is, make it happen or get over her and meet other women.

If you’re not willing to do that then what you're feeling is most likely anything BUT love. You’re spending way too much time together and the sexual friction is getting more heated everyday.

Moving on will certainly help you figure out where you're at, just with a price of finding and getting another job.

If you leave (the job) now, while things are still hot and heavy you may just find an incredible relationship with her or have it fizzle out quickly but...

If it's anything more than that you'll attract her even more because  you'll show her the depth of your strength too.

Just be careful - going to this length for any one woman too early could also push her away because some women don't like guys who are willing to give up everything just for them.

By leaving your job you risk losing her because any man who’s willing to put a woman first when they’re NOT in a relationship yet often loses her. In this situation you must find a way to allow her to see this is a one time deal.

The rest of your life is yours.

Hey, I don't make the rules of attraction or women. They just are what they are.

On the side, leaving your job would also be a good thing because if it doesn't work out and you break up, you won't have to deal with all the work drama that comes from having a boss who is also your ex. Now that would suck!

If your choice is to forget about her and get yourself out of this scarcity mentality and meet some new women then I'll do my best to help you meet all the women you could ever handle.

Some are free resources. Some are only for members of DiaLteG™:

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You Told Her That You Loved Her After A Few Dates - You're Not Sure What Love Is And You Always Reveal Your Feelings Way Too Early.

Man Begging Marriage Revealing Feelings Early

Are you one of those guys who feels the need to tell a woman you love her, hoping she'll reveal her feelings for you because you're not sure?

You might even think she'll like you more for it or how she'll come rushing to be in your arms.

Wishing desperately she's now (finally) going to be with you just because you said it to her first.

Well this can only lead to failure and rejection so STOP doing it!

This will fix it for you.

Why You Keep Revealing Your Love & Feelings For Her Too Early

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Revealing Your Feelings Won't Change How She Feels About You.

Love is a very strange concept and it's often interpreted differently from guy to guy, from woman to woman, and from guy to girl making it a very complicated subject.

It's okay if you believe in love at first sight - it's okay to have your own feelings and to interpret them ANY way you want...

BUT girls are NOT going to like if you keep revealing your feelings way too early.

Here are three traits that women are always extremely attract to:

  • Cool, clam, relaxed, and emotionally in control.
  • Patience and the unwavering ability to wait and enjoy the process.
  • Restraint and  holding back when necessary.  The ability to not jump unpredictably ahead into situations without thinking.

When you reveal your feelings too early those traits are no longer in your arsenal or skill-set to create attraction.

So... STOP DOING IT!

If you're struggling with this one, here are some tips:

BEFORE you say anything, I want you to playfully accuse HER of liking you too much and too early.

AND make sure she's laughing with you.

This is where you casually accuse her of falling madly in love with you and you think she needs to slow down. Keep it in context and humorous though or you’ll come off like an arrogant ass.

Learn all you can about being slightly cocky AND funny so you can breeze past these moments:

Every time you feel yourself about to do anything like this (especially asking her directly is she likes you) do THIS instead:

  • Pause.
  • Step back a little.
  • Look right in her eyes.
  • Put a small smirk on your face and a little squint in your eyes.
  • Think but don’t say unless many other things are in place, “She likes me. Awww… How sweet. Haha!”

Never Ask a Woman if She Likes You – What You Must Do & Say Instead So She Will Like You

Start acting like you're giving HER a chance to fall in love with you and not the other way around.

You THINK you're in love - again - that's fine BUT make sure you know it really is there - make sure you don't go telling her too early - Make sure she feels the same way FIRST before you even DARE tell her.

And this problem will go away all by itself.

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Your Ex Girlfriend Was A Bitch And You Constantly Talk About Her - You Don't Know How To Let Things Go And You're Constantly Blaming Women and Others For Your Problems.

Ex Girlfriend Bitching

Is your ex girlfriend ruining your all new dates?

Does it feel like you can not help yourself and you're constantly complaining about her

Do you blame her for all your problems and the current misery you're experiencing?

This has to stop now because you know it's why good women don't like you anymore.

This will help you get past her.

Your Ex Girlfriend Was A Bitch & She’s Ruining Your Dating Life

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Bad Ex-Girlfriends - Isn't It Time To Shut Up and just Move On Already?

NEVER talk about your ex especially if you have bad feelings for her and all women will appreciate it and LIKE you more for it.

NEVER compare the girl you're dating or want to date to your ex unless you're doing what you can to avoid dating someone like her, but that should only happen in your head.

If you must, go ahead and talk about her a little with your guy friends but only in private.

Keep it to a bare minimum and look for the signs from them that they are getting sick of listening to you bitch about her. Make sure they are not enabling you to talk shit about her too.

NEVER bitch, whine, or complain about your past experiences with women to another potential date.

The past bounces off of you.

It's NOT a big deal.

You CAN handle worse things like this, you've got it covered.

THAT is the attitude you want.

If it comes out, just say, "It didn't work out." and end it there.

You see it’s not that you’ve made a past mistake which tells her you might not be a viable option in her dating life, it’s the mere fact you won’t let it or possibly other things go.

You're not talking about your ex, you're telling her that if she dates you and things go bad, you'll probably talk shit about her too. No woman in her right mind would give you a second date knowing that bit of information.

You're also revealing to others that you're more into the blame game and are not willing to take responsibility in your life which is a very un-attractive trait to have and REAL girls just won't like you for it.

Be honest with yourself.

No one MADE you date your ex.

YOU made that choice so get over it and move on.

Use it to look for someone better and to not make the same mistake again.

All that stays in your head, or a private journal, or with your therapist, or in the comment section anywhere here at DiaLteG™ where it belongs when you're dealing with any new women in your life.

The GOOD news is - if she really was a bitch - you know EXACTLY what to look for so you can best and avoid it with the next one.

Learn to qualify the next one better and more attractively so you can finally put this whole bullshit affair in your past forever, starting with everything I tell you in this post:

Are You Qualifying Her? – Attracting Women & Better Relationships

Use that past experience to make your dates more fun and less of a bitch-fest.

You’ll be much more attractive in her eyes when she senses this strength and because you're not so willing to reveal what actually happened.

She will wonder more and instantly start to think...

WHY would another women dare to let a great guy like you go?

