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Why She Didn’t Like You – Why Girls Don’t Like You & How You Can Fix It

If you’ve ever wondered why girls don’t like you – you are NOT in for a treat as they say.

Some of what you’re going to learn below is going…. to… fucking HURT.

Why in the world would you want to read something like this? You’re not masochistic, right? You’re not into belittling yourself?

I hope not because this is NOT a bash-fest on you. I’m not here to make fun of you or make you feel like a piece of shit not worthy of a woman OR girl.

BUT it will be blatant, honest, and I trust you’ll either take it like a man who is ready, willing, and able to turn it all around OR a little whiny boy who’d rather cry himself to sleep every night with a stiff drink or smoke of whatever.

The purpose is to give you the truth that you may or may not have known all along.

Sometimes we’re the best at hiding the truth from ourselves. It’s painful to admit these things but if you want to change it all around for yourself – objectify this junk in your head – and it will only hurt for a little while.

The purpose is to not make you believe things are different then they actually are just to sell you another piece of shit get laid quick scheme.

Incidentally – If you want, I’ll find one to sell to you but think HARD man, IF you want to get laid bad enough – GO OUT AND FIND SOME CHIC TO FUCK YOU.

Seriously, it’s that easy and never believe it’s not. Hey I didn’t say she’d be hot, under three hundred pounds, or your Mother’s old friend – BUT if you want just sex THAT bad enough – what the hell are you waiting for? Close your eyes and dig in. Go down on her. Smell every inch of her. Rub that clit like you know what you’re doing…

Don’t fall for the bullshit hype out there – women WANT and LOVE sex and will randomly fuck guys (including you) for nothing more than a smile and sometimes a drink and a free ride home after.

That nonsense aside – we’re going to all ends here. You’re going to know why women refuse men or don’t LIKE them (and yes I HATE that word LIKE) plus how you can fix it all be either staying true to yourself and making a little simple but easy changes in your life OR by going off the deep end to satisfy any and all sexual urges you feel.

So… no crying in public here. Do it in your own home. Down a shot – watch a cheesy romantic flick. GET it out and LET it all out in the privacy of your own home but tomorrow…

Get the fuck over it and START fresh because it’s not all that bad.

I didn’t even enjoy a touch of a woman for over a decade and the things I’ve done after would amaze you and piss off my hot new wife so I’m not giving away too many of those stories. Not for free and not for some guy who asked the question, “Why don’t girls like me?” … sounds kind of whiny, doesn’t it? Anyways…

“WHY SO SERIOUS?”

Yeah a little Joker slash Bat Man Joke there.

I’m messing with you man.

When a girl doesn’t like you there’s always a reason BUT it’s also always something you can change. I’m not saying you can change every girl’s mind or the one who rejected you yesterday, the day before, or two years ago.

Just that it IS completely within your power to get girls to like you and you’re going to learn how and why TODAY.

So…

Buckle up. It’s a bumpy ride. But trust you’ll be far better off after today. I’m not going to play too much of the blame game. Just going to set the record straight and objectively.

From there – it’s ALL up to you.

PLEASE keep in mind this list is not in any kind of order whatsoever.

Click on the quick link below or start reading it all from the beginning until you find the mistake you’e been making with girls.

 

Why She Didn’t Like You – Why Girls Don’t Like You & What You Can Do To Change That Today and Forever!

  1. You Bored Her and/or You’re Just a Boring Guy To Be Around.
  2. There Was No Sexual Chemistry and You Don’t Know How To Create It.
  3. You Wanted Her To Meet Your Parents By The Second Date – You Go Into Instant Relationships.
  4. Her Friends Would Never Date You and/or Her Family Doesn’t Approve Of You.
  5. You Were Too Indecisive – You Can Never Make Your Mind Up About What To Do or In Your Life.
  6. You Were  Way Too Accommodating To Her Needs Before Yours – You’re An Approval Seeker.
  7. You Didn’t Know What She Really Wanted From You – Women Feel Like You Just Don’t Get It or Them.
  8. You Did Not Turn Her On At All – You’re Afraid Of Triggering Her Desires and/or You Just Don’t Know How To Do It.
  9. You Showed No Confidence  – You Have Little or No Real Confidence In Life or With Women.
  10. You Were Timid, Quiet, or Too Shy Around Her – You Reject Yourself Often and/or Women Feel Rejected By You.
  11. She Felt You Always Had Something To Hide – You’re Afraid Of Being A Real Man and You’re Too Much Of A Nice Guy.
  12. You Showed Too Many Bad Habits Which Made You Not Relationship or Boyfriend Material – You’re Not THAT Type Of Guy.
  13. She Felt You Don’t Care About Yourself Enough – You Do Not Know How To Maintain Your Appearance In A Way Which Says You Put A High Value On Yourself.
  14. She Believed That You Think It’s All About How Much Money You Make – You Think You Have To Buy A Woman’s Affection or Attraction.
  15. You Made Her Feel Like That Without A Car, You Couldn’t Date Her – You Do Not Own A Car And You Use It As An Excuse – You Don’t Get Things Done Despite Not Having An Advantage.
  16. She Believed You Rejected Yourself Because You’re Too Old To Be Living With Your Parents – You Lack Courage and Fail To Take Risks.
  17. She Hates What You Do For A Living and You Took It Personal – You Believe Women Are Only Into What You Do and Not WHO You Are.
  18. You Work Together and Gave Her Every Reason To Believe It Mattered To Her – You Only Meet Women You Work With and Don’t Get Out Enough.
  19. She Is Your Boss and You Refused To Go Out and Find Another Job or Another Woman – You Lack Choices and Work Off A Mindset Of Scarcity And Not From One Of Abundance.
  20. You Told Her That You Loved Her After A Few Dates – You’re Not Sure What Love Is And You Always Reveal Your Feelings Way Too Early.
  21. Your Ex Girlfriend Was A Bitch And You Constantly Talk About Her – You Don’t Know How To Let Things Go And You’re Constantly Blaming Women and Others For Your Problems.
  22. You Talked About Your Mother Too Much On The First And Second Date – You Don’t Know How To Make Dating Fun And You’re Always Trying To Prove To Others What A Great Guy You Are.
  23. You Complimented Her Way Too Much – You Don’t Come Off As Genuine or Real – You Think Kissing Her Ass Is How You Can Get A Piece Of Her Ass.
  24. You Ate Like A Pig – Your Manners Are Borderline Annoying and You Show Little Respect For Others and Their Private and Public Space.
  25. Your Car Was Disgusting On The Inside – You’re A Slob With Little Regard Or Care To Ever Taking Charge And Control In Your Life.
  26. You Had Terrible Hygiene – You Don’t Give Women Any Real Reason To Want To Get And Stay Close To You.
  27. She Found Out and/or You Bragged About All The Women You’ve Slept With –  You’ll Stick Your Dick In Anything That Moves – You Have Low Standards and Don’t Feel Good Enough Inside to Aim Higher And Respect Yourself.
  28. She Thought You Were Gay – You Act Like A Woman and You’re Afraid Of Your Masculinity – You Let Women Lead Because You Don’t Know What To Do Or How To Lead.
  29. You Showed Ho Interest In Her At All – She Felt Rejected By You – You Fall For Common Myths About Women – Follow Bad Dating Advice And Play Games That Don’t Work.
  30. You Called Or Contacted Her Way Too Much – You’re A Little And Desperate Plus You’re Afraid To Give A Woman Space Because You’re Worried About Losing Her Before You Even Are With Her.
  31. She Assumed You Were A Player – You Act Like Women Are An Agenda, A Conquest – You Play Lots of Needless Games And Your Life Revolves Around Women.
  32. Your Touch Creeped Her Out – You Don’t Know How, When, or Where To Touch A Woman And You’re Afraid to Break The Touch Barrier – You’re Uncomfortable Around Women.
  33. You Kissed Her Once And She Felt Nothing – You Don’t Know How To Escalate Physically With Women And Your Timing Plus Technique Is All Wrong.
  34. You Had Sex Once And It Was Awful – You Move Too Quickly And Haven’t Spent Any Time Learning How To Please A Woman Sexually AND It Has Destroyed Your Confidence.
  35. You Did Not Challenge Her Enough Physically – You’re Too Easy Of A Lay and/or You’re Afraid To Tease A Woman – You Play The Waiting Game Hoping You’ll Get Laid.
  36. You Did Not Challenge Her Enough Mentally – You Don’t Flirt Enough – Use The Right Humor – You Lack in Wit and Are Afraid She Won’t Like You If You Disagree With Her.
  37. She Knew She Could Have You Anytime She Wanted – You Lack Setting A Pace – You Move Too Quickly – You Chase Women The Wrong Way.

You Bored Her and/or You’re A Boring Guy To Be Around.

This one always got me because I never really felt like doing things women wanted guys to do – with them or without them. It always felt like the guys who were riding Four Wheelers or going Snowmobiling, you know shit like that  – women enjoyed being around them.

And I was right because I way too busy doing my own things and partying way too much women found my lifestyle boring compared to what they enjoyed.

So there are two parts to this:

Conversationally boring and Lifestyle boring.

You don’t need to excel at both (although it doesn’t help) but having a good balance of  the two can make all the difference between girls liking you or not.

If you’re not that interesting to talk to OR you don’t know how to talk to women in a way which excites AND attracts them – THAT is something which must be taken care of immediately.

If you don’t have a lifestyle or living some kind of life that a woman would want to be a part of, then of course THAT needs to be addressed too.

Do NOT let this one pass because it’s somewhat easy to fix for ANY guy.

