Get more women in your life?
Seriously guys, I never understood what this really meant until recently although every dating or attraction expert I’ve learned from shared this same “secret” with me.
One even told me David DeAngelo that if I wanted a very specific woman to date, then go and make friends with women that are exactly the same as her.
Great advice, no doubt about that.
It teaches us all about that type of woman and thus making it easier to attract her. She might even give great advice on how to attract a woman just like her.
Also, as a side benefit, I might find out I don’t want that type of girl anyways once I get to know her better. A huge time saver.
Most nice guys I know aren’t into picking up chics. They just don’t want tot be that guy. They just want some cool girl in their life.
Hopefully a girlfriend, and more sex in their lives than they are experiencing right now and the best way I’ve found to overcome this problem is exactly as the title says…
Get MORE women in your life.
However there’s a huge catch to it.
There’s a steep cliff on the end of that statement just waiting to grab your emotional ass and dangle you off the edge.
You must be careful enough not to get too close to it.
You see when you lean over the edge and peer down into abyss of “we’re just friends.”, it can suck you in quickly. Before you even know it you’re looking back up at the sky falling and failing to her every whim.
The few women I used to let in my life were women who wanted to be just friends with me, but I always wanted more.
If you have one or more of those women in your life right now, you definitely need to get more women in your life as quickly as possible.
It’s the single best thing you can do for yourself to break away from this nice guy always alone or finishing last label.
I don’t care how you do it and I’m not going to go through all the different ways this can be done right now. You can read more on exactly how to do it my Girlfriends Step, The Benefits And Rules Of Becoming Friends With Hotter Women.
Here’s a quick tip: Smile coyly at every woman you find attractive and you will increase your chances at meeting more women.
Feel your head at a comfortable cool level, in other words don’t go sticking out your chest and show her below your chin; just look softly in her eyes, give a hint of a smile and, say, “Hey.” With a leading tone to it.
This is what might happen if you do this.
- She might give you a dirty look back.
- She might smile back but walk quickly by you.
- She may be surprised and then expect you to say more. If you don’t, she’ll probably just walk away.
- She could smile back and say “Hello”.
- She also could just ignore you and act like she didn’t see you.
- She might even drop everything’s she’s doing and give you big kiss on the cheek. (well I highly doubt this option but I’ve seen it happen before. So it’s not out of the question.)
You want to be a challenge to women, right?
You want to be the one making the selection right? ( You want more choices.)
You don’t want to play games or use cheap tactics to be that challenge, right?
When you just don’t have time to talk and hang out with all the women in your life…
When you can’t decide what to do because every time you’re about to go out, another woman calls you or texts you and interrupts you…
When you begin to turn your ringer off at night because you get random late night calls from drunken woman friends who want to chat…
Then guess what…
You are now that challenge!
All you do from there is stand up, make intelligent and confident decisions about your time, and be honest to those women in your life.
Yes it is really that simple.
When you get more women in your life, real friends or not, you will become the one in control of your dating life.
Sure you’re going to make friends with a lot of these girls. Some won’t ever sleep with you. Some will even be upfront with you that they are not interested in more than just a friendship.
But when you avoid that pitfall, ( stay away from the edge of the cliff ) and get over her quickly, you have a new hot friend you enjoy hanging with. That’s all.
Don’t try to use her status, that’s unfair.
Just BE her friend and hang with her once in a while.
The key to all this is to be that guy that can be friends with many many women and still be a confident strong masculine man.
Heed this warning – Don’t fall into the trap of acting like her gay friend!
Treat them like women, but still no differently than you would a male counterpart. That’s what she wants anyways.
Respect her cute ass for being a woman but never back down on you being a real man.
This will bring you extreme strength and an unbreakable masculine energy about you.
There’s always an intelligent logical way to become that more attractive nice guy without be deceitful. It’s a lot easier than most believe and as long as you don’t go giving away all your secrets to every woman you meet about how you learned all this, women will want to be in your life.
Go ahead and get as many women in your life than you can socially handle, then throw in one more.
Stay away from acting like her gay friend and follow those rules I listed above and you’re almost guaranteed to notice a major change in your dating life.
I’m going to do something to help you all get started. I haven’t done this in a while but I feel this is so important, it must be done.