From Scot McKay and Escape The Just Be Roommates Zone... to you:

Different girl… SAME Relationship?

Woman Grabbing Guy Screaming

Does that ring a bell?

In other words, you keep breaking up with women (or getting broken up with BY them) but history keeps repeating itself.

You may even have started believing ALL women are the same, and you’re ready to give up the fight.

Or how about this?

You really, seriously DO have a woman in your life who you’d love to make plans with for the future, but you honestly have NO idea where you stand.

You’re not even sure you TRUST her, let alone know what’s going on in her head.

You don’t want to let something so potentially great with her slip away, but you just don’t have the answers to make things right with her.

Now, you may be in a relationship at this time, but it’s even BETTER if you aren’t yet.

Either way, my newly-released program Get Together, Stay Together is for YOU.

If you’re like the vast majority of men out there, you want a great girlfriend. One who’s a genuine “keeper”.

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You want a woman who “gets” you.

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It’s certainly the one with the most potential for satisfaction, even in a world where so many experience so much misery in relationships:

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Hell, just as many guys blow it with the RIGHT woman, which is heavy to even think about it.

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You Talked About Your Mother On The First And Second Date - You Don't Know How To Make Dating Fun And You're Always Trying To Prove To Others What A Great Guy You Are.

Man Talking About Mother On Date

Setting up amazing dates that are fun is tough work. Everyone gets that.

Proving to women you're a good guy who is looking for something more than casual sex is even harder because you don't think she's going to get that's who you are unless you tell her.

But please - do not go there, do not bring up your Mother just yet!

Here's why & how to make your dates amazing & attractive too so you can avoid making this weird mistake:

This Is Why Mentioning Your Mother On A First Date With Her Is Bad

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

There's no need to prove you're one of the good guys, she'll figure it out.

Seriously? You're talking about your Mother on a date... again?

I don't even care if your Mom is rich and famous it’s best to avoid making this surprisingly common mistake.

Sure, mentioning your Mom on a date might seem okay. Maybe you're just trying to show her you're a family man who cares and understands what's really important in life.

Maybe you're trying to show you're not just looking for a quick lay and you feel talking about your Mother can help her to see it.

But there's more to this problem you have to first understand and get, if you want to make sure it's not costing you second dates or the attraction of a woman.

Number one.

Trying to show a woman who you are is never the attractive way to go about getting it done.

I hate to say "just be yourself" so I won't for many reasons but think hard about this, really hard because it's missed by so many people...

If you're just who you are, where does TRYING come into play?

You should never have to prove you're a good guy because if you do good things, then THAT is what makes you a decent man and others will take note of it.

"So… you’re no longer a nice guy.

You’re a good guy because you DO good things.

You’re a good guy because you don’t force your beliefs onto others – physically or mentally."

20 Nice Guy Tips to Make You & Your Personality More Attractive to Women

The same (sort of) rule applies here:

If you love your Mother, if you are a good family man, if you DO care about those more important things, then there's absolutely no need to try and prove it to anyone.

Just do what you do and others will see it.

If they don't see it (or if you're failing to communicate this "niceness" in a way to make it easy for them to see it), then forcing it or trying overly hard to make it known will actually make you less than the decent man you are because...

A person of high moral character never forces these things on others.

Number two.

You're on a freaking date man!

Have fun. Enjoy it.

Seriously - talking about your Mother can not be the greatest thrill in the world for you or her.

The ONLY time you should mention your Mother while you're on the first few dates with a woman is if the topic comes up directly from her.

But at that point I would seriously suggest and advise when and if she does it,  that you immediately and playfully accuse her of trying to get in good with your Mother because she's already thinking about marriage and children tying you down.

Yes, accuse her of liking you a little too much and how she's already starting to smother you but also how you think it's kind of cute too.

Notice the difference because one is fun and flirty as in cocky/comedy and the other is a huge turn off.

There are definitely lots of more exciting and attractive topics to talk about in the early stages of dating so this Mother thing should NOT be your go-to topic.

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You Complimented Her Way Too Much - You Don't Come Off As Genuine or Real - You Think Kissing Her Ass Is How You Can Get A Piece Of Her Ass.

Man Bad Complimenting Woman

Women do love compliments and it's often a great way to start flirting with her but...

If you're not having any luck or success with women you're definitely giving away compliments too often and you're doing it all wrong.

This is why you must stop doing it immediately!

Don't let your niceness get in the way of attracting women & getting laid:

Stop Complimenting Her So Much – You’re Not Doing Her or You Any Good!

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

When Too Much Is Just Too Much! Use Compliments Sparingly.

Of course women want compliments from you or anyone willing to give them away but, they also want them to be real and genuine too, otherwise they won't trust the sincerity of your words.

In fact some will even opt for a second date with you as an ego boost because you’re being so nice and complimenting her so much.

BUT...

Sooner or later she starts to think you're only doing it to get in her pants. It loses its effect. She'll begin to question if it's real or you're just saying the same things you say to every other girl you meet.

Compliments are okay if they are used sparingly at first.

They also have a lot to do with the type of guy you are.

In other words the better you are with women the less you have to worry about how she is taking the compliment.

If it’s to kiss her ass – it’s wrong.

If it’s to display a genuine interest then it’s okay under normal circumstances.

However, constantly complimenting any woman always leaves her not taking your words at full value. She’ll believe you’re doing it for reasons which are merely strategic.

Or that you’re clueless about how to talk to a woman and only know how to give out compliments which do little to increase and build a fun attractive conversation with her.

Sometimes she'll even begin to feel like you're redirecting her attention away from you because you don't feel confident or comfortable around women.

Here's a fair warning:

Most women won't ever seriously tell you to stop.

They'll let you talk them up all you want but inside, they are feeling less attracted and losing respect for you along with the trust in the sincerity of your words.

Before you know it, she's on to the next guy and you're left wondering what went wrong when it appeared you were making her feel good.

That's your warning, here's a FACT:

Most guys just don't know how to compliment a woman in a way which is masculine, real, and attractive too.

You could be giving them away the wrong too so their affect is useless to her and you too.

Luckily I have you covered on this one too.

Become a member here at DiaLteG™ and study the post below. Do the exercises.