As David said,

“If you want to keep her interest, then you have to be INTERESTING.”

How To Act & Talk With A Woman On The First Date

The first step is of course to become fascinated or interested in YOURSELF first. You must admit that if you don’t like yourself all that much or find yourself boring – women will too.

My Secret To Not Boring Women And Communicating Excitement

Boring also goes hand in hand with being a little too predictable so go here next:

Do Women Think You’re Too Predictable? Here’s How To Change Her Mind

Then – get yourself a social life that includes it all naturally:

Develop Social Life, Involved, Give Something Women Do Want

In this section you’ll find lots of links to have better, more exciting, and less boring conversations:

You Talked About Your Mother Too Much On The First And Second Date – You Don’t Know How To Make Dating Fun And You’re Always Trying To Prove To Others What A Great Guy You Are.

PLUS: The LEAST BORING conversational style that has it ALL is called cocky/comedy:

Use it sparingly AND use it right.

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There Was No Sexual Chemistry and You Don’t Know How To Create It.

Women MUST feel sexual chemistry with a guy to want more than a friendship with him. This can be developed over time but it’s best to set the tone immediately or “girls” just won’t ever like you… in that way.

The problem with all this is that women see sexual chemistry one way and guys see it another way. Guys think they know how women feel it and they are usually close in some way, but far off in another way.

I’ll dispel the myth – women can feel sexually charged with a guy from a conversation alone – whereas men believe there must be a physical attraction.

Yes – physical attraction can and does create sexual chemistry but for women, The actual physical part is not necessarily needed.

How you communicate to a woman is HOW sexual chemistry is created most of the time IF you want her to act on it.

Meaning – if she finds you physically attractive other things must be in place for her to “get” with you BUT if you have great CHEMISTRY in how you talk to her then she’s more likely to act on it and move forward with you to explore the sexuality.

The big question…

HOW is sexual chemistry created:

  • Old school Charm.
  • Classic Wit.
  • Flirting with tact.
  • The right kind of Humor.
  • Slight physical escalation.
  • Sexual tension.

When they’re all combined sexual chemistry is created if and only if she connects what she is feeling with you. Sometimes it happens quickly and other times it slowly builds so you must be patient, consistent, attractively persistent, and LET IT HAPPEN.

Too many guys get all nervous and once the tension builds they release it because it feels uncomfortable. So you must be strong and totally comfortable with it happening so you’re not popping it and destroying the moment and the attraction right along with it.

The links to help:

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You Wanted Her To Meet Your Parents By The Second Date – You Go Into Instant Relationships.

Leave the parents out of it for a while.

Men and women tend to act differently when they’re in a relationship. That, I believe, is something everyone knows.

So when you do stuff like this or anything that has you acting like you’re already in a relationship with a woman you just met or only had a few dates – it’s going to be just on reason why girls won’t like you.

I understand how you want to show her you’re “relationship” or “boyfriend” material and how you’re not just some guy trying to fuck her BUT there are many other ways to slowly bring out those better traits of you WITHOUT bringing up the parents things so early.

The INSTANT RELATIONSHIP is a huge problem for lots of guys.

Although some women are like this and do the same thing – if you’re only interacting with girls who are not like this – they’ll always make you wait, keep on the hook, put you in the friends zone, make you do all sorts of things to keep your around until another guy comes along who far from acting like this.

Dating is there for a reason – to get to know each other – discover some compatibility – qualify each other – find the most suitable partner AND have fun while doing it.

Be real here – unless you’re parents are rich and famous – how much fun is it to add the anxiety and drive up the pressure on you and her all because you want her to meet your parents?

It’s not fun for her. I hope it isn’t fun for you because that’s just kind of weird man.

Let the relationship develop naturally.

Date several women at a time.

Don’t ACT like you’re in a relationship until you actually are and girls will love you for being that way.

The parent meeting time will come around under its own timetable – don’t rush it.

“You suffer from what is commonly called a “sense of urgency” when you first meet or interact with a girl.”

How & Why You Must Give The Women You Are Attracted To… Space

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Her Friends Would Never Date You and/or Her Family Doesn’t Approve Of You.

You’re going to meet women whose social appearance as in being seen with you or her lifestyle means more to her than a great guy.

Maybe she’s a little too self-conscious. Maybe she is so wrapped up in how others see and judge her that she knowingly or unknowingly overlooks or rejects men that she feels her friends (and sometimes) family won’t approve of.

You’re going to meet lots of women who will literally give up everything in their life to be with a certain guy.

AND of course you’ll meet women who won’t go that far at all for a guy.

If her friends and family are making the call for her she will either pretend to not like you (rare) or more probable not give you any chance to get to know her so she can avoid rejecting you later.

You might be asking… is there a way around this?

Yes. Of course there is, it’s just not 100% guaranteed.

Some say to just forget about a woman like this – how you can’t change how she feels about herself and how she wants to live her life – and you shouldn’t try anyways because that’s entirely up to her and her choices.

Great advice of course until you start to notice a pattern in your life:

Women seem to be rejecting you for this reason consistently.

IF that’s the case it sucks – I feel for you – BUT it also means you can eliminate this from happening to you in a way which doesn’t involve you “changing” any woman at all.

First you need to consider WHERE you’re meeting these women, their ages because younger women tend to use this “excuse” more than older ones, your lifestyle and how you live it, the traits your exhibiting that display to others you’re not worth dating.

AND a little on creating attraction BUT (some good news here) IF you’re getting turned down for real because of this you ARE creating attraction (mostly) but there are other items as noted above that are causing this to me.

So… girls DO like you – you’re just not matching up with the ones that will fit in your lifestyle (meeting the right ones) AND you’re probably not displaying enough “boyfriend material” traits which her family and friends will see whereas her attraction may blind her from seeing – which is why her friends and family feel the need to help her out before it’s too late.

You’ll find more information below in this section: You have too many bad habits which make you not “relationship” or boyfriend material.

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You Were Too Indecisive – You Can Never Make Your Mind Up About What To Do or In Your Life.

Being indecisive will ALWAYS be an attraction killer and if you’re like this on a first date or sometime after – you’ll find girls will tend to start not liking you very quickly.

Indecision alone is not a huge deal to overcome BUT if you’re always asking women what SHE wants to do it’s shows a lack of confidence in yourself to make decisions and to her it feels like you’re always trying to please her in ways she does not need to feel attracted to you.

Believe it or not this is a very common problem and it is sometimes hard to detect.

The best way to decide if this is a problem for you is if you find yourself TRYING to do something because you want her to be happy.

Eliminating this mistake is easy. As long as you’re not demanding, even if you’re wrong, it’s best to stay one step ahead of her. Which means you’re going to make decisions she will not always like.

Don’t worry about it.

You can make bad choices for her or even do things that don’t appear to make her happy and still continually escalate attraction.

However being indecisive will almost always destroy the attraction…Immediately.

Curing this problem can happen in several ways:

First – if it’s not obvious, if you’re not confident around women, you’re more likely to be indecisive.

Second – A lot of this indecision comes from not knowing what to do next.

Not Knowing Exactly What To Do In Each Situation With Women.

A woman ALWAYS knows what you’re thinking. Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you’re out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won’t help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating…

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything.

If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up… and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman… from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women

Read the emails below that I sent out but DO NOT use the links in them – the offer is closed – use this one instead and in the program you will be shown the PLAN of what to do next and how the whole mating ritual between you and women play out.

When you know that from front to back – you will NOT be indecisive anymore… guaranteed:

After the emails, get this:

Click HERE for More Info on: Advanced Dating Techniques Today and Learn What ALWAYS Come Next!

Third: FEAR. If you’re always afraid of not making the right decision you’ll always be hesitant and you’ll will always look indecisive. 

As above – she’s not going to like everything about you. She’s not going to like some things you choose.

STOP worrying about so much and just focus on creating attraction because women will overlook ALL of it IF you do that AND you’re not always wishy-washy about what to do, say, or what comes next.

AND…

Four: Dating is one thing but living YOUR life is another thing which means HAVE A PLAN in your life. 

Be decisive. Don’t wait or let others make your decisions.

Take the risks.

Choose.

If you’re decisive in your life you WILL be decisive around women too IF of course you get the first three items close enough.

To get help with the last two (because there’s way too much here at DiaLTeG TM to list) just go through my girlfriend steps:

Learn How You Can Get A Hot Girlfriend – 11 Steps to a Relationship

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You Were  Way Too Accommodating To Her Needs Before Yours – You’re An Approval Seeker.

Approval seeking comes in many forms and none of them are attractive. This one is about going too far to accommodate her with little or disregard for yourself.

Important – this is NOT for guys who are in a relationship. Once you there it’s okay to compromise and do things for your partner the right way.

However in dating – getting dates – is not ever going to work in your favor.

There are thousands of examples I can give you but it’s not really to figure out if you’re doing this or not.

ANYTHING you do to GET her to like you through gift giving, listening to her problems about other guys, doing favors for her that are absurd, kissing her ass, disregarding your feelings while giving up respect for yourself in the hopes she’ll like you more it means you are doing it.

Here’s what all that says about you:

“Hi, I want your approval and attention. I’m willing to let YOU be the one who’s in control… and let YOU call the shots… and do anything to please YOU… if you’ll give me your attention and approval”

What Women HATE Most About Single Guys

What a woman truly wants from a man to like him is for him to be a leader is his own life. She doesn’t want a guy who tries to buy her off or do favors for her in return of her affection or love.

If you’re constantly letting women walk all over you you’re going to get CRUSHED.