Give your compliments away sparingly and please... make sure they count:

How To Give Any Woman The Perfect Compliment – Complete Steps On How To Create The Perfect One For HER

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You Ate Like A Pig - Your Manners Are Borderline Annoying and You Show Little Respect For Others and Their Private and Public Space.

Woman Throwing Drink Man Face

Don't let bad manners, social unawareness, and your public eating habits ruin your chances dating women.

If you're failing with lots of women and don't know the answer, this could be the reason why.

Here's the easy simple way to fix this fixable problem and leave a great attractive impression on all women.

You Eat Like A Pig, Your Manners Are Annoying, & Show Little Respect

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Social Awareness, Respect for Others, & High Status Often Equals Instant Attraction.

Seriously dude - this may not be for the overly nice guys who are scared a little much of what of others think of them but it's a perfectly valid reasons why girls might not like you.

No worries, it's fixable.

So easily fixed that it makes me wonder why ANY guy wouldn't even try or WHY he can not see it for himself.

If this is not you - then seriously - tell me how they don't even realize it or care they're doing it.

Reminds me of a great scene from "The Good Place" when Adam Scott  is from The Bad Place and while they're all eating dinner he rips off his shoes and socks and starts cutting his toenails right in the restaurant.

Anyways, being a piggish eater is not that bad, believe it or not but what really matters in this "girls liking you or not" thing is the lack of respect for those around you and not having any social awareness at all.

I'm all for a guy who isn't so bent on having everyone like them, it's a admirable and attractive trait but...

You have to understand, when you respect others, not dive into their space, not do stupid shit like this you get more respect from others.

The more respected you are, the more people that want to be around you because of it, the more people respect YOUR boundaries, the more social aware you are...

The more women see you as a guy who has got it going on.

Instant high status generally equals instant attraction from women.

It's the TRUE mark of a real alpha man and not the made up bullshit guys equate to being alpha which is usually wrong.

BE ALPHA:

How You Can Develop Your Personality & Be A Real Mysterious Alpha Male

That article I wrote explains it all and what every trait the alpha male has, why it's attractive to women, and how to BE that guy too.

So IF you insist on eating like a pig - just please make sure you're THAT guy first and you'll probably be able to get away from something like this and girls will overlook your "food down the mouth" problem more often than not.

The alpha post above is for members only so if you're looking for something free of charge, the one below will help you out.

50 Little Etiquette Rules You Should Always Practice

Don't let these small piles of mistakes add up to ruin your dating life:

  • Start being more aware of your social surroundings.
  • Think before you speak.
  • Slow down while you eat.
  • Learn the art of practicing good manners or etiquette to the point which separates you from every other guy.

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Your Car Was Disgusting On The Inside - You're A Slob With Little Regard Or Care To Ever Taking Charge And Control In Your Life.

Dirty Smelly Car

Showing up to a date with a dirty car that's disgusting on the inside is a good reason for failing with women & never getting a second date.

If you look up all the ways why women might not like you this one is small but represents something greater as in how much you value yourself, her, and how you see yourself too.

Why Did You Show Up For Your Date In A Dirty, Disgusting & Smelly Car?

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Clean It Up BEFORE You Pick Her Up, Unless You Don't Want To See Her Again.

You did all the work and got a date with her. Cool... But then why did you pick her up with a dirty car littered with trash?le!

Your messy car is one thing and hopefully you know it's certainly a valid reason why a woman won't accept a second date, or give you even chance when she sees it...

But not caring about it is something entirely different and learning the reason why you don't want to fix it must be looked at more closely...

Your unwillingness to make even the smallest effort to do something about it.

  • Are you self-sabotaging yourself?

This is very common. When we don't feel good enough about ourselves we often find ways to make sure we don't succeed.

It's hard to tell that we're even doing it because they remain small and hidden from our view - as it not showing up in a clean car.

Since this post isn't about building your self-esteem or convincing you that you're worthy and deserving of a great woman, I'd start reading some of Scot McKay's articles I have posted up here just for you. He can definitely inspire you get you were you need to be.

  • Do you believe she shouldn't care? After all, it's just a ride, right?

I don't know about you, but I certainly would prefer a woman who actually DOES CARE.

Women are great at nurturing and caring is a big piece of all that nourishing they can do for us.

Caring about the little things goes a long way down the road so let her give you a chance.

  • Do you find yourself so wrapped up and focused on other things in your life, that you don't pay attention enough?

Hey, I hear you. Life is busy. We only have  so much time in the day to get everything done and the car, well... it's not that important.

Yes, you're absolutely right BUT ... You're going on a date!

Which means putting on some fresh clothes and preparing and your automobile becomes an extension of yourself and who you want showing up for that date.

So take the little bit of extra time and in the very least, make it presentable and an ABSOLUTE PLEASURE to be in with you.

Okay...

If I have missed your reason for not showing up in a clean car so it's your turn. I can't and won't do all the work for you:

Figure it out and figure it out quickly because not doing something about it will ALWAYS destroy your chances with lots of women.

When you open the door for her you instantly give her a glimpse of life would be like with you.

When this attitude or "life choice" is seen by women it clearly shows them  that you choose not take care of some of the things you value in your life and gives them an awful view of what a future with you would be.

If you're unwilling to do the small things and make some kind of effort, then they'll assume you'll treat them (and/or) a future family in the same way.

The dirty car itself appears small and trivial but think about it, how many people do you know have a messy car or office, yet their apartment is impeccable and their hygiene is clean?

It just doesn't happen.

Don't let something like this stand in your way. It's just too easy to fix.

Okay, I'm not suggesting or even care that you detail every inch of your vehicle. I'm not asking for 100% perfection.

I'm not even going to tell you how to clean and keep your car clean.

You're a dude, you'll figure it out.

Here's my affiliate link to Amazon to help you find the tools you might need for both of our benefits. 

Trust me... when it's all done:

You'll feel better.

You'll probably get sick less.

You'll be more likely to invite others back to your place or into your car.

You'll feel accomplished and value yourself more.

You'll actually feel like you have more control of your life.

Once it's done it all become easy to maintain so that's a plus too.

AND...

You'll show women quite clearly you have a great handle on life and that she'd be foolish to not want to be a part of it with you.

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You Had Terrible Hygiene - You Don't Give Women Any Real Reason To Want To Get And Stay Close To You.

Woman Repelled Bad Breath

Be the complete package for a woman and make her want to get and stay close to you.

Don't let bad hygiene, terrible breath, body odor, and stinky unwashed clothes ruin it for you.

This could be why you're failing with women but it's easily fixable.

If you're repelling women and don't know why, maybe it's the smell.

Is It Your Bad Breath or Body Odor? Is This Why Women Don't Want To Get Close To You?

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Make Her Want To Get Close To You!

Giving up fifteen minutes plus of your day is not a lot to ask for when you compare it to screwing it up with some incredible women.

All that you need to cover the basics here is in this preview post:

Refine Your Look, Style – How To Take Care Of The Details Women Notice

Now I fully understand SOME things you might not be aware - like bad breath or stinky laundry because no one has the balls to tell you.

You might also not be able to take care overly dry skin or unmanageable stinky feet all too easily. Sometimes that shit is stubborn.

BUT you can do the best with what you've got AND you can certainly ASK someone to tell you the truth.

Man up!

Ask a friend who won't bust your ass too much if you always have bad breath and if your clothes smell like you wash them in a dirty river somewhere.

Honestly - a few simple questions and a little time spent cleaning it up can make all the difference between girls liking you or NOT.

So take care it immediately.

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She Found Out That You Bragged About All The Women You've Slept With -  You'll Stick Your Dick In Anything That Moves - You Have Low Standards and Don't Feel Good Enough Inside to Aim Higher & To Respect Yourself.

Guy Bragging Women He Slept With

You slept with her last night and the first thing you can not wait to do is to brag about it to your friends, or anyone who would even listen.

This could be a good reason as to why you're failing to date higher quality real women.

Your standards are low.

You don't believe you can do any better.

Women don't respect you because you don't respect yourself.

Why Do You Feel The Need To Brag About The Women You've Slept With?

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Do We Really Need To Hear About The Last Woman You Fucked?

Your sleeping around habits could be causing real higher quality women to not like you and the worst part is - IF you're having no problems getting laid - obviously some of them DO like you...

Just not enough to date you OR you think they're not good enough to date yourself so you just with them.

If you're bragging about the women you sleep with then that has to stop immediately and the truth is - NO ONE GIVES A SHIT except that lame ass friends of yours who is living vicariously through your sexual exploitation.

And honestly - is he really that great of a friend that you need to keep around just to hear your stories.

Why?

Think about your need to tell others. Is it for the confidence boost? Is it because you think it makes you a real man? Is it because you lack power in other parts of your life and talking about makes you feel powerful?

Get to the root of the problem and eliminate it.

I can understand If this is a problem because you might not feel good enough to do better than some easy women, at least that's not bragging.

BUT that is something which can be fixed too regardless of how you feel right now.

I GUARANTEE you can raise your standards, start believing in yourself more, value yourself more, and earn your own respect too.

If you don't take care of this women will always see you in this way:

  • "How can this guy find me all that special after he's stuck his dick in THAT?"
  • "He has no taste in women and he likes ME? Ewww!"
  • "He has no willpower and I bet if I get involved with him he's going to cheat on me with some Skank!"

Of course if you don't get caught and she doesn't know who you're sleeping with it might not seem like it matters but it does because:

For one - Women always find out so don't let that fool you.

Two - You'll always act like you're not good enough to do better. You'll reject yourself before any girl has the time or need to do so.

The obvious solution here is to start believing you CAN learn how to get higher quality women while not bragging or showing off your "supposed" accomplishments of getting laid.

Don't downgrade yourself.

You're better than that!

Again, sleep with any woman you desire, I really don't care.

Get it as often as you feel necessary and unless it's a psychological problem and it's ruining the rest of your life - go to town and enjoy!

BUT...

If you're feeling the need to constantly talk about it or it doesn't seem worth it unless you can brag and tell your friends, something is wrong and real higher quality women will never be in your present or future.

You have to figure out why this need exists so you can immediately get to raising your esteem and standards.

It's time you begin to feel good about who you are so you can aim as high as you want.

Start showing and giving yourself some respect or women won't ever do the same for you:

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She Thought You Were Gay - You Act Like A Woman and You're Afraid Of Your Masculinity - You Let Women Lead Because You Don't Know What To Do Or How To Lead.

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You need to embrace, accept, define, enjoy, and not be afraid of your masculinity in front of women.

Whether you're a feminine type of guy or not, if you're failing with women and they don't seem to like you all that much, then women are assuming you're gay & not the heterosexual Alpha Male they want.

The full story is revealed in this post along with the two solutions you can use to fix this problem forever:

She Thought You Were Gay Because You're Afraid Of Being An Alpha Male

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Being an Alpha Male is NOT a Bad Thing. Define and Embrace Your Masculine Ways.

The real problem of women not liking you sexually because women assume (or are led to believe you're gay) might have a little to do with you acting or being a feminine looking kind of guy but lies much deeper.

It's because one or more of the following:

  • You're afraid of your masculinity and downplay it in front the women you want to date.
  • You want the women to lead and let them too giving up the leadership role needed to form a deeper real attraction.
  • You don't know how to lead and in many of your interactions with women fail to either make the right move at the right time (physically and mentally) and/or miss the opportunity to let her know subtly or directly that you're a guy who is clearly into women.

The quick easy fix is to:

When It’s Time To Make Your First Move On Her – No Fears – Go For It!

Do it early. Do it right. Do it legally.

Make sure she gets it.

The longer more beneficial fix (as far as complete success in all your future dating and relationships) is to work on becoming a real Alpha Male because they are NEVER mistaken for being anything but heterosexual being Alpha (gay or not) means understanding and accepting the leadership roles in your life.

So if you're not gay, you're going to go through the process in dating and take charge so you're not assumed to be anything but heterosexual.

Needless to say - if you are gay, the same thing will happen except you'll being moving forward with men.

Either way, the problem works itself out nicely.

If you're going to take the longer process, make sure you follow the Alpha links below one at a time and you'll get there.

If you're looking for some outside help, my original trainer and promotional affiliated recommendation is of course David DeAngelo who can show you a thing or a million things on learning how to sexually communicate with women.

Sexual Communication: A Man’s Guide To Understanding And Using The Secret Language Of Attraction!

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Do You Want To Succeed With Women Like Most Men Can Only Dream About?