Here are some articles to help you overcome this affliction:

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You Didn’t Know What She Really Wanted From You – Women Feel Like You Just Don’t Get It or Them.

Lots of guys think women want certain things like money, fame, fortune, good looks, talk stature and sure that’s true to a certain extent and then lots of other guys think women want something else and TRY to give it – which only makes girls like them even less.

The concept of what women want may appear complicated because it’s not and if you make it out to be – you’ll always miss the point and women will ALWAYS feel you just don’t get.

There are lists and list of what women want which are either somewhat right, close to being right, or just plain WRONG and so it’s understandable how any guy can be confused by them UNLESS they find the RIGHT advice from someone who actually does UNDERSTAND and GET women to their core.

If you don’t fully understand what women want AND you’re not “getting” any women or you believe girls don’t like you because you can not give them what they want…

If you THINK you know what they want and you’ve been trying all along to give them that and they STILL don’t like you – then the information you believe or have been getting is wrong. You MUST admit that firs before you can get past all this.

Think hard about that last statement – you have an idea of what they want AND you’ve been “trying” to give it to them AND it’s not working for you – what must that tell you about what you know? Yes – it’s wrong which sucks – I hear you.

BUT today is the day that ALL changes by going through just a few things which will show you whats really going on and HOW you can GET girls to like you by triggering attraction and giving them what they REALLY DO WANT.

Go through all or more of the following:

Do You Want To Get Inside The Mind Of An Attractive Woman? Her Secret Interview!

In that interview I talk with a hot high quality woman and ask her a few basic questions and her responses are great. You WILL learn something about women you’ve probably never known or realized before BUT after I break it all down so you can finally GET women and read between what she says and what she really wants.

The simple answer is:

Women WANT a guy to make her feel ATTRACTION above anything else. Without it – you’ll never get very far with ANY woman.

So it’s not all about giving what they want – it’s simply about triggering her attraction towards you.

Read the post I wrote above and buy this:

Attraction Isn’t A Choice – How To Use Communication To Trigger Her Attraction Towards You.

It’s quite literally the BEST book to show you how it’s done, how you can do it easily, how women experience attraction, and aside from that – it’s EXACTLY what women WANT from you.

You’ll get all the definitions and by the time you’re done reading it you WILL GET WOMEN.

And honestly dude – it’s a pubic hair under twenty three freaking dollars!

If you can’t put THAT much up to solve your woman (girls don’t like me) problem then I just don’t know what else to tell you.

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You Did Not Turn Her On At All – You’re Afraid Of Triggering Her Desires and/or You Just Don’t Know How To Do It. 

Women have DESIRES in a man and if you don’t know how to engage them, bring them out of her, have her connect them to you then lots of girls just won’t like you all that much. Yes I know it hurts to hear that BUT…

It’s okay if you don’t know how it’s done BUT it’s NOT okay to stop yourself from learning how it’s done because you’re afraid she’ll think less of you or your Ego is stopping you from getting the obvious help you need.

Sex is a big deal to both men and women. It’s not kind of the thing that makes the world go round it’s the ACTUAL thing that keeps our human species alive.

It’s part of the deal – why be afraid – why hide it – and WHY would you stop a woman from feeling and experiencing ALL her DESIRES when it’s connected to you?

I’m not telling you or giving you permission to being up sex all the time with women. I’m telling you that unless you awaken her DESIRES you won’t have any woman spreading their legs to you.

They might date you for a while – make you work your ass off – might keep you around for a while UNTIL another guy comes along that KNOWS how it’s done AND is willing to do it.

Put the Ego aside – GET SOME HELP – and fear not my friend.

This is NOT something that will fix itself. No woman in her right mind will SHOW you how it’s done. They won’t take you by the hand and tell you what to do – you MUST learn it one way or another and hopefully from a trusted reliable source.

The easiest way to bring out her desires WITHOUT having to be afraid of doing is to make yourself into a guy women see as sexy… and I’m not talking about filling out your chest or working on your “guns” or getting a six-pack or having your ass done up like he did in the hilarious move “Saving Silverman” – which fucking cracked me up man!

I’ve got you covered. EVERYTHING you’ll ever need, everything about men that women find sexy is right here:

26 Traits Women Find Sexy – How To Become A Sexual Guy Despite Your Looks

If you become even a little like that – you WILL NEVER have to worry about turning on a woman again – just being there with her – even sometimes a half a block away will TURN on women and bring out ALL of her DESIRES. Even the ones she won’t reveal to even herself sometimes.

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You Showed No Confidence  – You Have Little or No Real Confidence In Life or With Women.

Confidence is HUGE in getting girls to like you. It’s not everything but it’s pretty close because without it – you have to take care of so many other things.

BUT if you have a certain amount of REAL confidence – other things won’t matter so much to her. I’m not saying you can forget about everything else – just that she’s going to like you anyways.

So get to work in it IMMEDIATELY and don’t look back.

No need to say more about this one because most guys know they have this problem when they do. You’ll get ALL the help you need to fix it below:

Why Confidence Is So Attractive to Women, What It Is, & How To Get It Quickly

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You Were Timid, Quiet, or Too Shy Around Her – You Reject Yourself Often and/or Women Feel Rejected By You.

Believe it or not – women DO fall for shy and quiet guys ALL the time.

This means She doesn’t like you because:

ONE: You failed to make some sort of intimate move on her at the right time and…

TWO: She felt rejected by YOU because of it.

It’s not the shyness that pushed her away – It’s because when you’re too shy and too quiet she doesn’t know where you at, how you feel, where you’re going with her, AND because you won’t take the lead.

Here’s a post I wrote which is going to change it all for you:

It will boost your confidence, prove to you its okay to be a little quiet when done right, and of course get girls to like who you are – just the way you are.

AND the answer you’ve been looking for all along:

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She Felt You Always Had Something To Hide – You’re Afraid Of Being A Real Man and You’re Too Much Of A Nice Guy.

I’ve noticed most nice guys believe they don’t have anything to hide. It’s their calling so to speak – so they bare it all a little too easily and believe they’re being different because of it.

They believe only jerks or players have something to hide and sure they do, but what they’re hiding is getting them laid, right?

BUT if you’re that nice type of guy – I can guarantee most of the time you ARE hiding something from her… YOUR TRUE FEELINGS.

Sure – you tell her everything she asks without hesitation but when it comes to feeling sexually attracted to her – you don’t want to come off as some pig just trying to get in her pants so you BEFRIEND her first.

AND WOMEN KNOW exactly what you wanted the whole time.

Admit it – if you’re sexually and emotionally attracted to her – having sex with her is part of the deal.

When you play the friend role – act a little too nice – give her everything without making her work for a little or offer no real challenge to her…

It will make her feel like you ARE hiding something from her and she’ll question as to if she’ll ever like you as something more than a friend.

Be it your masculinity. Your real agenda. Your thoughts on sexuality. Etc…

If she sense you’re holding back what you’re not supposed to hold back with a female – she’ll only believe you’re hiding something from her because you’re trying to get something else from her.

Here’s something I want you to study:

CHAPTER ONE: The Real Secret to Attracting Women & Getting Laid No One Knows But Me

Take special note to the parts on being genuine and real because it will help you to eliminate this reason from your life.

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You Showed Too Many Bad Habits Which Made You Not Relationship or Boyfriend Material – You’re Not THAT Type Of Guy.

On one end – women get into relationships all the time with the WRONG guys for them. They look too much into chemistry and connection OR they’re looking for fill a hole in their life and think a relationship will solve the problems they have with themselves.

On the other end – lots of women have VERY specific guidelines when it comes to letting a guy into their life long-term.

When a woman meets you, she’ll quickly see you as one of a few types:

  • A lover.
  • A provider.
  • A possible friend.
  • Just some dude she sees once in a while.

From the immortal words of David DeAngelo in his Advanced Dating Series:

“Lovers are pursued.

Providers do the pursuing.

If she sees you as a provider, a woman will withhold sex, play hard to get, and test you to see how good of a provider you’ll be. If she sees you as a lover and gets physically involved with you very quickly, then YOU will be in control, and you can choose where the relationship is going.”

—> taken directly from Advanced Dating Techniques workbook page 38.

Chances are – since you’re reading this today – girls are not seeing you as a lover or else you would not be asking why girls don’t like you and getting laid would not be a problem BUT they’re also not seeing you as a provider.

You’re either a possible friend or just some dude she runs into once in a while.

You’re best bet for results is to be seen as a lover first as noted in this short article I wrote: She’s Not Looking For A Relationship, Are You A Lover Or A Provider?

EXCEPT if you’re looking for a girlfriend, wife, or any long-term commitment with a woman you need a different set of skills to show women you ARE the relationship type of guy she’d be happy to settle down with or become your girlfriend.

Here are some of the things that make you NON-RELATIONSHIP or BOYFRIEND MATERIAL to women:

  • Being unreliable.
  • Being a little too unpredictable.
  • Being a little too dangerous.
  • Appearing or actually being uncaring towards others.
  • Lacking empathy towards those who are close to you.
  • Have little or no REAL long-term GOALS in life.
  • Not knowing what you’re looking for in a woman.
  • Now knowing what you’re looking to get out of life.
  • Lack a passion and desire to better yourself and help those around you.
  • Have very little security or stability in your life.
  • Refusing to do what’s necessary to get the JOB done.

Here’s what you can do to fix this problem once and for all:

Go through the list and figure out which one applies to you and work on changing it immediately.

Go through my page on forming natural relationships where I show you all the skills you need to make a great boyfriend or husband.