  • How to let a woman know you are smart, confident, and great in bed, even if you don’t have much experience, in the first 3 seconds of meeting her… without saying a word.
  • How to use your words and your body to trigger the autopilot responses in a woman that biologically force her to feel attraction for you.
  • A detailed explanation of what Sexual Tension is, plus how to create it, and how to use it to actually create chemistry between you and the women you want right from the beginning.
  • How to flirt with women and communicate in exactly the right way to make them feel Attraction for you… all while avoiding the response of “This guy is a pervert who only wants to get into my pants”.
  • How to use the proven magic formula of Cocky & Funny communication to attract and keep women interested in you.
  • How to use your body language, voice tone, and eye contact in ways that communicate on a Sexual level with women, and make them respond by feeling a powerful Emotional Attraction.
  • The 19 qualities of a Sexually Attractive man, with specific word-for-word ways to demonstrate each one to a woman… do just 2 or 3 of these things and you’re in.
  • 16 Fail-Proof Power Lines – Brand new, word-for-word phrases that make a woman feel powerful sexual attraction for you the instant you say them.
  • The universal mistake nearly all men make when getting physical that instantly causes a woman to slam on the brakes.
  • How to use different types of innocent physical contact to drive a woman crazy with Anticipation and Sexual Excitement. A surefire way to get her to make the first move… because she won’t be able to stop herself.

Take Any Woman From “Hello” To The Bedroom.

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You Showed No Interest In Her At All - She Felt Rejected By You - You Fall For Common Myths About Women, You Follow Bad Dating Advice And Play Games That Don't Work.

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Real women won't fall for your tricks or games. They're onto you and what guys are shown about how to pick them up.

They know all the bad dating advice.

Stop believing the myths about women.

If you're avoiding interest, playing aloof, gaming on how long to wait to call or text or back, following the old outdated rules of the past, this is why you're failing with women and how to fix it for success.

Hey Baby! I Play Games With Women, Why Wouldn't You Dig A Dude Like Me?

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Getting Real Women Requires Real Skills and Genuine Interactions.

Figure out WHY you felt the need to use games or turn to bad dating advice as a quick fix.

Dig deep. It's in there.

You're frustrated. You're sick and tired of failing. You've tried being nice. You've tried being yourself. You wasted a lot of time in your life and you're growing more impatient, lonely, and sexually pent-up everyday.

So you turned to the "dark side".

I can not blame you one bit for trying but it's time to put the "toys" away and living a real man's life.

Hey, it's okay!

Start here at DiaLteG™ because I will NEVER stop being real with you and 99% of what you find here is minus the games and bullshit. I won't let you go there anymore.

Start here with The Real Secret to Attracting Women & Getting Laid No One Knows But Me.

Erase any and all MYTHS you are holding on to about women, sex, dating, and attraction.

Borrowed straight from the Master himself. You'll find each and every myth or misconception you have about women dispelled once and for all!

10 Reasons Why Men Fail With Women

10 Reasons Why INTELLIGENT Men Fail With Women

What Women HATE Most About Single Guys

What Women Actually DO Want In A Man

Myths About Women That Are Standing Between You And Dating Success

Those five pages can and will change your life IF you're willing and open to receiving new information.

The research has been done.

Study them all!

Start showing some real GENUINE INTEREST in the women you want.

Sure, the right attractive communication skills is key here to your success. I won't lie to you.

You can just as easily show the wrong interest and continue to fail which might make you feel even more frustrated and fed up. Ready to give up and go back to your old ways and do nothing at all.

All the more reason to GET IT RIGHT and learn the material, skills, and techniques that DO work.

Why Wait For HER Signs When You Can Create Them Inside Her Towards You

There's the plan for you starting in that link. Read it until the end and then go back to the beginning because there's so much more.

The link above starts at chapter 9 where you'll learn about:

  • A woman's process of attraction.
  • The reality behind a woman's attraction to you.
  • Conversation and flirting techniques.
  • Getting stuck in the friends zone by showing the WRONG interest.
  • Body language, hers and yours AND...
  • The undeniably truth about being a man and its direct relation to ALL women in the world.

My point is to help you CREATE HER INTEREST IN YOU while at the same time allow you to SHOW and GIVE HER INTEREST without coming across needy and desperate for her approval.

It's not an overly difficult thing to achieve but it can be such a fine line  making it very hard for lots of guys to see and avoid, unless they're shown exactly where it is.

How it's done is important but aside from that, you will ALWAYS have to GIVE a little if you want to GET a little back from the right woman.

If you want the wrong woman, do whatever you want.

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You Called Or Contacted Her Way Too Much - You're A Little And Desperate Plus You're Afraid To Give A Woman Space Because You're Worried About Losing Her Before You Even Are WITH Her.

Here's the deal - If you act from a sense of urgency, like you have to "have" before some other guy does...

If you're pushing hard to get her to like you...

If you feel like you're on a clock when it comes to attracting a woman...

If you contact her too much early on...

If you act all needy and desperate like she's the ONLY girl in the world for you...

You will PUSH her away and if you do it a lot - girls will NOT EVER like being with you.

If this is a SERIOUS problem for you:

Call her half as much as you think you should.

Call her when you can't talk for too long.

Text her half as much as you feel like doing and make sure you text her something fun and doesn't push it:

Text her when you're too busy to continue texting her.

Never call or text her again if you don’t get a response.

Yes even if you don’t hear from her in two weeks or a month. You call or text. She responds. Then you respond. NO EXCEPTIONS.

Train yourself to be patient. Train yourself to not act out of urgency.

Get OTHER women in your life so you're not putting all this pressure of one at time.

These two articles I wrote will solve this problem for you forever:

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She Assumed You Were A Player - You Act Like Women Are An Agenda, A Conquest - You Play Lots of Needless Games And Your Life Revolves Around Women.

Woman Looking Knowing Thinking Believe Nice Guy Player

Women will assume many things about you and not all of them will be good.

If women are automatically seeing, thinking, and believing that you're a player, it's one huge reason why you're failing with them.

You could be the nicest guy in the world or just a bad wanna player and they won't even see or get the difference.

Here's how to fix their assumptions and build a stronger more mature masculine man from the ground up so problems like this go away for good:

One Look At You & She's Already Thinking You're A Player

Quick tips are below, the FULL post link is above.

Are Wanna Be Players and Nice Guys Really That Different?

When I finally got this "attraction" stuff down (figurately) under my belt a  strange thing started to happen, women started accusing me of being a player!

I'd get the slap on the shoulder, the rolling of the eyes, the coy laughs, the smart-ass comments of how I was going to play them and how I probably had tons of women waiting in the sidelines for me because that's what players do.

It was all somewhat of a joke of course.

They were play-flirting with me.

They were just testing me.

Here's where you can learn how to pass her tests: Understanding A Woman’s Test and How To Pass Them

If this is happening to you too, very cool. It's a GOOD thing.

However, if you're failing with women consistently and you're ticking the boxes below:

  • You treat them like an agenda, a toy, a conquest to be won.
  • You play needless games and trickery with them.
  • Your life revolves around your current or next lay and women in general.

OR ... For those who are (supposedly) good nice guys:

  • You take how others see you way too seriously and allow their views to change your actions.
  • You go a little too far defending yourself when accused of being someone or something you don't like.
  • You feel the need to always prove to others (especially women) who you are because you always feel misunderstood and mostly forgotten.
  • Your life also revolves around women.

...Then you're going to notice a lot of women assume you're some kind of player but unlike me above, they're not going to tell you or playfully slap you on the arm.

Most women just won't like you enough to even bother talking to you for more than a few minutes at a time.

What's the solution or fix for this player problem?

Both types will have to take different paths but they will start with some major inner game work on being a mature man.

At some point in your life women became something else and more than a feminine counterpart to your masculinity.

They became an agenda and a marker for your life replacing the one you once had or missed setting for yourself early on.

Because of this unfortunate turn of events, maturity or your manhood has been stunted or put on hold.

Your END-GAME needs to change and replaced with a fresh new mind-set along with creating new workable goals that are more aligned and true to yourself as a man.

Yeah - I hear you. What? All that?

Seems to be a bit extreme especially considering this is "#31 out of 37 reasons for failing with women" while so many other ones on the list don't appear to need this much work.

Well actually, in reality, going back to step one solves practically every problem on the list but this one in particular goes very deep because games are being played, women are being manipulated and sometimes mistreated, women are being seen as less than what they are and treated like objects, and certainly not lastly but enough for now...

There's a prominent BITTERNESS going on here which goes way beyond a strong awful spit-it-out taste in your mouth that I know all too well from my personal (nice guy) experiences which needs more than just a band aid to fix.

I wasn't the player dude. Far from it.

Yet oddly enough it took me a ton a limited belief inner work to see how closely the bullshit artist player-game and nice guy passive aggressive manipulator were so eerily similar.

I was also the supposed "mature" dude, aged before my years.

Women would tell me how refreshing it was to chat with a guy who wasn't always staring at their tits or trying to get in her pants or playing games with them.

They were obviously wrong about me and wouldn't date or fuck me for many years anyways.

I may have done my duties as an adult but I certainly was NOT a mature masculine man.

As the years rolled on I became severely bitter, miserable, beyond sexually frustrated, all the while resenting and blaming women for what I say was a useless existence in the world.

So yeah - it ran deep and problems like these (#5#6#9#11#14#23#27#28#31#37, etc...) often do.

Sometimes it's just better to save yourself lots of the time and energy and just scrap the whole thing.

Building a new secure foundation rather than patch up the holes of the old one will ultimately lead to better more rewarding results and something that will not only last your lifetime, but become a much more enjoyable productive life to live.

Here's the answer you've been looking for that will get you there:

How to Become the Powerful Man You Were Meant To Be

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"Do you ever fear that maybe there is something wrong with you, and that you might never be able to make this happen for yourself?

If you’re worried that there is something wrong with you… then there probably is!

And you can bet your bottom dollar that your emergency problems with women revolve around MANHOOD.

If you’ve had the same experience of consistently screwing things up with women, you need to have your eyes opened about what’s going on behind the scenes and see why your current reality almost forces you to mess things up with a woman that you like.

These days, humans are living longer, but we’re maturing slower… and instead of growing up and living an enjoyable, mature life… many men end up staying in the “adolescent” phase of their lives for decades.

This stunted growth process leaves some of us with that empty feeling of anxiety and frustration that you might call the “extended childhood syndrome.”

We grew… but as a result… many of us never really grew up.

And because of this, many of us failed to really become MEN… and develop the inherent natural ability to attract women that is part of BEING A MAN...

How To Become The Powerful Real Man You Were Born To Be - Start Attracting The Amazing Women You Were Meant To Be With

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Find and build yourself a set of man-rules to follow and START LIVING with purpose, dignity, the respect of others, the strength and power to lead, and a healthy self-esteem that inspires confidence in others.

Here's my list - good luck.

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Your Touch Creeped Her Out - You Don't Know How, When, or Where To Touch A Woman And You're Afraid to Break The Touch Barrier - You're Uncomfortable Around Women.

Being uncomfortable around girls is a very common problem and it's a very serious one too because it feels impossible to get past - that I know from first hand experience.

Not knowing what to do, or how or when to do it is causing your mind and you body to lock up and it's making you hesitant and weird around women.

You do NOT have to be a creep to make feel like you are and if you're that uncomfortable around them - it's just what they're going to see.

You have good intentions and you’re not actually a creep.

A REAL creep lingers around the corner, hides in the shadows, cops a feel when he can, and even goes so far as stalking women on any and every social media platform which will allow him the opportunity to poke or message random women.

All true BUT think for one how certain things you do around a woman FEEL to her. Whether the word creep is the right description doesn’t matter… so don’t take it personal.

If she feels uneasy around you then she will say it’s creepy and when it comes to attracting her – it’s a feeling you want to avoid giving her.

9 Questions Reveals Why You’re A Nice Guy & Women Feel Like You’re A Creep

There's no way around it - women are okay with you being nervous but they're not normally attracted to men who are not comfortable enough in their own skin - to be at ease around them.

The first thing you need to do is to gain some comfort in who you are, believe in yourself, understand what is really happening, and admit you're not a creep - you're just unsure and nervous which is causing you to act this way OR for other to see you this way.