Learn the necessary skills to connect with a woman on a level which MAKES you a LOVER and a PROVIDER and learn how to communicate that to women in a way which is highly attractive and addictive to her.

This program will show it ALL to you:

Love – The Final Chapter – Real LOVE is Finally Within Your Reach.

Yes – it’s expensive. Yes, it’s a process. But it’s also something you only need to do ONCE and it WILL last you the rest of your life.

You’re not investing in some phone or television that needs to be changed every few years OR into something which will break if you drop it.

This is YOUR LIFE – do with it what you can.

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She Felt You Don’t Care About Yourself Enough – You Do Not Know How To Maintain Your Appearance In A Way Which Says You Put A High Value On Yourself.

The important part to remember here is dressing yourself in a way that merely shows you actually DO care about yourself.

In other words: You believe in yourself and you place a high VALUE in who you are and how you present yourself to the world.

Most women would NEVER turn down or reject you because of your style or lack thereof.

Most women won’t put you in the friend’s zone because you prefer a simple shirt and jeans over a suit and tie.

BUT… You will make it that much harder to make a woman your girlfriend or “like you” if you present yourself in a way which tells her you couldn’t care less about yourself.

Don’t confuse that with,

“I don’t care what others think of how I dress.”

There’s a distinct difference. Believe it or not a comb-over says you do NOT care about yourself.

It takes balls, confidence, strength, resolve, ingenuity, and smartness to work within your look… whatever that happens to be.

Combing over that lame ass of yours or doing anything of the sort only tells women you’re trying hide something you think they won’t like about you.

Sure – it’s a bad example bad it also goes for short guys wearing lifts in their shoes, sucking in your gut all the time, etc…

You’ll find all the help you need to eliminate this type of rejection in these two pages:

Refine Your Look, Style – How To Take Care Of The Details Women Notice

AND…

How To Make A Great Impression On Her – 12 Things Women Look For In A Guy

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She Believed That You Think It’s All About How Much Money You Make – You Think You Have To Buy A Woman’s Affection or Attraction.

Although this is rare it MUST be said. Not many women will refuse to date a guy or just not like him because he doesn’t make enough money.

Most of the time this is just an excuse they give “some” guys when they’re not very tactful women when the real reasons are:

She’s not feeling attracted to you AND she believes you have no real goals in your life.

Money is not normally the deciding factor of liking you or not – goals, aspirations, having some sort of plan, persistence in getting life handled – THOSE are the determining factor and not money alone.

As above – some women will check your bank account first and blow you off if it’s not high enough for her. You can blow her off entirely if you want and act like it doesn’t matter to you BUT you’re also missing objectivity in this case which will bleed into other parts of your life.

The objective reality is – snubbing your nose back at her – judging her – acting like you don’t give a shit that she may or may not be a money grubbing pig or gold digger IS and will ONLY EVER BE for YOUR supposed benefit to make yourself feel better because she doesn’t want you.

In other words – you’ve ALREADY been rejected dude.

So either go out and makes lots of cash and toss her a few dollars so she’ll beg to have you OR figure out how to get her past her affliction for “cash on cock” OR act like the decent non-judgmental man you are and casually let her be without wanting to avenge your poor little feelings.

My point is – you’re reading this – which means in all likelihood you’re failing with girls and how you handle women like this can and will determine just how attractive you are to them.

Handle it with control, dignity, don’t judge her, and let it go. When you can develop THAT kind of attitude girls will start to like you… guaranteed.

Here’s a better more productive and positive way to look at this problem:

Never Try to Buy A Women’s Affection or Attract Her with Money or Favors

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You Made Her Feel Like That Without A Car, You Couldn’t Date Her – You Do Not Own A Car And You Use It As An Excuse – You Don’t Get Things Done Despite Not Having An Advantage.

In big cities it’s rare because owning a car is more of a pain in the ass than it’s worth and good public transportation is so much easier and reliable too.

However… if you live in an area in which getting around efficiently requires you to own a car she may be connecting “not owning a car” with “not having a social life.” Which is the most probable reason why you believe girls don’t like you with this excuse.

Getting around this one is simple aside from buying a car because trust me the LAST thing you want to do is spend a shit load of money on a care just to get laid. You’ll attract the wrong women AND you’ll resent doing it. Combined that tends to lead to a more less attractive man who spends too much time working just to pay off some bullshit overpriced auto loan.

Here’s how it’s done.

Build a credible and varied social life. Some of those friends will have cars. If you’re that great of a guy to hang out with they will be more than happy to cart you around occasionally. Don’t abuse the privilege though. Don’t be THAT guy.

Women often take extreme note to guys who can get things done despite not having the “quick and easy” transport method.

They’ll see what a great friend you are – how others are always willing to help you out when you need it.

They become extremely attracted to men who get more for less as noted in my getting a girlfriend series:

I’ve known plenty of men who were incredibly great with women without even a license to drive. (Ha! Great movie – License to Drive – watch it when you get a chance.)

Refuse to use this as an excuse and you’ll be much better off. Refuse to let this stop you from attracting girls and they WILL get it.

They’ll actually love that about you because it shows you get things done YOUR way and you get things done despite having easy but a money-wasting car AND it also shows you’re not so typical OR how you don’t need a car to make up for having a small dick.

Sure – having muscle car and taking great care of it doesn’t always mean “small dick”. I’m not one to go there. I just like to joke around. It can represent a lot of attractive traits in a guy women go for BUT…

If it’s not you or if it’s not in your budget – DO NOT use this as an excuse – use it to your advantage because “chics” dig a guy who knows how to take something someone else may seem as a negative and turn it into something positive.

Again the key here is to your ability to live the best you can despite having the advantage of a vehicle.

That, to women, is highly attractive and strangely enough – SEXY!

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She Believed You Rejected Yourself Because You’re Too Old To Be Living With Your Parents – You Lack Courage and Fail To Take Risks.

There are a few sides to this because I DO understand that some guys live with their parents because they need to take care of one or both of them and that’s cool man – it really is.

BUT…

Trust aside from that reason which won’t be a problem when she finds out the real reason you’re doing it, it’s not that you’re too old to be living with your parents – it’s what it represents or shows about you that is causing them to not like you.

It says to women – You have no real skills, confidence, strength, or courage to get out and make it on your own despite the hardships and difficulty it can be in many circumstances around the world over.

The way around is to obviously, unless it’s important to your parents health, to GET OUT but if even that is not reasonable…

You MUST make sure the women you’re dealing with who are rejecting are meeting a guy who does have all things despite this problem:

Some sort of skill to make it in the world.

Confidence in yourself and others too.

A certain humbling strength which is used appropriately and not tossed around to bully others. It’s called emotional internal strength and resolve to get things done.

Courage in a way which doesn’t have to be about taking life-threatening risks – just the courage face your fears, take reasonable risks, and fearless attitude towards life and all the bullshit it throws at you.

Get those handled and girls WILL like you… a LOT!

Here’s the perfect start and all it takes is an understanding of why women love bad boys AND how to add a little edge into your life safely – which will make her see you living with your parents as a cute little add-on the nice “bad boy” you really are on the inside:

Survey – Why Women Are Attracted To Jerks & Bad Boys, How Nice Guy Can Do It Too

And read this free .pdf too:

The Bad Boy Formula Special Report

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She Hates What You Do For A Living and You Took It Personal – You Believe Women Are Only Into What You Do and Not WHO You Are.

This reason or better known as an excuse is more in YOUR head than it is hers although it can and does happen.

Yes – some women don’t go for guys who have lame jobs with no opportunity to better themselves or their position they’re in but your job or even career has little or nothing to do with how much a girl may or may not like you.

Attraction IS attraction and regardless of what you do IF she feels it for you – there’s not much she can do about it which is why this is a very general excuse a woman will give to a man but it’s actually because she’s just not feeling anything.

IF there’s more to it which does happen – it’s not the job she cares about – it’s your goals in life and if you want to make something of yourself that’s more important to her.

The ONLY very rare exception is you’l find some women who refuse to get involved with a guy who does something dangerous for a living. From drug dealing to police officer to a man in the military – again very rare because women tend to dig those type of guys but some will refrain out of fear.

BUT that doesn’t mean she don’t “like” the guy by any stretch of the imagination.

The easy way to get around this is mentioned above:

Admit that’s is generally an excuse.

Admit that it can not possibly be true because when you look around you’ll find lots of women with guys who do lots of things for a living.

Understand that it could be a problem with where you’re meeting women so that would have to change unless you want to keep meeting the same types of women where something  like this “might” matter to them.

And most of all…

No matter what you do for a living – don’t just phone it in. Be responsible. Show some initiative.

Make sure you have goals in life and that you’re trying to achieve something for yourself.

Focus more on creating attraction because once that’s done you can easily override any woman’s judgment of your job or career.

NEVER FORGET THIS:

It’s rarely if ever about what you do.

Women fall for guys who have goals in life and are willing to keep making them happen.

DEFINE WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE.

Before you start living your dreams, first you need to know what they are.

So get to work… as in right now… clarifying your personal “vision” of an exciting, happy, fulfilling life.

Once you do, guess what… the qualities that your “dream woman” must possess to share and help you achieve those dreams will become immediately obvious.

So go figure yourself out.

Are you an outgoing world-traveler with dreams of sailing the world?

Or an introverted screenwriter hell-bent to winning an Oscar for best screenplay?

Nail it down in no uncertain terms, because it ain’t rocket science — until you know yourself and what you want, there’s no way to find a woman who’ll love you in amazing, life-changing ways for who you are.

3 Critical Steps To Finding Your “Dream Woman”

A REAL women will ALWAYS choose a guy with the worst shittiest job in the world who at least CARES and is bettering himself any way he can over a guy who bitches and complains about his station in life and does NOTHING to change it.

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You Work Together and Gave Her Every Reason To Believe It Mattered To Her – You Only Meet Women You Work With and Don’t Get Out Enough.

Yes – some women won’t date guys they work with and you must know that’s probably a good thing depending on where you work.

There’s certainly a lot of problems that arise dating a co-worker as you can read about in this post: .

On one end – yes – if you believe it matters to her she’s going to either pretend to not like you OR not bother with you AND you’re only setting yourself up to fail because you didn’t even bother trying at all.

On the other end – if you’re constantly trying to date women from work THEY see it ALL and think it’s what you do. It doesn’t make a woman feel special or show you actually do like her if you’re trying to get it on with every chic at work.

But that’s not the real problem usually is, this is what normally happens:

What I typically see if that some guys only try to meet and date girls at work and not only is it a very limited field but it tells me you’re not going out or doing anything else to actually meet more women.

I don’t advise co-workers to date unless they’re in a temporary and easily replaceable job.

I’d rather have you opening up lots of opportunities outside work which tells me you’re going beyond just the girls you see everyday and you’re trying lots of different ways to meet women.

Not only does that give you more opportunities, it puts you in a mindset of ABUNDANCE and not one of scarcity.

Women want to know that about you too IF you’re going to be liked by lots of them.

I understand how easy it is to fall for a woman at work. You spend lots of time together. You’re both stuck either having to learn about one another or the time goes by very slowly AND it’s boring as shit.

Feelings bubble up, connections are made, and the next thing you know – you’ve fallen for the new girl again. Along with every other single guy there too.

It happens all too easily but don’t let that stop from opening your horizons and getting out into the REAL world because trust there are a LOT more out there AND you won’t have any work-related issues to deal with when and if things go bad.

Here are a TON of places you can meet single women outside of work:

32 Great Date Places Where To Go and Meet Her Plus 7 Tips On Dating

Use that list for all it’s worth and the tips I give you too. It WILL help.

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She Is Your Boss and You Refused To Go Out and Find Another Job or Another Woman – You Lack Choices and Work Off A Mindset Of Scarcity And Not From One Of Abundance.

Never date your boss! I can not say that any LOUDER!

But you can see from above that is not the real problem here because if you are dating your boss then it’s obvious at least one girl likes you…

The bigger issue here is that I’ve found guys who fawn over their hot boss get hooked on her and never look outside their work environment enough to have any other choice.

So they get hooked on one girl at a time and cycle through the same old bullshit with each one of them and in the process NEVER get the one they want.

Which means your mindset (as in the last one) is thinking that women are scarce and the available choices you have in dating them are limited but that’s far from the truth if you go out, get out, start meeting more of them, and work on attracting ALL of them.

Okay – I hear you…. BUT you LOVE your boss because she’s so incredible and she makes a pretty good living too.

Guess what?

If you love her that much and are willing to do anything to be with her – which is not advisable – find a different job, come back and then find a way to fuck her, make her your girlfriend, take her out, or marry her. Whatever your goal is – make it happen or get over her and meet other women.

If you’re not willing to do that then you probably are only feeling what I mentioned above. You’re spending so much time together and the sexual friction is getting more heated everyday.

If you leave (the job) while things are hot and heavy you may just find an incredible relationship with her. You’ll show her the strength of your choices and she’ll be even more attracted to you.

PLUS if there’s a breakup and things don’t go as planned – you won’t have to deal with all the work drama that comes from dating your boss.

Keep in mind though….

By leaving your job you risk losing her because any man who’s willing to put a woman first when they’re not in a relationship often loses her. In this situation you must find a way to allow her to see this is a one time deal.

The rest of your life is yours.

If your choice is to forget about her and get yourself out of this scarcity mentality and meet some new women – GOOD for you and you can start below:

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You Told Her That You Loved Her After A Few Dates – You’re Not Sure What Love Is And You Always Reveal Your Feelings Way Too Early.

Love is a very strange concept and it’s often interpreted differently from guy to guy and from woman to woman and from guy to girl making it a very complicated subject.

It’s okay if you believe in love at first sight – it’s okay to have your own feelings and to interpret them ANY way you want…

BUT girls are NOT going to like if you keep revealing your feelings way too early.

Here are three traits that women are always extremely attract to:

  • Cool, clam, relaxed, and emotional control.
  • Patience – unwavering ability to WAIT and enjoy the process and not the outcome.
  • Restraint – holding back when necessary and the ability to not jump unpredictably into situations without thinking.

When you reveal your feelings too early those traits are no longer in your arsenal or skill-set to create attraction.

So… STOP DOING IT!

If you’re struggling with this one, here are some tips:

BEFORE you say anything, I want you to playfully accuse HER of liking you too much and too early. Make sure she’s laughing.

This is where you casually accuse her of falling madly in love with you and you think she needs to slow down. Keep it in context and humorous though or you’ll come off like an arrogant ass.

Learn all you can about being slightly cocky AND funny so you can breeze past these moments:

Every time you feel yourself about to do anything like this (especially asking her directly is she likes you) do THIS instead:

  • Pause.
  • Step back a little.
  • Look right in her eyes.
  • Put a small smirk on your face and a little squint in your eyes.
  • Think but don’t say unless many other things are in place, “She likes me. Awww… How sweet. Haha!”

Never Ask a Woman if She Likes You – What You Must Do & Say Instead So She Will Like You

Start acting like you’re giving HER a chance to fall in love with you and not the other way around.

You THINK you’re in love – again – that’s fine BUT make sure you know it really is there – make sure you don’t go telling her too early – Make sure she feels the same way FIRST before you even DARE tell her.

And this problem will go away all by itself.

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Your Ex Girlfriend Was A Bitch And You Constantly Talk About Her – You Don’t Know How To Let Things Go And You’re Constantly Blaming Women and Others For Your Problems.

NEVER talk about your ex especially if you have bad feelings for her and ALL women will appreciate it and LIKE you more for it.

NEVER compare the girl you’re dating or want to date to your ex unless you’re doing what you can to avoid dating someone like her – but that should only happen in your head and to be talked about with your guy friends.

NEVER bitch, whine, or complain about your past experiences with women to another potential date.

The past bounces off of you.

It’s NOT a big deal.

You CAN handle worse things like this – you’ve got it covered.

THAT is the attitude you want.

If it comes out, just say, “It didn’t work out.” and end it there.

You see it’s not that you’ve made a past mistake which tells her you might not be a viable option in her dating life – it’s the fact you won’t let things go. That if she dates you and things go bad – you’ll talk shit about her too.

It also shows others that you’re more into the blame game and are not willing to take responsibility in your life – which is a very un-attractive trait to have and girls won’t like you for it.

Be honest with yourself. No one MADE you date your ex. YOU made that choice so get over it and move on. Use it to look for someone better and to not make the same mistake again but all that stays in your head where it belongs when you’re dealing with new women.

The GOOD news is – if she really was a bitch – you know EXACTLY what to look for AND avoid with the next one.

Learn to qualify the next one better and more attractively and you can put this whole bullshit affair in your past forever starting with everything I tell you in this post:

Are You Qualifying Her? – Attracting Women & Better Relationships

Use that past experience to make your dates more fun and less of a bitch-fest. You’ll be much more attractive in her eyes when she senses this strength and because you’re not so willing to reveal what actually happen – she will wonder more and instantly start to think WHY would another dare to let a great guy like you go.

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You Talked About Your Mother Too Much On The First And Second Date – You Don’t Know How To Make Dating Fun And You’re Always Trying To Prove To Others What A Great Guy You Are.

Even if your Mom is famous and well-known it’s best to avoid making this mistake but the reason why is what gets guys confused.

In one way – mentioning your Mom on a date might seem okay. Maybe you’re trying to show her you’re a family who cares. Maybe you’re trying to show you’re not there just for a quick bang.

Well – first of all TRYING to show a woman WHO you are is the wrong way to go about it. I hate to say “just be yourself” so I won’t for many reasons but think hard about it: If you’re just who you are – where does TRYING to show her even come into play?

It’s something I bring up in my “nice guy” tips for men. You NEVER have to prove you’re a GOOD guy – if you do good things – you are and others will take note.

“So… you’re not longer a nice guy.

You’re a good guy because you DO good things.

You’re a good guy because you don’t force your beliefs onto others – physically or mentally.”

20 Nice Guy Tips to Make You & Your Personality More Attractive to Women

The same (sort of) rule applies here: If you love your Mother – if you are a good family man – if you DO care about those things – there’s absolutely NO need to try and prove it to anyone. Just DO what you DO and others will see it.

I’m not done yet because this next one is VERY important especially if you do these sort of things with girls and they don’t seem to like you very much:

You’re on a freaking date man!

Have fun. Enjoy it. Have an amazingly great time.

Seriously – talking about your Mother can not be the greatest thrill in the world for you or her.

The ONLY time you should mention your Mother while you’re on the first few dates with a woman is if the topic comes up from her AND you steer away from it by playfully accuse her of trying to contact your Mom because she’s into you JUST that much.

See the difference.

There are plenty of fun things to do on dates to avoid these types of conversations AND there are plenty of great things to talk about in the early stages of dating – this should NOT be your go-to topic.

These WILL help:

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You Complimented Her Way Too Much – You Don’t Come Off As Genuine or Real – You Think Kissing Her Ass Is How You Can Get A Piece Of Her Ass.