Gain some comfort through this girlfriend step and use it the right way:

The Benefits Of Becoming Friends With Hotter Women

The second thing you must do is to learn how to break the touch barrier and get over your fears of touching women MINUS the groping or whatever.

Start with a simple medium hand shake always. When you meet someone shake their hand. Develop a slightly unique way of doing it and say their name as you are doing it.

Learn when friendly hugging is allowable and start doing it more often until it feels natural. Yes - keep doing it until it no longer feel odd to you.

With men keep your hands up high on the back. With women hug her just above the small of her back. As your connection grows move your hands directly to the small of her back.

Imagine if she was to fall over or while you're dancing with one and you must balance or catch her with just an open palm. That is where you hug women to show them you’re a sexually aware man.

The third thing you must look into is your fears and anxiety around women because those two things ruining it all for you.

Much of the help I find on eliminating fears or anxiety centers around approaching women and sure anything is going to help a little but you need to dig deeper because I don't think you're approaching many women any ways and it won't completely solve this "creepy" issue you're suffering with everyday.

Get yourself some DEEP INNER GAME work and start eliminating them ALL one by one and it will get easier AND you'll take care of it ALL.

Annihilate Your Crippling Insecurity, Anxiety And Fear To Transform Into The Powerful, Confident, Attractive Man All Women Want.

Deep Inner Game Will Reprogram You for Massive Success In Life And Love – No Matter How BAD You Feel Right Now, Or How Badly You’ve Been HURT In The Past.

Click HERE for More Info on: Deep Inner Game.

I'm not going to tell you to face your fears although at some point you will have to, that goes without saying.

I'm not going to tell you that your anxiety is all in your head - because that's where it is anyways and you're smart enough to figure that out.

I'm not going to tell you that you'll never feel nervous around another woman ever again - it WILL happen - expect it to - but if you learn how to handle better and better with each interaction, it will lessen enough to where it's manageable and not that big of a deal anymore.

Lastly - knowledge in confidence in this area goes a long way. Once you begin to learn what goes where, when it goes there, how all the "mating" stuff works you have a set up blueprint in your head to rely on which will certainly help to ease your mind and decrease ALL your anxieties.

Fear is well-known as being: False. Evidence. Appearing. Real.

Eliminate the FALSE part, study and learn what is REAL and what is not, learn to stay in the present so you're not presenting lots of EVIDENCE of what could or could not happen AND the fear decreases to a level you will feel okay with handling.

Here's some of the best advice out there in learning the process. It's simple AND it works:

"You should be looking at EVERY woman you want to meet as an opportunity… a chance to work on yourself and your “skills”… instead of looking at her as an impossible challenge.

When you teach yourself to think about things this way, you become less attached to the outcome… you become more relaxed…

…and more able to TAKE ACTION."

4 Insights Into Approaching Women – Are Your Fears Getting In The Way?

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You Kissed Her Once And She Felt Nothing - You Don't Know How To Escalate Physically With Women And Your Timing Plus Technique Is All Wrong.

This is actually not as big as a problem as it may seem and the good news is - IF you've kissed her, she LET you which means girls DO like you...

You're just screwing up the physical escalation part and you need to work on your technique a little.

Gain some confidence in the kissing area and how to actually make your first move so the moment and timing is best set up for her to feel something for you:

This one is not a major problem so don't let it get you down and have you doing stupid things to make up for it once it happens.

AND it's not ALL on you either. Kissing requires TWO people and so don't take it all on yourself to be perfect - she must meet you somewhere in the middle AND don't assume just because she's a woman she knows how to kiss either.

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You Had Sex Once And It Was Awful - You Move Too Quickly and/or Haven't Spent Any Time Learning How To Please A Woman Sexually AND It Has Destroyed Your Confidence.

This one is quite obviously similar to the last one in many ways. One being it's clear women DO like you (at least sexually) or else she wouldn't have slept with you, right?

The real problems with this one is:

Not being able or feel confident pleasing a woman in bed tends to destroy your masculine confidence which has a lasting effect on your interactions with women.

You'll either find yourself moving too quickly or too slowly or trying to force the issue to get it done.

If all attempts fail you might even find yourself just finding women to sleep with where you care less that she gets off making you a terrible lay and just because you TELL yourself you don't care - doesn't mean you do and these contradictions in your mind create a major conflict which only perpetuates the problem.

As above start studying physical escalation.

Start building your confidence back up as it's probably been slightly destroyed in the process:

Why Confidence Is So Attractive to Women, What It Is, & How To Get It Quickly

Here at DiaLteG™ I don't get into the real dirty stuff about sex - sex is my thing but I just don't write about techniques, positions, pleasing a woman, etc... so you'll have to seek outside help to take care of this problem.

I WOULD however continue on with one of my girlfriend steps where you'll find some links on how to be a better lover: 

Why You Might Have To “Go Get Laid” to Get A Girlfriend

A great outside source of help is called Power Sexuality - How To Transform Yourself From A Man With No Sexual Confidence Into The Kind Of In Control Man That All Women Fantasize About.

David wrote it for guys who were like him at one point:

No sexual confidence and No sexual experience. If you feel that's you then:

Click Here For More Info and How It's Going To Help You - Power Sexuality.

Here are a few specifically designed to make you into a better love thus giving you more confidence in this are:

  • 500 Lovemaking Tips – Written by LLoyd Lester who has written a ton of books on having great sex. Guess that makes him a sort-of expert.
  • Behind Closed Doors –  Produced by Scot McKay and titled as “X-ray Vision Into Her Deepest Fantasies. Know What She Wants, Know How To Give It To Her, and Make Her Beg For More.”

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You Did Not Challenge Her Enough Physically - You're Too Easy Of A Lay and/or You're Afraid To Tease A Woman - You Play The Waiting Game Hoping You'll Get Laid.

I separated the next two (physical and mental) for a good reason... this one is about being a slight sexual tease and being a little difficult when it comes to getting physically with her.

Women don't tend to go for guys where it's too easy to get in YOUR pants.

They don't want a guy who will rips his pants off in a second just to get with her.

They - just like you - want a REAL challenge and not some male slut.

The difficulty most men face in this area is not knowing how to balance things out AND being afraid of challenging a woman sexually.

Balance means knowing when to give in and dish it out and when to hold back just a little longer than her.