It may appear this is what women want because they in fact do enjoy getting real genuine compliments.

In fact some will even opt for a second date as an ego boost because you’re being so nice and complimenting her so much.

BUT…

Sooner or later she starts to think you’re only doing it to get in her pants. It loses its effect. She’ll begin to question if it’s real or you’re just saying the same things you say to every other girl you meet.

Compliments are okay if they are used sparingly at first. They also have a lot to do with the type of guy you are. In other words the better you are with women the less you have to worry about how she is taking the compliment.

If it’s to kiss her ass – it’s wrong.

If it’s to display a genuine interest then it’s okay.

However constantly complimenting any woman always leaves her not taking your words at full value. She’ll believe you’re doing it for reasons which are strategic.

Or that you’re clueless about how to talk to a woman and only know how to give out compliments which do little to increase and build a fun attractive conversation.

Sometimes she’ll even begin to feel like you’re redirecting her attention away from you because you don’t feel confident or comfortable around women.

Here’s a fair warning: Most women won’t ever seriously tell you to stop. They’ll let you talk her up all you want BUT inside – she’s feeling less for you and losing her respect for you and your words too.

PLUS most guys just don’t know how to compliment a woman in a way which is masculine, real, and attractive too.

Luckily I have you covered on this one too.

Study this post. Do the exercises no matter how badly you don’t want to. Give your compliments sparingly and make sure they COUNT:

How To Give Any Woman The Perfect Compliment – Complete Steps On How To Create The Perfect One For HER

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You Ate Like A Pig – Your Manners Are Borderline Annoying and You Show Little Respect For Others and Their Private and Public Space.

Seriously dude – this may not be for the overly nice guys who are scared a little much of what of others think of them BUT it’s a perfectly valid reasons why girls might not like you.

BUT…

It’s fixable. Oh so easily fixed that it makes me wonder why ANY guy wouldn’t even try or WHY he can not see it for himself.

If this is not you – then seriously – tell me how they don’t even realize it or care they’re doing it. Reminds me of a great scene from “The Good Place” when Adam Scott (great actor by the way) is from The Bad Place and while they’re all eating dinner he rips off his shoes and socks and starts cutting his toenails right in the restaurant.

Anyways – being a piggish eater is not that bad – believe it or not BUT what really matters in this “girls liking you or not” thing is the lack of respect for those around you and not having any social awareness at all.

I’m all for a guy who isn’t so bent on having everyone like them, it’s a admirable and attractive trait BUT….

You have to understand – when you respect others – not dive into their space – not do stupid shit like this you get more respect from others AND the more respected you are, the more people that want to be around you because of that – the more people respect YOUR boundaries – the more social aware you are…

The more women see you as a guy who has got it going on.

Instant high status generally equals instant attraction from women.

It’s the TRUE mark of a real alpha man and not the made up bullshit guys equate to being alpha which is usually wrong.

BE ALPHA:

How You Can Develop Your Personality & Be A Real Mysterious Alpha Male

That article I wrote explains it all and what every trait the alpha male has, why it’s attractive to women, and how to BE that guy too.

So IF you insist on eating like a pig – just please make sure you’re THAT guy first and you’ll probably be able to get away from something like this and girls will overlook your “food down the mouth” problem more often than not.

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Your Car Was Disgusting On The Inside – You’re A Slob With Little Regard Or Care To Ever Taking Charge And Control In Your Life.

You picked her up with tons of trash in your car then that could be a reason why she or other girls don’t like you.

With the exception of some women not wanting to date someone who appears slob-ish this often represents a deeper problem which would be the main reason of not being that well liked by women…

It shows a lack of control and no ability to maintain your life which transferred over to her means not taking of yourself and NO chance of ever taking care of a family.

This is yet another way of showing women you have little value in yourself.

Sure – it’s kind of small but how many people do you know that have a messy office, a messy car, and yet their home or apartment is impeccable. It just doesn’t happen.

This problem is solved easily – clean it up and no  excuses. Clean it ALL consistently and keep things at a manageable level.

If it’s time management thing that is totally understandable but not excusable because there are always ways around it.

So…

Clean & Control Your Life Effortlessly & Women Will Want To Be In It

Don’t let something like this stand in your way because that would really suck. It’s just too easy to fix and once it’s done:

  • You’ll feel better.
  • You’ll probably get sick less.
  • You’ll be more likely to invite others back to your place or into your car.
  • You’ll feel accomplished and value yourself more.
  • You’ll actually feel like you have more control of your life.
  • Once it’s done it all become easy to maintain so that’s a plus.
  • AND you’ll show women quite clearly you have a great handle on life and that she’d be foolish to not want to be a part of it with you.

If Time Management is a really really big problem for you get this:

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You Had Terrible Hygiene – You Don’t Give Women Any Real Reason To Want To Get And Stay Close To You.

Giving up fifteen minutes plus of your day is not a lot to ask for when you compare it to screwing it up with some incredible women.

All that you need to cover the basics here is in this post:

Refine Your Look, Style – How To Take Care Of The Details Women Notice

Now I fully understand SOME things you might not be aware – like bad breath or stinky laundry because no one has the balls to tell you.

You might also not be able to take care overly dry skin or unmanageable stinky feet all too easily. Sometimes that shit is stubborn.

BUT you can do the best with what you’ve got AND you can certainly ASK someone to tell you the truth.

Man up!

Ask a friend who won’t bust your ass too much if you always have bad breath and if your clothes smell like you wash them in a dirty river somewhere.

Honestly – a few simple questions and a little time spent cleaning it up can make all the difference between girls liking you or NOT.

So take care it immediately.

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She Found Out and/or You Bragged About All The Women You’ve Slept With –  You’ll Stick Your Dick In Anything That Moves – You Have Low Standards and Don’t Feel Good Enough Inside to Aim Higher And Respect Yourself.

Yes – your sleeping around habits could be causing “other” girls to not like you and the worst part is – IF you’re having no problems getting laid – obviously some of them DO like you…

Just not enough to date you OR you think they’re not good enough to date yourself so you just with them.

Now… if you’re bragging about the women you sleep with then that has to stop immediately and the truth is – NO ONE GIVES A SHIT except that lame ass friends of yours who is living vicariously through your sexual exploitation.

And honestly – is he really that great of a friend that you need to keep around just to hear your stories.

Why?

Think about your need to tell others. Is it for the confidence boost? Is it because you think it makes you a real man? Is it because you lack power in other parts of your life and talking about makes you feel powerful?

Get to the root of the problem and eliminate it.

I can understand If this is a problem because you might not feel good enough to do better than some easy women, at least that’s not bragging.

BUT that is something which can be fixed too regardless of how you feel right now.

I GUARANTEE you can raise your standards, start believing in yourself more, value yourself more, and earn your own respect too.

If you don’t take care of this women will always see you in this way:

  • “How can this guy find me all that special after he’s stuck his dick in THAT?”
  • “He has no taste in women and he likes ME? Ewww!”
  • “He has no willpower and I bet if I get involved with him he’s going to cheat on me with some Skank!”

Of course if you don’t get caught and she doesn’t know who you’re sleeping with it might not seem like it matters but it does because:

For one – Women always find out so don’t let that fool you.

Two – You’ll always act like you’re not good enough to do better. You’ll reject yourself before any girl has the time or need to do so.

The obvious solution here is to raise your standards and believe and learn how to get higher quality women while NOT bragging or showing off your supposed accomplishments.

It’s unfortunate that I don’t have a ton of stuff here to help you raise your standards AND I’m certainly not going to tell you to stop sleeping around BUT I will say “inner game” work would certainly give you the boost you need:

Click HERE for More Info on: Deep Inner Game Today!

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She Thought You Were Gay – You Act Like A Woman and You’re Afraid Of Your Masculinity – You Let Women Lead Because You Don’t Know What To Do Or How To Lead.

The think your Gay part is honestly not that  big of a deal all by itself. Some guys are just more feminine than others and honestly, I couldn’t care less.

BUT if girls think you’re gay because you’re afraid of your masculinity or you act all female like because you want them to lead and you don’t know how to lead then that is a serious problem and a big reason why girls don’t like you.

The good news – It’s not uncommon for women to have deep feelings for a guy she believes is gay. All it takes is a small shift to allow her to see the truth.

You could swap stories of your first kiss but I feel it’s better to strengthen your body language and work on your masculinity.

However that’s just a quick fix with one woman and won’t help you too much overall.

Your best bet is to work on two things:

Being seen as a real Alpha Man and Being the sexiest guy she’s ever met that takes charge and is willing to accept the lead.

That should take care of it all.

Alpha men are good at taking the lead and if she sees you as a sexy guy – you won’t have to worry about her thinking you’re gay – she “probably” make the first move on you anyways.

If you’re thinking women see you as a gay because you don’t want to, know how, or are afraid of making the first move – here you go:

When It’s Time To Make Your First Move On Her – No Fears – Go For It!

I highly doubt she’ll see you as liking other dudes after you kiss her AND if she does just reply with some cocky humor which I’ve personally used that worked great,

“I haven’t been gay in years.”

Cocky Comedy – The Difference  Being Confident & Acting Like a Jerk

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You Showed Ho Interest In Her At All – She Felt Rejected By You – You Fall For Common Myths About Women – Follow Bad Dating Advice And Play Games That Don’t Work.

Hey it’s okay to not follow her around like some love struck puppy or kiss ass nice guy AND even though not all women are good at reading a guy’s signals, you MUST show some interest in HER if you want her to become interested in YOU.