Not being afraid simply means it's OKAY to make her wait a little longer. It's okay to lean in for the first kiss and NOT give it to her. It's OKAY to NOT sleep with a woman the first time just because she offers or wants to.

Crating the right balance is certain important to know.  Just being a prick all the time and holding back forever is on one end of the scale - being too easy and fucking her as soon as you can or any woman who offers is the other end.

You'll want to be somewhere in the middle. Give a little. Hold back a little. Do it at the right time and in the right way and you WILL challenge her physically.

With regards to the fears over teasing a woman: Start Teasing Women To Create Attraction But Follow These Four Rules First

If you're not doing it - START doing it more but follow the rules first or else it won't work AND you'll only become more afraid and hesitant about doing it again with her or any other girl.

If you're playing the waiting game hoping she'll take the lead then you're not in for a rude awakening - you're ALREADY there.

MOST women want you to take the lead here. Hoping something will happen won't get you anywhere with a few exceptions as in women who are over-bearing, a little too masculine, only want something in exchange for the sex, or are using you to get some other guy.

And none of that sounds like something you want to have to deal with in your life JUST because you LET HER do all the work you, as a man, are actually DESIGNED to do.

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You Did Not Challenge Her Enough Mentally - You Don't Flirt Enough - Use The Right Humor - You Lack in Wit and Are Afraid She Won't Like You If You Disagree With Her.

This does not mean you're not smart enough for her - although sometimes that is the case, most of the time for a girl to like you are to become attracted to your intelligence just be smart in something you like to do and it will be enough

The type of mental challenges women like are clever flirting, conversational wit, and heated discussions on any difference of opinion.

If you never play flirt with women...

If you never offer any wit...

If you agree with everything she says....

If you don't have any opinions that you're willing to share because she may not agree with you...

Then yes - girls will not generally like talking to you AND you're missing one of the best opportunities to creates lots of attraction.

Challenging a woman mentally with the important added sexual edge is one of the easiest ways to get lots of women to like you because it triggers their natural attraction which goes beyond the physical type which also means you can do it - despite how you look, how much money you make, or even what you do for a living.

This is one of my most famous and popular articles which will show you exactly HOW TO CHALLENGE women in all sorts of ways:

Top Ten Ways to Challenge Women to Feel Attracted to You

Study it, follow the links and advice in it and this challenging women problem will go away.

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She Knew She Could Have You Anytime She Wanted - You Lack Setting A Pace - You Move Too Quickly - You Chase Women The Wrong Way.

Let's start with something I teach women about guys...

There are guy who PLAY hard to get and there are guys who ARE hard to get.

You'll want to BE hard to get... always. Just don't take it to the extreme or you won't get anywhere with girls as you've probably already figured out on your own.

Being hard to get is covered in a lot of the sections above so I suggest you go through them and read the advice there on top what you're going to read below.

Yeah - know it's a lot but ALL those reasons and probably more too are why girls think you're too easy, that they can have you anytime they want, and it's WHY girls are not liking you.... so get it taken care of or else little will change for you.

Now let's put this whole chasing women thing in perspective because it's often confuses lots of guys and when that happens they tend to get it all wrong.

Simply put...

IF you want girls to like you - IF you want to date and/or marry or whatever with your dream woman you must PURSUE them.

It's integrated and hardwired into your brain and hormones and it's one of the many things that make you a masculine guy.

Chasing women is something entirely different and it's where the confusion sets in.

  • When you chase a woman you act like she's the prize and not both of you.
  • When you chase a woman you act needy and desperate and she wants to run from you.
  • When you chase a woman you make her an agenda and not make her feel like someone who is desired by a great guy.
  • When you chase woman you give up your power in exchange for her approval.
  • When you chase a woman you call or text her constantly hoping she'll give in and finally like you the way you like her.

Pursing a woman is doing NONE of those things... ever!

You could eliminate all that stuff and consider it pursuing and women will get it, it will work mostly.

BUT to truly pursue a woman you MUST make her feel desired.

You MUST trigger her attraction by communicating yourself in a way which makes her FEEL your masculinity and your strength in being  man.

Pursuing a woman is merely being who you are (a real man):

  • Showing some interest in her mind AND body.
  • Doing things together to explore the connection deeper.
  • Qualifying her attractively.
  • Having high standards for yourself.
  • Communicating value and a belief in yourself.
  • Taking your time and being patient in every way possible.

Trust that if you DO those things the right way women will know you're not playing hard to get - you ARE hard to get.

AND they'll see you're not chasing them at all.

You're simply being a real man who understands it's okay and advised to pursue a woman because she's the FEMALE - YOU ARE THE MALE.

It doesn't get any simpler than that.

YOU ARE THE MALE.

SHE IS THE FEMALE.

ACT like it.

LIVE it.

Following that blueprint nature has given us doesn't mean chasing her down or hunting for you her affection AND it's not about posting up somewhere as you ambush your prey either.

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The inevitable conclusion...

Wrapping this up might be pointless considering how much is written above but...

Rest assured IF girls don't like you - for whatever reason that is listed above it CAN BE FIXED.

I know I came on a little strong in the beginning but I felt it was important for you to recognize the reality and severity of your situation. I also know I was given a heavy hand in the beginning which definitely helped to push me along to fix anything and everything you read above.

I didn't go searching for these issues - I LIVED with most of them. I also surveyed lots of women in my ten plus years of giving advice to men and women... professionally and sometime (like at DiaLteG TM) totally free.

My hope is that you'll find a few here you can connect and relate to AND that I've given you a very viable recover program to set you on a better path in all your relationships with women.

Don't wait hoping all this shit will take care of itself. I know it rarely if ever does work out all on it's own and usually when it's done - you're left dating or marrying a woman only to have a shitty life with an eminent divorce in your future.

As I stated in the beginning - no more bitching. No more whining about your problem. No more blaming because THAT only wastes your time and makes you even less attractive.

99% of what you just read has little to do with your overall look - being physically handsome is NOT and hopefully NEVER will be a requirement to find, date, and attract the PERFECT women for you.

In the hopes of changing your life for the better...

I'm definitely wishing you the best of luck and success and DO sincerely want it for you because that means my purpose - my calling in life - the world in which I live and breathe in has just a little more meaning than it did BEFORE you found this all-be-it brutally honest page.

Your man-friend,

Pete - Peter White.

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