It’s NOT okay to play games or ACT like you’re not interested by trying to be all aloof because I guarantee it will backfire, show her you’re not a real man, and get you laid by women who will only fill your life with drama and bullshit.

If that’s what you want – cool – by I don’t think it is.

Learn the difference of what indifference is and how it works and skips the mind fuck games:

How To Be Indifferent & How Indifference Attracts Women When Done Right

Yes – there is tons of bad dating advice out there and I don’t most guys who don’t do this for a living know the difference. It’s all good. Here’s how to tell the difference:

If it has everything to do with her, saying stupid things, getting her in bed quick, and has little to do with WHO you are and being a stand up guy – its BAD advice.

Trust you NEVER have to play by those rules or any games IF you’re a naturally attractive guy. All you have to do is learn HOW to COMMUNICATE to women in an attractive way and they WILL get it. They actually will LOVE it.

Avoid falling for the myths about women.

Learn the truth about how attraction works:

The Real Secret to Attracting Women & Getting Laid No One Knows But Me

You MUST show an interest in who she is AND you must do it in a way which doesn’t make you look like a kiss ass who is only doing it to get in her pants.

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You Called Or Contacted Her Way Too Much – You’re A Little And Desperate Plus You’re Afraid To Give A Woman Space Because You’re Worried About Losing Her Before You Even Are WITH Her.

Here’s the deal – If you act from a sense of urgency, like you have to “have” before some other guy does…

If you’re pushing hard to get her to like you…

If you feel like you’re on a clock when it comes to attracting a woman…

If you contact her too much early on…

If you act all needy and desperate like she’s the ONLY girl in the world for you…

You will PUSH her away and if you do it a lot – girls will NOT EVER like being with you.

If this is a SERIOUS problem for you:

Call her half as much as you think you should.

Call her when you can’t talk for too long.

Text her half as much as you feel like doing and make sure you text her something fun and doesn’t push it:

Text her when you’re too busy to continue texting her.

Never call or text her again if you don’t get a response.

Yes even if you don’t hear from her in two weeks or a month. You call or text. She responds. Then you respond. NO EXCEPTIONS.

Train yourself to be patient. Train yourself to not act out of urgency.

Get OTHER women in your life so you’re not putting all this pressure of one at time.

These two articles I wrote will solve this problem for you forever:

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She Assumed You Were A Player – You Act Like Women Are An Agenda, A Conquest – You Play Lots of Needless Games And Your Life Revolves Around Women.

First – Let a woman assume ANYTHING she wants about you. Don’t ever defend yourself. If she’s seeing bad stuff because it’s true, that’s on you. If she’s seeing bad stuff and it’s not true – it’s on you to communicate yourself better but in no way does that mean she should defend yourself AND it’s partly on her because she will see what she wants to see regardless.

Second – IF you ARE a player – stop it IF you want a real woman and a real relationship AND you want girls to actually like you as a guy.

Third – Your life should never revolve around a woman… EVER… unless she’s your daughter. That’s the only exception and yes this includes your wife.

Fourth – Women are not toys and if you treat them that way or like you have an agenda with them – your life IS revolving around them and this possessive trait you have must go away if you want real women to like you.

Fifth – Games are typically meant to be won or lost – if you win or if she wins, game over. So it’s not really going to get you anywhere AND you’ll always come off as a player to women.

Six – Figure out as soon as you can WHY you’re doing all these things because until that happens – it’s practically impossible to fix.

Maybe you’re competitive – fine – compete more in things where women aren’t involved and get it out of your system.

Maybe you believe women are superficial and deserve to be played – this is a self-esteem issue and you have a serious list of limited beliefs to get past.

My BEST guess is that you lack certain mature qualities that if you had, you could be a real man and your problem would be solved.

The good news a lot of that and how or how it happened is probably NOT your fault. I’m not saying it’s women’s fault either – just how you grew into who you are today happened and that’s it.

I do offer lots of great help on being a man but eliminating the root cause is up to you today and your best opportunity is to get some real deeper help so you can figure it all out, reboot yourself, and start the process before it’s too late.

THIS will help:

Do you ever fear that maybe there is something wrong with you, and that you might never be able to make this happen for yourself?

If you’re worried that there is something wrong with you… then there probably is!

And you can bet your bottom dollar that your emergency problems with women revolve around MANHOOD.

If you’ve had the same experience of consistently screwing things up with women, you need to have your eyes opened about what’s going on behind the scenes and see why your current reality almost forces you to mess things up with a woman that you like.

On Being A Man Who Naturally Attracts Women.

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Your Touch Creeped Her Out – You Don’t Know How, When, or Where To Touch A Woman And You’re Afraid to Break The Touch Barrier – You’re Uncomfortable Around Women.

Being uncomfortable around girls is a very common problem and it’s a very serious one too because it feels impossible to get past – that I know from first hand experience.

Not knowing what to do, or how or when to do it is causing your mind and you body to lock up and it’s making you hesitant and weird around women.

You do NOT have to be a creep to make feel like you are and if you’re that uncomfortable around them – it’s just what they’re going to see.

You have good intentions and you’re not actually a creep.

A REAL creep lingers around the corner, hides in the shadows, cops a feel when he can, and even goes so far as stalking women on any and every social media platform which will allow him the opportunity to poke or message random women.

All true BUT think for one how certain things you do around a woman FEEL to her. Whether the word creep is the right description doesn’t matter… so don’t take it personal.

If she feels uneasy around you then she will say it’s creepy and when it comes to attracting her – it’s a feeling you want to avoid giving her.

9 Questions Reveals Why You’re A Nice Guy & Women Feel Like You’re A Creep

There’s no way around it – women are okay with you being nervous but they’re not normally attracted to men who are not comfortable enough in their own skin – to be at ease around them.

The first thing you need to do is to gain some comfort in who you are, believe in yourself, understand what is really happening, and admit you’re not a creep – you’re just unsure and nervous which is causing you to act this way OR for other to see you this way.

Gain some comfort through this girlfriend step and use it the right way:

The Benefits Of Becoming Friends With Hotter Women

The second thing you must do is to learn how to break the touch barrier and get over your fears of touching women MINUS the groping or whatever.

Start with a simple medium hand shake always. When you meet someone shake their hand. Develop a slightly unique way of doing it and say their name as you are doing it.

Learn when friendly hugging is allowable and start doing it more often until it feels natural. Yes – keep doing it until it no longer feel odd to you.

With men keep your hands up high on the back. With women hug her just above the small of her back. As your connection grows move your hands directly to the small of her back.

Imagine if she was to fall over or while you’re dancing with one and you must balance or catch her with just an open palm. That is where you hug women to show them you’re a sexually aware man.

The third thing you must look into is your fears and anxiety around women because those two things ruining it all for you.

Much of the help I find on eliminating fears or anxiety centers around approaching women and sure anything is going to help a little but you need to dig deeper because I don’t think you’re approaching many women any ways and it won’t completely solve this “creepy” issue you’re suffering with everyday.

Get yourself some DEEP INNER GAME work and start eliminating them ALL one by one and it will get easier AND you’ll take care of it ALL.

Annihilate Your Crippling Insecurity, Anxiety And Fear To Transform Into The Powerful, Confident, Attractive Man All Women Want.

Deep Inner Game Will Reprogram You for Massive Success In Life And Love – No Matter How BAD You Feel Right Now, Or How Badly You’ve Been HURT In The Past.

Click HERE for More Info on: Deep Inner Game.

I’m not going to tell you to face your fears although at some point you will have to, that goes without saying.

I’m not going to tell you that your anxiety is all in your head – because that’s where it is anyways and you’re smart enough to figure that out.

I’m not going to tell you that you’ll never feel nervous around another woman ever again – it WILL happen – expect it to – but if you learn how to handle better and better with each interaction, it will lessen enough to where it’s manageable and not that big of a deal anymore.

Lastly – knowledge in confidence in this area goes a long way. Once you begin to learn what goes where, when it goes there, how all the “mating” stuff works you have a set up blueprint in your head to rely on which will certainly help to ease your mind and decrease ALL your anxieties.

Fear is well-known as being: False. Evidence. Appearing. Real.

Eliminate the FALSE part, study and learn what is REAL and what is not, learn to stay in the present so you’re not presenting lots of EVIDENCE of what could or could not happen AND the fear decreases to a level you will feel okay with handling.

Here’s some of the best advice out there in learning the process. It’s simple AND it works:

“You should be looking at EVERY woman you want to meet as an opportunity… a chance to work on yourself and your “skills”… instead of looking at her as an impossible challenge.

When you teach yourself to think about things this way, you become less attached to the outcome… you become more relaxed…

…and more able to TAKE ACTION.”

4 Insights Into Approaching Women – Are Your Fears Getting In The Way?

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You Kissed Her Once And She Felt Nothing – You Don’t Know How To Escalate Physically With Women And Your Timing Plus Technique Is All Wrong.

This is actually not as big as a problem as it may seem and the good news is – IF you’ve kissed her, she LET you which means girls DO like you…

You’re just screwing up the physical escalation part and you need to work on your technique a little.

Here’s a cool literally hand-written report about physical escalation that Carlos Xuma wrote which will help you:

Shark Fin Soup Formula – Escalating With Women

You’ll get the basic idea on how escalating with women works and how it’s to be done.

Next – gain some confidence in the kissing area and how to actually make your first move so the moment and timing is best set up for her to feel something for you:

This one is not a major problem so don’t let it get you down and have you doing stupid things to make up for it once it happens.

AND it’s not ALL on you either. Kissing requires TWO people and so don’t take it all on yourself to be perfect – she must meet you somewhere in the middle AND don’t assume just because she’s a woman she knows how to kiss either.

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You Had Sex Once And It Was Awful – You Move Too Quickly and/or Haven’t Spent Any Time Learning How To Please A Woman Sexually AND It Has Destroyed Your Confidence.

This one is quite obviously similar to the last one in many ways. One being it’s clear women DO like you (at least sexually) or else she wouldn’t have slept with you, right?

The real problems with this one is:

Not being able or feel confident pleasing a woman in bed tends to destroy your masculine confidence which has a lasting effect on your interactions with women.

You’ll either find yourself moving too quickly or too slowly or trying to force the issue to get it done.

If all attempts fail you might even find yourself just finding women to sleep with where you care less that she gets off making you a terrible lay and just because you TELL yourself you don’t care – doesn’t mean you do and these contradictions in your mind create a major conflict which only perpetuates the problem.

As above start studying physical escalation, the one written by Carlos Xuma won’t solve it entirely but will give you a better perspective to begin with:

Shark Fin Soup Formula – Escalating With Women

Start building your confidence back up as it’s probably been slightly destroyed in the process:

Why Confidence Is So Attractive to Women, What It Is, & How To Get It Quickly

Here at DiaLteG TM I don’t get into the real dirty stuff about sex – sex is my thing but I just don’t write about techniques, positions, pleasing a woman, etc… so you’ll have to seek outside help to take care of this problem.

I WOULD however continue on with one of my girlfriend steps where you’ll find some links on how to be a better lover: 

Why You Might Have To “Go Get Laid” to Get A Girlfriend

A great outside source of help is called Power Sexuality – How To Transform Yourself From A Man With No Sexual Confidence Into The Kind Of In Control Man That All Women Fantasize About.

David wrote it for guys who were like him at one point:

No sexual confidence and No sexual experience. If you feel that’s you then:

Click Here For More Info and How It’s Going To Help You – Power Sexuality.

Here are a few specifically designed to make you into a better love thus giving you more confidence in this are:

  • 500 Lovemaking Tips – Written by LLoyd Lester who has written a ton of books on having great sex. Guess that makes him a sort-of expert.
  • Behind Closed Doors –  Produced by Scot McKay and titled as “X-ray Vision Into Her Deepest Fantasies. Know What She Wants, Know How To Give It To Her, and Make Her Beg For More.”

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You Did Not Challenge Her Enough Physically – You’re Too Easy Of A Lay and/or You’re Afraid To Tease A Woman – You Play The Waiting Game Hoping You’ll Get Laid.

I separated the next two (physical and mental) for a good reason… this one is about being a slight sexual tease and being a little difficult when it comes to getting physically with her.

Women don’t tend to go for guys where it’s too easy to get in YOUR pants.

They don’t want a guy who will rips his pants off in a second just to get with her.

They – just like you – want a REAL challenge and not some male slut.

The difficulty most men face in this area is not knowing how to balance things out AND being afraid of challenging a woman sexually.

Balance means knowing when to give in and dish it out and when to hold back just a little longer than her.

Not being afraid simply means it’s OKAY to make her wait a little longer. It’s okay to lean in for the first kiss and NOT give it to her. It’s OKAY to NOT sleep with a woman the first time just because she offers or wants to.

Crating the right balance is certain important to know.  Just being a prick all the time and holding back forever is on one end of the scale – being too easy and fucking her as soon as you can or any woman who offers is the other end.

You’ll want to be somewhere in the middle. Give a little. Hold back a little. Do it at the right time and in the right way and you WILL challenge her physically.

With regards to the fears over teasing a woman: Start Teasing Women To Create Attraction But Follow These Four Rules First

If you’re not doing it – START doing it more but follow the rules first or else it won’t work AND you’ll only become more afraid and hesitant about doing it again with her or any other girl.

If you’re playing the waiting game hoping she’ll take the lead then you’re not in for a rude awakening – you’re ALREADY there.

MOST women want you to take the lead here. Hoping something will happen won’t get you anywhere with a few exceptions as in women who are over-bearing, a little too masculine, only want something in exchange for the sex, or are using you to get some other guy.

And none of that sounds like something you want to have to deal with in your life JUST because you LET HER do all the work you, as a man, are actually DESIGNED to do.

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You Did Not Challenge Her Enough Mentally – You Don’t Flirt Enough – Use The Right Humor – You Lack in Wit and Are Afraid She Won’t Like You If You Disagree With Her.

This does not mean you’re not smart enough for her – although sometimes that is the case, most of the time for a girl to like you are to become attracted to your intelligence just be smart in something you like to do and it will be enough

The type of mental challenges women like are clever flirting, conversational wit, and heated discussions on any difference of opinion.

If you never play flirt with women…

If you never offer any wit…

If you agree with everything she says….

If you don’t have any opinions that you’re willing to share because she may not agree with you…

Then yes – girls will not generally like talking to you AND you’re missing one of the best opportunities to creates lots of attraction.

Challenging a woman mentally with the important added sexual edge is one of the easiest ways to get lots of women to like you because it triggers their natural attraction which goes beyond the physical type which also means you can do it – despite how you look, how much money you make, or even what you do for a living.

This is one of my most famous and popular articles which will show you exactly HOW TO CHALLENGE women in all sorts of ways:

Top Ten Ways to Challenge Women to Feel Attracted to You

Study it, follow the links and advice in it and this challenging women problem will go away.

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She Knew She Could Have You Anytime She Wanted – You Lack Setting A Pace – You Move Too Quickly – You Chase Women The Wrong Way.

Let’s start with something I teach women about guys…

There are guy who PLAY hard to get and there are guys who ARE hard to get.

You’ll want to BE hard to get… always. Just don’t take it to the extreme or you won’t get anywhere with girls as you’ve probably already figured out on your own.

Being hard to get is covered in a lot of the sections above so I suggest you go through them and read the advice there on top what you’re going to read below.

Yeah – know it’s a lot but ALL those reasons and probably more too are why girls think you’re too easy, that they can have you anytime they want, and it’s WHY girls are not liking you…. so get it taken care of or else little will change for you.

Now let’s put this whole chasing women thing in perspective because it’s often confuses lots of guys and when that happens they tend to get it all wrong.

Simply put…

IF you want girls to like you – IF you want to date and/or marry or whatever with your dream woman you must PURSUE them.

It’s integrated and hardwired into your brain and hormones and it’s one of the many things that make you a masculine guy.

Chasing women is something entirely different and it’s where the confusion sets in.

  • When you chase a woman you act like she’s the prize and not both of you.
  • When you chase a woman you act needy and desperate and she wants to run from you.
  • When you chase a woman you make her an agenda and not make her feel like someone who is desired by a great guy.
  • When you chase woman you give up your power in exchange for her approval.
  • When you chase a woman you call or text her constantly hoping she’ll give in and finally like you the way you like her.

Pursing a woman is doing NONE of those things… ever!

You could eliminate all that stuff and consider it pursuing and women will get it, it will work mostly.

BUT to truly pursue a woman you MUST make her feel desired.

You MUST trigger her attraction by communicating yourself in a way which makes her FEEL your masculinity and your strength in being  man.

Pursuing a woman is merely being who you are (a real man):

  • Showing some interest in her mind AND body.
  • Doing things together to explore the connection deeper.
  • Qualifying her attractively.
  • Having high standards for yourself.
  • Communicating value and a belief in yourself.
  • Taking your time and being patient in every way possible.

Trust that if you DO those things the right way women will know you’re not playing hard to get – you ARE hard to get.

AND they’ll see you’re not chasing them at all.

You’re simply being a real man who understands it’s okay and advised to pursue a woman because she’s the FEMALE – YOU ARE THE MALE.

It doesn’t get any simpler than that.

YOU ARE THE MALE.

SHE IS THE FEMALE.

ACT like it.

LIVE it.

Following that blueprint nature has given us doesn’t mean chasing her down or hunting for you her affection AND it’s not about posting up somewhere as you ambush your prey either.

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The inevitable conclusion…

Wrapping this up might be pointless considering how much is written above but…

Rest assured IF girls don’t like you – for whatever reason that is listed above it CAN BE FIXED.

I know I came on a little strong in the beginning but I felt it was important for you to recognize the reality and severity of your situation. I also know I was given a heavy hand in the beginning which definitely helped to push me along to fix anything and everything you read above.

I didn’t go searching for these issues – I LIVED with most of them. I also surveyed lots of women in my ten plus years of giving advice to men and women… professionally and sometime (like at DiaLteG TM) totally free.

My hope is that you’ll find a few here you can connect and relate to AND that I’ve given you a very viable recover program to set you on a better path in all your relationships with women.

Don’t wait hoping all this shit will take care of itself. I know it rarely if ever does work out all on it’s own and usually when it’s done – you’re left dating or marrying a woman only to have a shitty life with an eminent divorce in your future.

As I stated in the beginning – no more bitching. No more whining about your problem. No more blaming because THAT only wastes your time and makes you even less attractive.

99% of what you just read has little to do with your overall look – being physically handsome is NOT and hopefully NEVER will be a requirement to find, date, and attract the PERFECT women for you.

In the hopes of changing your life for the better…

I’m definitely wishing you the best of luck and success and DO sincerely want it for you because that means my purpose – my calling in life – the world in which I live and breathe in has just a little more meaning than it did BEFORE you found this all-be-it brutally honest page.

Your man-friend,

Pete – Peter White.

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